I am beyond livid!!!!

mookie9999

OneLove wrote:

I found that it was much easier to be civil with my Ex after all of our stuff was split up (except my couch which he is still using, but I don't need at the moment).

10 years is alot of history, if you want to be friends with her give it some time. Sounds like you are rightfully po'ed at her for leaving her stuff.

Good luck Sounds like you are trying to be the bigger person here.

Trying is the imperative word! I've been helped along by nice folks on here, along with some great friends at work, and of course the new girl I started seeing is beyond amazing!

edvedder913

mookie9999 wrote:

I broke up with her, and I am definitely guilty of being too nice! I just got off of the phone with her (idiot that I am) and agreed to box up her remaining items and have her pick them up. I can't throw shit away either. I want to at least try and remain friends with her (seeing how we were together for almost 10 years) but she certainly isn't making it easy.

I hear you - I want to be friends with the ex hubby b/c we have a son together, so I put up with alot. You're noble - hopefully there is such a thing as good karma. My brother keeps telling me "when are you going to learn? nice guys (girls) always finish last" I am starting to believe that....

OneLove

mookie9999 wrote:

Trying is the imperative word! I've been helped along by nice folks on here, along with some great friends at work, and of course the new girl I started seeing is beyond amazing!

Good for you! Getting some action (bonus that she is amazing) helps with the moving on process. Takes the pressure off bigtime. You are lucky!

Steve Dunne

failedpersephone wrote:

does it count if it's just underwear and a towel tied around my neck?? I have tin foil wrapped around my wrists!!!

hey works for me!

Mook you gotta let Fipsy here get some action...she's dressed to kick butt. And recover anything that's missing!

mookie9999

edvedder913 wrote:

I hear you - I want to be friends with the ex hubby b/c we have a son together, so I put up with alot. You're noble - hopefully there is such a thing as good karma. My brother keeps telling me "when are you going to learn? nice guys (girls) always finish last" I am starting to believe that....

So not true! It may be harder to weed through all of the assholes, but us nice folk can finish first! We actually were just talking about this last night over dinner. She was commenting on how attracted she was to me based on how good of a guy I am. Hope she handle my love for Bea Arthur!

failedpersephone

mookie9999 wrote:

So not true! It may be harder to weed through all of the assholes, but us nice folk can finish first! We actually were just talking about this last night over dinner. She was commenting on how attracted she was to me based on how good of a guy I am. Hope she handle my love for Bea Arthur!

you might want to go slooooow with that one...Bea is a bit of a mindfLuck to get over for some girls...


just like some guys are put off with my extensive Hardcastle and McCormack collection...Pfft, who says men like porn???

mookie9999

failedpersephone wrote:

you might want to go slooooow with that one...Bea is a bit of a mindfLuck to get over for some girls...


just like some guys are put off with my extensive Hardcastle and McCormack collection...Pfft, who says men like porn???

I accidentally let a Bea joke slip out at trivia night a few weeks back. She was a bit scared, and has actually brought her up on occasion. So I am on full lock down censor mode in regards to Bea.

OneLove

mookie9999 wrote:

So not true! It may be harder to weed through all of the assholes, but us nice folk can finish first! We actually were just talking about this last night over dinner. She was commenting on how attracted she was to me based on how good of a guy I am. Hope she handle my love for Bea Arthur!

Hmmm.. I am trying not to be jaded so quickly, but from my experience thus far, even the nice guys are pre-emptively a-holes because they aren't used to girls being real with them.

Waaaayyy of subject I know. I want to believe you, I just feel badly for people who have been on the market a while and are completely shell shocked.

jamie uk

mookie9999 wrote:

I accidentally let a Bea joke slip out at trivia night a few weeks back. She was a bit scared, and has actually brought her up on occasion. So I am on full lock down censor mode in regards to Bea.

Okay, okay, I finally give in, who the hell?
*googles Bea Arthur*
Oh right, I remember the tv show. Is your love of her based around her talent Mooks, or is it purely sexual?

decides2dream

mookie9999 wrote:

So not true! It may be harder to weed through all of the assholes, but us nice folk can finish first! We actually were just talking about this last night over dinner. She was commenting on how attracted she was to me based on how good of a guy I am. Hope she handle my love for Bea Arthur!

