Should men really be living longer

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  • PJ_Soul
    PJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 50,866
    edited March 2018
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    Some members I thought were nice turned out to be vicious bullies.
    Not going to name them here because I don't want to get banned for good.
    They know who they are.
    From criticising me at every turn to ignoring me on PM when I am being friendly.
    Even if that's true, I feel pretty confident saying that not a single one of them want you to die, or anything close to it. Just because people don't agree with you or don't get along with you or choose not to engage with you, it doesn't mean they bear you any ill will whatsoever.
    Like rgambs said, sometimes people get frustrated with your continual refusal to take advise that you initially seek out - you reject all help given but continue to ask for it, and then you adopt a victim's attitude after you are the one who lashes out. When you do that, just about everyone will reach a point when they start showing their annoyance or impatience with that behaviour. But anyway, at the end of the day, from what I've seen, everyone has done their best to help you, and continues to do so, and you reject those efforts 100% of the time and then act like we all hate you. I'm not too sure how you expect people to react to that, other than in the way they have. :confused: Again I agree with rgambs - you seem to have a pretty severe persecution complex. That's troubling... have you discussed this particular issue with your therapist?

    Post edited by PJ_Soul on
    With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    PJ_Soul said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    Some members I thought were nice turned out to be vicious bullies.
    Not going to name them here because I don't want to get banned for good.
    They know who they are.
    From criticising me at every turn to ignoring me on PM when I am being friendly.
    Even if that's true, I feel pretty confident saying that not a single one of them want you to die, or anything close to it. Just because people don't agree with you or don't get along with you or choose not to engage with you, it doesn't mean they bear you any ill will whatsoever.
    True.  And an important lesson I've learned is that not everyone has to like you.  It'd be strange if everyone did, no?

    I mean,  I can feel "meh" about someone without actually disliking them.  And...there are some folks I actually DO dislike.  I expect it to go both ways too.  Such is life and human nature.

    Anyway, I went and re-read the original post.  Man, this thread has devolved!
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 15,010
    It sure has devolved. Last i posted here was about my injection in the helmet :o


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  • oftenreading
    oftenreading Victoria, BC Posts: 12,856
    lastexitlondon said:
    It sure has devolved. Last i posted here was about my injection in the helmet :o
    And you think it’s gotten worse than that? ;)
    my small self... like a book amongst the many on a shelf
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 15,010
    Good point.... thats what the dr said! I thank you.
    Its changed direction for sure. Again no pun intended


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  • Malroth
    Malroth broken down chevrolet Posts: 2,563
    Today I go to the Doctor.
    Yesterday I called the doctor and told a young woman at the desk
    I haven't had an erection in a week.
    This should all go smoothly.......
    The worst of times..they don't phase me,
    even if I look and act really crazy.
  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    Man, this thread! So much and so little have changed, huh. Still funny as fuck though. 

    Good luck, Mal! I hope everything straightens out :)
  • deadendp
    deadendp Northeast Ohio Posts: 10,434
    hedonist said:
    Man, this thread! So much and so little have changed, huh. Still funny as fuck though. 

    Good luck, Mal! I hope everything straightens out :)
    :rofl:
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    2016: Lexington and Wrigley 1
  • Purple Fairy Tree
    Purple Fairy Tree Posts: 2,055
    Butthole swirly, f**kin hilarious! :bawling:

    Malroth said:
    I just had a prostate exam. A MAN STUCK HIS FINGER IN MY BUTTHOLE AND TWIRLED IT AROUND I found myself hoping he'd find something. because either he'd save my life or I would die soon and not have this memory. The doctor is already lost. He has done so many weird things, professionally or socially, he will soon forget about my butthole. Now I walk around in shame wondering if everybody that sees me just knows I've had a butthole swirly. How I wish for the days of the exactly 389 post club. I've lost my innocence.

  • deadendp
    deadendp Northeast Ohio Posts: 10,434
    West Coast Dreamgirl said:
    Butthole swirly, f**kin hilarious! :bawling:

    Malroth said:
    I just had a prostate exam. A MAN STUCK HIS FINGER IN MY BUTTHOLE AND TWIRLED IT AROUND I found myself hoping he'd find something. because either he'd save my life or I would die soon and not have this memory. The doctor is already lost. He has done so many weird things, professionally or socially, he will soon forget about my butthole. Now I walk around in shame wondering if everybody that sees me just knows I've had a butthole swirly. How I wish for the days of the exactly 389 post club. I've lost my innocence.

    At least it was a finger used. When I left my annual exam, it felt as if I was internally scrubbed with a scotch brite pad. Not pleasant. 

    Ain't easy being a female either. 
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    2016: Lexington and Wrigley 1
  • Hobbes
    Hobbes Pacific Northwest Posts: 6,438

    Finally an engagement fitting of the "I'm Analog" shirt. :triumph:
  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    Hobbes said:

    Finally an engagement fitting of the "I'm Analog" shirt. :triumph:
    Ha!  Better than digital, eh?
  • Malroth
    Malroth broken down chevrolet Posts: 2,563
    deadendp said:
    hedonist said:
    Man, this thread! So much and so little have changed, huh. Still funny as fuck though. 

    Good luck, Mal! I hope everything straightens out :)
    :rofl:

    Sorry I left you hanging ;)
    Everything was back to normal a couple days later.
    I was sick for a week and I guess at my age the body was more concerned with healing than sending blood to the penis
    I still went to the doctor just to get embarrassed.  He just said "you want viagra" and I just stared back.
    Generic viagra is about 2 dollars a pill. I will try it someday just to see what it's like.
    In the scope of life this was a lame issue, but when you have a hard on everyday for 40 yrs, then nothing for 2 weeks,
    it is one of the strangest feelings I've ever had. I can have compassion for this disorder.
    The worst of times..they don't phase me,
    even if I look and act really crazy.
  • Malroth
    Malroth broken down chevrolet Posts: 2,563
    deadendp said:
    West Coast Dreamgirl said:
    Butthole swirly, f**kin hilarious! :bawling:

    Malroth said:
    I just had a prostate exam. A MAN STUCK HIS FINGER IN MY BUTTHOLE AND TWIRLED IT AROUND I found myself hoping he'd find something. because either he'd save my life or I would die soon and not have this memory. The doctor is already lost. He has done so many weird things, professionally or socially, he will soon forget about my butthole. Now I walk around in shame wondering if everybody that sees me just knows I've had a butthole swirly. How I wish for the days of the exactly 389 post club. I've lost my innocence.

    At least it was a finger used. When I left my annual exam, it felt as if I was internally scrubbed with a scotch brite pad. Not pleasant. 

    Ain't easy being a female either. 

    My guess is that it's harder, but I'm wrong a lot.
    The worst of times..they don't phase me,
    even if I look and act really crazy.
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 15,010
    edited February 2020
    I can re join this  thread with experience. 
    The butthole swirly i know  of this procedure i had a few and the last one got sent on for a colonoscopy all was ok. But  not nice.
    The  viagra well thats an experience  one must have at least once . Gave me a headache and stuffy sinus but make sure you have plenty of spare time and a willing partner that also has spare time. Those things are long lasting. 
    Post edited by lastexitlondon on


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