im sorry this is happening. if shes a meth addict and stripper and in AZ
ppl need to look in strip clubs and get in touch with her meth connections..
these poor kids..man this kinda stuff just burns me..search motels and places of travel, truck stops, rest areas..are you folks headin to AZ?
and our system sucks ass for not amber alerting her stupid ass..
the system friggin blows..
Cops here won't go there bc thats out of their jurisdiction. She gets away all the time on some stupid loop hole. We have the restraining order but she wasn't served bc she'd taken off... if the cops had been there she would have been arrested on the spot. The parenting plan doesn't go into effect until the 16th but again we're screwed bc she was never served, again bc she took off. This really sucks but we just contacted an attorney. Super expensive but there's really no other option.
Oh yea and the cops told Tommy he could just go there and kidnap him back. Real nice.
We're not headed there yet bc its just stupid to kidnap him back, for her to just come up here and do it over and over again. This needs to be stopped. She needs to go to jail...period. We're not messing around anymore.
According to her myspace her oldest son is school age. Would there be any way that his father could contact the township to either find out if he is enrolled and what the address they used to register him is or if he could report it at a truancy?
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i have a friend in chandler az which is kinda close to queen creek. i sent her the links and pics and asked her to spread the word around there and to keep her eyes open.
Thanks again everyone. I think our only option is to get a really good lawyer to get Skyler back. I don't know how to get Riley back since he's not ours and his parents are not as proactive as we are. They never bothered to file anything with the courts, etc. We always filed, and she always weasled out of it somehow, saying she never got served or whatever BS. So now time to just have a lawyer take care of this. We will get Sky back and she will never be allowed to see him again.
I just talked to the most awesome paralegal. She's the only one who's showed such concern. She said go to the media, go to CPS, get in front of a judge, man she was fired up! I had Tommy give her a call so maybe he can just hire this one and get this going! Pray that this works!
Well, posting it here is probably I major waste of valuable time. Nonetheless, I hope it works out for the best!!!
Good luck..
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I just talked to the most awesome paralegal. She's the only one who's showed such concern. She said go to the media, go to CPS, get in front of a judge, man she was fired up! I had Tommy give her a call so maybe he can just hire this one and get this going! Pray that this works!
I dont consider it a waste of time. You never know who can help you.
It's not a waste of time. You never know where help will come from, and with all this stress, the moral support must be doing you at least some good
I'm glad you finally found someone who is interested in helping. I'll be thinking of you over the weekend, I really hope you and the other family both get the boys back.
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Hoping both of those little guys get home soon! I've read your posts about her before and believe she should not have contact with those boys until she chooses to get healthy on more than one level and obviously -never unsupervised!
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I'm in Mesa AZ. Do you know what kind of vehicle she's driving? Plate #? Can definitely keep an eye out for it when I'm on the road.
There are other AZ jammers on the board that this could be shared with too.
What happens if she is spotted here? Will the police do anything at that point once her location is known?
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I just read this....I am so sorry this has happend. Unfortunately, you are right that you will probably need a lawyer to get her back. You will need to go before a judge and get an order of custody, and then get an order to deliver to the sheriff in the county this woman is in who will go out and actually take posession of Skylar.
I am hoping and praying for you and that you will get him back soon.
I just read this....I am so sorry this has happend. Unfortunately, you are right that you will probably need a lawyer to get her back. You will need to go before a judge and get an order of custody, and then get an order to deliver to the sheriff in the county this woman is in who will go out and actually take posession of Skylar.
I am hoping and praying for you and that you will get him back soon.
Thanks for your good thoughts and prayers.
Well it's not looking good at all. We don't know where she is. We need an address to serve her and the court requires she is served in person. :(
She told Tommy she is moving and won't say where.
He spoke to an attorney this AM and they want $3500 to retain and the fees probably go on from there. We can't afford it.
I so wish there was an attorney who would help us pro bono. I have looked and looked and I can't find one.
Hoping for a miracle!
I'm in Mesa AZ. Do you know what kind of vehicle she's driving? Plate #? Can definitely keep an eye out for it when I'm on the road.
There are other AZ jammers on the board that this could be shared with too.
What happens if she is spotted here? Will the police do anything at that point once her location is known?
I just need to know what address she is at so we can have her served with paperwork. The police won't do anything until that is done. Totally stupid system that is protecting the person who commited the crime right now.
Man, this is so fucked up. I can't believe the cops aren't doing anything. I hope the kids are safe. Did you talk to the other family?
