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  • Spiritual_Chaos
    Spiritual_Chaos Posts: 31,644
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    Haha I'll see. We didn't really chat, other than a quick hello. It seemed she made the effort twice with me by sitting on the same table as me and we had a quick small talk. I'm always a mute at university and try to keep to myself.
    I recently met a woman I met on Facebook and she's a huge techno/trance music fan. She's into taking ecstasy tablets.
    It made me say no to a further date (if our first meet was even considered a date).
    Why, you always go to atleast two (2)...
    "Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Spiritual_Chaos said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    Haha I'll see. We didn't really chat, other than a quick hello. It seemed she made the effort twice with me by sitting on the same table as me and we had a quick small talk. I'm always a mute at university and try to keep to myself.
    I recently met a woman I met on Facebook and she's a huge techno/trance music fan. She's into taking ecstasy tablets.
    It made me say no to a further date (if our first meet was even considered a date).
    Why, you always go to atleast two (2)...
    I don't know, I don't want to lose a lover due to an ecstasy overdose.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • Spiritual_Chaos
    Spiritual_Chaos Posts: 31,644
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    Spiritual_Chaos said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    Haha I'll see. We didn't really chat, other than a quick hello. It seemed she made the effort twice with me by sitting on the same table as me and we had a quick small talk. I'm always a mute at university and try to keep to myself.
    I recently met a woman I met on Facebook and she's a huge techno/trance music fan. She's into taking ecstasy tablets.
    It made me say no to a further date (if our first meet was even considered a date).
    Why, you always go to atleast two (2)...
    I don't know, I don't want to lose a lover due to an ecstasy overdose.
    Stop overthinking everything and seeing a thousand "what if"-steps into the future. 

    Like Dave Grohl sings: "You're not the one, but you're the only one that makes me feel like this"

    or Marilyn Manson: "I'm not in love, but I'm gonna fuck you till somebody better comes along"
    "Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    The hallmarks of an anxious mind.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • Spiritual_Chaos
    Spiritual_Chaos Posts: 31,644
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    The hallmarks of an anxious mind.
    George remarks to Jerry in Monk's Café that every decision he has ever made has been wrong, and that his life is the exact opposite of what it should be. Jerry convinces him that "if every instinct you have is wrong, then the opposite would have to be right". George experiments with doing the complete opposite of what he would do normally. He orders the opposite of his normal lunch, and introduces himself to a beautiful woman (played by Dedee Pfeiffer) who happens to order the same lunch, saying, "My name is George. I'm unemployed and I live with my parents." She is impressed and agrees to date him.
    "Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    I am George, unemployed and living with my parents. Not exactly something to impress a woman with....
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • JPPJ84
    JPPJ84 Hamburg, Germany Posts: 3,464
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    I am George, unemployed and living with my parents. Not exactly something to impress a woman with....
    Good thing you’re not George! You’re (name), university student, clever, cultured, kind, thoughtful. You live with your parents, so what. Lots of students do, mainly for economic reasons and at least it shows you have a good relationship with them and are family-oriented. 
    Know your self worth, stop hiding and just live. There may be rejection. There is for everyone at some point! It’s got nothing to do with your self worth 
  • OffSheGoes35
    OffSheGoes35 Posts: 3,517
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    The hallmarks of an anxious mind.
    :hug:.  Sounds like you're making progress though. Give yourself some credit.
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 15,010
    I do think  you must address the underlying  issues to be free. You do sound like a troubled soul. As am i.  But if i could let you know it will all be ok to talk and interact.  I can guarantee once you deal with your  insecurities  you can fly mate.


    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • OffSheGoes35
    OffSheGoes35 Posts: 3,517
    edited August 2019
    NVM
    Post edited by OffSheGoes35 on
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Thanks people.
    I saw her sitting in the cafeteria on a break but didn't say hi. I changed my mind.
    My heart says no. I guess when you're so lonely and desperate for love that you consider people that are probably not right for you and you for them.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 15,010
    edited August 2019
    I Dont wanna think. I want to Feel.
    Remember you are not vetting a future wife. JUST a friend will do no?


    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 15,010
    Saying hello is friendly . Be friendly thats the start of any communication.  I really wish i was there  . I would  be great at this part.  


    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    I just couldn't get over my discomfort with the religion thing. I grew up with a very devout Catholic mother and it turned me off all religion.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • Spiritual_Chaos
    Spiritual_Chaos Posts: 31,644
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    Thanks people.
    I saw her sitting in the cafeteria on a break but didn't say hi. I changed my mind.
    My heart says no. I guess when you're so lonely and desperate for love that you consider people that are probably not right for you and you for them.
    Just say hi.



    (And fuck religion)
    "Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"
  • OffSheGoes35
    OffSheGoes35 Posts: 3,517
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    Thanks people.
    I saw her sitting in the cafeteria on a break but didn't say hi. I changed my mind.
    My heart says no. I guess when you're so lonely and desperate for love that you consider people that are probably not right for you and you for them.
    That happens a lot. Just keep doing your own thing. And try to just be friends with some women, that will make you feel more comfortable around them. 
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Thanks. I'm so shy I am afraid to say hello and chat.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • Spiritual_Chaos
    Spiritual_Chaos Posts: 31,644
    edited August 2019
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    Thanks. I'm so shy I am afraid to say hello and chat.
    I read this sentence to fast and read "I'm so shy I am afraid to say hello to a cat." and for a moment I thought I had read the cutest sentence ever on the internet.
    Post edited by Spiritual_Chaos on
    "Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"
  • JPPJ84
    JPPJ84 Hamburg, Germany Posts: 3,464
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    Thanks. I'm so shy I am afraid to say hello and chat.
    Practice with us! We‘re a whole bunch of lovely ladies around here
  • OffSheGoes35
    OffSheGoes35 Posts: 3,517
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    Thanks. I'm so shy I am afraid to say hello and chat.
    I hear you. I hate small talk so much. I either like to throw out silly comments and build on them with playful people or ask a question designed specifically for an introvert. 

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