pearl jam posters? t-shirts? the thongs you wore at the beach? did she take any of those?
She wouldn't want any of my PJ stuff unless to take it to hurt me. All of it is there as far as I've seen. As to the thongs!! :eek: I forgot to check!!! I'm contacting my attorney if even one banana hammock is missing!!! :mad:
"The leads are weak!"
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
Basically back in December. She stayed with me as she didn't have money saved up for a new place until March. But we were anything but a couple in those two months.
"The leads are weak!"
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
Basically back in December. She stayed with me as she didn't have money saved up for a new place until March. But we were anything but a couple in those two months.
Yikes, my ex and I broke up (after 7 years) last september. I moved immediately, but left some of my stuff there for a loong time. I really wasn't trying to be bitchey though, my dad was going through chemo (who I lived with), and then my car was totaled, so I had stuff to do. Sounds like this chick is just spiteful though. Hmmmm.
I cannot imagine having to live with your ex after what I am assuming was a long time for two months while you wait for her to save up money. Did she have no where else to go? You must be a glutten for punishment
my ex and I split almost 5 years ago and I still had some of his stuff stored in my house. I'm a stupid idiot who is too nice. seems you may be in that boat as well! i could never throw someone's stuff to the trash.
my ex and I split almost 5 years ago and I still had some of his stuff stored in my house. I'm a stupid idiot who is too nice. seems you may be in that boat as well! i could never throw someone's stuff to the trash.
I broke up with her, and I am definitely guilty of being too nice! I just got off of the phone with her (idiot that I am) and agreed to box up her remaining items and have her pick them up. I can't throw shit away either. I want to at least try and remain friends with her (seeing how we were together for almost 10 years) but she certainly isn't making it easy.
"The leads are weak!"
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
Yikes, my ex and I broke up (after 7 years) last september. I moved immediately, but left some of my stuff there for a loong time. I really wasn't trying to be bitchey though, my dad was going through chemo (who I lived with), and then my car was totaled, so I had stuff to do. Sounds like this chick is just spiteful though. Hmmmm.
I cannot imagine having to live with your ex after what I am assuming was a long time for two months while you wait for her to save up money. Did she have no where else to go? You must be a glutten for punishment
She could have moved in with her new "friend" but she didn't want to do that as it was too soon. Once everything went down I knew that I would never be open to reconciling with her, so as to us living together I would simply never see her. I would be asleep when she left for work and then I would go out after work until 3 a.m. hours after she would go to bed.
"The leads are weak!"
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
I broke up with her, and I am definitely guilty of being too nice! I just got off of the phone with her (idiot that I am) and agreed to box up her remaining items and have her pick them up. I can't throw shit away either. I want to at least try and remain friends with her (seeing how we were together for almost 10 years) but she certainly isn't making it easy.
I found that it was much easier to be civil with my Ex after all of our stuff was split up (except my couch which he is still using, but I don't need at the moment).
10 years is alot of history, if you want to be friends with her give it some time. Sounds like you are rightfully po'ed at her for leaving her stuff.
Good luck Sounds like you are trying to be the bigger person here.
I found that it was much easier to be civil with my Ex after all of our stuff was split up (except my couch which he is still using, but I don't need at the moment).
10 years is alot of history, if you want to be friends with her give it some time. Sounds like you are rightfully po'ed at her for leaving her stuff.
Good luck Sounds like you are trying to be the bigger person here.
Trying is the imperative word! I've been helped along by nice folks on here, along with some great friends at work, and of course the new girl I started seeing is beyond amazing!
"The leads are weak!"
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
I broke up with her, and I am definitely guilty of being too nice! I just got off of the phone with her (idiot that I am) and agreed to box up her remaining items and have her pick them up. I can't throw shit away either. I want to at least try and remain friends with her (seeing how we were together for almost 10 years) but she certainly isn't making it easy.
I hear you - I want to be friends with the ex hubby b/c we have a son together, so I put up with alot. You're noble - hopefully there is such a thing as good karma. My brother keeps telling me "when are you going to learn? nice guys (girls) always finish last" I am starting to believe that....
Trying is the imperative word! I've been helped along by nice folks on here, along with some great friends at work, and of course the new girl I started seeing is beyond amazing!
Good for you! Getting some action (bonus that she is amazing) helps with the moving on process. Takes the pressure off bigtime. You are lucky!
I hear you - I want to be friends with the ex hubby b/c we have a son together, so I put up with alot. You're noble - hopefully there is such a thing as good karma. My brother keeps telling me "when are you going to learn? nice guys (girls) always finish last" I am starting to believe that....