O yea the other family acted all concerned but then I saw them posting HAPPY EASTER on her myspace so I really don't believe them. AND apparentally they met up with her and gave her all Riley's belongings. WTF would they do that???? Great people we are dealing with here. The thing is that family is Anne's aunt. Her Aunt married the dad of Riley. Pretty twisted.
Thanks for your good thoughts and prayers.
She told Tommy she is moving and won't say where.
He spoke to an attorney this AM and they want $3500 to retain and the fees probably go on from there. We can't afford it.
I so wish there was an attorney who would help us pro bono. I have looked and looked and I can't find one.
Hoping for a miracle!
She called your bf? Can the police trace the call? Did a # come up on caller ID that they can trace?
How did she get a hold of these kids? Where was she calling from? Did she say anything about how the kids are doing?
This seems like a bad movie, or a nightmare that you can't wake up from. I can't believe nothing can be done.
Rose maybe you can post this on the Porch board too, there has to be a lawyer out there that can help you.
Is there a Legal Aid lawyer/service by you? Maybe they can help at a reduced/sliding scale fee.
Hang in there. Friendy <hug> Somehow it'll be ok
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No he called her yesterday to try to get an address out of her but she refused and hung up on him. She has a cell phone. We don't know how the kids are. She's hiding from us.
This whole thing is exhausting. I feel like we never get anywhere. :(
She called your bf? Can the police trace the call? Did a # come up on caller ID that they can trace?
How did she get a hold of these kids? Where was she calling from? Did she say anything about how the kids are doing?
This seems like a bad movie, or a nightmare that you can't wake up from. I can't believe nothing can be done.
Rose maybe you can post this on the Porch board too, there has to be a lawyer out there that can help you.
Is there a Legal Aid lawyer/service by you? Maybe they can help at a reduced/sliding scale fee.
Hang in there. Friendy <hug> Somehow it'll be ok
Thanks for the hug. She took Skyler from the hospital last Monday and she took the other son from a park by his house, although I think the other family is in on it personally. since they are basically helping her and doing NOTHING.
Thanks for the hug. She took Skyler from the hospital last Monday and she took the other son from a park by his house, although I think the other family is in on it personally. since they are basically helping her and doing NOTHING.
You're welcome.
I CANNOT BELIEVE the police have a cell phone # for her and won't do anything.
Wow.
Skyler is your stepson right?
She took him from A HOSPITAL!? OMG. And they couldn't say anything b/c she is his mother, right? I used to work in a hospital, I'm a social worker. I wonder if they knew anything about the situation. That is unbelieveable she would have the gall to do that.
There has to be something that can be done, don't give up Rose. Maybe you can try looking up Legal Aid?
What happened w/going to the media?
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Ths is the pro bono committee for the Washington State Bar. I would try contacting one of the lawyers on the committee to see if they could put you in contact with someone who might take it pro bono if you are unable to afford to pay. It may be a long shot, but it cannot hurt anything.
Ths is the pro bono committee for the Washington State Bar. I would try contacting one of the lawyers on the committee to see if they could put you in contact with someone who might take it pro bono if you are unable to afford to pay. It may be a long shot, but it cannot hurt anything.
Thanks I'll check out the first one. The second one I contacted a while ago and they were of no help what so ever. They saw its for civil cases but its not really.
Thanks I'll check out the first one. The second one I contacted a while ago and they were of no help what so ever. They saw its for civil cases but its not really.
That really sucks. Assuming your goal is to get the child back, it is a civil custody dispute. I know you cannot have her prosecuted through that organization, but you could use it to pursue the civil remedy of getting Skylar back.
I am sorry you are having such a tough time. The system really is fucked up if you cannot find someone to help you out on a pro bono basis. :( I don't know what else to tell you.
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have you tried contacting the police in the area of arizona where she may be??
if your boyfriend has legal custody of his son I don't understand why the authorities can't get involved.
wishing you the best ...
stay strong.
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ppl need to look in strip clubs and get in touch with her meth connections..
these poor kids..man this kinda stuff just burns me..search motels and places of travel, truck stops, rest areas..are you folks headin to AZ?
and our system sucks ass for not amber alerting her stupid ass..
the system friggin blows..
"Hear me, my chiefs!
I am tired; my heart is
sick and sad. From where
the sun stands I will fight
no more forever."
Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
Oh yea and the cops told Tommy he could just go there and kidnap him back. Real nice.
