agreed.
my post in no way was *dictating.* it is merely my personal perspective that feeling miserable all the time would be, well, miserable. obviously, some people are *happy*...? feeling that way all the time. i'm not telling them to change...just saying it's not how i'd want to be. and i agree, anyone *too* happy...i find weird as well. as i said, either extreme, especially often, just doesn't seem *healthy*...but whatthefuckever!
well its not so much feeling miserable as feeling down. and a lot of the time trying to pull yourself out of that...trying to be 'happy', just sux massive. it aches and requires more effort than you have.
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take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
I was pretty fucking depressed between fall '07 to Feb '08 but never actually made a thread about my situation. I did reply to a few threads that were about the subject but that's about it. Didn't get overboard with it.
I don't see the help from a message board. Or maybe I'm just one of those who likes to keep things to one self and get through it alone...as I usually do!
well its not so much feeling miserable as feeling down. and a lot of the time trying to pull yourself out of that...trying to be 'happy', just sux massive. it aches and requires more effort than you have.
And if you can't do it, you can add guilt and disappointment to the list of negative emotions.
agreed.
my post in no way was *dictating.* it is merely my personal perspective that feeling miserable all the time would be, well, miserable. obviously, some people are *happy*...? feeling that way all the time. i'm not telling them to change...just saying it's not how i'd want to be. and i agree, anyone *too* happy...i find weird as well. as i said, either extreme, especially often, just doesn't seem *healthy*...but whatthefuckever!
yeah...if someone is *too* happy then it could just be mania and that's not gonna be good for anyone
and to correct myself...maybe it's not just based one what someone *feels* - although I do think we tend to have our favorite feelings - but what someone chooses to express (or feels more comfortable expressing). I think the people who ALWAYS seem happy are sometimes covering up a world of hurt...they just don't know how (or don't want to) express it
Progress is not made by everyone joining some new fad,
and reveling in it's loyalty. It's made by forming coalitions
over specific principles, goals, and policies.
I was pretty fucking depressed between fall '07 to Feb '08 but never actually made a thread about my situation. I did reply to a few threads that were about the subject but that's about it. Didn't get overboard with it.
I don't see the help from a message board. Or maybe I'm just one of those who likes to keep things to one self and get through it alone...as I usually do!
yeah...I tend to only post when I'm feeling good about life. I guess that's the stuff I'm most comfortable expressing, or sharing. When I'm struggling with something I tend to either deal with it on my own or share it only with the very few people I trust most. Some people are more comfortable "putting it out there." Whatever works for them is fine with me.
I think inhiding79 should post a bathing suit photo spread to kick off some spring happiness
j/k
Progress is not made by everyone joining some new fad,
and reveling in it's loyalty. It's made by forming coalitions
over specific principles, goals, and policies.
Ummm, you said comparing bodies to mine.....I have so many flaws...my tummy is still a bit swollen from my surgery...and I have a scar across it....it is NOT sexy....:(
And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
yeah...if someone is *too* happy then it could just be mania and that's not gonna be good for anyone
and to correct myself...maybe it's not just based one what someone *feels* - although I do think we tend to have our favorite feelings - but what someone chooses to express (or feels more comfortable expressing). I think the people who ALWAYS seem happy are sometimes covering up a world of hurt...they just don't know how (or don't want to) express it
VERY true!
and conversely, those curmudgeonly folks who come off as negative or depressive....really, many are simply not that overt in their lifejoys.
my husband and i show utter *joy* so differently, but that does not mean that one of us actually FEELS the joy any less/more.
none the less....no one wants to be around a debbie downer, nor a suzi sunshine...all the fuckin' time!
