ever do something drunk you really regret?

MrMerkinball

Summer '93. Amongst a group of about 20 of us. Camping in Northern Ontario.

It happened in this order

1. Got naked in a lake in algonquin park.
2. Had significant Shrinkage
3. Tried to warm up by the bon-fire
4. Fell in to the bon fire
5. Ran back in lake
6. Still Naked

Whizbang

MrMerkinball wrote:

Summer '93. Amongst a group of about 20 of us. Camping in Northern Ontario.

It happened in this order

1. Got naked in a lake in algonquin park.
2. Had significant Shrinkage
3. Tried to warm up by the bon-fire
4. Fell in to the bon fire
5. Ran back in lake
6. Still Naked

I wouldn't consider that a regret. That's frickin' hilarious!

norm

MrMerkinball wrote:

Summer '93. Amongst a group of about 20 of us. Camping in Northern Ontario.

It happened in this order

1. Got naked in a lake in algonquin park.
2. Had significant Shrinkage
3. Tried to warm up by the bon-fire
4. Fell in to the bon fire
5. Ran back in lake
6. Still Naked

:D

What part did you regret?;)

MrMerkinball

cutback wrote:

:D

What part did you regret?;)

I woke up in trackpants that had attached themselves to the blisters caused by the bon-fire.

soulsinging

MrMerkinball wrote:

I woke up in trackpants that had attached themselves to the blisters caused by the bon-fire.

you win.

MrMerkinball

soulsinging wrote:

you win.

Does that mean I just killed ANOTHER thread? I do that all the time.

tara

MrMerkinball wrote:

I woke up in trackpants that had attached themselves to the blisters caused by the bon-fire.

ow ow ow, although i'm picturing dirty things, i seriously hope tha those blisters were on your hands or legs or something. ow

MrMerkinball

tara wrote:

ow ow ow, although i'm picturing dirty things, i seriously hope tha those blisters were on your hands or legs or something. ow

oH MAN, NO.

Blisters on both legs.

writersu

Jeremy1012 wrote:

last night I was at a friend's house with her and two other friends. we were having a good time, I'd had a few drinks and usual I was all relaxed and happy with everyone. me and one of my friends were sat on a sofa and were all cuddling and stuff.

Now I should make it clear that, while I do find her attractive and she is one of my closest friends, she is a no-go. She has been in a relationship with one of my friends for about 2 years. after a while we were getting more drunk (but not so drunk that I wasn't in control of myself) and when the two other friends left the room for a bit we kissed. unfortunately it wasn't just a quick thing we could brush off because it happened several times and I certainly made no attempt to stop it. I was thinking at the time that it was wrong, that I should stop and just make a joke out of it (and to be honest it was just a bit of fun between close friends).

This morning (I slept alone by the way ) things were a little awkward which I later found out was because she was feeling guilty about her boyfriend. Both of us are well aware that it meant nothing and we are just good friends who are comfortable in each others company. however, she felt that she had to tell her boyfriend what happened. she told a variation of the truth that made it seem like an accident and he accepted it now. the thing is, I like the guy a lot and even though it was just a kiss and meant nothing, I don't think I'm going to be able to look him in the eye from now on knowing that we are both kind of lying to him. at the same time, I can't now tell the actual truth because that will make it seem like it was a big enough deal to have to cover it up. I don't really know what to do. any advice?

First of all, the #1 dumb thing I have ever done was not only taste tequila going down, but also, coming up.........awful.....

Anyway, as far as your question goes, I would not get all into retelling this story to the guy that is your friend or anyone else who is in your circle of close friends. Letting it go sounds more like it was , as you said, an innocent, no big deal, accident. If you focus too much on apologizing or feeling bad, it may blow the whole thing up into a "bigger than it really was" thing, you know?

And hell, I know the girl is a friend as well, but it did take two people, not just you.......so that said, if you can, don't feel so guilty about it. If you don't want that to ever happen again, though, just make sure it doesn't happen again.

