Why do people get jealous?

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  • Lizard
    Lizard So Cal Posts: 12,091
    SENROCK! wrote:
    oh sure, NOW you get religious!!!!!

    watch it or I will smite thee!
    So I'll just lie down and wait for the dream
    Where I'm not ugly and you're lookin' at me
  • SENROCK
    SENROCK Posts: 10,736
    Lizard wrote:
    watch it or I will smite thee!

    hahahaha damn lizard youre gonna get struck by lightning and theres not EVEN a storm near by!!!!
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  • SENROCK
    SENROCK Posts: 10,736
    Hell yeah they are jealous of me and my Metal Years!!

    I was the fifth member of Poison ya know??
    interesting. so how is bret REALLY?! ;)
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    Sir Mike McCready is....THE MASTER!!! WAHHH!!!
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  • who is all jealous of you, P?

    is this board people, work, friends??


    My guess is everybody.
  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    SENROCK! wrote:
    interesting. so how is bret REALLY?! ;)


    Ohhhh, well he used to be really good...I think the years have finally caught up with him some!! :)
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • mookie9999
    mookie9999 Posts: 4,677
    TrixieCat wrote:
    Where is mookie when you land a great fag-hag joke....

    WTF?!?!?!? :confused: Don't make me take off this skirt, put on some pants, and prove to you just how manly I am!!! :mad:
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  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    Seriously, I was brought up to NEVER to be jealous of anyone...I guess my mom and dad wanted their kids to know that no one is better then us and that we are not better then anyone! Although some people get jealous of someone and to tell you the truth, I only get jealous of people who win the lottery....I don't wish I were someone else EVER, but I do wish I could win some big money. It sure would be nice..:)

    people get jealous cause youve got something they want.

    as for being jealous of people winning the lottery... explain that one to me. :)
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  • dunkman
    dunkman Posts: 19,646
    mookie9999 wrote:
    WTF?!?!?!? :confused: Don't make me take off this skirt, put on some pants, and prove to you just how manly I am!!! :mad:


    thats a daily routine for me :)
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • i was raised the same way. jealously is a wasted emotion, in my opinion. even people that seem to have it all might be seriously jacked up behind closed doors, so no point in bothering really.
    Absolutely... I have known some people who, from the outside looking in, have everything, yet they could never be happy. I'll never understand why people waste their time with jealousy. I've got fuck all but as far as I'm concerned I have it all :)
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  • xscorcho
    xscorcho Posts: 409
    I've got fuck all but as far as I'm concerned I have it all :)

    ditto! i agree jealousy is a wasted emotion...
  • genie wrote:
    sad?

    so you think it's sad for someone to want to know what love is?

    do you think it's sad for a homeless person to have stable home to go to?

    do you think it's sad for sad for 40 year old virgin to want to have sex?

    do you think it's sad for a woman who can't have children to want to have a baby?

    do you think it's sad for a deformed person to what to be normal?

    the list can go on.
    It's ok to have dreams, goals and aspirations... but to want what somebody else has and to see your dream as a negative and something you don't have rather than something to reach for... well it's just a complete waste of time.
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • I think she is talking to me....imagine that, a woman actually not liking my post or finding something wrong with my thread! Never had this happen on this board!!

    I guess I understand now!
    trust me, that's nothing to do with jealousy :p

    if you post something saying that men are usually the victims in relationships and women are mainly money grabbers well I'm gonna disagree with ya... but not out of jealousy! And not meaning to sound patronising, usually cos I feel sorry for someone who puts themselves down so much :o . There really is no need for it.

    On another note, there are those people who convince themselves that people don't like them cos they're jealous :D when sometimes it's cos they just don't like them :cool:
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • I used to get jealous over somethings, years ago..

    In those years since, I have worked for people that some would say "Had it all".. and thats when you would think jealousy would really have reared its head, but it really opened to my eyes that just because someone has money, doesn't make their life rich. Just because someone has a million friends, doesn't make their life fulfilled. I've learned that no body lives a totally perfect life, and where one thing may seem perfect, there are a million other reasons why I wouldn't want their life. Some people believe the grass is greener on the other side, and it may seem to be.. But I don't know anyone with a perfect enchanted story book life, that I need to be jealous over. My life is what I make it. What is cool about human life is we have the control over how we feel each day. No one can make us feel anything, but ourselves. If you truly love yourself, your focus is on how to live each day to your fullest. There just isn't enough time in this life to spend it pining away to be something you're not.
    Beautiful post :o and couldn't agree more :)

    If you spend so much time focussing on what other people 'have', how do you make time to make your OWN life richer? :confused:
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • TrixieCat wrote:
    Don't get upset Becks...someone will love you one day. lol
    Becks is already well loved... if you're talking about the OTHER kind of love... no doubt about it. She's fantastic :)
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • dunkman
    dunkman Posts: 19,646
    i'm jealous Helen has the time to answer every post on this thread. :p
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • dunkman wrote:
    i'm jealous Helen has the time to answer every post on this thread. :p
    oh dunk, you can't be jealous of something you have too :p

    silly silly boy :)
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • dunkman
    dunkman Posts: 19,646
    oh dunk, you can't be jealous of something you have too :p

    silly silly boy :)

    listen i'm busy actually.. you have no idea how hard it is to make Mount Everest out of paperclips and soggy paper.
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • jrd
    jrd Posts: 3,060
    dunkman wrote:
    listen i'm busy actually.. you have no idea how hard it is to make Mount Everest out of paperclips and soggy paper.

    try using mashed potato...

    i'm jealous you and Helen have the time to reply to every reply here and yet STILL claim to be busy... ;)
    Oh yeah? Well, I've had about enough of morons and halfwits, dolts, dunces, dullards and dumbbells - and you chowderhead yokel, you blithering hayseed, you - you've had enough of me?
  • elmer
    elmer Posts: 1,683

    On another note, there are those people who convince themselves that people don't like them cos they're jealous :D when sometimes it's cos they just don't like them :cool:
    yay, but "just don't like them" without any good reason? Whats the underlying factor there? Could say their just "not my type of person-(don't mean you specifically) and be done with them.
  • elmer wrote:
    yay, but "just don't like them" without any good reason? Whats the underlying factor there? Could say their just "not my type of person-(don't mean you specifically) and be done with them.
    what's the difference? There are people I can disagree with lots who I still actually like... take soulsinging for example... me and him have had some flaming rows and yet I'd still love to buy the guy a drink.

    Then there are other people who are fake, say what they think certain people want them to say and what they think certain other people would disagree with. I don't like fake people... it's pretty simple.
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you