Sorry about the spelling. I was typing fast. SIL's bf is 47 and she is 24. He has alot of money and she has said she's in it for the money. I wish it was a fake story but its not, I have been thinking about it all day. Im not gonna tell the wife, I dont want to cause problems, but I know she is the one causing problems. Some things are better left unknown and unsaid. I will never touch her. I know she will never say anything to anyone, she dosent want to lose the guy that makes ALOT of $$. She quit her job and dropped out of her last semester of school because of the $. But no, I will never tell my wife and I will never touch her sister. I was very very very very turned on though.
dude, you're in denial...you're totally gonna fuck her if you don't tell your wife.
OOOH!
I love your more accurately descriptive word, 'wanker'!
Did your sister believe you?
I can't believe people do things like that? What is the point?
No she believed him at the time :( I wasn't surprised though really... but it didn't take him long to prove his true colours and she got rid. There was a lot of mental shit like trying to turn her against everyone she was close to... and he succeeded for a while!
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It wouldn't happen... but I'd certainly like to know if my sister was coming on to my boyfriend firstly so I could find out what the fuck she's up to and secondly so he wouldn't have to go through that anymore and thirdly cos ya should be able to tell eachother anything.
The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
It wouldn't happen... but I'd certainly like to know if my sister was coming on to my boyfriend firstly so I could find out what the fuck she's up to and secondly so he wouldn't have to go through that anymore and thirdly cos ya should be able to tell eachother anything.
isn't that what i said?
hear my name
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
So my wife and I went to visit her sister lastnight and we had a couple of drinks and im sitting on the other side of the room facing my wife her sister and her boyfriend and my sister inlaw has on these little shorts on and all the sudden she starts speading her legs and looking at me and pointing down to.....and she pulls hers shorts to the side and she is showing me her sexy sexy yellow panties and I just sat there like oh shit this is crazy my wife and her boyfriend are sitting right there watching David Letterman and didnt see. We left and I didnt say anything to my wife, I dont want to cause trouble and im not going to do anything with her sister cause I love my wife and I dont like cheaters but it was insain. Has anybody else been in a simular situation?
So hell can break loose, then tell all you guys about it.
seems like you have an opportunity to decide what kind of chaos you want to allow in your life...you can draw a line in the sand and let the sister know that you're not willing to tolerate that kind of disrespect to your wife and your relationship....
...or you can partake in one of the kinkiest experiences of your life and when all hell breaks loose you can share the details as entertainment for the masses We've got nothing else going on...might as well give us something juicy
seems like you have an opportunity to decide what kind of chaos you want to allow in your life...you can draw a line in the sand and let the sister know that you're not willing to tolerate that kind of disrespect to your wife and your relationship....
...or you can partake in one of the kinkiest experiences of your life and when all hell breaks loose you can share the details as entertainment for the masses We've got nothing else going on...might as well give us something juicy
One of the kinkiest? Sounds like you've had some fun.
Smokey Robinson constantly looks like he's trying to act natural after being accused of farting.
No she believed him at the time :( I wasn't surprised though really... but it didn't take him long to prove his true colours and she got rid. There was a lot of mental shit like trying to turn her against everyone she was close to... and he succeeded for a while!
Ugh! Oh I hate when men pull that mental mind game crap! Blech!
So what happened, did this guy see the sister in law again? Btw, she quit school to let a man support her? niiice.. (edit: Being sarcastic! Of course!)
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As someone who is currently struggling with trust issues in marriage, I advise you to be honest immediately--even when it is difficult or seems foolish. Honesty will save you much trouble in the long run. By bringing your sister-in-law's indiscretion to light, you show yourself trustworthy.
My wife has admitted a confusing attraction to another man and has also told me about their interactions at work and how he tries to persuade her to see him outside of the office. It is tough for me to consider the possibility that something could have happened between them, but her forthrightness helps me to see that she is willing to wrestle and struggle through our current problem in order to secure a happy future together.
I can't possibly describe our full situation to give you a complete picture, but I can promise you that--had she chosen not to tell me early and update me frequently--I would have been further crushed and dismayed. At least as it is, I have plenty of hope that she is making efforts to preserve our marriage.
Evidence and confession are always better than hearsay and getting found-out.
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That's the part I don't get. Why is it confusing? Attraction is pretty simple phenomenon and there's little confusion about it. That being said, good luck with your wife.
That's the part I don't get. Why is it confusing? Attraction is pretty simple phenomenon and there's little confusion about it. That being said, good luck with your wife.
A strong attraction can be very confusing when you're already devoted to someone else - especially if you don't tell your partner. I think Rhinomagic's wife made an important choice, and luckily for them, it was the right one.
Smokey Robinson constantly looks like he's trying to act natural after being accused of farting.
A strong attraction can be very confusing when you're already devoted to someone else - especially if you don't tell your partner. I think Rhinomagic's wife made an important choice, and luckily for them, it was the right one.
exactly I don't understand why some people don't get the importance of being open with eachother . I'm sure rhinomagic may have been hurt at first but I'd be well impressed that my spouse trusted me so much to 'confess' something like that.
The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
exactly I don't understand why some people don't get the importance of being open with eachother . I'm sure rhinomagic may have been hurt at first but I'd be well impressed that my spouse trusted me so much to 'confess' something like that.
I'd go so far as to say the fact that she told him about the attraction shows a very strong relationship - she wants to work through it with rhinomagic without denying that it exists. That's a lot of trust for her to put in rhinomagic.
Smokey Robinson constantly looks like he's trying to act natural after being accused of farting.
I'd go so far as to say the fact that she told him about the attraction shows a very strong relationship - she wants to work through it with rhinomagic without denying that it exists. That's a lot of trust for her to put in rhinomagic.
