On-line dating? I give up!

decides2dream wrote:

who said date?
i said FUN.
take that for what you will...
and hello, i am talking my birthday NEXT year. believe it or not, i won't be 63 next year.
also, believe it or not...i too get hit on by 20-somethings. and no, they're not blind.

Ok...

You lost me.....But thats ok....

Because I am pretty sure you didnt quite get what I was saying......

I was just pointing out the 19 year difference.......21-40


And i dont give a rats ass if 20 year olds hit on you.....hehehehehehehe

Norm is a cougar?????

hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe

Oh fuck...

I am certainly gonna have fun with that one....

hehehehehehehehehehe

SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:

decides2dream wrote:

who said date?
i said FUN.
take that for what you will...
and hello, i am talking my birthday NEXT year. believe it or not, i won't be 63 next year.
also, believe it or not...i too get hit on by 20-somethings. and no, they're not blind.

Ok...

You lost me.....But thats ok....

Because I am pretty sure you didnt quite get what I was saying......

I was just pointing out the 19 year difference.......21-40


And i dont give a rats ass if 20 year olds hit on you.....hehehehehehehe

well, if you can't figure it out...i'm not gonna spell it out for ya. it is an all-ages forum and all that.


and...
i know....
and i know.





and norm - i call bullshit!

comebackgirl wrote:

decides2dream wrote:

norm wrote:

cougars!!! :thumbup: :thumbup:

you DO realize norm, in the scheme of things...you too are a cougar.
i hate that term btw.

Ugh! My mom called me a cougar this weekend :oops: But it's ok because apparently she is a cougar too :? :shock:

like mother, like daughter, eh?
both like em young.
nutthin' wrong with that.
i already made my lifelong pick, so have to just keep him young-at-heart...but hey, playmates, well.......

decides2dream wrote:

PJPixie wrote:

Whizbang wrote:

well, he's old enough to get into a bar with his own ID, right? that is my minimum age requirement....though the fact I'd be old enough to be his mom is a bit weird.

exactly. I've discussed this with a couple of my friends and they've said the exact same thing. He says he's discussed it with a couple of his friends and they came up with that it's socially acceptable.....THE GRADUATE and COUGARTOWN..........lol. He is quite intelligent, which holds a lot of points. I dunno tho........21 is 21...........oh, he just informed me that he'll be 22 in 2 weeks.

damn girl.
you are 40. he is 21.
he wants to go out with you.
don't think about the math too much.
just go and have fun!
will you end up marrying the guy?
probably not.
but hell... a whole LOTTA FUN stuff can go down.
enjoy.

i think that's what i want for my next birthday.

my thought as well. At 21, he isn't looking to get married and well....I ain't either! PJPixie...does this young man have any friends??? I've got a birthday coming up in February.....

decides2dream wrote:

seriously.
have fun.
get laid.
have more fun.
get aid.
repeat as often as you like.
if goes further than that...then maybe think more about it.
if not.
enjoy it and move on later.



i think we all should get that on our birthdays.

I've got a big birthday coming in February (as much as my mom hates to admit her baby will be 40!) so awwwww yeah....I'm down with getting together!

decides2dream wrote:

well if i find any good 21 year olds...i'll send em your way, a birthday present. well, he might get slightly used first, but you don't mind, right? i just turned 41. :shock:

not at all, not at all.....it'd be good for the dear lad.

soulsinging wrote:

decides2dream wrote:

Whizbang wrote:

I've got a big birthday coming in February (as much as my mom hates to admit her baby will be 40!) so awwwww yeah....I'm down with getting together!

well if i find any good 21 year olds...i'll send em your way, a birthday present. well, he might get slightly used first, but you don't mind, right? i just turned 41. :shock:

now you guys are making ME feel too old!

hahahahahaha!
i'm sure you'd be fine too.
just telling pix not to miss out on the opportunity for some fun.
will it be a long-term thing? probably not. but who knows?
so if there is any attraction there, life is short, she is single...so why not enjoy?
i DO understand how pixie feels/thinks tho. we have interns and some fresh out of college associates...and yes...they look YOUNG. they ARE young. it IS a big difference. however, it doesn't HAVE to be either, if both want to give it a shot. and, it all depends on what you're looking for, right?


hell conor, you (used to anyway) had a prediliction to skewing younger - a lot of men do - but given your age, make em so much younger....you'd make even women your own age feel old. payback's a bitch.

PJPixie wrote:

Whizbang wrote:

decides2dream wrote:

well if i find any good 21 year olds...i'll send em your way, a birthday present. well, he might get slightly used first, but you don't mind, right? i just turned 41. :shock:

not at all, not at all.....it'd be good for the dear lad.

You guys freaking rule!! I'm glad you're embracing this with me!!

is that an invitation?

comebackgirl wrote:

Lauri wrote:

Whizbang wrote:

my thought as well. At 21, he isn't looking to get married and well....I ain't either! PJPixie...does this young man have any friends??? I've got a birthday coming up in February.....

So Whizbang and PJPixie et al who are pro 21 year old...I have to ask...and I'll try to keep it PG...but in my experience, guys that young are...well...they need a lot of instruction. I can see the appealing nature of it...but in practice...is it really that enjoyable?

Yes

really? hmm. maybe I should have taken up some offers I've gotten on okc. . I think it's definitely really flattering and fun to think about, I just foresee certain problems as a practical matter. Not saying PJPIxie should feel the same.

age is just a number!