why is life so hard

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  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    Abookamongstthemany wrote:
    I think karma is pretty random in itself...just the underlying theory stays the same. And I also think it is directly linked to your outlook of it and how much you
    doubt verses how much you stay positive. Because great things happen all the time in people's lives but they overlook it, are afraid to go for what they really want, don't appreciate things for what they are or can be, are busy wanting more or looking elsewhere...whatever the case may be...because their outlook is so negative and doubtful, they miss all the wonderful things happening around them which leads them to dismiss their life as misery. Life is beautiful...you just have to look around and find what makes that fact true for you.

    pretty much..
    positive energy gd it..
    emit, it's all about what one emits..
    be free of it all unless it bleeds...
    nothing matters, for the most part,,,unless it bleeds
    live life as a child of laughter
    be as carefree as a dandelion butterfly summer sky
    who really gives a fuck about much of anything??? everybody does..
    that sucks man...
    my thinking..unless it bleeds, i don't care..
    education bleeds, = it is striving to learn, a struggle bleeds..
    a big screen tv sucks ass in every room of some fuckers mansion...

    things like this..
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."
    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    Abookamongstthemany wrote:
    Aww. Thank you! :)

    The alcohol is helping. I'll ramble on and on. :p

    please, ramble on :D
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    Slip Kid...if it makes you feel any better and this is assuming you care at all about me...I haven't exactly been on a pleasure cruise.

    Like I said you can always talk to me...you know my number or email ..whatever. I can't be a bitch forever.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • Abookamongstthemany
    Abookamongstthemany Posts: 8,209
    libragirl wrote:
    jeez..am I the only sober one on here tonight..damn Im a loser!

    depends on how you look at it. :p
    libragirl wrote:
    lol...But yeah..I venture in MT sometimes but frankly that place scares me so I really don't post there. :o

    that's certainly understandable....it still scares me, even. :D
    If you want to tell people the truth, make them laugh, otherwise they'll kill you.

    Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth.
    -Oscar Wilde
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    Abookamongstthemany wrote:
    depends on how you look at it. :p




    that's certainly understandable....it still scares me, even. :D

    Im just not very good at debating...I will know what I want to say but it will come out all like "YOUR WRONG...IM RIGHT" ..lol
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • Abookamongstthemany
    Abookamongstthemany Posts: 8,209
    Slip Kid wrote:
    It doesn't pay the bills though. haha

    I know what you're saying and it's true.

    It's just hard to see it sometimes

    It can. :)

    But I know exactly what you're saying. I will be the first to say it's much easier to give advice than to follow through with always living that way. It takes a certain amount of determination to implement these life altering perspective changes...and I know all about how easy it can be to forget what you know to be true and slip back...it's never easy.
    If you want to tell people the truth, make them laugh, otherwise they'll kill you.

    Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth.
    -Oscar Wilde
  • Abookamongstthemany
    Abookamongstthemany Posts: 8,209
    libragirl wrote:
    Im just not very good at debating...I will know what I want to say but it will come out all like "YOUR WRONG...IM RIGHT" ..lol

    That's basically what goes down on the AMT everyday, actually. hahaha It's just some can get really wordy about it. :)
    If you want to tell people the truth, make them laugh, otherwise they'll kill you.

    Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth.
    -Oscar Wilde
  • Abookamongstthemany
    Abookamongstthemany Posts: 8,209
    cutback wrote:
    please, ramble on :D

    Thanks cutback :)

    My dad can still beat up yours, though ;)
    If you want to tell people the truth, make them laugh, otherwise they'll kill you.

    Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth.
    -Oscar Wilde
  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    Abookamongstthemany wrote:
    Thanks cutback :)

    My dad can still beat up yours, though ;)


    hehehe...i'm glad you caught that :p:D:D
  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    One of my favorite motivational/touching speeches . :)
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ePXlkqkFH6s

    1: laugh
    2: think
    3: cry (tears of happiness and joy)
    PJ- 04/29/2003.06/24,25,27,28,30/2008.10/27,28,30,31/2009
    EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
  • LikeAnOcean
    LikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    Because you make it hard?
  • Abookamongstthemany
    Abookamongstthemany Posts: 8,209
    cutback wrote:
    hehehe...i'm glad you caught that :p:D:D

    Yeah...those kind of posts help pull me outta the thick of things and say 'is it even worth it to bother with some people when they obviously aren't concerned about exchanging thoughts and opinions but rather they are just trying to stir the shit?' I still get sucked in sometimes. :o Maybe it's the fighter in me thinking I'll make a difference and get through somehow...oooooops, rambling again :D
    If you want to tell people the truth, make them laugh, otherwise they'll kill you.

    Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth.
    -Oscar Wilde
  • CROJAM95
    CROJAM95 Posts: 10,981
    LongRd. wrote:
    One of my favorite motivational/touching speeches . :)
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ePXlkqkFH6s

    1: laugh
    2: think
    3: cry (tears of happiness and joy)

    Jimmy V was a genuine guy

    My Dad died of Cancer Dec. 16th 2007, he had that spirit
  • Slip Kid
    Slip Kid Posts: 1,175
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    Because you make it hard?

    I suppose in some regards this could be true

    I'm not trying to say i have it THAT bad but it just sucks at times

    many of you though have good outlooks
    I just don't trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die.
  • LikeAnOcean
    LikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    Slip Kid wrote:
    I suppose in some regards this could be true

    I'm not trying to say i have it THAT bad but it just sucks at times

    many of you though have good outlooks
    Good PJ quote.. "It's all state of mind"..

    When things are in the shitter, pull back for a second, take a deep breath, think about how much worse they COULD be, think about how they WILL get better.. life is what you make it.

    That kind of thinking is what helps me out.. and of course the occasional alcoholic beverage. :p
  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    CROJAM95 wrote:
    Jimmy V was a genuine guy

    My Dad died of Cancer Dec. 16th 2007, he had that spirit
    I watch his speech every time I'm feeling down/depressed.

    He died about two months later after the speech but seeing how joyful he was about life makes me want to live regardless of how depressed I am.
    PJ- 04/29/2003.06/24,25,27,28,30/2008.10/27,28,30,31/2009
    EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
  • CROJAM95
    CROJAM95 Posts: 10,981
    many of you though have good outlooks[/quote]

    Its a struggle to see the silver lining, sometimes its not so clear

    We can all be our worst enemy
  • Slip Kid
    Slip Kid Posts: 1,175
    CROJAM95 wrote:
    many of you though have good outlooks

    Its a struggle to see the silver lining, sometimes its not so clear

    We can all be our worst enemy[/quote]


    Also true.. i'm not in the right frame of mind but enjoying myself

    go figure
    I just don't trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die.
  • CROJAM95
    CROJAM95 Posts: 10,981
    LongRd. wrote:
    I watch his speech every time I'm feeling down/depressed.

    He died about two months later after the speech but seeing how joyful he was about life makes me want to live regardless of how depressed I am.

    I remember this speech

    I was 13 at the time and a kid in my class actually did a report on this
  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    Abookamongstthemany wrote:
    Yeah...those kind of posts help pull me outta the thick of things and say 'is it even worth it to bother with some people when they obviously aren't concerned about exchanging thoughts and opinions but rather they are just trying to stir the shit?' I still get sucked in sometimes. :o Maybe it's the fighter in me thinking I'll make a difference and get through somehow...oooooops, rambling again :D


    keep fighting....and keep rambling...:)

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