EXACTLY!
real *keepers* find such unbelievably SEXY! and hell yes, my husband is THE nicest of guys! it IS ridiculously attractive, and quite honestly....imho...a no-brainer! of course, there needs to be more in the equation besides simply being a *nice guy/girl*.....but added in with who you are, it IS a definite recipe for success in attracting a quality partner.


enjoy mooks....you deserve to!

edvedder913

mookie9999 wrote:

So not true! It may be harder to weed through all of the assholes, but us nice folk can finish first! We actually were just talking about this last night over dinner. She was commenting on how attracted she was to me based on how good of a guy I am. Hope she handle my love for Bea Arthur!

haha Bea! yeah, keep that one on the hush for awhile

well hopefully you have better luck. I think that is great that she likes you for who you are. Sounds like a good start. I was married for 10 years and I have been dating for about 4 years....a nice guy is very hard to find.

xavier mcdaniel

mookie9999 wrote:

I accidentally let a Bea joke slip out at trivia night a few weeks back. She was a bit scared, and has actually brought her up on occasion. So I am on full lock down censor mode in regards to Bea.

I'll remind you not to drop any Bea jokes in there at the next trivia night.

vedder.ten

Yard sale time.

OneLove

edvedder913 wrote:

haha Bea! yeah, keep that one on the hush for awhile

well hopefully you have better luck. I think that is great that she likes you for who you are. Sounds like a good start. I was married for 10 years and I have been dating for about 4 years....a nice guy is very hard to find.

maybe we should both be going to trivia nights.

Allie

mookie9999 wrote:

I broke up with her, and I am definitely guilty of being too nice! I just got off of the phone with her (idiot that I am) and agreed to box up her remaining items and have her pick them up. .

:eek:
Mooks, Mooks Mooks <shakes head in disbelief>
Too nice is an understatement.

I don't get that. She had TWO WEEKS to pack her own stuff and you are going to do it for her? Why, are her hands broken?

mookie9999

Thanks for all the kind words to all that have posted! Everyone is truly great on here! Allie, I packed some of her shit before she got here cause I knew what was to come (hours of her packing and crying). But alas, it is over she is gone as well as her stuff! Now I just need to clean a bit and get a certain someone over here to try my new tempurpedic bed out with me. And yes I'm talking to you Bea!!

OneLove

mookie9999 wrote:

Thanks for all the kind words to all that have posted! Everyone is truly great on here! Allie, I packed some of her shit before she got here cause I knew what was to come (hours of her packing and crying). But alas, it is over she is gone as well as her stuff! Now I just need to clean a bit and get a certain someone over here to try my new tempurpedic bed out with me. And yes I'm talking to you Bea!!

woo-hoo! bea is getting some loving tonite eh?

Why are you still online exactly?

IAmMyself

mookie9999 wrote:

Arrived home from California last night to discover that my ex (who had two weeks to get ready) had not moved entirely out and my place looking like a tornado hit it! To make matters worse when I called her this morning she laughed and admitted that she only spent a day packing! She paid movers to move her shit and didn't pack it up!!! FUCK!!!! And yes I know people will say she probably wants to stay or leave some shit behind (which I was anticipating anyways) but to come home and have my place look like the Tasmanian Devil had stopped by is just fucked!! Rant over! FUCK!!! Okay, now it's over! FUCK AGAIN!!!!!

Sorry that happened to you,

I got one for ya, when I got home from California someone had carved FUK U, in the hood of my car, that I had just got back from the shop. I wish I had an ex to blame it on, because that would at least made me feel safer than just thinking there is some crazy asshole out there who doesn't like me and can't even spell FUK. I think it's time to move out of the neighborhood and I love my cheap ass rent, but rent isn't cheap when you have to pay for insurance deductables too.

norm

irieinindy wrote:

Sorry that happened to you,

I got one for ya, when I got home from California someone had carved FUK U, in the hood of my car, that I had just got back from the shop. I wish I had an ex to blame it on, because that would at least made me feel safer than just thinking there is some crazy asshole out there who doesn't like me and can't even spell FUK. I think it's time to move out of the neighborhood and I love my cheap ass rent, but rent isn't cheap when you have to pay for insurance deductables too.

damn that blows!!! WTF?!?! :mad: :(

mookie9999

OneLove wrote:

woo-hoo! bea is getting some loving tonite eh?

Why are you still online exactly?

Actually the loving was last night!! And it was great!! few more days before it happens again! Damn I'm drunk!! But I am falling for this girl!!!