Whats wrong whit ex-boyfriends??

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  • Ahnimus
    Ahnimus Posts: 10,560
    soulsinging wrote:
    i wanted to share reality with other people. you got dumped becos they didn't want to be with you. they could do it becos the relationship was over for them long before you knew about it so it's easy for them to try the friends thing but impossible for you cos you still want them and don't understand what went wrong. and there is nothing you can do to bring them back so don't bother trying. which is why friendship won't work until said person has time to regroup and get back on their feet... trying to switch right to friendship means said person will constantly have in the back of their head the hopes that they can somehow rekindle things. and it won't happen. and this frustrated them no matter how they try to repress it.

    That might be a prototypical case, but again, I think you are oversimplifying human relationships.
    I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
  • Earthgirl
    Earthgirl Posts: 695
    soulsinging wrote:
    from the gospel of snoop:

    "I know the pussy's mine, I'ma fuck a couple more times
    And then I'm through with it, there's nothing else to do with it
    Pass it to the homie, now you hit it
    Cause she ain't nuthin but a bitch to me
    And y'all know, that bitches ain't shit to me"


    what kind of human are you?
  • wolfbear
    wolfbear Posts: 3,965
    soulsinging wrote:
    i wanted to share reality with other people. you got dumped becos they didn't want to be with you. they could do it becos the relationship was over for them long before you knew about it so it's easy for them to try the friends thing but impossible for you cos you still want them and don't understand what went wrong. and there is nothing you can do to bring them back so don't bother trying. which is why friendship won't work until said person has time to regroup and get back on their feet... trying to switch right to friendship means said person will constantly have in the back of their head the hopes that they can somehow rekindle things. and it won't happen. and this frustrated them no matter how they try to repress it.
    #1 - you got dumped becos they didn't want to be with you.
    How about that you just didn’t get along?

    #2 -"it's easy for them to try the friends thing but impossible for you cos you still want them and don't understand what went wrong. and there is nothing you can do to bring them back so don't bother trying"
    In this case, it won’t work. Both have to agree to just be friends. It can be done. You just have to know that you are just friends and the other relationship is over.

    #3- "trying to switch right to friendship means said person will constantly have in the back of their head the hopes that they can somehow rekindle things. and it won't happen. and this frustrated them no matter how they try to repress it."
    This is where we disagree the most I think. I know that it can happen. If you value the person as a person and value the friendship that’s all that matters.
    "I'd rather be with an animal." "Those that can be trusted can change their mind." "The in between is mine." "If I don't lose control, explore and not explode, a preternatural other plane with the power to maintain." "Yeh this is living." "Life is what you make it."
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    FinsburyParkCarrots wrote:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lo5Csopw0MU

    hey, thank you for bringing some laughter to this rather sad and pathetic thread :)
  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    Earthgirl wrote:
    what kind of human are you?

    the kind that learns from experience ;)
  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    I don't know,
    never an ex-boyfriend
    before.
    PJ- 04/29/2003.06/24,25,27,28,30/2008.10/27,28,30,31/2009
    EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009

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