i've mentioned many times on the board what is happening but it falls on deaf ears. there's a great building of resentment because of illegal immigration; and to some extent, affirmative action. your son was mistaken for mexican. i believe it's only going to get worse for him and it may be best to just tell him the truth so he's prepared for the future as this comes to a head. america has used affirmative action to discriminate against whites and the whites are fighting back. that's the entire problem in one sentence.
he was not mistaken for mexican the kid new my son from last year and when he saw him walk into the gym class he said hey MATIAS you MEXICAN NIGGER GO BACK TO MEXICO. he associated hi's name with being MEXICAN if this kid didn't know my son from the previous year he would of not known he was from spanish heritage .......
yeah there is alot of that here on long island, but my strategy will be to raise awearness to this problem if the problem persist with my son and those kids specially if i feel that the school is draginn their feet on this matter .....
That's a very positive gameplan! I wish you luck to take down those racist bastards in the best way possible, by exposing the problem and attempting to correct it! I wish you the best of luck!
"The leads are weak!"
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
thanks for all the feedback to all who have responded it has broaden my horizons and i hope i can turn this ugly situation into a positive one will keep evryone posted on this matter as things happen here thanks ........
thanks for all the feedback to all who have responded it has broaden my horizons and i hope i can turn this ugly situation into a positive one will keep evryone posted on this matter as things happen here thanks ........
Good luck! I look foward to hearing how it all turns out!
"The opposite of a fact is falsehood, but the opposite of one profound truth may very well be another profound truth." ~ Niels Bohr
thanks for all the feedback to all who have responded it has broaden my horizons and i hope i can turn this ugly situation into a positive one will keep evryone posted on this matter as things happen here thanks ........
No problem! I just noticed your location which pretty much says it all!
"The leads are weak!"
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
No problem! I just noticed your location which pretty much says it all![/quote
yeah it does apply and that is how i really feel about this place but for now i will stay put since my whole family lives here specially my parents and siblings .........
i mean if the kids did not know hi's name they would never suspect he is half spanish he has light blonde hair pale skin not spanish looking at all ,does that make any sense .......
Sort of. I just assume everybody's mixed - which they are - and then I do not have to waste pointless time and energy trying to figure them out.
The only people we should try to get even with...
...are those who've helped us.
Right 'round the corner could be bigger than ourselves.
Sort of. I just assume everybody's mixed - which they are - and then I do not have to waste pointless time and energy trying to figure them out.
well i did not know i would have to deal with this sort of problem at all yeah people are of mixed races but sometimes it's ovious to what race or heritage people are from that is what i meant by "he looks american ' i should of refrased my quote ......
he was not mistaken for mexican the kid new my son from last year and when he saw him walk into the gym class he said hey MATIAS you MEXICAN NIGGER GO BACK TO MEXICO. he associated hi's name with being MEXICAN if this kid didn't know my son from the previous year he would of not known he was from spanish heritage .......
You seem more disturbed that the kid knew your son was of spanish blood, then the fact that he got called a name. The fact that he was lumped in as mexican seems to have brought you to near shame.
ignorant, racist hatred is directed "collectively" at a people.
Your son could have had a non-spanish sounding name, and looked white, it would not have prevented anyone from calling him a racial slur in just knowing that spanish people lived in the house with him.
The fact is that there will always be someone, somewhere who will remind your son that he is a minority. How YOU teach him about his heritage will help him to better deal with this type of crap. A teacher can only do so much. If he keeps fighting, he becomes the problem. If you keep whining he becomes the "girl".
If the majority of people here were truly honest, they would tell you this, just because your son looks white doesn't make him white in the eyes of all people is an attitude not only used by racists, but many people in all walks of life. You bear a good deal of the blame by trying to protect him from his spanish blood. He's 13 it's not going to get easier for him to deal with, if he doesn't understand why it is happening. So he's mixed, help him to understand and accept what that means. He can't keep fighting his way through life. People will accept him, when you let him learn that he can be accepted regardless of his mixed race.
I wish you well.
SIN EATERS--We take the moral excrement we find in this equation and we bury it down deep inside of us so that the rest of our case can stay pure. That is the job. We are morally indefensible and absolutely necessary.
You seem more disturbed that the kid knew your son was of spanish blood, then the fact that he got called a name. The fact that he was lumped in as mexican seems to have brought you to near shame.
ignorant, racist hatred is directed "collectively" at a people.
Your son could have had a non-spanish sounding name, and looked white, it would not have prevented anyone from calling him a racial slur in just knowing that spanish people lived in the house with him.
The fact is that there will always be someone, somewhere who will remind your son that he is a minority. How YOU teach him about his heritage will help him to better deal with this type of crap. A teacher can only do so much. If he keeps fighting, he becomes the problem. If you keep whining he becomes the "girl".
If the majority of people here were truly honest, they would tell you this, just because your son looks white doesn't make him white in the eyes of all people is an attitude not only used by racists, but many people in all walks of life. You bear a good deal of the blame by trying to protect him from his spanish blood. He's 13 it's not going to get easier for him to deal with, if he doesn't understand why it is happening. So he's mixed, help him to understand and accept what that means. He can't keep fighting his way through life. People will accept him, when you let him learn that he can be accepted regardless of his mixed race.
