Will one of you girls ask me out already???

mookie9999

TrixieCat wrote:

But apparently this one did as you used the edit feature.

Kirsten Dunst is a tough name to type one handed whilst suffocating yourself with your other hand.

ACCBootlegGoddess

Saturnal wrote:

I'd prefer polite, but I'm not seeing where the crazy label is coming from. How does not paying attention to you for the rest of the night = thinking you're a crazy girl?

This label is more for when I am asking I guy I know...ie a co-worker or acquaintance. You still have to see them and deal with them. If I take a risk and ask someone like that out...THATS where the label comes in for me. (see my other example in my first post).

If I'm at a club or something and I ask a stranger...thats nothing. I am ok with him not bothering me for the rest of the night cause honestly after being turned down (if its rudely and I get the he's not into me vibe) I'll be ignoring him too.

I'm not the kind of girl that holds out hope that a guy will change his mind if i am getting the "I'm not interested" vibes or anything like that. I accept that he doesn't like me and I move on.

Malcolm...I think part of the reason for no offers in this thread is that nobody knows where the heck you are. I have to work on V Day so I'm not asking anyone out for that...but if you tell us what state you live in...maybe your luck might change.

lalalalaaaaaaaa

ACCBootlegGoddess wrote:

This label is more for when I am asking I guy I know...ie a co-worker or acquaintance. You still have to see them and deal with them. If I take a risk and ask someone like that out...THATS where the label comes in for me. (see my other example in my first post).

If I'm at a club or something and I ask a stranger...thats nothing. I am ok with him not bothering me for the rest of the night cause honestly after being turned down (if its rudely and I get the he's not into me vibe) I'll be ignoring him too.

I'm not the kind of girl that holds out hope that a guy will change his mind if i am getting the "I'm not interested" vibes or anything like that. I accept that he doesn't like me and I move on.

Malcolm...I think part of the reason for no offers in this thread is that nobody knows where the heck you are. I have to work on V Day so I'm not asking anyone out for that...but if you tell us what state you live in...maybe your luck might change.

Ah ok...like someone you know treating you differently after you ask them, when they were friendly before then. Yea, that sucks.

norm

i've just skimed the thread so i'm not sure if it's been metioned but

malcom you sound desparate and girls can tell if you are....relax, be yourself.....try the online dating....just cuz your sister had a bad experience doesn't mean you will....:)

norm

Saturnal wrote:

Ah ok...like someone you know treating you differently after you ask them, when they were friendly before then. Yea, that sucks.

yea i didn't get it either.....but that's probably because i wouldn't do that....seems pretty childish to me....

GreenTeaDisease

Saturnal wrote:

Ah ok...like someone you know treating you differently after you ask them, when they were friendly before then. Yea, that sucks.

yeah this is what I was talking about too.

Heineken Helen

Rygar wrote:

Honestly I have never heard of this from a male perspective in this type of scenario.

Me neither . I think some guys are either INTO women making the first move... or they're not... and some don't mind either way... then there are those who are taken off guard cos it really doesn't happen very often.

I've only asked a couple of guys out and haven't been turned down thankfully!

Heineken Helen

ACCBootlegGoddess wrote:

This label is more for when I am asking I guy I know...ie a co-worker or acquaintance. You still have to see them and deal with them. If I take a risk and ask someone like that out...THATS where the label comes in for me. (see my other example in my first post).

That's a really really tough one.

Hitch-Hiker

Heineken Helen wrote:

Me neither . I think some guys are either INTO women making the first move... or they're not... and some don't mind either way... then there are those who are taken off guard cos it really doesn't happen very often.

I've only asked a couple of guys out and haven't been turned down thankfully!

Yup. Happened to me once or twice and I'm always so surprised coz it is a rare occurence. I think most girls are probably just too intimidated by my good looks and charm to ask me out
Seriously though, it is cool when it happens though. It's nice to feel loved.

Heineken Helen

Hitch-Hiker wrote:

Yup. Happened to me once or twice and I'm always so surprised coz it is a rare occurence. I think most girls are probably just too intimidated by my good looks and charm to ask me out .

Yep, that's my excuse

Hitch-Hiker wrote:

Seriously though, it is cool when it happens though. It's nice to feel loved.

That's the way I see it... if I got knocked back, I wouldn't let it stop me doing it again, cos everyone's different.

GreenTeaDisease

Hitch-Hiker wrote:

Yup. Happened to me once or twice and I'm always so surprised coz it is a rare occurence. I think most girls are probably just too intimidated by my good looks and charm to ask me out
Seriously though, it is cool when it happens though. It's nice to feel loved.

I've only ever been "asked out" twice. One was a guy on a plane. He was so creepy and annoying but he kept persisting and persisting so I finally agreed. worst. date. ever. the other time was a guy in the gym. I found it a bit suspicious because he said he was only in town for the weekend (though I guess it would be a bad place to use that line because people go to the gym on a regular basis, and I never did see him there again). I was busy that night though. would have been interesting to find out what he was up to.