#NOTOKAY Movement Is Born

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  • HesCalledDyer
    HesCalledDyer Maryland Posts: 16,498
    unsung said:

    HesCalledDyer said:

    unsung said:

    Go Beavers said:

    unsung said:

    I'm good with this. Can we then get people like Miley Cyrus, who are some of the complainers, to not allow people to do it to her during her concerts? It sets a bad example.

    Most of you posts now are feeble attempts to get people in double binds, but now you're even doing that with Miley Cyrus?
    Stand for something without double standards and I won't have to make such posts.
    So, we should stop making movies then since they portray guns, drugs, and sex all the time? There is a difference between putting on a show and knowing right from wrong. If Miley Cyrus has people grab her during her shows, I would imagine it is part of the act, meaning it is consensual. That doesn't mean it's okay to grab strangers by the genitals.
    Only if you are OK with being a hypocrite.
    What's hyprocritical about it? Consent is ok. Unwanted groping is not.
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  • brianlux
    brianlux Moving through All Kinds of Terrain. Posts: 43,671
    Everybody here is against women being assaulted, right? And yet their is arguing on this thread? WHAT???
    "It's a sad and beautiful world"
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  • InHiding80
    InHiding80 Upland,CA Posts: 7,623
    edited October 2016
    unsung said:

    HughFreakingDillon said:

    unsung: hey, math teacher, WTF, why did you give me an F?
    math teacher: you didn't show your work as instructed
    unsung: I gave you the answer, you should figure out how I came to that conclusion!
    math teacher: welcome to the real world, son, where the burden of proof is on those that make the claims.

    Your argument holds no validity today. Thanks common core.
    Pot kettle black.

    image
    Post edited by InHiding80 on
  • InHiding80
    InHiding80 Upland,CA Posts: 7,623
    brianlux said:

    Everybody here is against women being assaulted, right? And yet their is arguing on this thread? WHAT???

    Because it makes a difference to unsung whether accused has an R or a D next to their name on the ballot.
  • Enkidu
    Enkidu So Cal Posts: 2,996
    #WhyWomenDontReport is trending on Twitter now. I tweeted a piece I wrote a while ago for Huffington Post about being groped by a family friend and the good news/bad news is that people are retweeting it. I wrote, "Because I was young, afraid, thought it was my fault."

    It wasn't my fault. But I didn't realize that back then.

    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/ann-lewis-hamilton/and-what-should-i-have-do_b_6318236.html
  • unsung
    unsung I stopped by on March 7 2024. First time in many years, had to update payment info. Hope all is well. Politicians suck. Bye. Posts: 9,487
    InHiding80 said:

    unsung said:

    HughFreakingDillon said:

    unsung: hey, math teacher, WTF, why did you give me an F?
    math teacher: you didn't show your work as instructed
    unsung: I gave you the answer, you should figure out how I came to that conclusion!
    math teacher: welcome to the real world, son, where the burden of proof is on those that make the claims.

    Your argument holds no validity today. Thanks common core.
    Pot kettle black.

    image
    Never happened.
    InHiding80 said:

    brianlux said:

    Everybody here is against women being assaulted, right? And yet their is arguing on this thread? WHAT???

    Because it makes a difference to unsung whether accused has an R or a D next to their name on the ballot.
    Billy and Hillary have created more women victims than Trump. There's more evidence of such.
  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    I've read that before, E, and it's just as powerful for me. I hope it helps others in similar positions.
  • dignin
    dignin Posts: 9,478
    unsung said:

    HesCalledDyer said:

    unsung said:

    HesCalledDyer said:

    unsung said:

    Go Beavers said:

    unsung said:

    I'm good with this. Can we then get people like Miley Cyrus, who are some of the complainers, to not allow people to do it to her during her concerts? It sets a bad example.

    Most of you posts now are feeble attempts to get people in double binds, but now you're even doing that with Miley Cyrus?
    Stand for something without double standards and I won't have to make such posts.
    So, we should stop making movies then since they portray guns, drugs, and sex all the time? There is a difference between putting on a show and knowing right from wrong. If Miley Cyrus has people grab her during her shows, I would imagine it is part of the act, meaning it is consensual. That doesn't mean it's okay to grab strangers by the genitals.
    Only if you are OK with being a hypocrite.
    What's hyprocritical about it? Consent is ok. Unwanted groping is not.
    Ah, yeah you're right, it's cool now to be a whore.
    1945 called, they want their misogyny back.
  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    unsung said:

    HesCalledDyer said:

    unsung said:

    HesCalledDyer said:

    unsung said:

    Go Beavers said:

    unsung said:

    I'm good with this. Can we then get people like Miley Cyrus, who are some of the complainers, to not allow people to do it to her during her concerts? It sets a bad example.