That's exactly how I see it too To have a strong relationship should mean you're able to share anything! It may not always be easy but you could keep something like that to yourself, not being able to talk about it to anyone... and then one day it might just get the better of you. A problem shared really IS a problem halved
The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
That's exactly how I see it too To have a strong relationship should mean you're able to share anything! It may not always be easy but you could keep something like that to yourself, not being able to talk about it to anyone... and then one day it might just get the better of you. A problem shared really IS a problem halved
I've actually been thinking about things like this a lot lately, probably because I've always been pretty insecure in my own relationship, cos of the long-distance aspects and such. But lately I've been realising that if something like this is going to end your relationship, it's going to happen sooner or later - either because of someone cheating, or just a slow misery because of hiding these kinds of secrets.
So being open about it will either strengthen your relationship, or just put a quick end to what would most likely not work out in the end anyway.
I blame the weather for this kind of deep, depressing thought.
Smokey Robinson constantly looks like he's trying to act natural after being accused of farting.
I was involved once in something similar with one of my good friends girls. I didnt tell him, just ignored her and her antics.....she was pretty hot too.
Was your sister in law a shaweetie too?
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As someone who is currently struggling with trust issues in marriage, I advise you to be honest immediately--even when it is difficult or seems foolish. Honesty will save you much trouble in the long run. By bringing your sister-in-law's indiscretion to light, you show yourself trustworthy.
My wife has admitted a confusing attraction to another man and has also told me about their interactions at work and how he tries to persuade her to see him outside of the office. It is tough for me to consider the possibility that something could have happened between them, but her forthrightness helps me to see that she is willing to wrestle and struggle through our current problem in order to secure a happy future together.
I can't possibly describe our full situation to give you a complete picture, but I can promise you that--had she chosen not to tell me early and update me frequently--I would have been further crushed and dismayed. At least as it is, I have plenty of hope that she is making efforts to preserve our marriage.
Evidence and confession are always better than hearsay and getting found-out.
.
I'm all for straddling the lines of decadence (maybe not necessarily FULLY crossing over, but still)...yet I like this post.
I'm all for straddling the lines of decadence (maybe not necessarily FULLY crossing over, but still)...yet I like this post.
Alot.
:eek: Wow... THERE's a name I haven't seen in a while Hello
The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
A strong attraction can be very confusing when you're already devoted to someone else - especially if you don't tell your partner. I think Rhinomagic's wife made an important choice, and luckily for them, it was the right one.
That's not confusing. The confusing part is if you want to stay with your current partner or go with the individual in who you are attracted to. If someone whom I was eternally pledged to told me they had a confusing attraction, we'd be having some serious discussions about wtf is so confusing.
It wouldn't happen... but I'd certainly like to know if my sister was coming on to my boyfriend firstly so I could find out what the fuck she's up to and secondly so he wouldn't have to go through that anymore and thirdly cos ya should be able to tell eachother anything.
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dude, you're in denial...you're totally gonna fuck her if you don't tell your wife.
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"Why would they come to our concert just to boo us?" -Lisa Simpson
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
so the wife has a chance to kick her fuckin' sister's skanky arse. simple.
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
isn't that what i said?
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
hehehehe
Totally true!!
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
we need a picture for reference
Hes right, I cant give advice until you post a photo to give me an idea of what to say
Summerfest 2006
"Why would they come to our concert just to boo us?" -Lisa Simpson
...or you can partake in one of the kinkiest experiences of your life and when all hell breaks loose you can share the details as entertainment for the masses
One of the kinkiest? Sounds like you've had some fun.
By the sounds of it, you'd be banned if you did tell.
Ugh! Oh I hate when men pull that mental mind game crap! Blech!
So what happened, did this guy see the sister in law again? Btw, she quit school to let a man support her? niiice.. (edit: Being sarcastic! Of course!)
"Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
6-01-06
6/25/08
Free Speedy
and Metsy!
My wife has admitted a confusing attraction to another man and has also told me about their interactions at work and how he tries to persuade her to see him outside of the office. It is tough for me to consider the possibility that something could have happened between them, but her forthrightness helps me to see that she is willing to wrestle and struggle through our current problem in order to secure a happy future together.
I can't possibly describe our full situation to give you a complete picture, but I can promise you that--had she chosen not to tell me early and update me frequently--I would have been further crushed and dismayed. At least as it is, I have plenty of hope that she is making efforts to preserve our marriage.
Evidence and confession are always better than hearsay and getting found-out.
.
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That's the part I don't get. Why is it confusing? Attraction is pretty simple phenomenon and there's little confusion about it. That being said, good luck with your wife.
A strong attraction can be very confusing when you're already devoted to someone else - especially if you don't tell your partner. I think Rhinomagic's wife made an important choice, and luckily for them, it was the right one.
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
I'd go so far as to say the fact that she told him about the attraction shows a very strong relationship - she wants to work through it with rhinomagic without denying that it exists. That's a lot of trust for her to put in rhinomagic.
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
I've actually been thinking about things like this a lot lately, probably because I've always been pretty insecure in my own relationship, cos of the long-distance aspects and such. But lately I've been realising that if something like this is going to end your relationship, it's going to happen sooner or later - either because of someone cheating, or just a slow misery because of hiding these kinds of secrets.
So being open about it will either strengthen your relationship, or just put a quick end to what would most likely not work out in the end anyway.
I blame the weather for this kind of deep, depressing thought.
Was your sister in law a shaweetie too?
>
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Alot.
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
That's not confusing. The confusing part is if you want to stay with your current partner or go with the individual in who you are attracted to. If someone whom I was eternally pledged to told me they had a confusing attraction, we'd be having some serious discussions about wtf is so confusing.
This is what I said 100 hundred pages ago!
Who has the time to go back and read the first few pages?