Board Romances...updates, please!

Thoughts_Arrive said:

Haha I'll see. We didn't really chat, other than a quick hello. It seemed she made the effort twice with me by sitting on the same table as me and we had a quick small talk. I'm always a mute at university and try to keep to myself.
I recently met a woman I met on Facebook and she's a huge techno/trance music fan. She's into taking ecstasy tablets.
It made me say no to a further date (if our first meet was even considered a date).

Why, you always go to atleast two (2)...

Thoughts_Arrive said:

Spiritual_Chaos said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

Haha I'll see. We didn't really chat, other than a quick hello. It seemed she made the effort twice with me by sitting on the same table as me and we had a quick small talk. I'm always a mute at university and try to keep to myself.
I recently met a woman I met on Facebook and she's a huge techno/trance music fan. She's into taking ecstasy tablets.
It made me say no to a further date (if our first meet was even considered a date).

Why, you always go to atleast two (2)...

I don't know, I don't want to lose a lover due to an ecstasy overdose.

Stop overthinking everything and seeing a thousand "what if"-steps into the future. 

Like Dave Grohl sings: "You're not the one, but you're the only one that makes me feel like this"

or Marilyn Manson: "I'm not in love, but I'm gonna fuck you till somebody better comes along"

Thoughts_Arrive said:

The hallmarks of an anxious mind.

George remarks to Jerry in Monk's Café that every decision he has ever made has been wrong, and that his life is the exact opposite of what it should be. Jerry convinces him that "if every instinct you have is wrong, then the opposite would have to be right". George experiments with doing the complete opposite of what he would do normally. He orders the opposite of his normal lunch, and introduces himself to a beautiful woman (played by Dedee Pfeiffer) who happens to order the same lunch, saying, "My name is George. I'm unemployed and I live with my parents." She is impressed and agrees to date him.

Thoughts_Arrive said:

I am George, unemployed and living with my parents. Not exactly something to impress a woman with....

Good thing you’re not George! You’re (name), university student, clever, cultured, kind, thoughtful. You live with your parents, so what. Lots of students do, mainly for economic reasons and at least it shows you have a good relationship with them and are family-oriented. 
Know your self worth, stop hiding and just live. There may be rejection. There is for everyone at some point! It’s got nothing to do with your self worth 

I do think  you must address the underlying  issues to be free. You do sound like a troubled soul. As am i.  But if i could let you know it will all be ok to talk and interact.  I can guarantee once you deal with your  insecurities  you can fly mate.

Thanks people.
I saw her sitting in the cafeteria on a break but didn't say hi. I changed my mind.
My heart says no. I guess when you're so lonely and desperate for love that you consider people that are probably not right for you and you for them.

Saying hello is friendly . Be friendly thats the start of any communication.  I really wish i was there  . I would  be great at this part.  

Thoughts_Arrive said:

Thanks people.
I saw her sitting in the cafeteria on a break but didn't say hi. I changed my mind.
My heart says no. I guess when you're so lonely and desperate for love that you consider people that are probably not right for you and you for them.

Just say hi.



(And fuck religion)

Thanks. I'm so shy I am afraid to say hello and chat.

Thoughts_Arrive said:

Thanks. I'm so shy I am afraid to say hello and chat.

Practice with us! We‘re a whole bunch of lovely ladies around here