What the FUCK is up with all these depressing

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  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    singularity wrote:
    the thread about all of the girls being barely dressed this time of year isn't depressing :)
    i love that thread and it makes me happy.
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  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    comebackgirl wrote:
    We just need more happy threads to balance it all out :) Of course when you're TOO happy that depresses some people (or just plain pisses them off) so you can't win anyway :p We all have our "favorite feelings" sadness, anger, happiness, jealousy, annoyance etc...and probably tend to post based on them.

    THIS is true; all about balance. :)
    although as someone else mentioned, i think the overall *mood* here recently has been GOOD! i think more sunshine, longer days, pj shows on the horizion, etc....all mood-brighteners.


    and you're right *too* much of either - not good! i think *extremes* tnd to be VERY annoying, whether too happy, or too sad. although i am a fairly hppy person overall, i do have quite an evil streak....so i'm gonna say i find *too happy* people way more annoying. depressives, we all can relate a wee bit, or at the very least feel sorry for em. the too happys of the world, most of the time, just want to punch em in the face. :D


    altho i will say for *fave feelings*....while i agree too true...it's SAD to think for many, their faves are feeelings of depression, sadness, bitterness, anger. life's too short!
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  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    _Crazy_Mary_ wrote:
    I started a thread on here last week about sharing funny stories and it sank like a lead balloon, buncha negative nellies in here, I tell you!



    I like that......:)
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  • NY PJ1
    NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    singularity wrote:
    the thread about all of the girls being barely dressed this time of year isn't depressing :)


    :) YOU'RE WELCOME
  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    decides2dream wrote:
    .....
    altho i will say for *fave feelings*....while i agree too true...it's SAD to think for many, their faves are feeelings of depression, sadness, bitterness, anger. life's too short!

    yes life is too short... to be dictated to on how we should feel. quite frankly i find people who are happy all the time quite weird.
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  • NY PJ1
    NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    catefrances wrote:
    im australian. what could possibly be wrong? :D


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  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    NY PJ1 wrote:
    a kangaroo hopped into your pants

    well actually theyre more likely to kick you in face. :D

    what is it with nonaussies and this fascination with roos? :D
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  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    What the Fuck is wrong with venting! :p

    Yeah if you aren't depressed, you will be after reading some of the threads on here :)
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  • westsidepie
    westsidepie Posts: 627
    catefrances wrote:
    yes life is too short... to be dictated to on how we should feel. quite frankly i find people who are happy all the time quite weird.

    They are also the ones that will kill you one day. Who knew, he was so happy!
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  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    catefrances wrote:
    yes life is too short... to be dictated to on how we should feel. quite frankly i find people who are happy all the time quite weird.



    agreed.
    my post in no way was *dictating.* it is merely my personal perspective that feeling miserable all the time would be, well, miserable. :p obviously, some people are *happy*...? feeling that way all the time. i'm not telling them to change...just saying it's not how i'd want to be. and i agree, anyone *too* happy...i find weird as well. as i said, either extreme, especially often, just doesn't seem *healthy*...but whatthefuckever! :D
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  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    decides2dream wrote:
    agreed.
    my post in no way was *dictating.* it is merely my personal perspective that feeling miserable all the time would be, well, miserable. :p obviously, some people are *happy*...? feeling that way all the time. i'm not telling them to change...just saying it's not how i'd want to be. and i agree, anyone *too* happy...i find weird as well. as i said, either extreme, especially often, just doesn't seem *healthy*...but whatthefuckever! :D

    well its not so much feeling miserable as feeling down. and a lot of the time trying to pull yourself out of that...trying to be 'happy', just sux massive. it aches and requires more effort than you have.
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  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    I was pretty fucking depressed between fall '07 to Feb '08 but never actually made a thread about my situation. I did reply to a few threads that were about the subject but that's about it. Didn't get overboard with it.

    I don't see the help from a message board. Or maybe I'm just one of those who likes to keep things to one self and get through it alone...as I usually do!
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  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    I guess we should all get naked........then no one will be depressed....or will they?? ;)
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
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    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • urbanhippie
    urbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    catefrances wrote:
    well its not so much feeling miserable as feeling down. and a lot of the time trying to pull yourself out of that...trying to be 'happy', just sux massive. it aches and requires more effort than you have.
    And if you can't do it, you can add guilt and disappointment to the list of negative emotions.
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  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    catefrances wrote:
    yes life is too short... to be dictated to on how we should feel. quite frankly i find people who are happy all the time quite weird.


    how i choose to feel,... is how i am

    :D
  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    decides2dream wrote:
    agreed.
    my post in no way was *dictating.* it is merely my personal perspective that feeling miserable all the time would be, well, miserable. :p obviously, some people are *happy*...? feeling that way all the time. i'm not telling them to change...just saying it's not how i'd want to be. and i agree, anyone *too* happy...i find weird as well. as i said, either extreme, especially often, just doesn't seem *healthy*...but whatthefuckever! :D
    yeah...if someone is *too* happy then it could just be mania and that's not gonna be good for anyone :p

    and to correct myself...maybe it's not just based one what someone *feels* - although I do think we tend to have our favorite feelings - but what someone chooses to express (or feels more comfortable expressing). I think the people who ALWAYS seem happy are sometimes covering up a world of hurt...they just don't know how (or don't want to) express it
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  • LONGRD
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    in_hiding79 wrote:
    I guess we should all get naked........then no one will depressed....or will they?? ;)
    well, if we compared our bodies to yours....we're in a severe depression mood. :p
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  • RolandTD20Kdrummer
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    cutback wrote:
    how i choose to feel,... is how i am

    :D


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  • NY PJ1
    NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    in_hiding79 wrote:
    I guess we should all get naked........then no one will depressed....or will they?? ;)


    very nice

    i dont wanna think i wanna feel
  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    LongRd. wrote:
    I was pretty fucking depressed between fall '07 to Feb '08 but never actually made a thread about my situation. I did reply to a few threads that were about the subject but that's about it. Didn't get overboard with it.

    I don't see the help from a message board. Or maybe I'm just one of those who likes to keep things to one self and get through it alone...as I usually do!
    yeah...I tend to only post when I'm feeling good about life. I guess that's the stuff I'm most comfortable expressing, or sharing. When I'm struggling with something I tend to either deal with it on my own or share it only with the very few people I trust most. Some people are more comfortable "putting it out there." Whatever works for them is fine with me.
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