it took 4 months,,but i finally got her email

NY PJ1

AmentsChick wrote:

"Hopefully"?! You either know if you want a family or you don't.

not true in my case

people's minds can change,, right now doesnt mean 2 years from now



plus im only chatting and having a smoke or 2 a day with this girl

nothing else ,,i was psyched to get the email because i do like this girl in the sense that she is fun to hang with
of course being goodlooking makes it better

NY PJ1

jojo wrote:

i agree with M on this

i personally am also on the fense about the whole marriage and kids thing but if i'm single so i can be as wishy washy as i want after 2 years it's kinda time to do some soul serching and figure out what you want

believe me jo i def am

AmentsChick

I am so glad I'm not your gf.

NY PJ1

AmentsChick wrote:

I am so glad I'm not your gf.

thats a shame because i treat her like gold, u would enjoy

AmentsChick

NY PJ1 wrote:

thats a shame because i treat her like gold, u would enjoy

Not behind her back you don't.

NY PJ1

AmentsChick wrote:

Not behind her back you don't.

im not gonna argue with u

but u haven't the slightest idea about me

Allie

NY PJ1 wrote:

this good looking spanish girl in my building

she is so fly and we have so much in common

normally im very quick to ask for a number or email but it took me awhile to get up the courage .....

now i can forget about the poster fiasco


just thought everyone would like to know

wait I didn't read all of this
so 1st, welcome back,
2nd, what happened to the gf?

Edit: Oh I see Mere already covered it
wait so are you 'preparing' for the 'inevitable' by getting another girl before you leave the current one??

if you're chatting with this other chick on the low and your gf doesn't know... imo that sounds sketchy :-/

igotid88

edvedder913 wrote:

this is for you SEN, check out his arms (hair is a wig for halloween)...doesn't matter...focus is on the arm

http://s21.photobucket.com/albums/b286/edvedder913/?action=view&current=dave.jpg

i'm more interested in the pics of you.

NY PJ1

Allie wrote:

wait I didn't read all of this
so 1st, welcome back,
2nd, what happened to the gf?

Edit: Oh I see Mere already covered it
wait so are you 'preparing' for the 'inevitable' by getting another girl before you leave the current one??

if you're chatting with this other chick on the low and your gf doesn't know... imo that sounds sketchy :-/

why? i cant have a female friend??

no one said i want to marry this girl in my building

Urban Hiker

NY PJ1 wrote:

why? i cant have a female friend??

no one said i want to marry this girl in my building

She sounds more like a crush than a friend.

I'm cool with my hubby having female friends, but if he started getting too 'excited' about the friendship I'd probably start getting jealous.

So, how does your girlfriend feel about this new friend?

Heineken Helen

NY PJ1 wrote:

i dont want to rush that cynthia because my mind may change and i would hate to jump the gun
im hoping she takes a chill pill but i doubt it

i just feel 2 people dont need to be married because its the "thing" to do

sooooooooo... she wants marriage, you don't... but you feel the right thing to do is start chatting up other women to fill the time between now and when you break up?

Correct me if I'm wrong but that's what I'm picking up so far

And you KNOW that's not the right thing to do. If it's just a matter of time, that time should be now.

NY PJ1

Urban Hiker wrote:

She sounds more like a crush than a friend.

I'm cool with my hubby having female friends, but if he started getting too 'excited' about the friendship I'd probably start getting jealous.

So, how does your girlfriend feel about this new friend?

yea but an unrealistic crush

we both have our own things going on

and believe it or not i just like to hang out w/ her
i was excited about the email becuase whenever i saw her it was by chance

now i can say hey wanna meet for a smoke

its 10 minutes of fun during my 10 hours of misery called work

and my gf knows i have female friends at work ,,as does she with male friends

NY PJ1

Heineken Helen wrote:

sooooooooo... she wants marriage, you don't... but you feel the right thing to do is start chatting up other women to fill the time between now and when you break up?

Correct me if I'm wrong but that's what I'm picking up so far

And you KNOW that's not the right thing to do. If it's just a matter of time, that time should be now.

when the chatting consists of "hey how was ur weekend" and innocent chit-chat i dont see the problem ...

im not asking her out?
i realize it may be perceived as that but its not

dont get me wrong ,, if this girl made the first move and said u wanna hang outside of work
i would seriously consider it

dunkman

NY PJ1 wrote:

when the chatting consists of "hey how was ur weekend" and innocent chit-chat i dont see the problem ...

ok, give me your girlfriends email... i'll just do some innocent chatting...

NY PJ1

dunkman wrote:

ok, give me your girlfriends email... i'll just do some innocent chatting...

http://www.sure%20i%20will.com

dunkman

NY PJ1 wrote:

http://www.sure%20i%20will.com

nypj1@pussy.com

NY PJ1

dunkman wrote:

nypj1@pussy.com

very classy

Urban Hiker

NY PJ1 wrote:

when the chatting consists of "hey how was ur weekend" and innocent chit-chat i dont see the problem ...

im not asking her out?
i realize it may be perceived as that but its not

dont get me wrong ,, if this girl made the first move and said u wanna hang outside of work
i would seriously consider it

If she made the first move towards something less innocent and a whole lot more intimate, would you seriously consider it? Are you hoping for it?

NY PJ1 wrote:

yea but an unrealistic crush

I love an unrealistic crush now and then - Like the super hot gay guy who would be way out of my league even if he were straight. Those crushes have a lot of steam.

NY PJ1

Urban Hiker wrote:

If she made the first move towards something less innocent and a whole lot more intimate, would you seriously consider it? Are you hoping for it?



I love an unrealistic crush now and then - Like the super hot gay guy who would be way out of my league even if he were straight. Those crushes have a lot of steam.

consider it ... totally ,, hoping for it.. ????? lol tough question

and ur last statement about the unrealistic crush can also fit into this story

when i first saw this girl downstairs she seemed very uptight ,,like she knew she was good looking and didnt want to be bothered with anyone and the im too cool for school attitude
and i said to myself,, i gotta talk to this girl
didnt think it was realistic at that point
but my initial observation couldnt have been more wrong

she is the exact oppposite

Heineken Helen

NY PJ1 wrote:

when the chatting consists of "hey how was ur weekend" and innocent chit-chat i dont see the problem ...

im not asking her out?
i realize it may be perceived as that but its not

dont get me wrong ,, if this girl made the first move and said u wanna hang outside of work
i would seriously consider it

I really think you need to do your girlfriend a favour and break up with her :( and I mean that in the nicest possible way.

does she know that you're not really relationship material, never mind marriage material?