Ever develop a crush on someone from here?

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  • smithnic
    smithnic Posts: 1,565
    There are way too many to even begin to mention that I have had mad board crushes upon.
    Go Get 'Em Tigers!
  • Trailer
    Trailer Posts: 1,431
    How do people develop crushes on what other people write??? I need to see and hang out with the person before I can tell if I like them..
    Whoa, chill bro... you know you can't raise your voice like that when the lion's here.
  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    Trailer wrote:
    How do people develop crushes on what other people write??? I need to see and hang out with the person before I can tell if I like them..

    Guess it depends on what they write doesn't it Trailer? :)

    Words are very powerful.
    NOPE!!!

    *~You're IT Bert!~*

    Hold on to the thread
    The currents will shift
  • igotid88
    igotid88 Posts: 28,656
    TrixieCat wrote:
    why yes, i have, thank you for asking trixiecat...but he lives oh so far away....
    :(


    nyc isn't that far from ct.
    I miss igotid88
  • igotid88
    igotid88 Posts: 28,656
    i have for a few. Some by their words. Others by seeing pics.
    I miss igotid88
  • Trailer
    Trailer Posts: 1,431
    Jeanie wrote:
    Guess it depends on what they write doesn't it Trailer? :)

    Words are very powerful.

    I somewhat understand what you're saying.

    For the past few months I've been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend, and nothing compares to when I get my daily emails from her! They seriously make my day and remind me how much I love her:D... however I know her! I don't know if they would mean that much if they were from someone I've never met.

    But your a girl, and I'm a guy :)
    Whoa, chill bro... you know you can't raise your voice like that when the lion's here.
  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    Trailer wrote:
    I somewhat understand what you're saying.

    For the past few months I've been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend, and nothing compares to when I get my daily emails from her! They seriously make my day and remind me how much I love her:D... however I know her! I don't know if they would mean that much if they were from someone I've never met.

    But your a girl, and I'm a guy : )

    And I can see what you're saying too, it does seem implausible to develop a crush on someone that you haven't physically met in person, but I view friendships made here or connections and crushes as just another way of "meeting" people. I've made some very good friends here, some of whom I've met and some that I have yet to meet. If it's possible to make friends then it's highly possible to develop a "crush". :) I mean way back in the day people did develop quite intimate relationships with each other by corresponding. For example, if you think about things like the wars and how women would write to soldiers as part of supporting the war effort, I do believe that many of those people did eventually meet when the war was over and end up marrying and having lives together. And all they had was letters and photos to start their "romance". People develop connections with people that they've only ever spoken to over the phone during a working day and a lot of them end up meeting and being together. People meet in lots of different ways. Some people end up together after meeting in a drunken exchange in a bar. I mean what on earth they learn about each other while they're hammered that is enough to sustain a relationship afterward, who's to say? All kinds of things bring people together and sometimes in the strangest of circumstances. The internet is just another meeting point.

    I bet you had feelings for your girl long before you actually told her. :)
    Well I guess "talking" to people over then internet forces you to actually spend the time discussing things with each other and finding commanalities that you perhaps wouldn't find if you were face to face with the other person. The very nature of the communication tends to make it more intimate and personal than it would be if you were standing face to face. You are more likely to say what's really on your mind because you only have words. And sure you could be talking to some Russian mobster in Vladivostok that's hoping to drag you in to his slave ring, but then people have been known to marry and live their whole lives with axe murderers and not know it. :eek: You can only develop a friendship and learn about each other as the information comes up, regardless of if the person is standing in front of you or simply "talking" to you online. You judge each bit of information as it comes to you. And over time you do develop a sense of the person you are communicating with.

    I bet your relationship with your girl has become more cerebral since you have been apart and are forced to communicate only by words. I bet you guys are developing a great sense of each other and enhancing your communication simply because you only have the email at this point.

    I do understand what you're saying, I'm just saying that when it comes to the heart, anything is possible. :)
    NOPE!!!

    *~You're IT Bert!~*

    Hold on to the thread
    The currents will shift
  • Trailer
    Trailer Posts: 1,431
    Jeanie wrote:
    And I can see what you're saying too, it does seem implausible to develop a crush on someone that you haven't physically met in person, but I view friendships made here or connections and crushes as just another way of "meeting" people. I've made some very good friends here, some of whom I've met and some that I have yet to meet. If it's possible to make friends then it's highly possible to develop a "crush". :) I mean way back in the day people did develop quite intimate relationships with each other by corresponding. For example, if you think about things like the wars and how women would write to soldiers as part of supporting the war effort, I do believe that many of those people did eventually meet when the war was over and end up marrying and having lives together. And all they had was letters and photos to start their "romance". People develop connections with people that they've only ever spoken to over the phone during a working day and a lot of them end up meeting and being together. People meet in lots of different ways. Some people end up together after meeting in a drunken exchange in a bar. I mean what on earth they learn about each other while they're hammered that is enough to sustain a relationship afterward, who's to say? All kinds of things bring people together and sometimes in the strangest of circumstances. The internet is just another meeting point.

