What the FUCK is up with all these depressing

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  • SENROCK
    SENROCK Posts: 10,736
    catefrances wrote:
    no i dont think that sen. though you do come across as one happy mofo. :D i think twas just your wordage is all. that and my addled mind. we're cool. :)

    its not easy.
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  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    SENROCK! wrote:
    its not easy.
    it never is
    :)
    hear my name
    take a good look
    this could be the day
    hold my hand
    lie beside me
    i just need to say
  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    nowayimfaithfull wrote:
    im not standing in anyones shoes, but try to be positive and move on, its the healthy thing to do, life is short.
    That's easy for you to say, brother!

    I was about to reply a hostile responds coz I'm sick and tired of hearing that same crap that one can just snap out of it. If you ever have someone you care for, best not say something like that because you'll more likely to lose them the next day. What they're goin' through isn't a simple thing, man. That's why there's medicines and meetings for them to try, some work and some don't. You can't snap out of sometihng like that, that's not as easy as you think.

    but The Wolf pretty much had the correct civil explanation for me.
    the wolf wrote:
    um, okay. you do realize that for some of us its a chemiacal thing, yeah?

    its not like we sit around wanting to be depressed. if your brain does not make enough seritonin (sp?) you will be depressed. in my case at times it dont produce enough, and others way too much. hence the manic deprssion.

    anyway, people without deprssion disorders act like those that have them can just nut up and not be dpressed.

    if only it were that easy.
    Good post, man. I see and understand that clearly when I'm optimistic but when I'm down, it just feels like a big deep empty hole I can't get out of.

    I was like that for nearly 5 months before PJ's tour announcement. Somehow my situation began to look brighter that same week that the "tweet" was announce. It's like a fucking miracle from Pearl Jam or something. Can't explain it.
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  • westsidepie
    westsidepie Posts: 627
    catefrances wrote:
    zero time for depression. what a marvellous willy wonka world you live in sen.
    :D:D

    I hate Willy Wonka. I think he is the most dangerous man in the universe.
    To pie I will reply
    But mr. justam
    is who I am

    "That's a repulsive combination of horrible information and bad breath."-Pickles

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  • SENROCK
    SENROCK Posts: 10,736
    westsidepie wrote:
    I hate Willy Wonka. I think he is the most dangerous man in the universe.
    he's a SCARY son of a gun!
    ~~~~~~ALWAYS HAVE A GOOD TIME~~~~~~
    Sir Mike McCready is....THE MASTER!!! WAHHH!!!
    EVENFLOW PSYCHOS H.N.I.C~FEEL THE FLOW!!!

    "Pearl Jam fans are obsessed, they'd see the boys in HELL if tickets were sold."-CROJAM95

    It takes balls to put out a UKE album!
  • nowayimfaithfull
    nowayimfaithfull Posts: 2,051
    SENROCK! wrote:
    thats right. There should be ZERO time for depression and staying angry at things. Even the worst. But....some people just dont see it that way. :( In true "SENROCK! STYLE"........ALWAYS have a good time!!! :D


    no have a great time
    Some people have religion I have Pearl Jam.


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  • nowayimfaithfull
    nowayimfaithfull Posts: 2,051
    the wolf wrote:
    um, okay. you do realize that for some of us its a chemiacal thing, yeah?

    its not like we sit around wanting to be depressed. if your brain does not make enough seritonin (sp?) you will be depressed. in my case at times it dont produce enough, and others way too much. hence the manic deprssion.

    anyway, people without deprssion disorders act like those that have them can just nut up and not be dpressed.

    if only it were that easy.


    I dont know Im not in your shoes, but I have had some minor chenical imbalances, and hard work, and communication and organazation always seem to help.
    They also have medicine.
    Some people have religion I have Pearl Jam.


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  • nowayimfaithfull
    nowayimfaithfull Posts: 2,051
    LongRd. wrote:
    That's easy for you to say, brother!

    I was about to reply a hostile responds coz I'm sick and tired of hearing that same crap that one can just snap out of it. If you ever have someone you care for, best not say something like that because you'll more likely to lose them the next day. What they're goin' through isn't a simple thing, man. That's why there's medicines and meetings for them to try, some work and some don't. You can't snap out of sometihng like that, that's not as easy as you think
    but The Wolf pretty much had the correct civil explanation for me.
    Good post, man. I see and understand that clearly when I'm optimistic but when I'm down, it just feels like a big deep empty hole I can't get out of.

    I was like that for nearly 5 months before PJ's tour announcement. Somehow my situation began to look brighter that same week that the "tweet" was announce. It's like a fucking miracle from Pearl Jam or something. Can't explain it.
    \

    I think Ill let my own life expieriences help me in life thank you, and if pjs tour got you outta your deprsession that is about as quick as SNAPPING OUTTA SOMETHING THAT YOU CAN HAVE HONESTLY.
    MY VERSION OF SNAPPING OUT IS HARD WORK, BEING GOOD TO YOUR FAMILY, GETTING THE RIGHT SLEEP, EAT RIGHT, COMMUNICATE AND LEARN. TRUST!! All things that can be accomplished.

