hehe That is why theres such a thing as a "madam." Some boys are just not happy with their sex life.
They love their wives and will not ever leave them, but she cannot fulfill their fantasies or keep up with their sexual needs.
It happens all the time. It's not good where the wife is concerned but thats the way some people think.
Men AND women. Sex on the side and complete family life at home and nobody gets hurt.
Alot of people in here HAVE gotten serious but maybe it has been a good discussion topic compared to the threads and posts of people "backstabbing" and complaining lately.
acoustic guy, keep your head up! (or down somewhere... ) Whatever you do just do it with caution~
hehe That is why theres such a thing as a "madam." Some boys are just not happy with their sex life.
They love their wives and will not ever leave them, but she cannot fulfill their fantasies or keep up with their sexual needs.
It happens all the time. It's not good where the wife is concerned but thats the way some people think.
Men AND women. Sex on the side and complete family life at home and nobody gets hurt.
Alot of people in here HAVE gotten serious but maybe it has been a good discussion topic compared to the threads and posts of people "backstabbing" and complaining lately.
acoustic guy, keep your head up! (or down somewhere... ) Whatever you do just do it with caution~
ok, but if all jokes aside, i believe that if someone is in relationship or married and decides to have sex with someone else they should talk to their other half and from doing so there are two options acceptance from another person or separation, i think it's only fair i would definitely would prefer that.
serious enough for the mods to get pissed off and all! That's it. You know when people get mad they start telling people to "fuck off" and then that is when the BANNING begins! haha
No big deal I guess, I think he wanted this to be a "funny" thread and then it backfired on his ass!
why would the mods get pissed off?
you answered your own...the mods don't get 'pissed' it's that people decide to not abide the rules and get to name-calling, etc...that'sd their OWN choice, like many things. many, many people have enjoyed and participated in this thread...and it has been a great discussion. much of it is what i wished for the 'open relationship' thread...but that got far too moralistic, too soon...i should've gone the 'double-standard' route to really get it going....;)
if people get banned, that's their OWN choice.
btw - i think this has been a very FUN thread...and insightful, interesting, informastive..i guess it's all differing perspectives in what you find interesting. i don't think it backfired at all! as i said, i think this thread would've been 'done' in one page if left to the oh-so funny :rolleyes: premise of the first post. the ONLY reason it went on now for pages is because many of us decided *gasp* to discuss the topic at hand.
I could be wrong, but I see a some reasons why this thread took the turn it did.
First of all, AG made a personal statement and while making the statement he gave it human qualities - he and his wife. Had the statement been put out as a question or a poll, surely there would have been a debate, but I don't think all of the personal attacks would have been exchanged.
For example, had AG asked the question below, he wouldn't necessarily have had to defend his original post.
Should a married man be able to fuck the shit out of someone other than his wife and it's all good because that is how men are built? Yes No Not sure
Second, stereotyping is not always a good idea. It is ignorant. Just because you (any man) or I (any woman) feel or think a certain way does not mean ALL men feel or ALL women feel the same. People evolve and become who they are based on personal, individual experiences.
AG, I wish you luck in your marriage. If you have your Dad in your life or another significant male figure - not some other horndog - go talk to him about your feelings. Those older guys can be a wealth of wisdom. I know because it worked for my husband and we are still rolling along after 25 years.
and i am not 'lecturing' anyone...i am discussing the topic! sorry, i don't see you recognizing intelligent debate here.....b/c why are you defending yourself? what from? i said often enough, i personally do not give a shit what you do,
Maybe he thinks you are lecturing him because your posts are always very long winded & in a "know it all" sense. I have yet to see a simple "short & sweet" post by you.
If you all are discussing the topic and can defend YOURSELVES at certain points, why can't acoustic guy?
Some of the posts have stated they don't care what he does. Clearly some of you DO give a shit because you are telling him he is this and that for even mentioning sleeping with other women.
