Is it possible to 'mentally rape' someone?

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  • ecd1973ecd1973 Posts: 30
    that's ridiculous. any sex in marriage would be rape then, cos you know they only do it out of obligation and would rather not.


    I'm assuming "they" means women? So you are saying that, in your opinion, married women don't want to have sex?
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  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    ecd1973 wrote:
    I'm assuming "they" means women? So you are saying that, in your opinion, married women don't want to have sex?

    you assume wrong. it was a joke implying that nobody wants to have sex anymore once they marry.
  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    :rolleyes: Don't talk about something you know absolutely nothing about and tell us how to react in a situation. You have NO fucking idea. Do YOU know how YOU'D react say if you were mugged? I can say without a doubt you do not. You know what way you SHOULD react though I'm sure... but nobody NOBODY knows how they're going to react in a certain situation until they're IN that situation... so when YOU'VE had somebody try to rape you and kicked them off... THEN come back and tell everyone THAT'S how they should react :rolleyes:

    i have been mugged. that is an act of violence and pressure. if a friend keeps bugging you to give them $10, badgering you constantly and incessantly with nothing but words and whining... should they be considered a thief if you give in and give it to them? im speaking strictly about words, whining, cajoling, begging, pleading, or whatever. that isnt rape. unless there's more substantial and threatening pressure, it cannot be rape becos the line between rape and just trying to get laid would be absolutely impossible to draw.
  • i have been mugged. that is an act of violence and pressure. if a friend keeps bugging you to give them $10, badgering you constantly and incessantly with nothing but words and whining... should they be considered a thief if you give in and give it to them? im speaking strictly about words, whining, cajoling, begging, pleading, or whatever. that isnt rape. unless there's more substantial and threatening pressure, it cannot be rape becos the line between rape and just trying to get laid would be absolutely impossible to draw.
    I'm referring to this part:

    'if you dont want to, say no. if he persists, kick him the fuck out or leave. if he applies force, be it by threat or whatever, then you've got a case. but until then, im sorry but no. it would open the door to impossibly speculative and arbitrary convictions for rape against guys who probably do not deserve it'

    If a woman says no, then leave it. If she acts like she's changed her mind ASK HER! Yes women may say no and then change their mind but I don't know where you come up with this idea about no meaning yes...
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  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    I'm referring to this part:

    'if you dont want to, say no. if he persists, kick him the fuck out or leave. if he applies force, be it by threat or whatever, then you've got a case. but until then, im sorry but no. it would open the door to impossibly speculative and arbitrary convictions for rape against guys who probably do not deserve it'

    If a woman says no, then leave it. If she acts like she's changed her mind ASK HER! Yes women may say no and then change their mind but I don't know where you come up with this idea about no meaning yes...

    i agree he should leave it alone. but if a woman says no and the guy keeps whining, that's annoying, not rape. you can ask him to leave for being an annoying prat. if he wont, then there is trouble and that qualifies as more than annoying. but giving in just becos a guy is annoying is not rape. if he's being aggressive, threatening, or pressuring, that is a different story.
  • dunkmandunkman Posts: 19,646
    you assume wrong. it was a joke implying that nobody wants to have sex anymore once they marry.

    they do so want to have sex.... just not with each other ;)
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • they do so want to have sex.... just not with each other ;)

    I'm going to go ahead and put this out there, so, here goes... I've been mentally undressing angelica for the last 15 minutes. I will admit it's kind of odd mentally undressing a Canadian, but after the initial 10 minutes you get used to it.
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  • angelicaangelica Posts: 6,038
    I'm going to go ahead and put this out there, so, here goes... I've been mentally undressing angelica for the last 15 minutes. I will admit it's kind of odd mentally undressing a Canadian, but after the initial 10 minutes you get used to it.
    It sounds like you've got a problem with Canada, among other things! ;)

    I know, I know, soulsinging has already enlightened me on this--it saves me from my usual girlish indignance......if you guys have seen us, you've seen us naked.
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  • angelica wrote:
    It sounds like you've got a problem with Canada, among other things! ;)

    I know, I know, soulsinging has already enlightened me on this--it saves me from my usual girlish indignance......if you guys have seen us, you've seen us naked.

    So I'm not your first forum admirer? This certainly puts a damper on things.
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  • angelicaangelica Posts: 6,038
    So I'm not your first forum admirer? This certainly puts a damper on things.
    oops! soulsinging was saying it in general, not directly regarding me. Oh, and considering I've felt mentally undressed on numerous occasions, he was only letting us girls know what we already know.

    But out of curiosity, how would not being my first forum admirer put a damper on "things".
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  • dunkmandunkman Posts: 19,646
    I'm going to go ahead and put this out there, so, here goes... I've been mentally undressing angelica for the last 15 minutes. I will admit it's kind of odd mentally undressing a Canadian, but after the initial 10 minutes you get used to it.

    I'm surprised it took you 15 minutes... i've mentally undressed... then re-dressed her in a cheerleaders outfit.
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • I'm surprised it took you 15 minutes... i've mentally undressed... then re-dressed her in a cheerleaders outfit.

    Well...


    Ok, me too!
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  • angelicaangelica Posts: 6,038
    For some strange reason, I'm beginning to feel icky and somewhat unclean.
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  • angelica wrote:
    oops! soulsinging was saying it in general, not directly regarding me. Oh, and considering I've felt mentally undressed on numerous occasions, he was only letting us girls know what we already know.

    But out of curiosity, how would not being my first forum admirer put a damper on "things".


    I just wanted to be your first. No one wants sloppy seconds. Besides, everybodys gotta admire something.
    "Sarcasm: intellect on the offensive"

    "What I lack in decorum, I make up for with an absence of tact."

    Camden 5-28-06
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  • angelica wrote:
    For some strange reason, I'm beginning to feel icky and somewhat unclean.



    lol I feel unclean talking about this in a thread dedicated to rape discussion.
    "Sarcasm: intellect on the offensive"

    "What I lack in decorum, I make up for with an absence of tact."

    Camden 5-28-06
    Washington, D.C. 6-22-08
  • angelicaangelica Posts: 6,038
    I just wanted to be your first. No one wants sloppy seconds. Besides, everybodys gotta admire something.
    Just so I understand....you're talking 'sloppy seconds' in the realm of mental undressing?
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  • angelicaangelica Posts: 6,038
    lol I feel unclean talking about this in a thread dedicated to rape discussion.
    Oh, it's not just rape, my friend, the topic is mental rape!
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  • angelica wrote:
    Just so I understand....you're talking 'sloppy seconds' in the realm of mental undressing?

    I'm gonna go eat lunch and grab a sprite. Maybe cool off a little bit.
    "Sarcasm: intellect on the offensive"

    "What I lack in decorum, I make up for with an absence of tact."

    Camden 5-28-06
    Washington, D.C. 6-22-08
  • yes..i feel mantally raped everytime i read some of the posts on these boards!
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  • and it seems some people on here have been mind fucked until they were left with an empty cavern where there small brains used to reside...
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