what im saying is you have it all wrong that you think i live in a perfect world or happy all the time just becuz i dont post sadd things or depressed threads or becuz i dont complain and etc. My life is FAR from perfect and happy. I just choose to deal with it differently and im sorry that some of you cant i guess. i hope that sounds right.
SENROCK!! You definitely do not need to explain
why you don't write depressed threads....:)
I posted this particular thread because....DAMN there have been a ton of DEPRESSING threads here lately....it's always the same people.....sad but true. I like to listen to them, in fact I even went as far as taking up for a "certain" person and when "they" didn't post for weeks I thought something happened to "them". I know I can ignore the depressing threads and I did for a LONG time...so I just had to say something...no big deal, those of you that didn't agree with me let me know and those who did agree with me also let me know! It's all good!!
And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
depressing threads, threads bitching about depressing threads, threads about the weather, threads about broken radar detectors, pictures of you, your dog, your cat, your spouse, your houseplant , what someone had for lunch, what someone is doing this weekend, relationship threads! :eek: these ALL comprise the AET, at any given time....one form of thread is no more valid than another....nor is it up to us to decide what IS *valid* in any case. live and let live....or post and let post, eh?
gotta love the bitching bout bitching threads on here
:rolleyes:
And he still gives his love, he just gives it away, The love he receives is the love that is saved, And sometimes is seen a strange spot in the sky, A human being that was given to fly
And he still gives his love, he just gives it away, The love he receives is the love that is saved, And sometimes is seen a strange spot in the sky, A human being that was given to fly
depressing threads, threads bitching about depressing threads, threads about the weather, threads about broken radar detectors, pictures of you, your dog, your cat, your spouse, your houseplant , what someone had for lunch, what someone is doing this weekend, relationship threads! :eek: these ALL comprise the AET, at any given time....one form of thread is no more valid than another....nor is it up to us to decide what IS *valid* in any case. live and let live....or post and let post, eh?
Just so everyone knows and I don't go and make a thread about it, I did get my NEW radar detector in the mail last week and everything ROCKS on the road now!!!
hehehe
And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
and the whole "i dont have time to be depressed " thing just does not apply. for some its not as easy as just saying i have to do this or be that for other people or themselves because the depression hampers the ability to think in a rational way. thats all i was saying. is that for some, its alot harder, and for some, its not even within their ability to do so.
this captures my feeling about this whole thing. sometimes people think it is something one can 'snap out of'. and the fact of the matter is sometimes you just can't. i guess it just calls for a little bit of understanding and compassion
and also realizing that people post for different reasons. some do because they need feedback or an objective ear. some just for the hell of it. some do for attention, and that can go for depressing as well as happy threads.
there are plenty of options for whatever type of thread one is looking for and i figure one can't appreciate light without a little bit of darkness, really.
i'll take a depressing post from someone truly in need, whether simply to just vent, get it *out there* or looking for advice ANYday over people who post simply to be an asshole. i hate assholes, particularly assholes who wouldn';t dare to be so nasty/assholish in your face...cowardly internet assholes.
i'll take a depressing post from someone truly in need, whether simply to just vent, get it *out there* or looking for advice ANYday over people who post simply to be an asshole. i hate assholes, particularly assholes who wouldn';t dare to be so nasty/assholish in your face...cowardly internet assholes.
agreed.
Peace, Love.
"To question your government is not unpatriotic --
to not question your government is unpatriotic."
-- Sen. Chuck Hagel
Twas my reply to you, I know people have it tuff, and in some cases cant cope, but sometimes it helps to have people around you that can, people you can trust. 1: Long rd and cate are always saying people can think and do as they can its their choice, but that only aplies to heroin usage, depressed feelings and suicide, we cant feel happy and great and enjoy life and be there for others? Without being made fun of,thats double standards, and double standards are somtehing that you can get rid of and live happier without. Long rd has been waiting to jam me in this forum, he is differant in here, so I apologize if I offeneded you.
Good luck and peace.
1: I never once attack anyone for being happy or enjoying life, all I did was give a little side of the pessimists' side of things coz some people thinks it's like we're doing this to self-destruct. We are and we aren't in a way. I really can't explain it, I just know it's unhealthy but I can't changed. 2: I'm NOT tryin' to pick a fight neither if that's what's you're indicating. The last little conflict we had was a misunderstanding, my sarcastic quote came off wrong and i offended you, which I did apologized for in PM.
1: I never once attack anyone for being happy or enjoying life, all I did was give a little side of the pessimists' side of things coz some people thinks it's like we're doing this to self-destruct. We are and we aren't in a way. I really can't explain it, I just know it's unhealthy but I can't changed. 2: I'm NOT tryin' to pick a fight neither if that's what's you're indicating. The last little conflict we had was a misunderstanding, my sarcastic quote came off wrong and i offended, which I did apologized for in PM.
Well the firs tthing I said was I am not in anyones shoes, I dont known whats going on in someones life, you metioned the word hostile, I just think good advice is too move foward when the grieving is done, it doesnt apply to an illness, I pray everynight for a better world to live in, I honestly feel way to much for other people.
