Ever develop a crush on someone from here?

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  • RockinInCanada
    RockinInCanada Posts: 2,016
    metsfan531941 wrote:
    i agree, i was really close with a board member and turned out she wasnt the age she told me she was. ive met some really cool people on here and have become close to them, but i always keep my guard up cause its the net and friends come and go on here, its the true friends on here that willl be there for u no matter what u are like.ive met some of them in person and it was just like how it was on the net. im still friends with a board member after a year and a half. crushes are cool to have as long as u dont get really into them

    I am willing to bet the two top things lies about on the internet is age and weight.
  • Gary Carter
    Gary Carter Posts: 14,077
    Rockin'InCanada wrote:
    I am willing to bet the two top things lies about on the internet is age and weight.
    yup i agree they are and she lied to me bout her age oddly enough.
    Ron: I just don't feel like going out tonight
    Sammi: Wanna just break up?

  • RockinInCanada
    RockinInCanada Posts: 2,016
    metsfan531941 wrote:
    yup i agree they are and she lied to me bout her age oddly enough.

    Willing to bet younger than she first said?

    How off was the difference?
  • Gary Carter
    Gary Carter Posts: 14,077
    Rockin'InCanada wrote:
    Willing to bet younger than she first said?

    How off was the difference?
    age difference was 9 years and shes actually older then what she told me. i had a very huge internet fling with her, i trusted her alot cause she seemed like a really cool and honest girl bout everything but her age. i was just played like a fool in the end.
    Ron: I just don't feel like going out tonight
    Sammi: Wanna just break up?

  • RockinInCanada
    RockinInCanada Posts: 2,016
    metsfan531941 wrote:
    age difference was 9 years and shes actually older then what she told me. i had a very huge internet fling with her, i trusted her alot cause she seemed like a really cool and honest girl bout everything but her age. i was just played like a fool in the end.

    Yeah in my case that is exactly what I was worried out although it proved I was being told the truth....that is the thing with internet dating one can waste a lot of time on someone who is pretending to be someone totally different....cruel if you ask me....
  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    AllIAm wrote:
    i can agree with you too. i have met some awesome people on here (like you :) ) that i wouldn't trade for the world. even though i havent met some of yu face to face i still feel like you are really close to me. I also think that when people meet on here and the attraction rises there are 2 vrey different scenerios. i think if there is intention to meet and see where it goes thats awesome... just some people try to live their entire relationships through the internet. thats weird. not to mention the liars ive come across... whoo it would blow your mind.
    You are one of the very cool people I have met on here too :) And I agree...it's great when you connect and can move it beyond the internet...but even purely online friendships can be meaningful..as long as not ALL your friendships are online haha
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • Gary Carter
    Gary Carter Posts: 14,077
    Rockin'InCanada wrote:
    Yeah in my case that is exactly what I was worried out although it proved I was being told the truth....that is the thing with internet dating one can waste a lot of time on someone who is pretending to be someone totally different....cruel if you ask me....
    oh it so was cruel, i was even gonna fly to where she lived and see if it was real. like i wouldnt of known by her looks that she was older once i saw her in person. she told me her fake age first and then gave me a pic of her so i believed the age she was tellin me.u live and learn
    Ron: I just don't feel like going out tonight
    Sammi: Wanna just break up?

  • RockinInCanada
    RockinInCanada Posts: 2,016
    metsfan531941 wrote:
    oh it so was cruel, i was even gonna fly to where she lived and see if it was real. like i wouldnt of known by her looks that she was older once i saw her in person. she told me her fake age first and then gave me a pic of her so i believed the age she was tellin me.u live and learn

    Well at least you found out before you flew to see her...that is harsh....but at least your prepared if something similar comes along again....any reason she lied? Crazy?
  • RockinInCanada
    RockinInCanada Posts: 2,016
    comebackgirl wrote:
    as long as not ALL your friendships are online haha

    Yep that woudl be pretty weird...sadly there a people like that and I tell you that weirds me out....as people we need face to face interaction I believe holding that away from yourself is somewhat dehumanizing yourself in a way....
  • Gary Carter
    Gary Carter Posts: 14,077
    Rockin'InCanada wrote:
    Well at least you found out before you flew to see her...that is harsh....but at least your prepared if something similar comes along again....any reason she lied? Crazy?
    yeah i know it was harsh, yeah iam prepared but now like i cant even trust the friends i have made on here cause of it, my guard is always up now. i have no idea why she lied, i guess she didnt think id wanna be friends with an older woman.
    Ron: I just don't feel like going out tonight
    Sammi: Wanna just break up?

