See ya, People

TrixieCat

catch22 wrote:

wow, you're like the karl rove of the pit! you must be the most powerful person here, with all these sources tracking every mention of you all over the internet.

Some people like me and care about my well being.
I am a good person and always fill my karma bank.
That is why.
I cannot control the envy and jealousy of others, but I can control how I deal with it.

eyedclaar

catch22 wrote:

no way in hell this could be subpoenaed and used against her in court.

That's what I thought but I wasn't sure. If have worked in HR for years hiring people into safety sensitive positions and nobody ever looked at any of this crap to base hiring decisions on.

catch22

TrixieCat wrote:

Some people like me and care about my well being.
I am a good person and always fill my karma bank.
That is why.
I cannot control the envy and jealousy of others, but I can control how I deal with it.

no, you can't control it. but you do certainly seem to be enjoying it.

catch22

eyedclaar wrote:

That's what I thought but I wasn't sure. If have worked in HR for years hiring people into safety sensitive positions and nobody ever looked at any of this crap to base hiring decisions on.

they might look at your facebook to see if you're posting photos of you doing shots off thai hookers. they might look for signs of immaturity.

but nobody is going to look you up, find an anonymous person on the internet posting shit about you and take you to court for it. that's absurd.

eyedclaar

catch22 wrote:

they might look at your facebook to see if you're posting photos of you doing shots off thai hookers. they might look for signs of immaturity.

but nobody is going to look you up, find an anonymous person on the internet posting shit about you and take you to court for it. that's absurd.

Yeah, I've heard about the facebook/myspace thing. I don't know any hiring supervisors that actually look there, but I have heard of it being done.

dunkman

i dont want Sarah to go... she makes me laugh...

Baby please don't go
Baby please don't go
Baby please don't go
Back to New Orleans
You know it hurt me so.

TrixieCat

catch22 wrote:

no, you can't control it. but you do certainly seem to be enjoying it.

???
Explain?
I am trying to make light of it because it is so immature.
And when you pass the bar, then you can tell me what is and what isn't admissible in court.
If my Dr writes down in her notes that I thought about throwing my child out the window and one day he is missing, that is admissible.
Sure as shit some bullshit on a public message board can be used.

catch22

eyedclaar wrote:

Yeah, I've heard about the facebook/myspace thing. I don't know any hiring supervisors that actually look there, but I have heard of it being done.

exactly. it happens, but it's not commonplace. and even then, they're not going to dreg up some place like that other webpage and deny a job based on that.

it certainly is not going to be used as the basis for a criminal charge. this is about gossip and ego.

GraySaturday

Look..

a principal who is interviewing me isn't going to log onto the Pearl Jam message board to see if I am a good candidate.

However, I will have extensive background checks done, and if this person(s) doesn't quit this shit, and keeps putting that trash out there.. it could come back to haunt me at some point. Maybe not via pearl jam message pit, but facebook? I mean.. obviously someone is fucked up enough to do this.. when are they not fucked up enough to go too far? I just want it to stop.. Its obviously totally untrue, and its a rumor thats not funny. I don't know how to stop it, without not making myself a target.. I feel like being here is making me a target at this point.

I have no idea who is doing this. If I did.. I'd speak to them about it. Not this forum.

I don't want to leave.. but like I said before, how do I stay and stop being a target of this? I'm not comfortable with it, its creepy.. and its just gone too far. Any suggestions?

TrixieCat

Just one example and this was taken from an article from '06.
http://media.www.mesapress.com/media/storage/paper1046/news/2006/12/19/News/Myspace.Mytrial-2598996.shtml

If this was admissible and used to convict or get someone off, then so can content found on any public website.

catch22

TrixieCat wrote:

???
Explain?
I am trying to make light of it because it is so immature.
And when you pass the bar, then you can tell me what is and what isn't admissible in court.
If my Dr writes down in her notes that I thought about throwing my child out the window and one day he is missing, that is admissible.
Sure as shit some bullshit on a public message board can be used.

actually, it's not. unless the doctor waives the privilege. but the court cannot demand those notes.

and no, nothing on here would ever be admissible in court. but then again, what do i know? i just spent an entire semester learning the rules of evidence... what is that compared to your gut feeling?

urbanhippie

GraySaturday wrote:

Look..

a principal who is interviewing me isn't going to log onto the Pearl Jam message board to see if I am a good candidate.