    Most of you posts now are feeble attempts to get people in double binds, but now you're even doing that with Miley Cyrus?
    Stand for something without double standards and I won't have to make such posts.
    So, we should stop making movies then since they portray guns, drugs, and sex all the time? There is a difference between putting on a show and knowing right from wrong. If Miley Cyrus has people grab her during her shows, I would imagine it is part of the act, meaning it is consensual. That doesn't mean it's okay to grab strangers by the genitals.
    Only if you are OK with being a hypocrite.
    What's hyprocritical about it? Consent is ok. Unwanted groping is not.
    Ah, yeah you're right, it's cool now to be a whore.
    Wouldn't be my choice of income or profession, but ultimately, I'm fine with prostitution being legal...and safe for all involved.

    Frankly, unsung...I've been with you on some discussions and not so much on others.

    But man, that comment - it's wrong on many fronts. And because I have respected you over time and posts, this one particularly bothers me.

    Also, in the event I misread your comment...please tell me your definition of "whore".
  • unsung
    unsung I stopped by on March 7 2024. First time in many years, had to update payment info. Hope all is well. Politicians suck. Bye. Posts: 9,487
    hedonist said:

    unsung said:

    HesCalledDyer said:

    unsung said:

    HesCalledDyer said:

    unsung said:

    Go Beavers said:

    unsung said:

    I'm good with this. Can we then get people like Miley Cyrus, who are some of the complainers, to not allow people to do it to her during her concerts? It sets a bad example.

    Most of you posts now are feeble attempts to get people in double binds, but now you're even doing that with Miley Cyrus?
    Stand for something without double standards and I won't have to make such posts.
    So, we should stop making movies then since they portray guns, drugs, and sex all the time? There is a difference between putting on a show and knowing right from wrong. If Miley Cyrus has people grab her during her shows, I would imagine it is part of the act, meaning it is consensual. That doesn't mean it's okay to grab strangers by the genitals.
    Only if you are OK with being a hypocrite.
    What's hyprocritical about it? Consent is ok. Unwanted groping is not.
    Ah, yeah you're right, it's cool now to be a whore.
    Wouldn't be my choice of income or profession, but ultimately, I'm fine with prostitution being legal...and safe for all involved.

    Frankly, unsung...I've been with you on some discussions and not so much on others.

    But man, that comment - it's wrong on many fronts. And because I have respected you over time and posts, this one particularly bothers me.

    Also, in the event I misread your comment...please tell me your definition of "whore".
    I'm actually totally good with prostitution as well, as long as both parties consent and never are forced into it but I don't really want it regulated either because I don't want govt to get a cut.

    A whore is someone like Kim K. Little girls see this image and think that's how life should be, and in reality it is not. A degenerate should not be looked up to. Society is becoming a ten second attention span and people just get dumber and dumber.

    I suppose on some level I should be good with it, eventually it will hit the level of being unsustainable and society would recover.
  • dignin
    dignin Posts: 9,478
    We have a thread about respecting and valuing women, and a member calling a woman a whore. Sorry, make that two women whores now. True colours showing.
  • unsung
    unsung I stopped by on March 7 2024. First time in many years, had to update payment info. Hope all is well. Politicians suck. Bye. Posts: 9,487
    Right, all women are angels and all men are the devil, well except for the betas.
  • dignin
    dignin Posts: 9,478
    unsung said:

    Right, all women are angels and all men are the devil, well except for the betas.

    Sometimes I find it's appropriate to keep my shitty thoughts to myself because I know they will add absolutely nothing to the conversation and are inappropriate. That must be the "beta" in me.

    Others just barf out the first thing that comes into their simple mind, like Trump. Must be the "alpha" in them.
  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    unsung said:

    hedonist said:

    unsung said:

    HesCalledDyer said:

    unsung said:

    HesCalledDyer said:

    unsung said:

    Go Beavers said:

    unsung said:

    I'm good with this. Can we then get people like Miley Cyrus, who are some of the complainers, to not allow people to do it to her during her concerts? It sets a bad example.

    Most of you posts now are feeble attempts to get people in double binds, but now you're even doing that with Miley Cyrus?
    Stand for something without double standards and I won't have to make such posts.
    So, we should stop making movies then since they portray guns, drugs, and sex all the time? There is a difference between putting on a show and knowing right from wrong. If Miley Cyrus has people grab her during her shows, I would imagine it is part of the act, meaning it is consensual. That doesn't mean it's okay to grab strangers by the genitals.
    Only if you are OK with being a hypocrite.
    What's hyprocritical about it? Consent is ok. Unwanted groping is not.
    Ah, yeah you're right, it's cool now to be a whore.
    Wouldn't be my choice of income or profession, but ultimately, I'm fine with prostitution being legal...and safe for all involved.

    Frankly, unsung...I've been with you on some discussions and not so much on others.

    But man, that comment - it's wrong on many fronts. And because I have respected you over time and posts, this one particularly bothers me.

    Also, in the event I misread your comment...please tell me your definition of "whore".
    I'm actually totally good with prostitution as well, as long as both parties consent and never are forced into it but I don't really want it regulated either because I don't want govt to get a cut.