  • RockinInCanada
    RockinInCanada Posts: 2,016
    metsfan531941 wrote:
    yeah i know it was harsh, yeah iam prepared but now like i cant even trust the friends i have made on here cause of it, my guard is always up now. i have no idea why she lied, i guess she didnt think id wanna be friends with an older woman.

    Did you meet her over this message board?

    Cause I find people here to be very honest and forward....at least like I said those that I have met person to person....
  • Gary Carter
    Gary Carter Posts: 14,077
    Rockin'InCanada wrote:
    Did you meet her over this message board?

    Cause I find people here to be very honest and forward....at least like I said those that I have met person to person....
    yes i did meet her on this message board, thats what bugs me bout it all.she knew how old i was, its right there in my profile and yet she still wanted to play games with me.
    Ron: I just don't feel like going out tonight
    Sammi: Wanna just break up?

  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    Rockin'InCanada wrote:
    Did you meet her over this message board?

    Cause I find people here to be very honest and forward....at least like I said those that I have met person to person....
    Fortunately I've had the same experience....except with one freak who exposed himself to me :eek: but fortunately I never met him in person :p I think if you want to take a friendship/relationship to the next level it's probably important to move it beyond the online world...but if you're satisfied with it as just an online friendship that's fine too. I guess it's all a matter of what you're looking for.
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    AllNiteThing wrote:
    I dig ANY chick who likes PJ and has that same 'crazy' and insatiable appetite that I do for them. Every girl I've met from this board is both unique and attractive in their own way. I can't deny that I have a soft spot for all of them. ;)


    aww....you like me the best, though, right???
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • MrBrian
    MrBrian Posts: 2,672
    small town beck wrote:
    Very well said. But yes the downside is the lack of any physical connection/acitivity :(

    a couple of years ago this girl on these forums sent me a photo of her jugs, so I dunno so much about the forums lacking a connection. point being, if an effort is made to connect, it can be done.
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    So, I'm at a loss with this guy I'm 'dating'. I need help! I so cannot figure him out.

    We went out on Saturday...great date! Even got some kisses (not french) and he called the next night. Sunday night we talked for an hour and a half. I called him yesterday and left a message. He called me back a little later (I was sleeping) and then I called him and we talked for another half hour until The Office was on. The problem...???...

    He hasn't asked me out again. I don't get it. He's obviously interested, right???
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • tobbac
    tobbac Posts: 234
    im at a loss....odd behaviour....if he wasnt youd think there'd be no talking....maybe he doesnt know what his next move is....

    sidenote: my daughter just screamed out the " of the worrrrrrrrlllldddd" part in chicken little....caught me off guard lol....
    You ain't-never seen no one like me
    Prevail-regardless what the cost might be
    Power-flows inside of me, you can't bring me
    Never-fall as long as I try
    Refuse-to be a part of your lie
    Even-if it means I die, you can't bring me
    You...can't...bring...me...down!
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    tobbac wrote:
    im at a loss....odd behaviour....if he wasnt youd think there'd be no talking....maybe he doesnt know what his next move is....

    sidenote: my daughter just screamed out the " of the worrrrrrrrlllldddd" part in chicken little....caught me off guard lol....

    Kids are hilarious...and totally random! :) Give her a hug for me.

    Yeah, I'm totally getting mixed signals from him. Guys are so confusing!!!!
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • tobbac
    tobbac Posts: 234
    AmentsChick wrote:
    Guys are so confusing!!!!


    well if that aint the pot calling the kettle black :eek:
    You ain't-never seen no one like me
    Prevail-regardless what the cost might be
    Power-flows inside of me, you can't bring me
    Never-fall as long as I try
    Refuse-to be a part of your lie
    Even-if it means I die, you can't bring me
    You...can't...bring...me...down!
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    tobbac wrote:
    well if that aint the pot calling the kettle black :eek:

    Excuse me?! I'm the most open and straight-forward person you'd ever meet. Seriously!
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

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