However, I will have extensive background checks done, and if this person(s) doesn't quit this shit, and keeps putting that trash out there.. it could come back to haunt me at some point. Maybe not via pearl jam message pit, but facebook? I mean.. obviously someone is fucked up enough to do this.. when are they not fucked up enough to go too far? I just want it to stop.. Its obviously totally untrue, and its a rumor thats not funny. I don't know how to stop it, without not making myself a target.. I feel like being here is making me a target at this point.

I have no idea who is doing this. If I did.. I'd speak to them about it. Not this forum.

I don't want to leave.. but like I said before, how do I stay and stop being a target of this? I'm not comfortable with it, its creepy.. and its just gone too far. Any suggestions?

Ignore it and hope it goes away?
Sorry if thats not much help, but all that all this talk is doing is massaging that sad fuckers ego.
Just let it die and hope they take out their frustration at not getting laid to someplace else.

catch22

TrixieCat wrote:

Just one example and this was taken from an article from '06.
http://media.www.mesapress.com/media/storage/paper1046/news/2006/12/19/News/Myspace.Mytrial-2598996.shtml

If this was admissible and used to convict or get someone off, then so can content found on any public website.

those are statements made by people involved in litigation. they can be confirmed, substantiated, and cross-examined about them. a drunk driver who said in court he was sorry, and then was confronted with stuff HE posted showing otherwise. a rape victim claiming damages confronted with stuff SHE posted making the whole thing a joke.

vastly different from some anonymous, untraceable internet person posting a bunch of wild gossip about someone else. you can't be convicted based on unsubstantiated hearsay. if SHE posted on here about banging 15 year olds, that might be one thing. anything you post can be used against you, just like anything you say can. but what other people post about you cannot be used against you. but that's not what happened. these fears are absurd.

RolandTD20Kdrummer

someone copy my user name and trash talk me so I can show how little I care...

TrixieCat

catch22 wrote:

actually, it's not. unless the doctor waives the privilege. but the court cannot demand those notes.

and no, nothing on here would ever be admissible in court. but then again, what do i know? i just spent an entire semester learning the rules of evidence... what is that compared to your gut feeling?

MY DOCTOR'S NOTES HAVE BEEN SUBPOENED BEFORE. NOT MINE BUT ANOTHER CLIENT'S. ANYTHING SHE WRITES DOWN IS ADMISSIBLE. SHE HAS BEEN A DOCTOR FOR OVER 20 YEARS. I WOULD TEND TO BELIEVE HER BEFORE A LAW STUDENT. SORRY.

catch22

TrixieCat wrote:

MY DOCTOR'S NOTES HAVE BEEN SUBPOENED BEFORE. NOT MINE BUT ANOTHER CLIENT'S. ANYTHING SHE WRITES DOWN IS ADMISSIBLE. SHE HAS BEEN A DOCTOR FOR OVER 20 YEARS. I WOULD TEND TO BELIEVE HER BEFORE A LAW STUDENT. SORRY.

i assumed you were referring to a shrink.

dunkman

RolandTD20Kdrummer wrote:

someone copy my user name and trash talk me so I can show how little I care...

already done it on http://www.lochenthusiasts.com

don't look though.. they hate you there.

TrixieCat

catch22 wrote:

i assumed you were referring to a shrink.

Of course a shrink.
Who the hell else would I tell about wanting to throw the baby out the window.
ANY Dr's notes are admissible.
Every patient's chart is a LEGAL document.

catch22

TrixieCat wrote:

Of course a shrink.
Who the hell else would I tell about wanting to throw the baby out the window.
ANY Dr's notes are admissible.
Every patient's chart is a LEGAL document.

then it would appear you have a weak doctor and the other client had a shitty attorney.

in either case, any of these things can be crossed and confronted. you can put the doctor on the stand, and your client can explain the documents. your link proves nothing. random internet posts by strangers cannot be used against you. now, they could track those people down and ask them to testify. but it's not gonna happen. otherwise every criminal case would be really easy. the prosecutor just has to get a bunch of friends to write on the internet that the defendant did it!

TrixieCat

catch22 wrote:

then it would appear you have a weak doctor and the other client had a shitty attorney.

It would appear that you have not studied up on medical ethics and law yet.
You do agree that every medical chart is a legal document, yes?