#NOTOKAY Movement Is Born

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edited October 2016 in A Moving Train
http://www.tampabay.com/news/politics/national/with-tweet-me-your-first-assaults-a-notokay-protest-movement-is-born/2297462

A woman starts a tweet about your first sexual assault.....*an old man on a city bus grabs my p***y and then smiles at me I'm 12 years old* If no one tweeted in TEN minutes she was going to take it down. I believe they were many in that time to the point where she couldn't keep up with reading the many tweets. It was her way to keep the discussion of sexual assault going.

"They aren't just stats. I'll go first: 'Old man on city bus grabs my 'pussy' and smiles at me, I'm 12."

When she first posted the message, Oxford said in an interview later, she did not expect more than a handful of replies. "It was such a personal question," she said. "I thought, 'No one is going to share anything on Twitter.' "

Yet by Saturday morning, she was getting as many as 50 responses per minute: often-explicit, first-person accounts of molestation. A hashtag had materialized: "#notokay." The Twitter posts continued to pour in through the weekend. And by Monday afternoon, nearly 27 million people had responded or visited Oxford's Twitter page.
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  • unsungunsung Posts: 9,487
    I'm good with this. Can we then get people like Miley Cyrus, who are some of the complainers, to not allow people to do it to her during her concerts? It sets a bad example.
  • mickeyratmickeyrat Posts: 38,589
    unsung said:

    I'm good with this. Can we then get people like Miley Cyrus, who are some of the complainers, to not allow people to do it to her during her concerts? It sets a bad example.

    follow slipknots example calling fuckers out and getting them ejected. be great if arrests and or reports for later arrest were taken before being tossed from the venue.
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  • rgambsrgambs Posts: 13,576
    unsung said:

    I'm good with this. Can we then get people like Miley Cyrus, who are some of the complainers, to not allow people to do it to her during her concerts? It sets a bad example.

    Does she allow it? I remember reading an article about some popstar named Iggy speaking out on how dangerous it is for her to go into crowds because she is routinely violated. I thought she did some kind of boycott.


    Anyways, to the notokay movement I say, hell yeah! Stand up and be heard!
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  • Go BeaversGo Beavers Posts: 9,086
    unsung said:

    I'm good with this. Can we then get people like Miley Cyrus, who are some of the complainers, to not allow people to do it to her during her concerts? It sets a bad example.

    Most of you posts now are feeble attempts to get people in double binds, but now you're even doing that with Miley Cyrus?
  • bootlegger10bootlegger10 Posts: 15,942
    I must say my first thought was "who is kay?" and why say no to her.
  • dignindignin Posts: 9,336

    I must say my first thought was "who is kay?" and why say no to her.

    First comment on a thread about sexual assault is a bad joke. Keep it classy.
  • rgambs said:

    unsung said:

    I'm good with this. Can we then get people like Miley Cyrus, who are some of the complainers, to not allow people to do it to her during her concerts? It sets a bad example.

    Does she allow it? I remember reading an article about some popstar named Iggy speaking out on how dangerous it is for her to go into crowds because she is routinely violated. I thought she did some kind of boycott.


    Anyways, to the notokay movement I say, hell yeah! Stand up and be heard!
    Iggy Azalea. When she'd crowd surf, people would finger her. No shit. Disgusting. Iggy Don't Surf.
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  • rgambsrgambs Posts: 13,576
    dignin said:

    I must say my first thought was "who is kay?" and why say no to her.

    First comment on a thread about sexual assault is a bad joke. Keep it classy.
    I don't think it was really a joke, I read it that way at first glance as well.
    Monkey Driven, Call this Living?
  • rgambs said:

    dignin said:

    I must say my first thought was "who is kay?" and why say no to her.

    First comment on a thread about sexual assault is a bad joke. Keep it classy.
    I don't think it was really a joke, I read it that way at first glance as well.
    i didn't read it as a joke either.
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  • dignindignin Posts: 9,336
    rgambs said:

    dignin said:

    I must say my first thought was "who is kay?" and why say no to her.

    First comment on a thread about sexual assault is a bad joke. Keep it classy.
    I don't think it was really a joke, I read it that way at first glance as well.
    You didn't feel the need to make a comment about it. Many conservatives have been trying to play down, distort, muddy and sidestep this issue lately.

    Either way, I don't want to sidetrack an important issue.
  • I must say my first thought was "who is kay?" and why say no to her.