I applaud ag for thinking out loud and sharing it here.
That IS what you do on a "message board" isn't it?
ok, but if all jokes aside, i believe that if someone is in relationship or married and decides to have sex with someone else they should talk to their other half and from doing so there are two options acceptance from another person or separation, i think it's only fair i would definitely would prefer that.
I like what you've said here. I do agree that discussing problems in this nature should always be first. Communication is everything.
How ELSE will the other person know what kind of sex they prefer?
Kinky or plain old fashioned~
Hahahahahahha I have no desire to cheat fuckers!!! Hahahahaha
That is what pisses me off! Me wanting something and cheating are way different.
I am so sick of defending myself I think I might just start throwing uppercuts, lay everybody out once and for all!
Oh I forgot :) ha...he..he how is that?
You made your point ag. If nobody gets it then thats their fuckin fault. I say leave the thread NOW before you really DO start squabbing! Leave everyone else to fight~
why would the mods get pissed off?
you answered your own...the mods don't get 'pissed' it's that people decide to not abide the rules and get to name-calling, etc...that'sd their OWN choice, like many things. many, many people have enjoyed and participated in this thread...and it has been a great discussion. much of it is what i wished for the 'open relationship' thread...but that got far too moralistic, too soon...i should've gone the 'double-standard' route to really get it going....;)
if people get banned, that's their OWN choice.
btw - i think this has been a very FUN thread...and insightful, interesting, informastive..i guess it's all differing perspectives in what you find interesting. i don't think it backfired at all! as i said, i think this thread would've been 'done' in one page if left to the oh-so funny :rolleyes: premise of the first post. the ONLY reason it went on now for pages is because many of us decided *gasp* to discuss the topic at hand.
Oh, I thought people were getting too upset over this thread. I guess I was wrong! I like this thread too, but I don't want people to start disliking AG because he really is a nice guy. (of course him stating that women can't cheat, only guys can is very WRONG) Women can do anything!!
And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
You made your point ag. If nobody gets it then thats their fuckin fault. I say leave the thread NOW before you really DO start squabbing! Leave everyone else to fight~
Meet ya at your place of business?
Get em a Body Bag Yeeeeeaaaaa!
Sweep the Leg Johnny.
Let me walk over to this side of the room..
(wisper) Hey Madam....where is your business? Any young hot blonds?
:cool:
OMG you see!!!! He is a cheater!!! Get him!!!!
hehehe My business is anywhere you WANT it to be
Only of course if you were ACTUALLY going to act out on that dirty hot sex you crave.
I know that you are not because you love your wife.
We can be friends tho~
hehe I would not be ME if I did not add something in that nature to my posts! please do not take offense~
I didn't take offense at all...over anything really!! I was just surprised because I don't think I've ever seen you post before and you have been a member for three years!! haha It caught me off guard!!
And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
Oh, I thought people were getting too upset over this thread. I guess I was wrong! I like this thread too, but I don't want people to start disliking AG because he really is a nice guy. (of course him stating that women can't cheat, only guys can is very WRONG) Women can do anything!!
i don't 'know' AG or many people who have posted on this thread...this is not some childish popularity contest, or at least not to me ....'liking' or 'disliking' someone doesn't even come into play imo! it's got nothing to do with the topic! and if he is indeed a 'really nice guy'....well his actions and words will speak to it, no need for he, or anyone, to 'defend' that.
and damn straight...women CAN do anything...as can men, it's all about choice...and equal opprtunity for choice. i've said as much from my first post in here. so yea...you can stick the double-standard where the sun don't shine!
i have yet to see anyone 'upset' about this thread...about the only thing 'upsetting'...not that i would really choose to use such a word, is the many who come in here trying to direct HOW the topic is discussed. the thread has managed to stay pretty much ON topic for 11+ pages...that's all that is required beyond respect. that's damn fine, and nothing to be upset about.
and hey, i am ALL for open and honest communication in relationships..sharing thoughts, desires, fantasies......it's ALL good!
and damn straight...women CAN do anything...as can men, it's all about choice...and equal opprtunity for choice. i've said as much from my first post in here. so yea...you can stick the double-standard where the sun don't shine!