I wish you well.
no not at all i'm very proud of my spanish heritage i'm disturbed with the fact that this kid used that sort of racial slurr and i would never be ashamed of being either MEXICAN ,PUERTO RICAN OR WHAT EVER SPANISH NATIONALITY and he is totally aware of his mixed heritage and if i wanted to protect him from his spanish blood i would of named him MATHEW so i don't agree with you on this at all i take it you are a parent no ??
no not at all i'm very proud of my spanish heritage i'm disturbed with the fact that this kid used that sort of racial slurr and i would never be ashamed of being either MEXICAN ,PUERTO RICAN OR WHAT EVER SPANISH NATIONALITY and he is totally aware of his mixed heritage and if i wanted to protect him from his spanish blood i would of named him MATHEW so i don't agree with you on this at all i take it you are a parent no ??
My response to you was as one adult to another adult. However, mind if I refresh your memory a little with a couple of your own parental quotes.
he did say that he believes it will happen again and if you saw him he looks totally american no sing of spanish except his name noW im hating my self for giving him the name wich i find to be beautifull , MATIAS .....
i mean if the kids did not know hi's name they would never suspect he is half spanish he has light blonde hair pale skin not spanish looking at all, does that make any sense .......
Only a parent can figure this out, I don't think so. Nor does it take a parent to understand that your anger is based on the fact that you feel it shouldn't have happened to your son because he looks white. [Here's an ugly ignorant tidbit, when a person looks even a little racially mixed, people tend to automatically assume they are mixed with black.]
What you fail to understand is that even though your son was called the name, it's just not about him, it's about your family being seen as a reminder of the "illegal immigration issue". Stop, please don't give me the - I am just as much of an American blah, blah, speech, - because you will miss the point. You will, again fail to see that the type of hate your son is experiencing doesn't care that he may look white and doesn't care that you're not from Mexico. You have been lumped in as part of an American problem. As unfair as it may seem, this is the underlying problem you have tried to ignore in your community, the underlying problem you have tried to avoid by blending in. Well, it's now in your home.
SIN EATERS--We take the moral excrement we find in this equation and we bury it down deep inside of us so that the rest of our case can stay pure. That is the job. We are morally indefensible and absolutely necessary.
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That's a very positive gameplan! I wish you luck to take down those racist bastards in the best way possible, by exposing the problem and attempting to correct it! I wish you the best of luck!
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
"What's your name?"
"FUCK YOU! THAT"S MY NAME!"
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"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
"What's your name?"
"FUCK YOU! THAT"S MY NAME!"
Sort of. I just assume everybody's mixed - which they are - and then I do not have to waste pointless time and energy trying to figure them out.
...are those who've helped us.
Right 'round the corner could be bigger than ourselves.
You seem more disturbed that the kid knew your son was of spanish blood, then the fact that he got called a name. The fact that he was lumped in as mexican seems to have brought you to near shame.
ignorant, racist hatred is directed "collectively" at a people.
Your son could have had a non-spanish sounding name, and looked white, it would not have prevented anyone from calling him a racial slur in just knowing that spanish people lived in the house with him.
The fact is that there will always be someone, somewhere who will remind your son that he is a minority. How YOU teach him about his heritage will help him to better deal with this type of crap. A teacher can only do so much. If he keeps fighting, he becomes the problem. If you keep whining he becomes the "girl".
If the majority of people here were truly honest, they would tell you this, just because your son looks white doesn't make him white in the eyes of all people is an attitude not only used by racists, but many people in all walks of life. You bear a good deal of the blame by trying to protect him from his spanish blood. He's 13 it's not going to get easier for him to deal with, if he doesn't understand why it is happening. So he's mixed, help him to understand and accept what that means. He can't keep fighting his way through life. People will accept him, when you let him learn that he can be accepted regardless of his mixed race.
I wish you well.
thats a bed post z. a good one at that.
I fucking love RBD.
Thanks Skitch. I'm glad someone was here to get this.
My response to you was as one adult to another adult. However, mind if I refresh your memory a little with a couple of your own parental quotes.
Only a parent can figure this out, I don't think so. Nor does it take a parent to understand that your anger is based on the fact that you feel it shouldn't have happened to your son because he looks white. [Here's an ugly ignorant tidbit, when a person looks even a little racially mixed, people tend to automatically assume they are mixed with black.]
What you fail to understand is that even though your son was called the name, it's just not about him, it's about your family being seen as a reminder of the "illegal immigration issue". Stop, please don't give me the - I am just as much of an American blah, blah, speech, - because you will miss the point. You will, again fail to see that the type of hate your son is experiencing doesn't care that he may look white and doesn't care that you're not from Mexico. You have been lumped in as part of an American problem. As unfair as it may seem, this is the underlying problem you have tried to ignore in your community, the underlying problem you have tried to avoid by blending in. Well, it's now in your home.