Hartydog

I once called a co-worker a milf. yikes. after that I avoided her like crazy but she was always nice to me and I helped her husband find a new job

FinsburyParkCarrots

Jeremy1012 wrote:

last night I was at a friend's house with her and two other friends. we were having a good time, I'd had a few drinks and usual I was all relaxed and happy with everyone. me and one of my friends were sat on a sofa and were all cuddling and stuff.

Now I should make it clear that, while I do find her attractive and she is one of my closest friends, she is a no-go. She has been in a relationship with one of my friends for about 2 years. after a while we were getting more drunk (but not so drunk that I wasn't in control of myself) and when the two other friends left the room for a bit we kissed. unfortunately it wasn't just a quick thing we could brush off because it happened several times and I certainly made no attempt to stop it. I was thinking at the time that it was wrong, that I should stop and just make a joke out of it (and to be honest it was just a bit of fun between close friends).

This morning (I slept alone by the way ) things were a little awkward which I later found out was because she was feeling guilty about her boyfriend. Both of us are well aware that it meant nothing and we are just good friends who are comfortable in each others company. however, she felt that she had to tell her boyfriend what happened. she told a variation of the truth that made it seem like an accident and he accepted it now. the thing is, I like the guy a lot and even though it was just a kiss and meant nothing, I don't think I'm going to be able to look him in the eye from now on knowing that we are both kind of lying to him. at the same time, I can't now tell the actual truth because that will make it seem like it was a big enough deal to have to cover it up. I don't really know what to do. any advice?

Ahh, once you've had a few married women, sober, these things stop mattering.

MattCameronKicksButt

I think you should just forget about it. Unless you have feelings for her.

I wouldn't tell him anymore than she has. Just leave it alone!

dunkman

if i found out my girl had kissed one of my 'friends' then i'd stab him to death with a frisbee.


p.s. this would hurt

Ahnimus

I regret getting drunk. That's enough for me.

Ahnimus

dunkman wrote:

if i found out my girl had kissed one of my 'friends' then i'd stab him to death with a frisbee.


p.s. this would hurt

A guy I work with just had his girlfriend leave him to become a high-priced hooker. She wants to get a boob job, so she has a 90 day contract with some rich married lawyer. How's that?

dunkman

Ahnimus wrote:

A guy I work with just had his girlfriend leave him to become a high-priced hooker. She wants to get a boob job, so she has a 90 day contract with some rich married lawyer. How's that?

well lawyers are cunts... and your guy at work is better off now i feel.


p.s. how high-priced are we talking... i have 87 pounds and a subscription to Goood Housekeeping she could have?

soulsinging

Ahnimus wrote:

A guy I work with just had his girlfriend leave him to become a high-priced hooker. She wants to get a boob job, so she has a 90 day contract with some rich married lawyer. How's that?

got her contact info?

dunkman

soulsinging wrote:

got her contact info?

see Ahnimus ... lawyers are cunts

Ahnimus

dunkman wrote:

well lawyers are cunts... and your guy at work is better off now i feel.


p.s. how high-priced are we talking... i have 87 pounds and a subscription to Goood Housekeeping she could have?

I think the deal was for $10,000

chadwick

Jeremy1012 wrote:

she thinks that he might be upset by it and since it really meant nothing she thinks it would be stupid to cause problems because of it. she didn't exactly lie to him, just told him that she went to kiss me on the cheek, missed and then, because we were drunk, we kissed.

haha.
i like this.
reminds me of when i was drunk once or 14,941 times and my weiner accidently slipped out of my boxers and into something where it shouldn't have been, although it sure felt FANTASTIC at the time it was not a good idea and I surely was not going to retract myself from where my manhood was placed.

in all seriousness, you 3 could have a sit down meeting and discuss what happened.
you 3 could forget it happened.
you and your dude could go and talk about it in a nice atmosphere.
it sounds harmless to me but it also sounds like the truth was hidden from your dude.

reverse roles with your dude and yourself.
place your would-be lady's mouth around your dudes mouth
and see how that works out in your thoughts.

i hope everything irons itself out, it seems like it was harmless.
but as pearl jam says, nothing as it seems.