McCain busts a nut for child molesters

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  • Anon
    Anon Posts: 11,175
    spyguy wrote:
    thats horrible. where were your parents? you couldnt go to them? they never talked to you about such things?

    sounds like a fault in parenting, not fault in public schooling.
    ....

    Unbelievable. Listen to yourself. What's wrong with you.
  • spyguy
    spyguy Posts: 613
    Pj_Gurl wrote:
    ....

    Unbelievable. Listen to yourself. What's wrong with you.

    where am I going wrong? please tell me.

    if this had happened to me, I would go directly to my parents and tell them. wouldnt you?
  • inmytree
    inmytree Posts: 4,741
    and to address the whole "parents should teach there child" thing....

    for the record, I agree....but sadly, sometimes the parent is the pedophile...so, yeah, I guess the parents can be blamed in such a case...

    I guess it's a bad thing to have a safety net in place...
  • spyguy
    spyguy Posts: 613
    inmytree wrote:
    wow...

    holy fuckin shit, wow...

    I wonder where you parents were...:rolleyes:

    they were always there for me. taught me that no one should ever touch me and that I should always go to them if anyone ever did or said anything that made me uncomfortable.

    where were yours?
  • puremagic
    puremagic Posts: 1,907
    chromiam wrote:
    There are ignorant parents in every country so shouldn't this be a global law??? Nice dig at the rednecks though as if they are the only ones with problems....

    I'm not denying anyone anything, I just think that there is a line to what should be taught at school and at home. Does this cross the line? Not necessarily but spending a large chunk of classroom time teaching about things that could better be covered in small short information sessions with younger children is a waste IMO. As they get older and the issues are more complicated, devote more time.

    In many cases child abuse is occuring in the home. They give teachers the right to bring weapons to school, but you're not willing to let a qualified person come to the school and talk to children about child abuse. By time a child gets older, the damage is done.
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  • spyguy
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    inmytree wrote:
    and to address the whole "parents should teach there child" thing....

    for the record, I agree....but sadly, sometimes the parent is the pedophile...so, yeah, I guess the parents can be blamed in such a case...

    I guess it's a bad thing to have a safety net in place...

    there is absolutely nothing wrong with a safety net in place. but where do you draw the line when it comes to sexual education in public schools for 5 year olds?

    I'm all for some type of constructive way to teach such young kids the dangers of life.

    its a thin line to walk on though, no?
  • inmytree
    inmytree Posts: 4,741
    spyguy wrote:
    they were always there for me. taught me that no one should ever touch me and that I should always go to them if anyone ever did or said anything that made me uncomfortable.

    so you say...I don't believe you...
  • Strangest Tribe
    Strangest Tribe Posts: 2,502
    spyguy wrote:
    thats horrible. where were your parents? you couldnt go to them? they never talked to you about such things?

    sounds like a fault in parenting, not fault in public schooling.

    Hey jerk....

    I had great parents that (like you) probably thought they would save the sex talk for later years.
    I didn't know what a hard-on was... To me it was just my uncle being goofy. I thought he was cool, and I loved spending the summers with my aunt, uncle and their kids.

    I was raised in a crazy ass Baptist middle class family. We didn't discuss sex ever, because of religion that's why.
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  • spyguy
    spyguy Posts: 613
    Strangest Tribe wrote:
    Hey jerk....

    I had great parents that (like you) probably thought they would save the sex talk for later years.
    I didn't know what a hard-on was... To me it was just my uncle being goofy. I thought he was cool, and I loved spending the summers with my aunt, uncle and their kids.

    I was raised in a crazy ass Baptist middle class family. We didn't discuss sex ever, because of religion that's why.

    no need for name calling. I was simply asking a question. I guess I was raised differently then you...and inmytree.
  • meme
    meme Posts: 4,695
    inmytree wrote:
    and to address the whole "parents should teach there child" thing....

    for the record, I agree....but sadly, sometimes the parent is the pedophile...so, yeah, I guess the parents can be blamed in such a case...

    I guess it's a bad thing to have a safety net in place...