So not true! It may be harder to weed through all of the assholes, but us nice folk can finish first! We actually were just talking about this last night over dinner. She was commenting on how attracted she was to me based on how good of a guy I am. Hope she handle my love for Bea Arthur!
"The leads are weak!"
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
So not true! It may be harder to weed through all of the assholes, but us nice folk can finish first! We actually were just talking about this last night over dinner. She was commenting on how attracted she was to me based on how good of a guy I am. Hope she handle my love for Bea Arthur!
you might want to go slooooow with that one...Bea is a bit of a mindfLuck to get over for some girls...
just like some guys are put off with my extensive Hardcastle and McCormack collection...Pfft, who says men like porn???
IF YOU WANT A PLATE OF MY BEEF SWELLINGTON, YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE TO PAY THE COVERCHARGE.
you might want to go slooooow with that one...Bea is a bit of a mindfLuck to get over for some girls...
just like some guys are put off with my extensive Hardcastle and McCormack collection...Pfft, who says men like porn???
I accidentally let a Bea joke slip out at trivia night a few weeks back. She was a bit scared, and has actually brought her up on occasion. So I am on full lock down censor mode in regards to Bea.
"The leads are weak!"
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
So not true! It may be harder to weed through all of the assholes, but us nice folk can finish first! We actually were just talking about this last night over dinner. She was commenting on how attracted she was to me based on how good of a guy I am. Hope she handle my love for Bea Arthur!
Hmmm.. I am trying not to be jaded so quickly, but from my experience thus far, even the nice guys are pre-emptively a-holes because they aren't used to girls being real with them.
Waaaayyy of subject I know. I want to believe you, I just feel badly for people who have been on the market a while and are completely shell shocked.
I accidentally let a Bea joke slip out at trivia night a few weeks back. She was a bit scared, and has actually brought her up on occasion. So I am on full lock down censor mode in regards to Bea.
Okay, okay, I finally give in, who the hell?
*googles Bea Arthur*
Oh right, I remember the tv show. Is your love of her based around her talent Mooks, or is it purely sexual?
So not true! It may be harder to weed through all of the assholes, but us nice folk can finish first! We actually were just talking about this last night over dinner. She was commenting on how attracted she was to me based on how good of a guy I am. Hope she handle my love for Bea Arthur!
EXACTLY!
real *keepers* find such unbelievably SEXY! and hell yes, my husband is THE nicest of guys! it IS ridiculously attractive, and quite honestly....imho...a no-brainer! of course, there needs to be more in the equation besides simply being a *nice guy/girl*.....but added in with who you are, it IS a definite recipe for success in attracting a quality partner.
So not true! It may be harder to weed through all of the assholes, but us nice folk can finish first! We actually were just talking about this last night over dinner. She was commenting on how attracted she was to me based on how good of a guy I am. Hope she handle my love for Bea Arthur!
haha Bea! yeah, keep that one on the hush for awhile
well hopefully you have better luck. I think that is great that she likes you for who you are. Sounds like a good start. I was married for 10 years and I have been dating for about 4 years....a nice guy is very hard to find.
I accidentally let a Bea joke slip out at trivia night a few weeks back. She was a bit scared, and has actually brought her up on occasion. So I am on full lock down censor mode in regards to Bea.
I'll remind you not to drop any Bea jokes in there at the next trivia night.
Reading 2004
Albany 2006 Camden 2006 E. Rutherford 2, 2006 Inglewood 2006,
Chicago 2007
Camden 2008 MSG 2008 MSG 2008 Hartford 2008.
Seattle 2009 Seattle 2009 Philadelphia 2009,Philadelphia 2009 Philadelphia 2009
Hartford 2010 MSG 2010 MSG 2010
Toronto 2011,Toronto 2011
Wrigley Field 2013 Brooklyn 2013 Brooklyn 2013 Philadelphia 2, 2013
Philadelphia 1, 2016 Philadelphia 2 2016 New York 2016 New York 2016 Fenway 1, 2016 Fenway 2, 2018 MSG 2022 St. Paul, 1, St. Paul 2 2023 MSG 2024, MSG 2024 Philadelphia 2024
"I play good, hard-nosed basketball.
Things happen in the game. Nothing you
can do. I don't go and say,
"I'm gonna beat this guy up."
haha Bea! yeah, keep that one on the hush for awhile
well hopefully you have better luck. I think that is great that she likes you for who you are. Sounds like a good start. I was married for 10 years and I have been dating for about 4 years....a nice guy is very hard to find.
I broke up with her, and I am definitely guilty of being too nice! I just got off of the phone with her (idiot that I am) and agreed to box up her remaining items and have her pick them up. .
