why is life so hard

libragirl

Slip Kid wrote:

Its a struggle to see the silver lining, sometimes its not so clear

We can all be our worst enemy

Also true.. i'm not in the right frame of mind but enjoying myself

go figure[/quote]



I hope you feel better. Sorry about the job or whatever.

CROJAM95

Slip Kid wrote:

Its a struggle to see the silver lining, sometimes its not so clear

We can all be our worst enemy

Also true.. i'm not in the right frame of mind but enjoying myself

go figure[/quote]

I'm guilty of this as well. Gotta fight through it. I sometimes think, shit how am I going to get the strength to carry on, somehow I do

Slip Kid

CROJAM95 wrote:

Also true.. i'm not in the right frame of mind but enjoying myself

go figure

I'm guilty of this as well. Gotta fight through it. I sometimes think, shit how am I going to get the strength to carry on, somehow I do[/quote]

True

Plus listening to music helps a great deal

right now im listening to Leaving Here

CROJAM95

During this thread I've gone from Red Mosquito to Dissident

Whats Next

How does that work?

BTW my food just got here, gonna eat, play one more game of Tiger Woods...off to bed

Good Night Everyone

LONGRD

CROJAM95 wrote:

During this thread I've gone from Red Mosquito to Dissident

Whats Next

How does that work?

BTW my food just got here, gonna eat, play one more game of Tiger Woods...off to bed

Good Night Everyone

Food sounds really good right now.

I think I got left over KFC for snacks.

Slip Kid, listen to this, it'll make you hungry.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rSFjK8KctW4

libragirl

CROJAM95 wrote:

During this thread I've gone from Red Mosquito to Dissident

Whats Next

How does that work?

BTW my food just got here, gonna eat, play one more game of Tiger Woods...off to bed

Good Night Everyone

nighty night!

illegal pants

oh take me back to the start...

catefrances

life is so hard cause people keep getting in the fucking way.

writersu

chadwick wrote:

pretty much..
positive energy gd it..
emit, it's all about what one emits..
be free of it all unless it bleeds...
nothing matters, for the most part,,,unless it bleeds
live life as a child of laughter
be as carefree as a dandelion butterfly summer sky
who really gives a fuck about much of anything??? everybody does..
that sucks man...
my thinking..unless it bleeds, i don't care..
education bleeds, = it is striving to learn, a struggle bleeds..
a big screen tv sucks ass in every room of some fuckers mansion...

things like this..

That is a great way to look at life. I have never heard it put that way before but I have thought about it when life is draining me mostly because there are people in my life , who are not even the primary people in my life (my kids are the only primary people in my life) who do things that are so rude and hurtful, that you not only end up hurt if you take them in but you also end up bleeding all over the innocnt people that don't have a thing to do with it.

Collin

One of my friends lost his father last year. His mother died two days ago. He is 18 and has two younger siblings. It put things into perspective, doesn't it.

Life is hard. Society is hard and cold. At times I have felt so utterly alone and lonely... those moments when you're spent, when you're completely broken and can't carry yourself anymore, when you can't even fake a smile anymore... You feel so completely alone like no one could possible understand the hardships you are going through, or they just don't care enough to listen.

I think if everyone just made a little more time for each other, made time to listen to each other it would help a lot. A friend told me how she knew who her real friends were. They are the ones who ask 'how are you' twice, the second time they'll say; 'no, really, how are you' and they'd be willing to listen - and not just wait their turn to speak.

I think most people don't want to take on the weight of other people's problems because they have their own problems and worries. But I think they've got it backwards. I think by sharing and talking and listening you do not add weight but you lift weight together and I think that's easier.

But people just worry too much about nothing. People should learn to worry less.

I am an old man and have known a great many troubles, but most of them never happened. ~Mark Twain

We can easily manage if we will only take, each day, the burden appointed to it. But the load will be too heavy for us if we carry yesterday's burden over again today, and then add the burden of the morrow before we are required to bear it. ~John Newton

given2fly78

The past 7 years have really been a whirlwind for me, not always good either. But I always keep in mind a few things....

1. I'm where I'm meant to be
2. Each experience - good or bad - has made me a stronger person
3. Each time I get dealt a blow, I look for the positive outcome, even if I have to dig deep
4. It could always be worse...even if it doesn't feel like it.

Trust me, I'm no Rah Rah type of girl either. But I'm pretty positive even when it feels like the world is shitting on me. But I try and put it all in perspective. And after watching my dad go through a massive brain aneurysm, I've realized how many blessings I've been given. And that when one door closes another opens. I make my own destiny.

Sorry you are having a hard time, it will get better!

chadwick

writersu wrote:

That is a great way to look at life. I have never heard it put that way before but I have thought about it when life is draining me mostly because there are people in my life , who are not even the primary people in my life (my kids are the only primary people in my life) who do things that are so rude and hurtful, that you not only end up hurt if you take them in but you also end up bleeding all over the innocnt people that don't have a thing to do with it.

ppl or kids, can always get their asses kicked, yes/no?
haha

Vedd Hedd

libragirl wrote:

I don't think I believe in karma anymore. I think it's just random.

Amen to that.

Vedd Hedd

LikeAnOcean wrote:

Because you make it hard?

Thats what she said?

PJaddicted

CROJAM95 wrote:

This last year has by far been the worst of my life, lost my Dad

When times get tough, surround yourself with people you love and remember we all have problems

Hang in there

So very sorry for your great loss. Until you lose someone you love, you really don't know how bad life can get. I've had quite a bit of loss over the last decade, a few close friends, relatives...but it was the death of my dad that took me out for over eighteen months. It is also the death that made me realize that we have to live for the moment, that there are no guarantees in this life and that everything changes constantly. I have my health, my hubby and my children.....I truly have it all for the moment, I refuse to take any of that for granted ever again. I wish that I could have just one more day with my dad....just so I could tell him how much I love him, how important he was to me, to look at his face one last time and to hug him. He is now in my heart and I try and feel that love the best that I can.

oxc

writersu

chadwick wrote:

ppl or kids, can always get their asses kicked, yes/no?
haha

yeah, and I am prob the only mom who responds with this when their kids threaten to call DCFS if I want to smack them,

"Go ahead. I have a letter."

patrickredeyes

Life plain fucking sucks today. :(

dunkman

life isnt hard... its a walk in the park.

libragirl

patrickredeyes wrote:

Life plain fucking sucks today. :(

Im sorry. :(

pjtaper

ugh, my friend I went to the 06 Chicago shows with hung himself on friday... haven't talked to him since the day of the show.