PEACE
I think Ill let my own life expieriences help me in life thank you, and if pjs tour got you outta your deprsession that is about as quick as SNAPPING OUTTA SOMETHING THAT YOU CAN HAVE HONESTLY.
No I said my situation started to changed that SAME WEEK.
Though I didn't get into details of what things occurred during that same week. I just think it's ironic that I had positive things happened the same week PJ announced the tour. I didn't tell the non-PJ stuff that happened so it came off as if PJ saved me or something, which isn't the case.
I was like that for nearly 5 months before PJ's tour announcement. Somehow my situation began to look brighter that same week that the "tweet" was announce. It's like a fucking miracle from Pearl Jam or something. Can't explain it.
i'll take a depressing post from someone truly in need, whether simply to just vent, get it *out there* or looking for advice ANYday over people who post simply to be an asshole. i hate assholes, particularly assholes who wouldn';t dare to be so nasty/assholish in your face...cowardly internet assholes.
LOL
Now that's funny!!
Too many of those to post...hehehehehe
And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
Twas my reply to you, I know people have it tuff, and in some cases cant cope, but sometimes it helps to have people around you that can, people you can trust. Long rd and cate are always saying people can think and do as they can its their choice, but that only aplies to heroin usage, depressed feelings and suicide, we cant feel happy and great and enjoy life and be there for others? Without being made fun of,thats double standards, and double standards are somtehing that you can get rid of and live happier without.
Long rd has been waiting to jam me in this forum, he is differant in here, so I apologize if I offeneded you.
Good luck and peace.
yes i do say tis people's choice when it comes to what they do and what they think. and i make no apology for having said it. i have never said it only applies to doing dope, suicide or being depressed. besides the fact that depression is not something someone would choose to be given a viable alternative. NOR have i ever said people cant feel happy. jesus christ, what kind of hypocritical maniac would i be if i said on here that all happy people are losers and have no right to their feelings? i certainly dont make fun of them for being so. and please show me where ive said happy people cant feel happy, enjoy life or be there for others? however..
i have said that people who are happy ALL THE TIME are weird to me. that in no way is me saying they shouldnt feel that way. tis just difficult for me to grasp. lets face it, if i could be that way im sure id be in a better place. but i cant and im not. i am the way i am. and i deal with it the best way i know how.
hear my name
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
I have said that people who are happy ALL THE TIME are weird to me. that in no way is me saying they shouldnt feel that way. tis just difficult for me to grasp.
I find that awesome.....:)
And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
Comments
SENROCK!! You definitely do not need to explain
why you don't write depressed threads....:)
I posted this particular thread because....DAMN there have been a ton of DEPRESSING threads here lately....it's always the same people.....sad but true. I like to listen to them, in fact I even went as far as taking up for a "certain" person and when "they" didn't post for weeks I thought something happened to "them". I know I can ignore the depressing threads and I did for a LONG time...so I just had to say something...no big deal, those of you that didn't agree with me let me know and those who did agree with me also let me know! It's all good!!
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
:rolleyes:
no bed=no brian
coke sucks
Hehehehehe
You noticed huh??
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
no bed=no brian
coke sucks
Just so everyone knows and I don't go and make a thread about it, I did get my NEW radar detector in the mail last week and everything ROCKS on the road now!!!
hehehe
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
and also realizing that people post for different reasons. some do because they need feedback or an objective ear. some just for the hell of it. some do for attention, and that can go for depressing as well as happy threads.
there are plenty of options for whatever type of thread one is looking for and i figure one can't appreciate light without a little bit of darkness, really.
"post and let post" like dream said
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
agreed.
"To question your government is not unpatriotic --
to not question your government is unpatriotic."
-- Sen. Chuck Hagel
EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
Well the firs tthing I said was I am not in anyones shoes, I dont known whats going on in someones life, you metioned the word hostile, I just think good advice is too move foward when the grieving is done, it doesnt apply to an illness, I pray everynight for a better world to live in, I honestly feel way to much for other people.
PEACE
no more shows
Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth.
-Oscar Wilde
Though I didn't get into details of what things occurred during that same week. I just think it's ironic that I had positive things happened the same week PJ announced the tour. I didn't tell the non-PJ stuff that happened so it came off as if PJ saved me or something, which isn't the case.
EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
LOL
Now that's funny!!
Too many of those to post...hehehehehe
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
yes i do say tis people's choice when it comes to what they do and what they think. and i make no apology for having said it. i have never said it only applies to doing dope, suicide or being depressed. besides the fact that depression is not something someone would choose to be given a viable alternative. NOR have i ever said people cant feel happy. jesus christ, what kind of hypocritical maniac would i be if i said on here that all happy people are losers and have no right to their feelings? i certainly dont make fun of them for being so. and please show me where ive said happy people cant feel happy, enjoy life or be there for others? however..
i have said that people who are happy ALL THE TIME are weird to me. that in no way is me saying they shouldnt feel that way. tis just difficult for me to grasp. lets face it, if i could be that way im sure id be in a better place. but i cant and im not. i am the way i am. and i deal with it the best way i know how.
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
I find that awesome.....:)
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."