Please answer my anonymous survey (QUICK SURVEY ONLY 3 QNS) - Should I stay or go?

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  • jnimhaoileoin
    jnimhaoileoin Baile Átha Cliath Posts: 2,682
    lastexitlondon said:
    This thread is harmful to everyone. I personally do not like it
    Well yes, it was a terrible idea to begin with but once you put something like this out there, people are going to engage. We probably should all have ignored it but that would have also been interpreted negatively
  • Malroth
    Malroth broken down chevrolet Posts: 2,565
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    mickeyrat said:
    I can never live up to what I perceive others think of me.

    majority on this  entire forum?  how many thousands is that? now name them.  not more than a handful I expect, if that.


    Hedonist
    PJ Soul
    Oftenreading
    Jnimhaoileoin
    Northerndragon
    The Juggler
    Unsung
    You?

    There a number more that I am struggling to remember their usernames that I have not seen post here in a very long time.


    Thanks a lot!
    Here I thought I meant something.
    Stay anyway.
    The worst of times..they don't phase me,
    even if I look and act really crazy.
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 15,167
    edited March 2018
    I feel like this is not helpful to all parties. Its obvious T.A is struggling and i didn't want to keep posting here because i feel its not helpful. So i will just say please get some help. To understand your feelings of worthlessness .From past posts i would say parent issues have caused trouble and pain. But i will add nobody hates you here. Because they don't know you.
    Post edited by lastexitlondon on


    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • mickeyrat
    mickeyrat Posts: 45,505
    edited March 2018
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    mickeyrat said:
    I can never live up to what I perceive others think of me.

    majority on this  entire forum?  how many thousands is that? now name them.  not more than a handful I expect, if that.


    Hedonist
    PJ Soul
    Oftenreading
    Jnimhaoileoin
    Northerndragon
    The Juggler
    Unsung
    You?

    There a number more that I am struggling to remember their usernames that I have not seen post here in a very long time.

    MOST here can seperate how someone is here from who we see them as.

    can you make that same distinction of others as well as yourself? Is how I was in that pm exchange all that I am to you? I'd say no given whats been posted afterwards in a couple threads.

    so please cite some direct examples. that lead you to these conclusions.

    unsung doesnt count, I havent seen where you've approached him  to debate or discuss with reasoned thought or argument.
    Post edited by mickeyrat on
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    Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
    you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
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  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Maybe hate is too strong a word. What about dislike?
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • mickeyrat
    mickeyrat Posts: 45,505
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    Maybe hate is too strong a word. What about dislike?
    sometimes how you are isnt likeable. but that isnt WHO you are.
    _____________________________________SIGNATURE________________________________________________

    Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
    you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
    memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
    another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
  • rgambs
    rgambs Posts: 13,576
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    mickeyrat said:
    I can never live up to what I perceive others think of me.

    majority on this  entire forum?  how many thousands is that? now name them.  not more than a handful I expect, if that.


    Hedonist
    PJ Soul
    Oftenreading
    Jnimhaoileoin
    Northerndragon
    The Juggler
    Unsung
    You?

    There a number more that I am struggling to remember their usernames that I have not seen post here in a very long time.

    Those are some very fine folks you are slandering my friend, and not but *maybe* one of them bears the animosity and disdain for you that you have conjured in your head.
    Monkey Driven, Call this Living?
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    rgambs said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    mickeyrat said:
    I can never live up to what I perceive others think of me.

    majority on this  entire forum?  how many thousands is that? now name them.  not more than a handful I expect, if that.


    Hedonist
    PJ Soul
    Oftenreading
    Jnimhaoileoin
    Northerndragon
    The Juggler
    Unsung
    You?

    There a number more that I am struggling to remember their usernames that I have not seen post here in a very long time.

    Those are some very fine folks you are slandering my friend, and not but *maybe* one of them bears the animosity and disdain for you that you have conjured in your head.
    Not slandering, just saying I believe they have a dislike for me.

    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • elvistheking44
    elvistheking44 Posts: 4,553
    edited March 2018
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    rgambs said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    mickeyrat said:
    I can never live up to what I perceive others think of me.

    majority on this  entire forum?  how many thousands is that? now name them.  not more than a handful I expect, if that.


    Hedonist
    PJ Soul
    Oftenreading
    Jnimhaoileoin
    Northerndragon
    The Juggler
    Unsung
    You?

    There a number more that I am struggling to remember their usernames that I have not seen post here in a very long time.

    Those are some very fine folks you are slandering my friend, and not but *maybe* one of them bears the animosity and disdain for you that you have conjured in your head.
    Not slandering, just saying I believe they have a dislike for me.

    Who cares even if they do?  Move on.
  • rgambs
    rgambs Posts: 13,576
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    rgambs said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    mickeyrat said:
    I can never live up to what I perceive others think of me.

    majority on this  entire forum?  how many thousands is that? now name them.  not more than a handful I expect, if that.


    Hedonist
    PJ Soul
    Oftenreading
    Jnimhaoileoin
    Northerndragon
    The Juggler
    Unsung
    You?

    There a number more that I am struggling to remember their usernames that I have not seen post here in a very long time.