    So what happened to everyones "people feel what they want and choose to live how they want", that only aplies to drug usage,suicide, and depression. wtf
    you dont know me, you were going to be hostile with me becasue I was positive. My neighbor just died from an infected tooth leaving 3 kids behind, I just lost a pet, I have a sister in law suffering from manic depression, my 1 child has minor issues at 8 years old, my wife has diabettes real bad, my mom has cancer.
    I go out every day and try to make sure all of them know I am right by their side cheering them up every possible fucking hour. than I cry myself to sleep half the time till its time to get up. SOMETIMES ALL THESE PEOPLE HAVE IS ME, YOU HAVE TO LOOK AHEAD.
    Now 1 thing I will say about life,is we get older, and at 38 I HAve learned from communication that if you deal with things head on it lightens the crash, and keeps everyone involved heads up. When I was in my 20s things seemed a lot worse. Go listen to songs like hold on, long road, hard to imagine. Dont just assume because someone on here isnt the flavor of the month you can neglect everything they have to say.
    Especially because they are trying to be happy.
    Some people have religion I have Pearl Jam.


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  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    nowayimfaithfull wrote:
    \

    I think Ill let my own life expieriences help me in life thank you, and if pjs tour got you outta your deprsession that is about as quick as SNAPPING OUTTA SOMETHING THAT YOU CAN HAVE HONESTLY.
    MY VERSION OF SNAPPING OUT IS HARD WORK, BEING GOOD TO YOUR FAMILY, GETTING THE RIGHT SLEEP, EAT RIGHT, COMMUNICATE AND LEARN. TRUST!! All things that can be accomplished.

    So what happened to everyones "people feel what they want and choose to live how they want", that only aplies to drug usage,suicide, and depression. wtf
    you dont know me, you were going to be hostile with me becasue I was positive. My neighbor just died from an infected tooth leaving 3 kids behind, I just lost a pet, I have a sister in law suffering from manic depression, my 1 child has minor issues at 8 years old, my wife has diabettes real bad, my mom has cancer.
    I go out every day and try to make sure all of them know I am right by their side cheering them up every possible fucking hour. than I cry myself to sleep half the time till its time to get up. SOMETIMES ALL THESE PEOPLE HAVE IS ME, YOU HAVE TO LOOK AHEAD.
    Now 1 thing I will say about life,is we get older, and at 38 I HAve learned from communication that if you deal with things head on it lightens the crash, and keeps everyone involved heads up. When I was in my 20s things seemed a lot worse. Go listen to songs like hold on, long road, hard to imagine. Dont just assume because someone on here isnt the flavor of the month you can neglect everything they have to say.
    Especially because they are trying to be happy.

    i dont think he was neglecting what you were saying. its just that for someone who has major depression issues, alot of the advice giving is not really going to help. im 35 , im 1200mg of Lithium a day ( that is a high dose), for the most part that helps me stay on track. but even with that , and shrinks, sometimes its not enough is all im saying, and the whole "i dont have time to be depressed " thing just does not apply. for some its not as easy as just saying i have to do this or be that for other people or themselves because the depression hampers the ability to think in a rational way. thats all i was saying. is that for some, its alot harder, and for some, its not even within their ability to do so.

    peace.
    Peace, Love.

    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • nowayimfaithfull
    nowayimfaithfull Posts: 2,051
    nowayimfaithfull wrote:
    I dont know Im not in your shoes, but I have had some minor chenical imbalances, and hard work, and communication and organazation always seem to help.
    They also have medicine.


    Twas my reply to you, I know people have it tuff, and in some cases cant cope, but sometimes it helps to have people around you that can, people you can trust. Long rd and cate are always saying people can think and do as they can its their choice, but that only aplies to heroin usage, depressed feelings and suicide, we cant feel happy and great and enjoy life and be there for others? Without being made fun of,thats double standards, and double standards are somtehing that you can get rid of and live happier without.
    Long rd has been waiting to jam me in this forum, he is differant in here, so I apologize if I offeneded you.
    Good luck and peace.
    Some people have religion I have Pearl Jam.


    no more shows
  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    SENROCK! wrote:
    what im saying is you have it all wrong that you think i live in a perfect world or happy all the time just becuz i dont post sadd things or depressed threads or becuz i dont complain and etc. My life is FAR from perfect and happy. I just choose to deal with it differently and im sorry that some of you cant i guess. i hope that sounds right.