    It's not even that... as a foreigner I am appalled at this obsession with parents being the only point of reference in their kids' lives. When I was little my mom and dad were more than happy to let the nurses at school share with us what they are much more knowledgeable about. Beginning in elementary school. Sometimes these talk... people only get around to them when it's late, or they address these issues in a sloppy way. There are people in schools who have studied these things extensively, and the best way to communicate them to children according to their developmental stage. I don't understand what the big deal is. If it saves any woman from the tragedy of going through an abortion, I say the more the better. For some kids it will be redundant, for some it won't.
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  • Anon
    Anon Posts: 11,175
    spyguy wrote:
    where am I going wrong? please tell me.

    if this had happened to me, I would go directly to my parents and tell them. wouldnt you?
    If you can't see what you said was wrong, then i give up.
    When i was 7, i'd had the 'stranger danger talk', from my parents, and they had talked to me about people talking 'inappropriately to me or touching me where they shouldn't and things like that. Sure. But i can tell you that if someone mentioned things like 'hard on' to me or 'show us your pussy', i would've thought they were talking about a freaking pussy cat. How the hell would i know that was inappropriate talk? Now, do you get it a bit clearer now? You have no right to criticize stangest tribes parents. No right.
  • cincybearcat
    cincybearcat Posts: 16,975
    inmytree wrote:
    hey, if you want to be pro-pedophile, that's on you...

    sounds to me like "you guys" may like little girls too much....


    We all know that you just like little boys so much and want a better experience with them, that's why you want them to be "educated".

    Keep on keepin on with the bs comments...you crossed the line.
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  • chromiam
    chromiam Posts: 4,114
    puremagic wrote:
    In many cases child abuse is occuring in the home. They give teachers the right to bring weapons to school, but you're not willing to let a qualified person come to the school and talk to children about child abuse. By time a child gets older, the damage is done.

    Where did I say I wouldn't let a qualified person talk to children about child abuse??? I said that a full classtime everyweek during the school year should't be allocated to sex education for young children. I see no problems with having monthly presentations about sexual issues to young children but not a permanent weekly class.

    And where did I say I supported teachers having weapons in schools???
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  • spyguy
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    Pj_Gurl wrote:
    If you can't see what you said was wrong, then i give up.
    When i was 7, i'd had the 'stranger danger talk', from my parents, and they had talked to me about people talking 'inappropriately to me or touching me where they shouldn't and things like that. Sure. But i can tell you that if someone mentioned things like 'hard on' to me or 'show us your pussy', i would've thought they were talking about a freaking pussy cat. How the hell would i know that was inappropriate talk? Now, do you get it a bit clearer now? You have no right to criticize stangest tribes parents. No right.

    well apparently his parents didnt talk about such things for religious reasons. sorry but thats a fault of theirs IMO.
  • inmytree
    inmytree Posts: 4,741
    cincybearcat wrote:
    We all know that you just like little boys so much and want a better experience with them, that's why you want them to be "educated".

    Keep on keepin on with the bs comments...you crossed the line.

    what line...?

    clowns in the mchouse camp want to make it look like obama wants to teach 5 year old about fucking...which is bullshit...and when supporters get some push back...suddenly a line is crossed....

    for the record...children should be kept safe...plan and simple...to me, giving a child some information that will keep them safe is a good thing, not a bad thing...

    the true bs here came from the mchouse camp...of course, they get a free pass....
  • Strangest Tribe
    Strangest Tribe Posts: 2,502
    It's difficult to discuss sex with your children. It's uncomfortable because they are naturally curious. So as a parent I found myself conflicted about what to say to my son because I knew he would repeat it and most likely he'd repeat it at school or to some other kid whose parents had kept them in the dark with the sex ed stuff.
    I was always afraid that another parent or teacher would call angry about what I had been teaching my boy.

    I would have welcomed some help. But sex is so stigmaed in this country it makes you paranoid about what is appropriate.
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  • inmytree
    inmytree Posts: 4,741
    spyguy wrote:
    no need for name calling. I was simply asking a question. I guess I was raised differently then you...and inmytree.

    hey, ms. mature, I pm box is open if you want to get personal....
  • digster
    digster Posts: 1,293
    Regardless of the differing positions on the issue, and it is certainly an issue on whether this is appropriate, can we all be non-partisan and agree that the way the McCain camp spun this is absolutely ludicrous?
  • spyguy
    spyguy Posts: 613
    Strangest Tribe wrote:
    It's difficult to discuss sex with your children. It's uncomfortable because they are naturally curious. So as a parent I found myself conflicted about what to say to my son because I knew he would repeat it and most likely he'd repeat it at school or to some other kid whose parents had kept them in the dark with the sex we stuff.
    I was always afraid that another parent or teacher would call angry about what I had been teaching my boy.

    I would have welcomed some help. But sex is so stigmaed in this country it makes you paranoid about what is appropriate.

    there are people you can reach out to for advice, parents, doctors, child psychiatrists, child abuse organizations, etc.....I agree its a touchy subject to talk about and very difficult to do correctly. as a parent, you should reach out for help and advice. just a thought.
  • spyguy
    spyguy Posts: 613
    chiefojibwa wrote:
    and who suffers then? THE FUCKING CHILD, THAT'S WHO.

    the child suffers for the parents not talking about such things. I completely agree.

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