Is It Really Better To Have Loved And Lost Than

decides2dream

yes, yes and YES!
i cannot imagine going thru my entire life without truly feeling *love*...giving and receiving, if it means the heartache that follow whether love is lost or ended. love is just TOO good not to experience, no matter the aftermath. and, if you're lucky...it lasts a loooooooooonnnng time. i've loved 3 men, truly, in my lifetime...and thankfully, one of em is going on 21 years of love. some of em VERY rough years, but the love.......always there.....and always worth it.

mookie9999

writersu wrote:

kind of like that old song, "I learned the truth at 17. That love was meant for beauty queens and high school girls with clear skin smiles , who married young and then retired................." by that dyke chick but the words are true.................

WTF is this shit? Nothing spices up a conversation like some good ole fashioned bigotry. Heard any other poignant songs from some negroes or fags that you would like to discuss?

Jeanie

mookie9999 wrote:

WTF is this shit? Nothing spices up a conversation like some good ole fashioned bigotry. Heard any other poignant songs from some negroes or fags that you would like to discuss?

given some of the things I've seen you post, it's amusing that you've jumped on that. Filtering perhaps?

mookie9999

Jeanie wrote:

given some of the things I've seen you post, it's amusing that you've jumped on that. Filtering perhaps?

I invite you to bring up any time that I've used bigotry, racism, sexism, etc. on here. I make non-stop jokes (or attempts at them) but I frown upon words such as those being thrown around here.

Jeanie

mookie9999 wrote:

I invite you to bring up any time that I've used bigotry, racism, sexism, etc. on here. I make non-stop jokes (or attempts at them) but I frown upon words such as those being thrown around here.

I can think of plenty of times mookie when things that you have said could be construed as offensive but I don't feel the need to jump down your throat about it. You perceive yourself differently to how others do and I really cannot see the point to jumping down su's throat about what she's said in this thread unless of course you're feeling righteous today and you're looking for a fight.

mookie9999

Jeanie wrote:

I can think of plenty of times mookie when things that you have said could be construed as offensive but I don't feel the need to jump down your throat about it. You perceive yourself differently to how others do and I really cannot see the point to jumping down su's throat about what she's said in this thread unless of course you're feeling righteous today and you're looking for a fight.

I don't doubt that things that I have said could be offensive to some. If anyone ever feels the need to call me out I have no issues discussing it with them. However, the only people that I can think of that aren't offended by words such as dyke and use them so haphazzardly are bigots. Not looking for a fight. Just would prefer to not see words like that. That's all. Peace.

Jeanie

mookie9999 wrote:

I don't doubt that things that I have said could be offensive to some. If anyone ever feels the need to call me out I have no issues discussing it with them. However, the only people that I can think of that aren't offended by words such as dyke and use them so haphazardly are bigots. Not looking for a fight. Just would prefer to not see words like that. That's all. Peace.

As I'm quite sure I've said things that others have found offensive, my point being that it's not been my intention to be offensive and I'm sure it's not been yours either AND I'm quite sure that whatever you think su is trying to say it probably isn't what you think it is. It's a word, she's used it, you don't like it, fine but don't be labelling her because you don't like it hey? Maybe wait and see what she has to say about it all? I didn't take her usage of the word to mean that she was a bigot she was simply trying to place the singer of the song.

elmer

in_hiding79 wrote:

Deep....

yeah, Cuntish. Cunt-ned!!! Please pay special attention to the 'ned', I feel that in years to come it will appear as a preface to all that ye say.......


who asked yous to bastardize me language anyway!!!, yeh, get me ye fuckers!!!!

stay 'in hiding' cos if I catch up wit yer I'm gonna take yo asa mullenkampz!!

GraySaturday

Elmer!!!!!

what the hell! How many drinks have you had today?!