    SENROCK!! You definitely do not need to explain
    why you don't write depressed threads....:)

    I posted this particular thread because....DAMN there have been a ton of DEPRESSING threads here lately....it's always the same people.....sad but true. I like to listen to them, in fact I even went as far as taking up for a "certain" person and when "they" didn't post for weeks I thought something happened to "them". I know I can ignore the depressing threads and I did for a LONG time...so I just had to say something...no big deal, those of you that didn't agree with me let me know and those who did agree with me also let me know! It's all good!! :D
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    depressing threads, threads bitching about depressing threads, threads about the weather, threads about broken radar detectors, pictures of you, your dog, your cat, your spouse, your houseplant :p, what someone had for lunch, what someone is doing this weekend, relationship threads! :eek: these ALL comprise the AET, at any given time....one form of thread is no more valid than another....nor is it up to us to decide what IS *valid* in any case. live and let live....or post and let post, eh? :)
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • given2fly10
    given2fly10 Posts: 485
    gotta love the bitching bout bitching threads on here

    :rolleyes:
    And he still gives his love, he just gives it away, The love he receives is the love that is saved, And sometimes is seen a strange spot in the sky, A human being that was given to fly

    no bed=no brian

    coke sucks
  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    given2fly10 wrote:
    gotta love the bitching bout bitching threads on here

    :rolleyes:


    Hehehehehe

    You noticed huh?? ;)
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • given2fly10
    given2fly10 Posts: 485
    in_hiding79 wrote:
    Hehehehehe

    You noticed huh?? ;)
    yea the FUCK gave it away, go figure ;)
    And he still gives his love, he just gives it away, The love he receives is the love that is saved, And sometimes is seen a strange spot in the sky, A human being that was given to fly

    no bed=no brian

    coke sucks
  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    decides2dream wrote:
    depressing threads, threads bitching about depressing threads, threads about the weather, threads about broken radar detectors, pictures of you, your dog, your cat, your spouse, your houseplant :p, what someone had for lunch, what someone is doing this weekend, relationship threads! :eek: these ALL comprise the AET, at any given time....one form of thread is no more valid than another....nor is it up to us to decide what IS *valid* in any case. live and let live....or post and let post, eh? :)


    Just so everyone knows and I don't go and make a thread about it, I did get my NEW radar detector in the mail last week and everything ROCKS on the road now!!!

    hehehe :):p
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • chiquimonkey
    chiquimonkey Posts: 9,337
    the wolf wrote:
    and the whole "i dont have time to be depressed " thing just does not apply. for some its not as easy as just saying i have to do this or be that for other people or themselves because the depression hampers the ability to think in a rational way. thats all i was saying. is that for some, its alot harder, and for some, its not even within their ability to do so.
    this captures my feeling about this whole thing. sometimes people think it is something one can 'snap out of'. and the fact of the matter is sometimes you just can't. i guess it just calls for a little bit of understanding and compassion

    and also realizing that people post for different reasons. some do because they need feedback or an objective ear. some just for the hell of it. some do for attention, and that can go for depressing as well as happy threads.

    there are plenty of options for whatever type of thread one is looking for :) and i figure one can't appreciate light without a little bit of darkness, really.

    "post and let post" like dream said :)
  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    i'll take a depressing post from someone truly in need, whether simply to just vent, get it *out there* or looking for advice ANYday over people who post simply to be an asshole. i hate assholes, particularly assholes who wouldn';t dare to be so nasty/assholish in your face...cowardly internet assholes. :)
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    decides2dream wrote:
    i'll take a depressing post from someone truly in need, whether simply to just vent, get it *out there* or looking for advice ANYday over people who post simply to be an asshole. i hate assholes, particularly assholes who wouldn';t dare to be so nasty/assholish in your face...cowardly internet assholes. :)


    agreed.
    Peace, Love.

    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    nowayimfaithfull wrote:
    Twas my reply to you, I know people have it tuff, and in some cases cant cope, but sometimes it helps to have people around you that can, people you can trust. 1: Long rd and cate are always saying people can think and do as they can its their choice, but that only aplies to heroin usage, depressed feelings and suicide, we cant feel happy and great and enjoy life and be there for others? Without being made fun of,thats double standards, and double standards are somtehing that you can get rid of and live happier without.
    Long rd has been waiting to jam me in this forum, he is differant in here, so I apologize if I offeneded you.
    Good luck and peace.
    1: I never once attack anyone for being happy or enjoying life, all I did was give a little side of the pessimists' side of things coz some people thinks it's like we're doing this to self-destruct. We are and we aren't in a way. I really can't explain it, I just know it's unhealthy but I can't changed. 2: I'm NOT tryin' to pick a fight neither if that's what's you're indicating. The last little conflict we had was a misunderstanding, my sarcastic quote came off wrong and i offended you, which I did apologized for in PM.
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