it took 4 months,,but i finally got her email

jojo

Poncier wrote:

Coma??

i aim to amuse you

Poncier

jojo wrote:

i aim to amuse you

And you do a marvelous job at it.

in_hiding79

Heineken Helen wrote:

I personally couldn't give a fuck either way.

he can do what he wants.

Hmmmmmm rrreeaalllyyy!!

NY PJ1

in_hiding79 wrote:

Hmmmmmm rrreeaalllyyy!!

haha totally

in_hiding79

NY PJ1 wrote:

this is just too funny

You are not engaged to her or married, so I guess it is your business dude!

jojo

Poncier wrote:

And you do a marvelous job at it.

thanks and fyi i really can read i just can't spell and i never proof read for the pit

Earthgirl

edvedder913 wrote:

as far as i am aware, emailing someone and meeting them for a smoke is not cheating.

I totally agree. You have to go with your heart. Life is too short to miss out.

Earthgirl

decides2dream wrote:

right on the $$$.
forget 'judging' anyone...it's just about being honest. with yourself, and with your significant other. there is nothing that is 'wrong'...as long as both parties are aware, in agreement that it's cool, and all is well. there are ALL kinds of relationships and how they are handled, but duplicity in a relationship usually isn't cool in any gig, no matter how open/understanding. i think the 'having your cake and eating it too' comes into play a bit here. and that's all cool....as long as said GF knows about the extra desire for other cakes...and/or gets her own other extra desserts.

I agree totally with this also.

Poncier

jojo wrote:

thanks and fyi i really can read i just can't spell and i never proof read for the pit

No worries, typos are a fact of life in the internet world...some are just very amusing.

Allie

NY PJ1 wrote:

why? i cant have a female friend??

no one said i want to marry this girl in my building

I didn't read all the attack NYPJ Posts but I will say this, of course you can have female friends but the way you sound, you sound like you are SOOOO EXCITED to have her e-mail like you are feeling her

and the way you said she's hot, sexy and fly? My male friends don't refer to me that way. Well not to my face anyway But you know what I mean, if you're just trying to be 'friends' you don't make so many comments about how hot she is

and what building is she in, your work building or your apt building?

SENROCK

NY PJ1 wrote:

im hoping for the best ,,not gonna just throw away a 2 yr relationship
hopefully i will change my mind about marriage and kids,

seriously hottstuff. DONT allow yourself to be forced into somn YOU dont want. These days marriage doesnt last and kidz are CRRRRAZY!!! Have fun and enjoy the good people in your life including your gf. If she knows u at all she has to know you love to 'admire' other women. It happens. Theres nothing wrong with that. Theres always someone new that creeps up & gets the attention and that happens to be the salsa in your building. It could be somn & it could be nothing. you'll never know unless you 'keep smoking'!!!!

SENROCK

Allie wrote:

and what building is she in, your work building or your apt building?

*gasp* :eek: the apt building would be MAYYYYHEMMMM!!!!! YIKES!!!!! :eek:

Heineken Helen

TrixieCat wrote:

Yes, but she is a big girl.
I have never been cheated on..at least that I am aware of. lol It would suck to find out. Yes. I totally agree and understand and agree with what you are saying.
But unfortunately, us telling him it is wrong won't stop him.

ah I know it won't but it's obvious he's feeling a little guilty... or at least knows what he's doing is wrong so it's a start

I've been cheated on and I've cheated too when I was young. I never saw what the big bloody deal was and thought they should just get over it. I just couldn't get my head around monogomy. But yeh, I guess it's bad enough when you're young but when you get to the stage that you're kidding people who are of the age where they're talking about marriage. At least I've seen where I went wrong and can now understand that I obviously shouldn't have been in ANY kinda relationship back then. She thinks you're the one NYPJ1... you're keeping your options open. It's not exactly a match made in heaven.

Heineken Helen

in_hiding79 wrote:

Hmmmmmm rrreeaalllyyy!!

Ehhh... YES! Obviously

I had better things on my mind yesterday and him getting annoyed at people giving out to him for WANTING to cheat just seemed SLIGHTLY trivial

Heineken Helen

in_hiding79 wrote:

You are not engaged to her or married, so I guess it is your business dude!

well you're the one who brought it up in the first place

NY PJ1

SENROCK! wrote:

seriously hottstuff. DONT allow yourself to be forced into somn YOU dont want. These days marriage doesnt last and kidz are CRRRRAZY!!! Have fun and enjoy the good people in your life including your gf. If she knows u at all she has to know you love to 'admire' other women. It happens. Theres nothing wrong with that. Theres always someone new that creeps up & gets the attention and that happens to be the salsa in your building. It could be somn & it could be nothing. you'll never know unless you 'keep smoking'!!!!

i hear ya u hot, sexy, fly ......

NY PJ1

SENROCK! wrote:

*gasp* :eek: the apt building would be MAYYYYHEMMMM!!!!! YIKES!!!!! :eek:

noooooooooo im not that crazy



work

Heineken Helen

NY PJ1 wrote:

noooooooooo im not that crazy



work

but you're just 'smoking' with her, right?

Phantom Pain

Marriage Plans ?

photogirlliz

I just want to know if he ended up banging her by Christmas like someone predicted