:eek:
Mooks, Mooks Mooks <shakes head in disbelief>
Too nice is an understatement.
I don't get that. She had TWO WEEKS to pack her own stuff and you are going to do it for her? Why, are her hands broken?
"...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
"Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
6-01-06
6/25/08
Free Speedy
and Metsy!
Thanks for all the kind words to all that have posted! Everyone is truly great on here! Allie, I packed some of her shit before she got here cause I knew what was to come (hours of her packing and crying). But alas, it is over she is gone as well as her stuff! Now I just need to clean a bit and get a certain someone over here to try my new tempurpedic bed out with me. And yes I'm talking to you Bea!!
"The leads are weak!"
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
Thanks for all the kind words to all that have posted! Everyone is truly great on here! Allie, I packed some of her shit before she got here cause I knew what was to come (hours of her packing and crying). But alas, it is over she is gone as well as her stuff! Now I just need to clean a bit and get a certain someone over here to try my new tempurpedic bed out with me. And yes I'm talking to you Bea!!
Arrived home from California last night to discover that my ex (who had two weeks to get ready) had not moved entirely out and my place looking like a tornado hit it! To make matters worse when I called her this morning she laughed and admitted that she only spent a day packing! She paid movers to move her shit and didn't pack it up!!! FUCK!!!! And yes I know people will say she probably wants to stay or leave some shit behind (which I was anticipating anyways) but to come home and have my place look like the Tasmanian Devil had stopped by is just fucked!! Rant over! FUCK!!! Okay, now it's over! FUCK AGAIN!!!!!
Sorry that happened to you,
I got one for ya, when I got home from California someone had carved FUK U, in the hood of my car, that I had just got back from the shop. I wish I had an ex to blame it on, because that would at least made me feel safer than just thinking there is some crazy asshole out there who doesn't like me and can't even spell FUK. I think it's time to move out of the neighborhood and I love my cheap ass rent, but rent isn't cheap when you have to pay for insurance deductables too.
I got one for ya, when I got home from California someone had carved FUK U, in the hood of my car, that I had just got back from the shop. I wish I had an ex to blame it on, because that would at least made me feel safer than just thinking there is some crazy asshole out there who doesn't like me and can't even spell FUK. I think it's time to move out of the neighborhood and I love my cheap ass rent, but rent isn't cheap when you have to pay for insurance deductables too.
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She wouldn't want any of my PJ stuff unless to take it to hurt me. All of it is there as far as I've seen. As to the thongs!! :eek: I forgot to check!!! I'm contacting my attorney if even one banana hammock is missing!!! :mad:
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
"What's your name?"
"FUCK YOU! THAT"S MY NAME!"
Basically back in December. She stayed with me as she didn't have money saved up for a new place until March. But we were anything but a couple in those two months.
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
"What's your name?"
"FUCK YOU! THAT"S MY NAME!"
where is she, mijo?? where is she??? Donde???
"hol' my rings" *takes off rings, and puts hair in ponytail...oh wait...it's too short, cracks knuckles and removes sandals for leverage*
Looks like Fipsy's gonna hafta smack a bitch.
Yikes, my ex and I broke up (after 7 years) last september. I moved immediately, but left some of my stuff there for a loong time. I really wasn't trying to be bitchey though, my dad was going through chemo (who I lived with), and then my car was totaled, so I had stuff to do. Sounds like this chick is just spiteful though. Hmmmm.
I cannot imagine having to live with your ex after what I am assuming was a long time for two months while you wait for her to save up money. Did she have no where else to go? You must be a glutten for punishment
whoa whoa whoa - you gotta wonder woman costume you can throw on there???
my ex and I split almost 5 years ago and I still had some of his stuff stored in my house. I'm a stupid idiot who is too nice. seems you may be in that boat as well! i could never throw someone's stuff to the trash.
I broke up with her, and I am definitely guilty of being too nice! I just got off of the phone with her (idiot that I am) and agreed to box up her remaining items and have her pick them up. I can't throw shit away either. I want to at least try and remain friends with her (seeing how we were together for almost 10 years) but she certainly isn't making it easy.
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
"What's your name?"
"FUCK YOU! THAT"S MY NAME!"
She could have moved in with her new "friend" but she didn't want to do that as it was too soon. Once everything went down I knew that I would never be open to reconciling with her, so as to us living together I would simply never see her. I would be asleep when she left for work and then I would go out after work until 3 a.m. hours after she would go to bed.
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
"What's your name?"
"FUCK YOU! THAT"S MY NAME!"
I found that it was much easier to be civil with my Ex after all of our stuff was split up (except my couch which he is still using, but I don't need at the moment).