    A whore is someone like Kim K. Little girls see this image and think that's how life should be, and in reality it is not. A degenerate should not be looked up to. Society is becoming a ten second attention span and people just get dumber and dumber.

    I suppose on some level I should be good with it, eventually it will hit the level of being unsustainable and society would recover.
    I know some fine degenerates! But I think I get what you're saying (and thank you for clarifying). More a matter of selling out oneself - certainly not relegated to or by gender. And while I agree with you there - the vapid one-dimensional Kardashians, to me, are far from role models - the intent of this movement is to get people beyond the mindset that it's about something so simple: Don't take what's not yours. My body is mine, not yours to grab or even attempt to grab.

    I actually wanted to say "don't be a dick", but that's unrealistic. I'd settle for "be a dick, but keep your dickishness to yourself".

    Hope that makes sense - it's early and coffee is yet to be consumed here.
  • unsung
    unsung I stopped by on March 7 2024. First time in many years, had to update payment info. Hope all is well. Politicians suck. Bye. Posts: 9,487
    Just repeating what's already been stated.
  • dignin
    dignin Posts: 9,478
    I will leave this powerful message here. I think it's appropriate.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SJ45VLgbe_E

  • PJ_Soul
    PJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 50,759
    edited October 2016
    Last time I checked, a whore is someone who sells their body for sexual purposes. Calling anyone who doesn't do that a whore is extremely inappropriate ... and calling someone who does do that is a kind of rude too, but at least it's accurate.
    Post edited by PJ_Soul on
    With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
  • HughFreakingDillon
    HughFreakingDillon Winnipeg Posts: 39,758
    unsung said:

    hedonist said:

    unsung said:

    HesCalledDyer said:

    unsung said:

    HesCalledDyer said:

    unsung said:

    Go Beavers said:

    unsung said:

    I'm good with this. Can we then get people like Miley Cyrus, who are some of the complainers, to not allow people to do it to her during her concerts? It sets a bad example.

    Most of you posts now are feeble attempts to get people in double binds, but now you're even doing that with Miley Cyrus?
    Stand for something without double standards and I won't have to make such posts.
    So, we should stop making movies then since they portray guns, drugs, and sex all the time? There is a difference between putting on a show and knowing right from wrong. If Miley Cyrus has people grab her during her shows, I would imagine it is part of the act, meaning it is consensual. That doesn't mean it's okay to grab strangers by the genitals.
    Only if you are OK with being a hypocrite.
    What's hyprocritical about it? Consent is ok. Unwanted groping is not.
    Ah, yeah you're right, it's cool now to be a whore.
    Wouldn't be my choice of income or profession, but ultimately, I'm fine with prostitution being legal...and safe for all involved.

    Frankly, unsung...I've been with you on some discussions and not so much on others.

    But man, that comment - it's wrong on many fronts. And because I have respected you over time and posts, this one particularly bothers me.

    Also, in the event I misread your comment...please tell me your definition of "whore".
    I'm actually totally good with prostitution as well, as long as both parties consent and never are forced into it but I don't really want it regulated either because I don't want govt to get a cut.

    A whore is someone like Kim K. Little girls see this image and think that's how life should be, and in reality it is not. A degenerate should not be looked up to. Society is becoming a ten second attention span and people just get dumber and dumber.

    I suppose on some level I should be good with it, eventually it will hit the level of being unsustainable and society would recover.
    calling someone a whore for expressing themselves is not ok. I don't want my daughters looking up to people like that either, but calling them whores doesn't help.
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  • unsung
    unsung I stopped by on March 7 2024. First time in many years, had to update payment info. Hope all is well. Politicians suck. Bye. Posts: 9,487
    I am fairly certain her "breaking role" was more than expression.
  • HesCalledDyer
    HesCalledDyer Maryland Posts: 16,498
    unsung said:

    HesCalledDyer said:

    unsung said:

    HesCalledDyer said:

    unsung said:

    Go Beavers said:

    unsung said:

    I'm good with this. Can we then get people like Miley Cyrus, who are some of the complainers, to not allow people to do it to her during her concerts? It sets a bad example.

    Most of you posts now are feeble attempts to get people in double binds, but now you're even doing that with Miley Cyrus?
    Stand for something without double standards and I won't have to make such posts.
    So, we should stop making movies then since they portray guns, drugs, and sex all the time? There is a difference between putting on a show and knowing right from wrong. If Miley Cyrus has people grab her during her shows, I would imagine it is part of the act, meaning it is consensual. That doesn't mean it's okay to grab strangers by the genitals.
    Only if you are OK with being a hypocrite.
    What's hyprocritical about it? Consent is ok. Unwanted groping is not.
    Ah, yeah you're right, it's cool now to be a whore.
    Only if you're OK with being a narrow-minded, pigeon-holing misogynist.
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