We're not headed there yet bc its just stupid to kidnap him back, for her to just come up here and do it over and over again. This needs to be stopped. She needs to go to jail...period. We're not messing around anymore.
Hang in there.
"Hear me, my chiefs!
I am tired; my heart is
sick and sad. From where
the sun stands I will fight
no more forever."
Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
all my hopes, anger, pride and shame...
hugs and love
i hope you get the kids back soon.
but nice people sw****w
Maybe this could get stickied on the Porch?
Rose maybe you could post there too?
I know there's at least 1 lawyer on there, maybe there are more, and/or law enforcement personnel and maybe they have some more helpful suggestions?
Keep us posted
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and Metsy!
Good luck..
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
I dont consider it a waste of time. You never know who can help you.
Sending good thoughts...:)
I'm glad you finally found someone who is interested in helping. I'll be thinking of you over the weekend, I really hope you and the other family both get the boys back.
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There are other AZ jammers on the board that this could be shared with too.
What happens if she is spotted here? Will the police do anything at that point once her location is known?
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I just read this....I am so sorry this has happend. Unfortunately, you are right that you will probably need a lawyer to get her back. You will need to go before a judge and get an order of custody, and then get an order to deliver to the sheriff in the county this woman is in who will go out and actually take posession of Skylar.
I am hoping and praying for you and that you will get him back soon.
Thanks for your good thoughts and prayers.
Well it's not looking good at all. We don't know where she is. We need an address to serve her and the court requires she is served in person. :(
She told Tommy she is moving and won't say where.
He spoke to an attorney this AM and they want $3500 to retain and the fees probably go on from there. We can't afford it.
I so wish there was an attorney who would help us pro bono. I have looked and looked and I can't find one.
Hoping for a miracle!
I just need to know what address she is at so we can have her served with paperwork. The police won't do anything until that is done. Totally stupid system that is protecting the person who commited the crime right now.
O yea the other family acted all concerned but then I saw them posting HAPPY EASTER on her myspace so I really don't believe them. AND apparentally they met up with her and gave her all Riley's belongings. WTF would they do that???? Great people we are dealing with here. The thing is that family is Anne's aunt. Her Aunt married the dad of Riley. Pretty twisted.
She called your bf? Can the police trace the call? Did a # come up on caller ID that they can trace?
How did she get a hold of these kids? Where was she calling from? Did she say anything about how the kids are doing?
This seems like a bad movie, or a nightmare that you can't wake up from. I can't believe nothing can be done.
Rose maybe you can post this on the Porch board too, there has to be a lawyer out there that can help you.
Is there a Legal Aid lawyer/service by you? Maybe they can help at a reduced/sliding scale fee.
Hang in there. Friendy <hug> Somehow it'll be ok
"Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
6-01-06
6/25/08
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and Metsy!
This whole thing is exhausting. I feel like we never get anywhere. :(
Thanks for the hug. She took Skyler from the hospital last Monday and she took the other son from a park by his house, although I think the other family is in on it personally. since they are basically helping her and doing NOTHING.
You're welcome.
I CANNOT BELIEVE the police have a cell phone # for her and won't do anything.
Wow.
Skyler is your stepson right?
She took him from A HOSPITAL!? OMG. And they couldn't say anything b/c she is his mother, right? I used to work in a hospital, I'm a social worker. I wonder if they knew anything about the situation. That is unbelieveable she would have the gall to do that.
There has to be something that can be done, don't give up Rose. Maybe you can try looking up Legal Aid?
What happened w/going to the media?
"Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
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6/25/08
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and Metsy!
Look at this website:
http://www.wsba.org/lawyers/groups/probono/default.htm
And for some more info:
http://www.wsba.org/atj/contact/legasst.htm
Ths is the pro bono committee for the Washington State Bar. I would try contacting one of the lawyers on the committee to see if they could put you in contact with someone who might take it pro bono if you are unable to afford to pay. It may be a long shot, but it cannot hurt anything.
Thanks I'll check out the first one. The second one I contacted a while ago and they were of no help what so ever. They saw its for civil cases but its not really.
That really sucks. Assuming your goal is to get the child back, it is a civil custody dispute. I know you cannot have her prosecuted through that organization, but you could use it to pursue the civil remedy of getting Skylar back.
I am sorry you are having such a tough time. The system really is fucked up if you cannot find someone to help you out on a pro bono basis. :( I don't know what else to tell you.