Maybe give us some insight as to how bad her decision making when drunk is. Because if you're comparing her saying something offensive or stupid when drunk to her ability to remain faithful, that is an unfair comparison.
What reason has she ever given you to feel the way you do? Honestly man, I would just like to say again: trust your wife. I think THAT speaks volumes, if you show her that you trust her. If you openly place your trust in someones (especially your wife's) hands, they'll most likely respect that.
Perhaps she's worried that you might take the opportunity away from her to do something equally unfaithful...
If you say you "trust your wife", then trust your wife. Give her the opportunity to prove to you that your trust is safe.
If you're seriously that bothered by it though, why not sincerely come to your wife about your concerns... you never know, she might be really understanding.
Best of luck man, I don't know her or you, but I think you have nothing to worry about.
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"...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
I assume the wife went to the party, he was upset about it, she sensed it, still decided to have a good time (since Debbie Downers are no fun to hang out with). She came home, was all smiles, and he grilled her about the weekend and now, both are not happy campers.
I learned in Montana that ALL guys are insecure, to some degree or another.
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I learned in Montana that ALL guys are insecure, to some degree or another.
is the hubby upset at me again.
:silent: talk to kw....
The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.
I learned in Montana that ALL guys are insecure, to some degree or another.
I knew you thought I was ugly. Didn't you? Didn't you?!?
:roll: I just can't keep a secret can I?
The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.
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I learned in Montana that ALL guys are insecure, to some degree or another.
we ALL know that..
"...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
I learned in Montana that ALL guys are insecure, to some degree or another.
I knew you thought I was ugly. Didn't you? Didn't you?!?
"...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
I would not come back to this post either. The end of it really went downhill...
laughing about how something smells.
Someone could not believe that he actually posted this here. Why not? He's anonymous to us unless you have met him personally. Here the fans can offer great insight, hopefully without judging.
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also can you tell me when and where this is all going down so i can see if i can join in?
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Maybe give us some insight as to how bad her decision making when drunk is. Because if you're comparing her saying something offensive or stupid when drunk to her ability to remain faithful, that is an unfair comparison.
What reason has she ever given you to feel the way you do? Honestly man, I would just like to say again: trust your wife. I think THAT speaks volumes, if you show her that you trust her. If you openly place your trust in someones (especially your wife's) hands, they'll most likely respect that.
Perhaps she's worried that you might take the opportunity away from her to do something equally unfaithful...
If you say you "trust your wife", then trust your wife. Give her the opportunity to prove to you that your trust is safe.
If you're seriously that bothered by it though, why not sincerely come to your wife about your concerns... you never know, she might be really understanding.
Best of luck man, I don't know her or you, but I think you have nothing to worry about.
6/12/08 - Tampa, FL
8/23/09 - Chicago, IL
9/28/09 - Salt Lake City, UT (11 years too long!!!)
9/03/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 1
9/04/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 2
When I'm 6 ft under ground I'll need a drink or two
i didn't get the PI gig. :x
can we get an update?
He will update next tuesday once he post bail for her
No, this is the post of the thread...
What is he going to say?
"Well she didn't smell like penis when she got home, now i feel foolish"
Bahahahhah!!! Oh so good!
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
What exactly does penis smell like these days? I'm not as flexible as I used to be.
#postoftheday
I assume the wife went to the party, he was upset about it, she sensed it, still decided to have a good time (since Debbie Downers are no fun to hang out with). She came home, was all smiles, and he grilled her about the weekend and now, both are not happy campers.
I learned in Montana that ALL guys are insecure, to some degree or another.
- Christopher McCandless
is the hubby upset at me again.
:silent: talk to kw....
- Christopher McCandless
I knew you thought I was ugly. Didn't you? Didn't you?!?
:roll: I just can't keep a secret can I?
- Christopher McCandless
i knew to keep things at a little more of an arms legnth this time.
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
laughing about how something smells.
Someone could not believe that he actually posted this here. Why not? He's anonymous to us unless you have met him personally. Here the fans can offer great insight, hopefully without judging.
8/08 - Ed solo in DC, 6/09 Ed in B'more,
10/10 - Brad in B'more