Wife going out of town for Bachelorette Party

Blockhead wrote:

cincybearcat wrote:

Seriously? You are freaking out about a Bachelorette Party?

I'd say you better keep this to yourself and figure out how to get past it. Being a controlling, non-trusting person is not very attractive.

Mariage is about love and respect. Trust is a by product. Blind trust is naive, lazy and often ambivalent.
There is nothing wrong with me expressing that I am not comfortable with something. That dosen't make me controlling.

Yeah it does in this case. Your goal is for her not to go. You are trying to manipulate her decision and make her feel bad about it just so you feel comfortable.

Here's the thing: if you can;t trust her to go to this, you might as well get a divorce right now.