Where are the single Pearl Jam ladies?!?!?

sleightofhandman wrote:

Hi... This isn't a blatant, desperate atempt at hooking up (disclaimer)... but... I'm a ten club member (below 300,000) and been a HUGE fan longer than that. Been to many shows all over North America, cant get enough of the lyrics, feelings, and emotions experienced through PJ's music. In fact, on some conspiracy theorist kind of way, I relate to PJ music almost as if it has been the soundtrack to my life. Now, if only I could meet that girl out there who feels the same as me! Believe me, I've tried. I've gone to the shows, listed them as favs on my online dating profiles, and even broken up with girls who declined on trips to concerts! So... Where are you?!?!? I'm 36, 6-03, not ugly, I'm a fitness fanatic (clean and healthy life), non smoker, love my big dog (his name is Mookie!), have a nice career in law enforcement (not a typical town cop), and I treat women with the respect they deserve! Email me!!! (with PJ fan as the subject). I live in New Jersey, and I'd love to chat via email! <!-- e --><a href="mailto:bobbyftrain@hotmail.com">bobbyftrain@hotmail.com</a><!-- e --> non-PJ fans need not apply! ... Bobby

We're here, alright!!! Try Chicago, it's an absolute hotbed of single PJ women.*

None of the single male PJ fans I see writing similar posts are anywhere near me....

* Scientific findings based on non-random samplings of area directly surrounding writer.

Considering I live in NY and those shows sell like hot cakes, I can only assume there are several single PJ gals within my remote location. Clearly I must be doing something wrong...

It's almost a 50/50 thing that my friends tease me with when i'm looking for the one. To go for a PJ woman or don't go for a PJ woman. But it's kinda hard when you're an art, music & huge Pearl Jam collector that's been collecting PJ goodies since '91.

So you're in this serious relationship. You're having makeup dinner @ a fancy resturant. You're thinking it's time to ask her to move in with you. "You don't mind living in a house filled with alot of Pearl Jam stuff, do you?" I can already see her eyes dazed & scared! No is gonna be the first thing that I know she is gonna say first, then I would have to talk her into it or something. She's thinking to herself while coughing on some pita bread 'Too move into a house filled with Pearl Jam stuff with the man I love? Or ask him to sell 2 rooms worth of Pearl Jam stuff so I can put my shit. If he say's yes, it's a deal!' .. D'oh!!!!

It's hard man! It's probably best to not think about being single. Just have fun. Focus on work. Make the money. Party as much as you can. Someday, the right woman will fall for you. Cause if you keep on trying, you're gonna be climbing the walls forever!

riffrandall wrote:

whispering hands wrote:

yeah I may be a chick as well bud but I feel yer pain I HAD a kick ass PJ girlfriend that I met at the Frisco show with Neil Young .. but she is no longer with us here in the living so I too am looking for another great love to share my lovely world of music in which PJ is our sun.....Sigh... one day soon I hope

to my knowledge, they have never played Frisco... if you're referring to San Francisco, just know that no one calls it "Frisco."

As a "single PJ lady" I'm going to agree with the assessment that a single PJ guy is just as difficult to find. Most of the ones I see at concerts would knock down an old lady to get their ticket, and are the type of person who would not offer their seat on a train to a pregnant girl. In other words, most of them don't have enough sense to come in out of the rain.
And how I would LOVE to be proven wrong on this point.

Frisco is actually a small town in Colorado near the major ski resorts and NO PJ has never played there either!!

I am an "older" single PJ fan with a 10 club membership started in later 1993 and I not only would step around an old lady to get a ticket I would happily offer my seat on a train to a pregnant girl. I also do not go out in the rain unless I am wearing my waterproof breathable gear because there is no bad weather just bad gear.

Kevinman wrote:

demetrios wrote:

It's almost a 50/50 thing that my friends tease me with when i'm looking for the one. To go for a PJ woman or don't go for a PJ woman. But it's kinda hard when you're an art, music & huge Pearl Jam collector that's been collecting PJ goodies since '91.

So you're in this serious relationship. You're having makeup dinner @ a fancy resturant. You're thinking it's time to ask her to move in with you. "You don't mind living in a house filled with alot of Pearl Jam stuff, do you?" I can already see her eyes dazed & scared! No is gonna be the first thing that I know she is gonna say first, then I would have to talk her into it or something. She's thinking to herself while coughing on some pita bread 'Too move into a house filled with Pearl Jam stuff with the man I love? Or ask him to sell 2 rooms worth of Pearl Jam stuff so I can put my shit. If he say's yes, it's a deal!' .. D'oh!!!!

It's hard man! It's probably best to not think about being single. Just have fun. Focus on work. Make the money. Party as much as you can. Someday, the right woman will fall for you. Cause if you keep on trying, you're gonna be climbing the walls forever!

I think that's the best way to think about it. When you don't care life is more fun and more things happen. You see a lot more of what's going on around you.

So true! Year's back I would search & search & try & try. It took soo much of my time & energy. I'm very happy & love what i'm doing now.

sleightofhandman wrote:

Hi... This isn't a blatant, desperate atempt at hooking up (disclaimer)... but... I'm a ten club member (below 300,000) and been a HUGE fan longer than that. Been to many shows all over North America, cant get enough of the lyrics, feelings, and emotions experienced through PJ's music. In fact, on some conspiracy theorist kind of way, I relate to PJ music almost as if it has been the soundtrack to my life. Now, if only I could meet that girl out there who feels the same as me! Believe me, I've tried. I've gone to the shows, listed them as favs on my online dating profiles, and even broken up with girls who declined on trips to concerts! So... Where are you?!?!? I'm 36, 6-03, not ugly, I'm a fitness fanatic (clean and healthy life), non smoker, love my big dog (his name is Mookie!), have a nice career in law enforcement (not a typical town cop), and I treat women with the respect they deserve! Email me!!! (with PJ fan as the subject). I live in New Jersey, and I'd love to chat via email! <!-- e --><a href="mailto:bobbyftrain@hotmail.com">bobbyftrain@hotmail.com</a><!-- e --> non-PJ fans need not apply! ... Bobby

Why did I even click on a post titled "Where are the single Pearl Jam ladies?!?!?"... after all I am not a single lady (although I do love pearl jam).

Good luck brother!

So many single PJ guys?!

Ms. Haiku wrote:

I would love to meet the man of my dreams in the form of a PJ guy - for our honeymoon we would follow part of that year's PJ tour. I think concerts can be pretty romantic if you're concert buddy is the same as your life partner

PJ concerts with my beau have been romantic and very special so far. One of them we got to share his son's first PJ experience together which was priceless. I'm blessed that we can add a couple more shows this tour. The road trips for the shows are pretty romantic too, LOADS of time to be close.

Kevinman wrote:

Wasn't the Bridge School Benefit in San Francisco?

Mountain View. About 35 miles from San Fran.