And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
I didn't take offense at all...over anything really!! I was just surprised because I don't think I've ever seen you post before and you have been a member for three years!! haha It caught me off guard!!
hehe I mainly sit back and watch. (some people are into that )
I post when I have the time or while I'm waiting for a client alone in my bed.
I feel like I know a lot of you!
You are one of the nicest people here.
I always liked Jeanie too but it seems she is going through a life change causing her to react differently as of late. I hope everything is ok.
Heineken Helen makes me LMAO!
And where is soulsinging? I enjoyed his debates and humor.
Anyhoo, this thread is as crazy as 4 girls doing things to each other while men in suits admire from afar
Poke fun all you want.
I probably have bigger balls than alot of you "boys" but, I am a lover not a fighter.
Nice indeed
pucker up butter cup
yeah you're right
i'm a ball-less boy..
i have never cheated on any of my g/f's
and i never wanted to nail every single women walkin or crawlin.
this makes me a ball-less boy..sweet
pucker up butter cup
yeah you're right
i'm a ball-less boy..
i have never cheated on any of my g/f's
and i never wanted to nail every single women walkin or crawlin.
this makes me a ball-less boy..sweet
hehe I was just pokin back at ya
I'm pretty sure you got a good "set" so be proud~
Comments
Are you Dan Savage from the Village Voice?
Where the hell is he when we need him?
Well thank god we've got you, Madam.
ok, but if all jokes aside, i believe that if someone is in relationship or married and decides to have sex with someone else they should talk to their other half and from doing so there are two options acceptance from another person or separation, i think it's only fair i would definitely would prefer that.
why would the mods get pissed off?
you answered your own...the mods don't get 'pissed' it's that people decide to not abide the rules and get to name-calling, etc...that'sd their OWN choice, like many things. many, many people have enjoyed and participated in this thread...and it has been a great discussion. much of it is what i wished for the 'open relationship' thread...but that got far too moralistic, too soon...i should've gone the 'double-standard' route to really get it going....;)
if people get banned, that's their OWN choice.
btw - i think this has been a very FUN thread...and insightful, interesting, informastive..i guess it's all differing perspectives in what you find interesting. i don't think it backfired at all! as i said, i think this thread would've been 'done' in one page if left to the oh-so funny :rolleyes: premise of the first post. the ONLY reason it went on now for pages is because many of us decided *gasp* to discuss the topic at hand.
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
First of all, AG made a personal statement and while making the statement he gave it human qualities - he and his wife. Had the statement been put out as a question or a poll, surely there would have been a debate, but I don't think all of the personal attacks would have been exchanged.
For example, had AG asked the question below, he wouldn't necessarily have had to defend his original post.
Should a married man be able to fuck the shit out of someone other than his wife and it's all good because that is how men are built? Yes No Not sure
Second, stereotyping is not always a good idea. It is ignorant. Just because you (any man) or I (any woman) feel or think a certain way does not mean ALL men feel or ALL women feel the same. People evolve and become who they are based on personal, individual experiences.
AG, I wish you luck in your marriage. If you have your Dad in your life or another significant male figure - not some other horndog
"Chirp"
http://www.ashleymadison.com/
Maybe he thinks you are lecturing him because your posts are always very long winded & in a "know it all" sense. I have yet to see a simple "short & sweet" post by you.
If you all are discussing the topic and can defend YOURSELVES at certain points, why can't acoustic guy?
Some of the posts have stated they don't care what he does. Clearly some of you DO give a shit because you are telling him he is this and that for even mentioning sleeping with other women.
I applaud ag for thinking out loud and sharing it here.
That IS what you do on a "message board" isn't it?
hehe I would not be ME if I did not add something in that nature to my posts!