Ummm, you said comparing bodies to mine.....I have so many flaws...my tummy is still a bit swollen from my surgery...and I have a scar across it....it is NOT sexy....:(
i think scars on a girl are sexy . i always have
And he still gives his love, he just gives it away, The love he receives is the love that is saved, And sometimes is seen a strange spot in the sky, A human being that was given to fly
ok everyone thinks I've never had a happy thought in my life (I don't really know why everyone is so extreme in that opinion because it's totally not true). but this is a message board I think it has 3 purposes: 1) to discuss issues, whether it be about the up coming PJ tour or major social, political, etc, problems 2) to answer a question like "what's the best hotel in cleveland" or 3) to ask for advice, in this forum usually about personal problems in the hopes that someone else might be able to relate.
that's really it. it's like any other convo.
there's a place for the "happy" stuff too, but it doesn't lend itself to much discussion. if you post "I just got a raise!" sure that's awesome, but what can people say besides "cool! good for you!" there's a white stripes song that goes "I guess you have to have a problem to invent a contraption" and you kinda have to have some sort problem/conflict/controversy to have a discussion.
as for the jokes, they usually come at the expense of offending someone at some point.
ass threads on here lately? Seriously, I'm fine with some here and there and have even participated in one or two......but all the damn time?! What the fuck is wrong with some of you???
100% correct
too much of that shit
life can be depressing enough, I come here to get away from that!!!!!
its great fun.. . i even drink loads just to try and get depressed... but it makes me even happier.
oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
*hugs chica*
hope life brightens for you b/c i KNOW you have such a shining attitude!
thanks chica and long rd...yeah i hope it passes soon. i miss being myself really. it probably would help to vent stuff here but i tend to do the opposite and keep to myself when i'm going thru a bad patch. ah well!
oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
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well its not so much feeling miserable as feeling down. and a lot of the time trying to pull yourself out of that...trying to be 'happy', just sux massive. it aches and requires more effort than you have.
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
I don't see the help from a message board. Or maybe I'm just one of those who likes to keep things to one self and get through it alone...as I usually do!
EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
Wembley 18/06/07
If there was a reason, it was you.
O2 Arena 18/09/09
how i choose to feel,... is how i am
and to correct myself...maybe it's not just based one what someone *feels* - although I do think we tend to have our favorite feelings - but what someone chooses to express (or feels more comfortable expressing). I think the people who ALWAYS seem happy are sometimes covering up a world of hurt...they just don't know how (or don't want to) express it
EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
...and some days I use lube
and reveling in it's loyalty. It's made by forming coalitions
over specific principles, goals, and policies.
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very nice
i dont wanna think i wanna feel
j/k
and reveling in it's loyalty. It's made by forming coalitions
over specific principles, goals, and policies.
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careful this will make some people more upset
...sorry it had to be said
That is ridiculous really, because no one has a perfect body....I know I don't!!
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
Ummm, you said comparing bodies to mine.....I have so many flaws...my tummy is still a bit swollen from my surgery...and I have a scar across it....it is NOT sexy....:(
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
I just made the OP depressed
EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
VERY true!
and conversely, those curmudgeonly folks who come off as negative or depressive....really, many are simply not that overt in their lifejoys.
my husband and i show utter *joy* so differently, but that does not mean that one of us actually FEELS the joy any less/more.
none the less....no one wants to be around a debbie downer, nor a suzi sunshine...all the fuckin' time!
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
no bed=no brian
coke sucks
that's really it. it's like any other convo.
there's a place for the "happy" stuff too, but it doesn't lend itself to much discussion. if you post "I just got a raise!" sure that's awesome, but what can people say besides "cool! good for you!" there's a white stripes song that goes "I guess you have to have a problem to invent a contraption" and you kinda have to have some sort problem/conflict/controversy to have a discussion.
as for the jokes, they usually come at the expense of offending someone at some point.
too much of that shit
life can be depressing enough, I come here to get away from that!!!!!
now get in the pit and try to love someone!!!!
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*hugs chica*
hope life brightens for you b/c i KNOW you have such a shining attitude!
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
its great fun.. . i even drink loads just to try and get depressed... but it makes me even happier.
EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
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