what the hell do ya get a guy for valentines?

Heineken Helen

Poncier wrote:

Guys are simple...either sex or sex and he'll be happy.

but I wanna give him something he CAN'T have any other day... guys I'm not asking for sex advice here ok, lol, much as I appreciate the help on that front, it's not needed... I want to know what you fellas want as an actual GIFT.

lalalalaaaaaaaa

Heineken Helen wrote:

but I wanna give him something he CAN'T have any other day.

Yeah, that's why I like my card idea....great gift, and it won't cost you anything but a few extra calories.

Heineken Helen

MattCameronKicksButt wrote:

Broaden his mind, enlighten him, teach him how to get his lazy ass off the sofa at weekends.

Yeah, I know... he's a lucky guy.

hmm... so how do I enlighten him?

acoustic guy

Heineken Helen wrote:

but I wanna give him something he CAN'T have any other day... guys I'm not asking for sex advice here ok, lol, much as I appreciate the help on that front, it's not needed... I want to know what you fellas want as an actual GIFT.

KINKY SEX!
You know, Get nasty
Not the everyday stuff......Thats it really.
It Valentines Day!

audiodave

Heineken Helen wrote:

but I wanna give him something he CAN'T have any other day... guys I'm not asking for sex advice here ok, lol, much as I appreciate the help on that front, it's not needed... I want to know what you fellas want as an actual GIFT.

Well, what I would want, and I reckon it would apply to your fella aswell, is something that no one else could have got, and something that shows him you know him.

But what that is...I couldn't tell ya.

Brain of J.Lo

Poncier wrote:

What every man wants.























Guys are simple...either sex or sex and he'll be happy.

Well I was going to say sex, but since she already said she's got that covered...I thought maybe she would enjoy stimulating his intellectual side. See, some guys actually have an intellectual side.

MattCameronKicksButt

Heineken Helen wrote:

hmm... so how do I enlighten him?

yeah... I'm still working on that as well. I'll let you know if I ever find out and you're still here seven years down the line.

Heineken Helen

Saturnal wrote:

Yeah, that's why I like my card idea....great gift, and it won't cost you anything but a few extra calories.

but there's no need for it

GreenTeaDisease

hmm only had one boyfriend over valentines and we didn't exchange gifts...thank god...sorry, can't help!

lalalalaaaaaaaa

Brain of J.Lo wrote:

Well I was going to say sex, but since she already said she's got that covered...I thought maybe she would enjoy stimulating his intellectual side. See, some guys actually have an intellectual side.

Ok, then she could put on some glasses and play the role of a naughty librarian.

Intellect angle is now covered.

acoustic guy

Brain of J.Lo wrote:

Well I was going to say sex, but since she already said she's got that covered...I thought maybe she would enjoy stimulating his intellectual side. See, some guys actually have an intellectual side.

A what????
LOL
If you see one on a guy, its just a front.

Heineken Helen

audiodave wrote:

Well, what I would want, and I reckon it would apply to your fella aswell, is something that no one else could have got, and something that shows him you know him.

But what that is...I couldn't tell ya.

see that's what I wanna get... and I DO know him... but I've never been very inspired when it comes to gifts for people I know... until I SEE it and it clicks. But I haven't seen it :(

Brain of J.Lo

Saturnal wrote:

Ok, then she could put on some glasses and play the role of a naughty librarian.

Intellect angle is now covered.

lol

acoustic guy

Saturnal wrote:

Ok, then she could put on some glasses and play the role of a naughty librarian.

Intellect angle is now covered.

hahahaha

Brain of J.Lo

acoustic guy wrote:

A what????
LOL
If you see one on a guy, its just a front.

lol, no my husband is the most intellectual guy I know! I've known him for 5 years now, so he's definitely not just scamming me

Sian-of-the-dead

A poke in the eye with a pointed stick....

if he's been good.

GreenTeaDisease

Brain of J.Lo wrote:

lol, no my husband is the most intellectual guy I know! I've known him for 5 years now, so he's definitely not just scamming me

you're lucky J.Lo. I've dated a couple smart/intellectual guys but the majority have had nothing between their ears. not dating these guys anymore is part of my new "no compromising" plan.

lalalalaaaaaaaa

Heineken Helen wrote:

but there's no need for it

Ok hot stuff...maybe a "Get Out Of SEX Free" card would be better then.

Get_Right

tickets
to a show, a sporting event, that he can go to with the fellas

a nice bottle (wine scotch tequilia)

an article of clothing he would never spend money on, but might enjoy
(cashmere scarves are nice)

gift certificates for a trip, a message, best buy (not really romantic though)

thats what Id like, Im not mushy and would probably roll my eyes and laugh if my wife got me a book of love poems

Heineken Helen

Saturnal wrote:

Ok hot stuff...maybe a "Get Out Of SEX Free" card would be better then.

that'd be the worst valentines gift ever

chinobaeza

Get_Right wrote:

(cashmere scarves are nice)

excellent...too bad we are in the middle of the summer here, so I can't ask for one....but as soon as the winter arrives I'm gonna get one

acoustic guy

Get_Right wrote:

tickets
to a show, a sporting event, that he can go to with the fellas

a nice bottle (wine scotch tequilia)

an article of clothing he would never spend money on, but might enjoy
(cashmere scarves are nice)

gift certificates for a trip, a message, best buy (not really romantic though)

thats what Id like, Im not mushy and would probably roll my eyes and laugh if my wife got me a book of love poems

Good ideas!
Could you forward this to my wife?

Brain of J.Lo

GreenTeaDisease wrote:

you're lucky J.Lo. I've dated a couple smart/intellectual guys but the majority have had nothing between their ears. not dating these guys anymore is part of my new "no compromising" plan.

I think that's a good plan. Seriously, I think the intellectual connection is one of the most important things a couple can have! I love how smart he is. It's sexy. Actually, one of the first things that attracted me to him was his vocabulary...lol! It made me swoon!

Heineken Helen

Get_Right wrote:

thats what Id like, Im not mushy and would probably roll my eyes and laugh if my wife got me a book of love poems

see he'd probably like that but there's no way I'm buying love poems for anyone

Sian-of-the-dead

Heineken Helen wrote:

see he'd probably like that but there's no way I'm buying love poems for anyone

so write him one.

Heineken Helen

Get_Right wrote:

tickets
to a show, a sporting event, that he can go to with the fellas

a nice bottle (wine scotch tequilia)

an article of clothing he would never spend money on, but might enjoy
(cashmere scarves are nice)

gift certificates for a trip, a message, best buy (not really romantic though)

thats what Id like, Im not mushy and would probably roll my eyes and laugh if my wife got me a book of love poems

thank you... some good tips there.

dunkman

Heineken Helen wrote:

hmm... so how do I enlighten him?

helium up the bumium.

Heineken Helen

Sian-of-the-dead wrote:

so write him one.

Are you fucking kidding me? Me??? Poetry? Not a chance.

chinobaeza

dunkman wrote:

helium up the bumium.

Sian-of-the-dead

Heineken Helen wrote:

Are you fucking kidding me? Me??? Poetry? Not a chance.

why not? it's something really personal and from you. he won't care if it's Larkin or a limerick, fact is, you wrote it for him.