it took 4 months,,but i finally got her email

NY PJ1

TrixieCat wrote:

You sure did assume alot there hel..lol

And why is it good to know? You know, that I don't have issues with people cheating? lol

............................................................................ hehe

Heineken Helen

TrixieCat wrote:

You sure did assume alot there hel..lol

And why is it good to know? You know, that I don't have issues with people cheating? lol

Did I?

And yeh I suppose that was a stupid choice of words... people can think what they want. Doesn't matter to me as long as I, or any of my friends don't get hurt in the process but I guess those who get hurt are SOMEBODY's friend.

NY PJ1

edvedder913 wrote:

as far as i am aware, emailing someone and meeting them for a smoke is not cheating.

it was a magic smoke,, i mean really lol

TrixieCat

Heineken Helen wrote:

Did I?

And yeh I suppose that was a stupid choice of words... people can think what they want. Doesn't matter to me as long as I, or any of my friends don't get hurt in the process but I guess those who get hurt are SOMEBODY's friend.

Yes, but she is a big girl.
I have never been cheated on..at least that I am aware of. lol It would suck to find out. Yes. I totally agree and understand and agree with what you are saying.
But unfortunately, us telling him it is wrong won't stop him.

NY PJ1

TrixieCat wrote:

Yes, but she is a big girl.
I have never been cheated on..at least that I am aware of. lol It would suck to find out. Yes. I totally agree and understand and agree with what you are saying.
But unfortunately, us telling him it is wrong won't stop him.

this is just too funny

decides2dream

edvedder913 wrote:

it was only a matter of time until this got ugly.

here is the litmus test:
if your GF asked a guy for his email addy who she thought was hot and was chatting via email with him and going for a smoke w/him, would you be okay with it?

also, if chica bonita asked you on a date, would you go? if the answer is yes, you should allow her to see other people as well and be honest.

I think what all the ladies are trying to say is if your doubtful about your relationship, let her go so she can find someone who isn't. also be honest about what you want as far as marriage and kids go - it's okay to say you are not sure right now. things do change with age. but she has to be willing to deal with your confusion. bottom line - truth is best.

right on the $$$.
forget 'judging' anyone...it's just about being honest. with yourself, and with your significant other. there is nothing that is 'wrong'...as long as both parties are aware, in agreement that it's cool, and all is well. there are ALL kinds of relationships and how they are handled, but duplicity in a relationship usually isn't cool in any gig, no matter how open/understanding. i think the 'having your cake and eating it too' comes into play a bit here. and that's all cool....as long as said GF knows about the extra desire for other cakes...and/or gets her own other extra desserts.

covered in bliss

NY PJ1 wrote:

NOT AT ALL didnt do anything wrong

some people here cant roll with the fun ,, they get all defensive and jump down my throat ,,and they dont even know me

so i would just rather close this b4 its goes off the deep end

haha-you didn't do anything wrong YET! I bet you 5 bucks that you bang her before Christmas.

No one 'knows' you but you -have- posted about certain things--
cheating on your girlfriend (I think you even admitted to having a real problem with saying no), the fact that you don't want to get married and that you don't even like kids.

It's hard for me NOT to judge you cuz I've had it done to me... exactly what you're doing to her. Everyone has their issues... I hope you can work through yours before you break someone's heart or marry someone when you don't really want to and find yourself divorced with kids in 10 years.

good luck!

NY PJ1

covered in bliss wrote:

haha-you didn't do anything wrong YET! I bet you 5 bucks that you bang her before Christmas.

No one 'knows' you but you -have- posted about certain things--
cheating on your girlfriend (I think you even admitted to having a real problem with saying no), the fact that you don't want to get married and that you don't even like kids.

It's hard for me NOT to judge you cuz I've had it done to me... exactly what you're doing to her. Everyone has their issues... I hope you can work through yours before you break someone's heart or marry someone when you don't really want to and find yourself divorced with kids in 10 years.

good luck!

i dont dislike kids,,, i dont want any but i dont dislike them


i have done things in the past and i have had things done to me
so i know both sides

and ur last sentence is my life right on the money


bet is on !!!! that would be the best 5 bucks i ever lost

josevolution

whoa :eek:

Poncier

jojo wrote:

what's with all the extra comas????

Coma??

jojo

Poncier wrote:

Coma??

i aim to amuse you

Poncier

jojo wrote:

i aim to amuse you

And you do a marvelous job at it.

in_hiding79

Heineken Helen wrote:

I personally couldn't give a fuck either way.

he can do what he wants.

Hmmmmmm rrreeaalllyyy!!

NY PJ1

in_hiding79 wrote:

Hmmmmmm rrreeaalllyyy!!

haha totally

in_hiding79

NY PJ1 wrote:

this is just too funny

You are not engaged to her or married, so I guess it is your business dude!

jojo

Poncier wrote:

And you do a marvelous job at it.

thanks and fyi i really can read i just can't spell and i never proof read for the pit

Earthgirl

edvedder913 wrote:

as far as i am aware, emailing someone and meeting them for a smoke is not cheating.

I totally agree. You have to go with your heart. Life is too short to miss out.

Earthgirl

decides2dream wrote:

right on the $$$.
forget 'judging' anyone...it's just about being honest. with yourself, and with your significant other. there is nothing that is 'wrong'...as long as both parties are aware, in agreement that it's cool, and all is well. there are ALL kinds of relationships and how they are handled, but duplicity in a relationship usually isn't cool in any gig, no matter how open/understanding. i think the 'having your cake and eating it too' comes into play a bit here. and that's all cool....as long as said GF knows about the extra desire for other cakes...and/or gets her own other extra desserts.

I agree totally with this also.

Poncier

jojo wrote:

thanks and fyi i really can read i just can't spell and i never proof read for the pit

No worries, typos are a fact of life in the internet world...some are just very amusing.

Allie

NY PJ1 wrote:

why? i cant have a female friend??

no one said i want to marry this girl in my building

I didn't read all the attack NYPJ Posts but I will say this, of course you can have female friends but the way you sound, you sound like you are SOOOO EXCITED to have her e-mail like you are feeling her

and the way you said she's hot, sexy and fly? My male friends don't refer to me that way. Well not to my face anyway But you know what I mean, if you're just trying to be 'friends' you don't make so many comments about how hot she is

and what building is she in, your work building or your apt building?