    I can't believe I was this dense. I actually googled what does no to kay mean.
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  • I just can't imagine just grabbing someone by the genitals. there's a lot of fucked up animals out there.
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  • JC29856JC29856 Posts: 9,617

    I just can't imagine just grabbing someone by the genitals. there's a lot of fucked up animals out there.

    Me too, at first I was like is there some pssy handle I never knew about.
  • unsungunsung Posts: 9,487

    unsung said:

    I'm good with this. Can we then get people like Miley Cyrus, who are some of the complainers, to not allow people to do it to her during her concerts? It sets a bad example.

    Most of you posts now are feeble attempts to get people in double binds, but now you're even doing that with Miley Cyrus?
    Stand for something without double standards and I won't have to make such posts.
  • rgambsrgambs Posts: 13,576
    unsung said:

    unsung said:

    I'm good with this. Can we then get people like Miley Cyrus, who are some of the complainers, to not allow people to do it to her during her concerts? It sets a bad example.

    Most of you posts now are feeble attempts to get people in double binds, but now you're even doing that with Miley Cyrus?
    Stand for something without double standards and I won't have to make such posts.
    Do you have any evidence that "people like Miley Cyrus" allow men to grope their genitals without permission?
    No?
    What a surprise.
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  • rgambsrgambs Posts: 13,576
    Evidence, the anarcho-libertarians most feared natural threat!
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  • bootlegger10bootlegger10 Posts: 15,942
    dignin said:

    rgambs said:

    dignin said:

    I must say my first thought was "who is kay?" and why say no to her.

    First comment on a thread about sexual assault is a bad joke. Keep it classy.
    I don't think it was really a joke, I read it that way at first glance as well.
    You didn't feel the need to make a comment about it. Many conservatives have been trying to play down, distort, muddy and sidestep this issue lately.

    Either way, I don't want to sidetrack an important issue.
    I wasn't joking. There wasn't anything in my post implying to play down, distort, muddy or sidestep the issue. Basically saying what others (non-conservatives even) read the hashtag to say too. There is no place in our society for the abusive treatment of women.
  • PJ_SoulPJ_Soul Posts: 49,951
    edited October 2016
    unsung said:

    unsung said:

    I'm good with this. Can we then get people like Miley Cyrus, who are some of the complainers, to not allow people to do it to her during her concerts? It sets a bad example.

    Most of you posts now are feeble attempts to get people in double binds, but now you're even doing that with Miley Cyrus?
    Stand for something without double standards and I won't have to make such posts.
    So what is the double standard that you are talking about? Are you expecting us to be okay with Trump's comments because Miley Cyrus lets people grope her (if she lets them, doesn't that mean it's not against her will)? What kind of fucked up logic is that? Perhaps you think we should be holding Presidential candidates to the same standards that we hold Miley Cyrus?
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  • jeffbrjeffbr Posts: 7,177
    PJ_Soul said:

    unsung said:

    unsung said:

    I'm good with this. Can we then get people like Miley Cyrus, who are some of the complainers, to not allow people to do it to her during her concerts? It sets a bad example.

    Most of you posts now are feeble attempts to get people in double binds, but now you're even doing that with Miley Cyrus?
    Stand for something without double standards and I won't have to make such posts.
    So what is the double standard that you are talking about? Are you expecting us to be okay with Trump's comments because Miley Cyrus lets people grope her (if she lets them, doesn't that mean it's not against her will)? What kinds of fucked up logic is that? Perhaps you think we should be holding Presidential candidates to the same standards that we hold Miley Cyrus?
    Exactly. There is a HUGE difference between consensual and non-consensual. I don't know what Miley is up to, but if she is allowing people to touch her, then that is her prerogative. But nothing in Trump's braggadocio said anything about consent and certainly implied the opposite. Trump is a disgusting savage.
    "I'll use the magic word - let's just shut the fuck up, please." EV, 04/13/08
  • dignindignin Posts: 9,336

    dignin said:

    rgambs said:

    dignin said:

    I must say my first thought was "who is kay?" and why say no to her.

    First comment on a thread about sexual assault is a bad joke. Keep it classy.
    I don't think it was really a joke, I read it that way at first glance as well.
    You didn't feel the need to make a comment about it. Many conservatives have been trying to play down, distort, muddy and sidestep this issue lately.

