help me decipher this e-mail

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  • JordyWordy
    JordyWordy Posts: 2,261
    i think its quite clear that what you're looking for isnt necisarily her, but another gorgeous girl who accepts you for who you are AND who you were.

    she was one of those but shes gone now and you should look for another person, because theres plenty out there who fit the bill. just gotta open your eyes and find one man.

    looking back is just wasting time. past relationships should help you have better future ones, not keep you stuck in regret

    while this is speaking from personal experience obviously, its nutn as extreme as ur situation to be fair

    chin up
  • Heineken Helen
    Heineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    sponger wrote:
    pass the morphine please...heh heh j/k. I'll get over it..someday. She is such a bombshell now..so unbelievably beautiful...the man she is with does not deserve her no matter how rich and successful he is. Or maybe he does deserve her...
    so do you think you do? You dumped her one night years ago because you were pissed off... then years later you email her asking her to marry you. She replies in what can't really be described as in 'fuck off' fashion but you don't reply for two years, during which time she gets married. Then you email her again? The term 'fucking with her head' springs to mind. She's married, she knows how to contact you if she wants... leave her be if you really love her.
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • sponger
    sponger Posts: 3,159
    Heineken Helen wrote:
    Then you email her again?

    I did?
    reigning champion

    http://forums.pearljam.com/showthread.php?t=272825
  • Heineken Helen
    Heineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    sponger wrote:
    I did?
    I was saying how the situation would look WERE you to email her. I shoulda been clearer.
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • GreenTeaDisease
    GreenTeaDisease Posts: 3,359
    sponger wrote:

    I don't think I've met anyone else like that, and I think what keeps me hanging on is the fear that I never will.

    so, what's the worst that can happen if you don't meet someone else like her? that's nothing even close to something you should fear.
  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    SENROCK! wrote:
    does that mean u want to put this thread to bed?!
    I think he wANts to put "her" in bed ;):p
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    EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
  • Get_Right
    Get_Right Posts: 14,168
    LongRd. wrote:
    It's the new modern romance.
    emails, chats and webcams :p

    and not necessarily in that order!!!
    ;)

    You emailed a marriage proposal? WEAK
    You are thinking of responding to a two year old email? STRANGE
    You have delusions of marrying this person who just got married? STALKERISH

    Put it behind you man and find a new girl. Its been what 15 years since you two actually sat together. MOVE ON.
  • 3inputchick
    3inputchick Posts: 845
    She totally opened the lines of communication with you.... and once again you screwed it up.

    You'll be alone forever!
    A pessimist is a man who thinks all women are bad. An optimist is one who hopes they are.
  • Trailer
    Trailer Posts: 1,431
    Get_Right wrote:
    You emailed a marriage proposal? WEAK
    You are thinking of responding to a two year old email? STRANGE
    You have delusions of marrying this person who just got married? STALKERISH

    what he/she said...
    Whoa, chill bro... you know you can't raise your voice like that when the lion's here.
  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    Get_Right wrote:
    and not necessarily in that order!!!
    ;)

    You emailed a marriage proposal? WEAK
    You are thinking of responding to a two year old email? STRANGE
    You have delusions of marrying this person who just got married? STALKERISH

    Put it behind you man and find a new girl. Its been what 15 years since you two actually sat together. MOVE ON.
    It's love, man, it'll make you do crazy things.

    I think he mentioned that every girl he dated since her, hasn't been up to her level so that girl must have made a major impression on him. Isn't that most girls do anyways, try to make the best out of a relationship like the guy will never find another girl like her again.

    Whereas, the guys, most of the time, we just sex! :eek: :o
    PJ- 04/29/2003.06/24,25,27,28,30/2008.10/27,28,30,31/2009
    EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    3inputchick wrote:
    She totally opened the lines of communication with you.... and once again you screwed it up.

    You'll be alone forever!
    that was harsh...you take that back now! :(
    PJ- 04/29/2003.06/24,25,27,28,30/2008.10/27,28,30,31/2009
    EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
  • Get_Right
    Get_Right Posts: 14,168
    3inputchick wrote:
    She totally opened the lines of communication with you.... and once again you screwed it up.

    You'll be alone forever!

    unless he is lucky enough to meet a 3 input chick!
    :D
  • Get_Right
    Get_Right Posts: 14,168
    LongRd. wrote:
    It's love, man, it'll make you do crazy things.

    I think he mentioned that every girl he dated since her, hasn't been up to her level so that girl must have made a major impression on him. Isn't that most girls do anyways, try to make the best out of a relationship like the guy will never find another girl like her again.

    Whereas, the guys, most of the time, we just sex! :eek: :o

    yeah well there is nothing more harmful to a guys well being than getting hung up over the one that got away!
  • 3inputchick
    3inputchick Posts: 845
    LongRd. wrote:
    that was harsh...you take that back now! :(
    I'm using tough love...
    work with me
    A pessimist is a man who thinks all women are bad. An optimist is one who hopes they are.
  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    3inputchick wrote:
    I'm using tough love...
    work with me
    i prefer rough love ;)
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  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    Get_Right wrote:
    yeah well there is nothing more harmful to a guys well being than getting hung up over the one that got away!
    i had one that got away, then she...

    edited: nevermind
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  • pjhabit
    pjhabit Posts: 211
    sponger wrote:
    So you're saying that I was right about her response? That she was telling me to go climb up a tree?

    There are some people who think otherwise. In which case, it's not as "nuts" as you make it sound.
    Yes, you were right about her response. Although, she sounds to kind-hearted to tell you to "go climb up a tree". She was just letting you know, you need to let go of these feelings & move on (as she has).
    Sorry about the "nuts" comment, I'm sure your a swell guy. But I was just calling it as I see it.
    Anyway, good luck too ya man. The right one is still out there somewhere just waiting for your e-mail ;)
    Boise 11/3/00~Fargo 6/15/03~Winnipeg 9/8/05~St. Paul 6/26/06~6/27/06
  • sponger
    sponger Posts: 3,159
    Whatever you feel like saying is probably something I need to hear, so don't be bashful about laying it on real thick-like.
    reigning champion

    http://forums.pearljam.com/showthread.php?t=272825

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