    I bet you had feelings for your girl long before you actually told her. :)
    Well I guess "talking" to people over then internet forces you to actually spend the time discussing things with each other and finding commanalities that you perhaps wouldn't find if you were face to face with the other person. The very nature of the communication tends to make it more intimate and personal than it would be if you were standing face to face. You are more likely to say what's really on your mind because you only have words. And sure you could be talking to some Russian mobster in Vladivostok that's hoping to drag you in to his slave ring, but then people have been known to marry and live their whole lives with axe murderers and not know it. :eek: You can only develop a friendship and learn about each other as the information comes up, regardless of if the person is standing in front of you or simply "talking" to you online. You judge each bit of information as it comes to you. And over time you do develop a sense of the person you are communicating with.

    I bet your relationship with your girl has become more cerebral since you have been apart and are forced to communicate only by words. I bet you guys are developing a great sense of each other and enhancing your communication simply because you only have the email at this point.

    I do understand what you're saying, I'm just saying that when it comes to the heart, anything is possible. :)

    WOW... I think I have a crush on you!! hahahahaa
    Whoa, chill bro... you know you can't raise your voice like that when the lion's here.
  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    Trailer wrote:
    WOW... I think I have a crush on you!! hahahahaa

    :D LMAO!! See? It's easy isn't it? ;)
    NOPE!!!

    *~You're IT Bert!~*

    Hold on to the thread
    The currents will shift
  • TrixieCat
    TrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    Yes, Trixiecat...thank you for asking....yes, I have.
    Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
    And I don't feel right when you're gone away
  • NY PJ1
    NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    TrixieCat wrote:
    Yes, Trixiecat...thank you for asking....yes, I have.
    fess up
  • Gary Carter
    Gary Carter Posts: 14,077
    TrixieCat wrote:
    Yes, Trixiecat...thank you for asking....yes, I have.
    yeah fess up, lets see who you have crushes on
    Ron: I just don't feel like going out tonight
    Sammi: Wanna just break up?

  • NY PJ1
    NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    metsfan531941 wrote:
    yeah fess up, lets see who you have crushes on


    i like a few of the girls here.. albeit in a friend sort of way

    but naming names is wrong imo

    besides the ones left out,, will be heartbroken lol haha
  • Gary Carter
    Gary Carter Posts: 14,077
    NY PJ1 wrote:
    i like a few of the girls here

    but naming names is wrong imo

    besides the ones left out,, will be heartbroken lol haha
    no its not, i named a few in here
    Ron: I just don't feel like going out tonight
    Sammi: Wanna just break up?

  • TrixieCat
    TrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    metsfan531941 wrote:
    yeah fess up, lets see who you have crushes on
    no way...:o
    Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
    And I don't feel right when you're gone away
  • Gary Carter
    Gary Carter Posts: 14,077
    TrixieCat wrote:
    no way...:o
    you can pm the names, i swear ill never tell anyone.just kidding around with you
    Ron: I just don't feel like going out tonight
    Sammi: Wanna just break up?

  • NY PJ1
    NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    metsfan531941 wrote:
    no its not, i named a few in here


    haha u hit on every girl here lol
  • Gary Carter
    Gary Carter Posts: 14,077
    NY PJ1 wrote:
    haha u hit on every girl here lol
    and like you dont please, its funny how were the 2 most known names for hitting on girls and where from the same area. dude theres a difference between having a crush and flirting
    Ron: I just don't feel like going out tonight
    Sammi: Wanna just break up?

  • TrixieCat
    TrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    metsfan531941 wrote:
    you can pm the names, i swear ill never tell anyone.just kidding around with you
    riiiiight.
    ;)
    Glad you are back. :)
    Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
    And I don't feel right when you're gone away
  • NY PJ1
    NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    metsfan531941 wrote:
    and like you dont please, its funny how were the 2 most known names for hitting on girls and where from the same area. dude theres a difference between having a crush and flirting


    its well known i love all girls ,what can i say,,, im a man

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