    Either way, I don't want to sidetrack an important issue.
    I wasn't joking. There wasn't anything in my post implying to play down, distort, muddy or sidestep the issue. Basically saying what others (non-conservatives even) read the hashtag to say too. There is no place in our society for the abusive treatment of women.
    Good. Sorry for the misunderstanding.
  • Go BeaversGo Beavers Posts: 9,086
    unsung said:

    unsung said:

    I'm good with this. Can we then get people like Miley Cyrus, who are some of the complainers, to not allow people to do it to her during her concerts? It sets a bad example.

    Most of you posts now are feeble attempts to get people in double binds, but now you're even doing that with Miley Cyrus?
    Stand for something without double standards and I won't have to make such posts.
    You're just over-reaching and basically making up things to try and claim there's a double standard.
  • unsungunsung Posts: 9,487
    PJ_Soul said:

    unsung said:

    unsung said:

    I'm good with this. Can we then get people like Miley Cyrus, who are some of the complainers, to not allow people to do it to her during her concerts? It sets a bad example.

    Most of you posts now are feeble attempts to get people in double binds, but now you're even doing that with Miley Cyrus?
    Stand for something without double standards and I won't have to make such posts.
    So what is the double standard that you are talking about? Are you expecting us to be okay with Trump's comments because Miley Cyrus lets people grope her (if she lets them, doesn't that mean it's not against her will)? What kind of fucked up logic is that? Perhaps you think we should be holding Presidential candidates to the same standards that we hold Miley Cyrus?
    Sorry, I guess it's now defined as empowering.
  • PJ_SoulPJ_Soul Posts: 49,951
    unsung said:

    PJ_Soul said:

    unsung said:

    unsung said:

    I'm good with this. Can we then get people like Miley Cyrus, who are some of the complainers, to not allow people to do it to her during her concerts? It sets a bad example.

    Most of you posts now are feeble attempts to get people in double binds, but now you're even doing that with Miley Cyrus?
    Stand for something without double standards and I won't have to make such posts.
    So what is the double standard that you are talking about? Are you expecting us to be okay with Trump's comments because Miley Cyrus lets people grope her (if she lets them, doesn't that mean it's not against her will)? What kind of fucked up logic is that? Perhaps you think we should be holding Presidential candidates to the same standards that we hold Miley Cyrus?
    Sorry, I guess it's now defined as empowering.
    Pardon?
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  • rgambsrgambs Posts: 13,576
    unsung said:

    I'm good with this. Can we then get people like Miley Cyrus, who are some of the complainers, to not allow people to do it to her during her concerts? It sets a bad example.

    Evidence???

    Crickets. The libertarian way!
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  • unsungunsung Posts: 9,487
    Google is your friend.
  • rgambsrgambs Posts: 13,576
    unsung said:

    Google is your friend.

    What, I'm supposed to type "does miley cyrus allow men to grab her p×××y without consent?" into google and try to sort through the bullshit? No way.
    Burden of proof lies with you chap.
    If you want to make kooky claims you should provide evidence to back them up, if not then we will just have to consider you a good little libertarian who doesn't understand evidence, proof, context, reality, or debate.
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  • JWPearlJWPearl Posts: 19,893
    rgambs said:

    unsung said:

    I'm good with this. Can we then get people like Miley Cyrus, who are some of the complainers, to not allow people to do it to her during her concerts? It sets a bad example.

    Evidence???

    Crickets. The libertarian way!
    Meaning....
  • unsungunsung Posts: 9,487
    JWPearl said:

    rgambs said:

    unsung said:

    I'm good with this. Can we then get people like Miley Cyrus, who are some of the complainers, to not allow people to do it to her during her concerts? It sets a bad example.

    Evidence???

    Crickets. The libertarian way!
    Meaning....
    Meaning they can't do their own research. It's a Gruber voter thing.
  • rgambsrgambs Posts: 13,576
    unsung said:

    JWPearl said:

    rgambs said:

    unsung said:

    I'm good with this. Can we then get people like Miley Cyrus, who are some of the complainers, to not allow people to do it to her during her concerts? It sets a bad example.

    Evidence???

    Crickets. The libertarian way!
    Meaning....
    Meaning they can't do their own research. It's a Gruber voter thing.
    I don't know what a Gruber voter is, but I know that it isn't my responsibility to research your silly ass crackpot assertions if you can't do so yourself.
    The arrogance you post with is truly astounding, if your posts made sense at all it would be infuriating instead of mildy annoying and amusing.
    Monkey Driven, Call this Living?
  • dignindignin Posts: 9,336
    unsung said:

    Google is your friend.

    Maybe you should take your own advice and look up "consent".
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