That is what pisses me off! Me wanting something and cheating are way different.
I am so sick of defending myself I think I might just start throwing uppercuts, lay everybody out once and for all!
Oh I forgot
Sweep the Leg Johnny.
I like what you've said here. I do agree that discussing problems in this nature should always be first. Communication is everything.
How ELSE will the other person know what kind of sex they prefer?
Kinky or plain old fashioned~
(non pj related of course....)
(wisper) Hey Madam....where is your business? Any young hot blonds?
:cool:
OMG you see!!!! He is a cheater!!! Get him!!!!
Sweep the Leg Johnny.
You made your point ag. If nobody gets it then thats their fuckin fault. I say leave the thread NOW before you really DO start squabbing! Leave everyone else to fight~
Oh, I thought people were getting too upset over this thread. I guess I was wrong! I like this thread too, but I don't want people to start disliking AG because he really is a nice guy. (of course him stating that women can't cheat, only guys can is very WRONG)
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
Sweep the Leg Johnny.
yea we haven't had one of these in a while
why did that just pop into my head?
nice
"Hear me, my chiefs!
I am tired; my heart is
sick and sad. From where
the sun stands I will fight
no more forever."
Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
Sweep the Leg Johnny.
hehehe My business is anywhere you WANT it to be
Only of course if you were ACTUALLY going to act out on that dirty hot sex you crave.
I know that you are not because you love your wife.
We can be friends tho~
I didn't take offense at all...over anything really!! I was just surprised because I don't think I've ever seen you post before and you have been a member for three years!! haha It caught me off guard!!
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
Poke fun all you want.
I probably have bigger balls than alot of you "boys" but, I am a lover not a fighter.
Nice indeed
i don't 'know' AG or many people who have posted on this thread...this is not some childish popularity contest, or at least not to me
and damn straight...women CAN do anything...as can men, it's all about choice...and equal opprtunity for choice. i've said as much from my first post in here. so yea...you can stick the double-standard where the sun don't shine!
i have yet to see anyone 'upset' about this thread...about the only thing 'upsetting'...not that i would really choose to use such a word, is the many who come in here trying to direct HOW the topic is discussed. the thread has managed to stay pretty much ON topic for 11+ pages...that's all that is required beyond respect. that's damn fine, and nothing to be upset about.
and hey, i am ALL for open and honest communication in relationships..sharing thoughts, desires, fantasies......it's ALL good!
and....
not even close.
you need to spend more time in AET.
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
that's fine
join the club
many people are standing behind you
they haven't liked me for a very longtime
i like people that dislike me
it gives me plenty of people to laugh at
kinda entertaining to my notion
(dammit, and i thought i was leaving this thread)
"Hear me, my chiefs!
I am tired; my heart is
sick and sad. From where
the sun stands I will fight
no more forever."
Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
hehe I mainly sit back and watch. (some people are into that
I post when I have the time or while I'm waiting for a client alone in my bed.
I feel like I know a lot of you!
You are one of the nicest people here.
I always liked Jeanie too but it seems she is going through a life change causing her to react differently as of late. I hope everything is ok.
Heineken Helen makes me LMAO!
And where is soulsinging? I enjoyed his debates and humor.
Anyhoo, this thread is as crazy as 4 girls doing things to each other while men in suits admire from afar
hehehe
Me too!!
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
pucker up butter cup
yeah you're right
i'm a ball-less boy..
i have never cheated on any of my g/f's
and i never wanted to nail every single women walkin or crawlin.
this makes me a ball-less boy..sweet
"Hear me, my chiefs!
I am tired; my heart is
sick and sad. From where
the sun stands I will fight
no more forever."
Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
Why wouldn't anyone like you?
You seem like you are a good man with an open mind and will say whatever you feel.
Thats very sexy.
hehe I was just pokin back at ya
I'm pretty sure you got a good "set" so be proud~