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

prism

tish wrote:

I mean really, what else are men for? That and their C++ck, that is.

oh yeah, I totally agree...men are only any good for their crack

in_hiding79

elmer wrote:

yeah, Cuntish. Cunt-ned!!! Please pay special attention to the 'ned', I feel that in years to come it will appear as a preface to all that ye say.......


who asked yous to bastardize me language anyway!!!, yeh, get me ye fuckers!!!!

stay 'in hiding' cos if I catch up wit yer I'm gonna take yo asa mullenkampz!!

hahahahah

ok Elmer!!!

mookie9999

Jeanie wrote:

As I'm quite sure I've said things that others have found offensive, my point being that it's not been my intention to be offensive and I'm sure it's not been yours either AND I'm quite sure that whatever you think su is trying to say it probably isn't what you think it is. It's a word, she's used it, you don't like it, fine but don't be labelling her because you don't like it hey? Maybe wait and see what she has to say about it all? I didn't take her usage of the word to mean that she was a bigot she was simply trying to place the singer of the song.

I will gladly wait to see what su has to say about it. But I know when I'm trying to place the singer of a song I usually choose my words more wisely, and don't repeat them three times. But that's just me.

small town beck

elmer wrote:

yeah, Cuntish. Cunt-ned!!! Please pay special attention to the 'ned', I feel that in years to come it will appear as a preface to all that ye say.......


who asked yous to bastardize me language anyway!!!, yeh, get me ye fuckers!!!!

stay 'in hiding' cos if I catch up wit yer I'm gonna take yo asa mullenkampz!!

LMAO

Classic

Thanks, Elmer!!!

Jeanie

mookie9999 wrote:

I will gladly wait to see what su has to say about it. But I know when I'm trying to place the singer of a song I usually choose my words more wisely, and don't repeat them three times. But that's just me.

uh huh. It's good that you can still be so selective of your words what with all the bea arthur porn and the black market to contend with. So I guess you're only choosing words wisely when it suits you. Anyway, what's the point of all this shit? Take it up with su, burn her in boiling oil for using it for all I care. It's just a word. AND I didn't get any intention of malice from her using it.

not4u

i'd have to say yes - thinking of my childhood dog

mookie9999

Jeanie wrote:

uh huh. It's good that you can still be so selective of your words what with all the bea arthur porn and the black market to contend with. So I guess you're only choosing words wisely when it suits you. Anyway, what's the point of all this shit? Take it up with su, burn her in boiling oil for using it for all I care. It's just a word. AND I didn't get any intention of malice from her using it.

Yeah, because porn and dyke are so similar in regards to being offensive. As to what's the point, you replied to my post. I noted how a word that is the epitome of bigotry is offensive and shouldn't be used. Maybe where you live dyke is as common to hear as dog or cat. Where I live it's an offensive term. If you are offended by the lovely Bea Arthur and the notion that she has starred in porn, to you I apologize.

in_hiding79

not4u wrote:

i'd have to say yes - thinking of my childhood dog

awwwww, I know what you mean..:(

Jeanie

mookie9999 wrote:

Yeah, because porn and dyke are so similar in regards to being offensive. As to what's the point, you replied to my post. I noted how a word that is the epitome of bigotry is offensive and shouldn't be used. Maybe where you live dyke is as common to hear as dog or cat. Where I live it's an offensive term. If you are offended by the lovely Bea Arthur and the notion that she has starred in porn, to you I apologize.

**sigh** seriously whatever. you know where my pm box is. Or you can just continue on with your assumptions. I don't care.

small town beck

mookie9999 wrote:

Yeah, because porn and dyke are so similar in regards to being offensive. As to what's the point, you replied to my post. I noted how a word that is the epitome of bigotry is offensive and shouldn't be used. Maybe where you live dyke is as common to hear as dog or cat. Where I live it's an offensive term. If you are offended by the lovely Bea Arthur and the notion that she has starred in porn, to you I apologize.

My friend once wrote a short story in high school and he used Bea Arthur type figure for the main role.. OMG it was funny. The reason I bring it up is it was called "Geriatic Lust" . About a couple that escape the old folks home for an afternoon romp in a hotel room

Fuck it was funny. it was actually pretty disturbing but funny. Old people need love too

mookie9999

small town beck wrote:

My friend once wrote a short story in high school and he used Bea Arthur type figure for the main role.. OMG it was funny. The reason I bring it up is it was called "Geriatic Lust" . About a couple that escape the old folks home for an afternoon romp in a hotel room

Fuck it was funny. it was actually pretty disturbing but funny. Old people need love too

My gf works in a nursing home and they have some of the highest amounts of std's in the country. Old people not only need love, they get love!!