10 years is alot of history, if you want to be friends with her give it some time. Sounds like you are rightfully po'ed at her for leaving her stuff.
Good luck
Trying is the imperative word! I've been helped along by nice folks on here, along with some great friends at work, and of course the new girl I started seeing is beyond amazing!
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
"What's your name?"
"FUCK YOU! THAT"S MY NAME!"
I hear you - I want to be friends with the ex hubby b/c we have a son together, so I put up with alot. You're noble - hopefully there is such a thing as good karma. My brother keeps telling me "when are you going to learn? nice guys (girls) always finish last" I am starting to believe that....
Good for you! Getting some action (bonus that she is amazing) helps with the moving on process. Takes the pressure off bigtime.
hey works for me!
Mook you gotta let Fipsy here get some action...she's dressed to kick butt. And recover anything that's missing!
So not true! It may be harder to weed through all of the assholes, but us nice folk can finish first! We actually were just talking about this last night over dinner. She was commenting on how attracted she was to me based on how good of a guy I am. Hope she handle my love for Bea Arthur!
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
"What's your name?"
"FUCK YOU! THAT"S MY NAME!"
just like some guys are put off with my extensive Hardcastle and McCormack collection...Pfft, who says men like porn???
I accidentally let a Bea joke slip out at trivia night a few weeks back. She was a bit scared, and has actually brought her up on occasion. So I am on full lock down censor mode in regards to Bea.
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
"What's your name?"
"FUCK YOU! THAT"S MY NAME!"
Hmmm.. I am trying not to be jaded so quickly, but from my experience thus far, even the nice guys are pre-emptively a-holes because they aren't used to girls being real with them.
Waaaayyy of subject I know. I want to believe you, I just feel badly for people who have been on the market a while and are completely shell shocked.
Okay, okay, I finally give in, who the hell?
*googles Bea Arthur*
Oh right, I remember the tv show. Is your love of her based around her talent Mooks, or is it purely sexual?
EXACTLY!
real *keepers* find such unbelievably SEXY! and hell yes, my husband is THE nicest of guys! it IS ridiculously attractive, and quite honestly....imho...a no-brainer! of course, there needs to be more in the equation besides simply being a *nice guy/girl*.....but added in with who you are, it IS a definite recipe for success in attracting a quality partner.
enjoy mooks....you deserve to!
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
haha Bea! yeah, keep that one on the hush for awhile
well hopefully you have better luck. I think that is great that she likes you for who you are. Sounds like a good start. I was married for 10 years and I have been dating for about 4 years....a nice guy is very hard to find.
I'll remind you not to drop any Bea jokes in there at the next trivia night.
Albany 2006 Camden 2006 E. Rutherford 2, 2006 Inglewood 2006,
Chicago 2007
Camden 2008 MSG 2008 MSG 2008 Hartford 2008.
Seattle 2009 Seattle 2009 Philadelphia 2009,Philadelphia 2009 Philadelphia 2009
Hartford 2010 MSG 2010 MSG 2010
Toronto 2011,Toronto 2011
Wrigley Field 2013 Brooklyn 2013 Brooklyn 2013 Philadelphia 2, 2013
Philadelphia 1, 2016 Philadelphia 2 2016 New York 2016 New York 2016 Fenway 1, 2016
Fenway 2, 2018
MSG 2022
St. Paul, 1, St. Paul 2 2023
MSG 2024, MSG 2024
Philadelphia 2024
"I play good, hard-nosed basketball.
Things happen in the game. Nothing you
can do. I don't go and say,
"I'm gonna beat this guy up."
Holding me like gravity are places that pull
If ever there was someone to keep me at home
It would be you..."
maybe we should both be going to trivia nights.
:eek:
Mooks, Mooks Mooks <shakes head in disbelief>
Too nice is an understatement.
I don't get that. She had TWO WEEKS to pack her own stuff and you are going to do it for her? Why, are her hands broken?
"Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
6-01-06
6/25/08
Free Speedy
and Metsy!
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
"What's your name?"
"FUCK YOU! THAT"S MY NAME!"
woo-hoo! bea is getting some loving tonite eh?
Why are you still online exactly?
Sorry that happened to you,
I got one for ya, when I got home from California someone had carved FUK U, in the hood of my car, that I had just got back from the shop. I wish I had an ex to blame it on, because that would at least made me feel safer than just thinking there is some crazy asshole out there who doesn't like me and can't even spell FUK. I think it's time to move out of the neighborhood and I love my cheap ass rent, but rent isn't cheap when you have to pay for insurance deductables too.
damn that blows!!! WTF?!?! :mad: :(
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
"What's your name?"
"FUCK YOU! THAT"S MY NAME!"