    Those are some very fine folks you are slandering my friend, and not but *maybe* one of them bears the animosity and disdain for you that you have conjured in your head.
    Not slandering, just saying I believe they have a dislike for me.

    Do you have a dislike for you?  Honestly, do you like yourself?
    Do you think you have something to offer the world and this forum?

    If the answer is no, then you have bigger fish to fry than these forums.  If the answer is yes, then act like it!  Show yourself to the world unapologetically and without deprecation, people will dig you or they won't, but if you dig you, neither matters.
    If you don't dig you, then that's what you need to work on ASAP.  
    Monkey Driven, Call this Living?
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    elvistheking44 said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    rgambs said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    mickeyrat said:
    I can never live up to what I perceive others think of me.

    majority on this  entire forum?  how many thousands is that? now name them.  not more than a handful I expect, if that.


    Hedonist
    PJ Soul
    Oftenreading
    Jnimhaoileoin
    Northerndragon
    The Juggler
    Unsung
    You?

    There a number more that I am struggling to remember their usernames that I have not seen post here in a very long time.

    Those are some very fine folks you are slandering my friend, and not but *maybe* one of them bears the animosity and disdain for you that you have conjured in your head.
    Not slandering, just saying I believe they have a dislike for me.

    Who cares even if they do?  Move on.
    I've been feeling down about it. I just want to be accepted and liked.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 15,167
    There are people and their comments that i have seen and thought "oh,they are not my kind of people" really that is part of life in general. Why do you need everyone to "like" you. Nobody is liked by everyone ever.


    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • rgambs
    rgambs Posts: 13,576
    lastexitlondon said:
    There are people and their comments that i have seen and thought "oh,they are not my kind of people" really that is part of life in general. Why do you need everyone to "like" you. Nobody is liked by everyone ever.
    I am.
    Monkey Driven, Call this Living?
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    lastexitlondon said:
    There are people and their comments that i have seen and thought "oh,they are not my kind of people" really that is part of life in general. Why do you need everyone to "like" you. Nobody is liked by everyone ever.
    I thought we as PJ fans would all be alike. To be disliked by more people than liked here sucks.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    rgambs said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    rgambs said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    mickeyrat said:
    I can never live up to what I perceive others think of me.

    majority on this  entire forum?  how many thousands is that? now name them.  not more than a handful I expect, if that.


    Hedonist
    PJ Soul
    Oftenreading
    Jnimhaoileoin
    Northerndragon
    The Juggler
    Unsung
    You?

    There a number more that I am struggling to remember their usernames that I have not seen post here in a very long time.

    Those are some very fine folks you are slandering my friend, and not but *maybe* one of them bears the animosity and disdain for you that you have conjured in your head.
    Not slandering, just saying I believe they have a dislike for me.

    Do you have a dislike for you?  Honestly, do you like yourself?
    Do you think you have something to offer the world and this forum?

    If the answer is no, then you have bigger fish to fry than these forums.  If the answer is yes, then act like it!  Show yourself to the world unapologetically and without deprecation, people will dig you or they won't, but if you dig you, neither matters.
    If you don't dig you, then that's what you need to work on ASAP.  
    I hate myself a lot.
    But why should that matter here?
    I've disgraced myself over the past 10 years and I think I better leave for good.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    It's late here, I better go.
    Keep voting GO people.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • rgambs
    rgambs Posts: 13,576
     I hope you find a way to feel better.
    Monkey Driven, Call this Living?
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 15,167
    rgambs said:7
    lastexitlondon said:
    There are people and their comments that i have seen and thought "oh,they are not my kind of people" really that is part of life in general. Why do you need everyone to "like" you. Nobody is liked by everyone ever.
    I am.
    You may not be. They just may not tell you .But it doesn't matter. We don't need to know what everyone thinks of us as you say it matters not.


    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • rgambs
    rgambs Posts: 13,576
    lastexitlondon said:
    rgambs said:7
    lastexitlondon said:
    There are people and their comments that i have seen and thought "oh,they are not my kind of people" really that is part of life in general. Why do you need everyone to "like" you. Nobody is liked by everyone ever.
    I am.
    You may not be. They just may not tell you .But it doesn't matter. We don't need to know what everyone thinks of us as you say it matters not.
    I can just tell.  Everyone who's ever met me was visibly impressed with my rugged charm and my mastery of all things.
    Monkey Driven, Call this Living?
  • The Juggler
    The Juggler Posts: 49,599
    edited March 2018
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    mickeyrat said:
    I can never live up to what I perceive others think of me.

    majority on this  entire forum?  how many thousands is that? now name them.  not more than a handful I expect, if that.


    Hedonist
    PJ Soul
    Oftenreading
    Jnimhaoileoin
    Northerndragon
    The Juggler
    Unsung
    You?

    There a number more that I am struggling to remember their usernames that I have not seen post here in a very long time.

    Are you kidding? Dude---you send me the most random pms ever... yet we don't interact that much. 

    Plus I think I responded to all of them except the last two? The last one was just something like "Hi." ?  One of them you waited like 10 hours and then after a no response you said something like "Fine don't respond."

    I'm not a big PM guy. I don't know what else to say. This is pretty ridiculous. 
    www.myspace.com
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