Suicide

CollinCollin Posts: 4,931
edited August 2007 in A Moving Train
What are your views on suicide?

"If someone chooses to end their life, should we allow them to?"

This question was asked in another thread.
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  • CorporateWhoreCorporateWhore Posts: 1,890
    The vast majority of people who wish to or have committed suicide are mentally ill. They don't need to have another (literally!) nail in the coffin by making it legal.

    The legality of it won't stop the mentally ill from committing suicide. They do it because they have a problem and making suicide legal does not help them with their problem, it only hurts them.
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  • godpt3godpt3 Posts: 1,020
    suicide is painless... it brings on many changes
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  • wolfbearwolfbear Posts: 3,965
    I think it's a shame that people have to resort to suicide. If someone is ready to die, they should be able to be euthanized as humanely as we can our pets. I'm not talking about mentally ill people, they should be given other help. :)
    "I'd rather be with an animal." "Those that can be trusted can change their mind." "The in between is mine." "If I don't lose control, explore and not explode, a preternatural other plane with the power to maintain." "Yeh this is living." "Life is what you make it."
  • jeffbrjeffbr Seattle Posts: 7,177
    Making suicide illegal gives the government ultimate control over your body. Like most other issues, on this one I'm pro-choice.
    "I'll use the magic word - let's just shut the fuck up, please." EV, 04/13/08
  • CorporateWhoreCorporateWhore Posts: 1,890
    wolfbear wrote:
    I think it's a shame that people have to resort to suicide. If someone is ready to die, they should be able to be euthanized as humanely as we can our pets. I'm not talking about mentally ill people, they should be given other help. :)

    Only a mentally ill person would want to be euthanized.
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  • CollinCollin Posts: 4,931
    Only a mentally ill person would want to be euthanized.

    That's a ridiculous statement.
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  • jeffbrjeffbr Seattle Posts: 7,177
    Collin wrote:
    That's a ridiculous statement.
    Completely agree.

    The reasons are many, ranging from terminal, untreatable pain and suffering, to loss of quality of life, to not wanting to continue to be a burden on loved ones. But none of the reasons should matter legally. The issue isn't why somone would opt for that, the issue is why the government has any involvement.
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  • Staceb10Staceb10 Posts: 675
    godpt3 wrote:
    suicide is painless... it brings on many changes


    painless? For who? The people they leave behind? I don't think so. I've gotten into this debate with others on here before but in my opinion suicide is a very selfish act and only hurts the people left behind.


    It would be absurd to put people who attempt suicide in jail though. I can't think of any valid reasoning behind that one.
  • yosi1yosi1 Posts: 3,272
    Staceb10 wrote:
    painless? For who? The people they leave behind? I don't think so. I've gotten into this debate with others on here before but in my opinion suicide is a very selfish act and only hurts the people left behind.


    It would be absurd to put people who attempt suicide in jail though. I can't think of any valid reasoning behind that one.

    That is exactly what I was going to say (but you beat me to it because the internet was sucking).

    I won't argue the legality or morality of it, but I think suicide is almost always a very selfish act.
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  • CollinCollin Posts: 4,931
    Staceb10 wrote:
    painless? For who? The people they leave behind? I don't think so. I've gotten into this debate with others on here before but in my opinion suicide is a very selfish act and only hurts the people left behind.

    Selfish?

    But demanding someone to live even though that means they have to endure unspeakable pain and suffering just so you wouldn't be hurt isn't selfish?
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  • JeanieJeanie Posts: 9,446
    Collin wrote:
    What are your views on suicide?

    "If someone chooses to end their life, should we allow them to?"

    This question was asked in another thread.

    Collin I don't really understand what you mean by "allow them to"?
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  • CollinCollin Posts: 4,931
    Jeanie wrote:
    Collin I don't really understand what you mean by "allow them to"?

    I just copy/pasted the question from another thread. I guess the person was asking if it should be legal or illegal and whether it is morally acceptable or not.
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  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    Collin wrote:
    Selfish?

    But demanding someone to live even though that means they have to endure unspeakable pain and suffering just so you wouldn't be hurt isn't selfish?

    bingo. we have a winner.
  • It should be their choice, definitely. People that want to die are going to find a way to do it anyways. How many people do you think stop and say 'Well, it is illegal, so I guess I better not.' It's a ridiculous law.
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  • JeanieJeanie Posts: 9,446
    Collin wrote:
    I just copy/pasted the question from another thread. I guess the person was asking if it should be legal or illegal and whether it is morally acceptable or not.

    Ok. :) I guess as far as I can see, it just is. People do it. And who am I to say if they are right or wrong? It's not my body, or my life.
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  • wolfbearwolfbear Posts: 3,965
    Only a mentally ill person would want to be euthanized.
    I disagree. Have you ever known anyone terminally ill or someone who has committed suicide? I have on both counts, and I can tell you you are mistaken. :)
    "I'd rather be with an animal." "Those that can be trusted can change their mind." "The in between is mine." "If I don't lose control, explore and not explode, a preternatural other plane with the power to maintain." "Yeh this is living." "Life is what you make it."
  • chopitdownchopitdown Posts: 2,222
    i have to agree with Stace. Suicide is the ultimate selfish act and it really only hurts the ones left behind. That being said, with a lot of situations it's no wonder that people contemplate it and sometimes carry it out; esp when you're dealing with depression and when you're dealing with other illnesses.
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  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    chopitdown wrote:
    i have to agree with Stace. Suicide is the ultimate selfish act and it really only hurts the ones left behind. That being said, with a lot of situations it's no wonder that people contemplate it and sometimes carry it out; esp when you're dealing with depression and when you're dealing with other illnesses.

    how selfish is it for you to force someone to keep living in unbearable pain just so that you don't have to be hurt by their death?
  • JeanieJeanie Posts: 9,446
    Oh and I don't think it's selfish, I think it's tragic.
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  • yosi1yosi1 Posts: 3,272
    how selfish is it for you to force someone to keep living in unbearable pain just so that you don't have to be hurt by their death?

    It kind of goes both ways. I don't think anyone who would be hurt by the person's death, wants them to live with pain. However, by committing suicide, they are causing pain and suffering in other people.
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  • JeanieJeanie Posts: 9,446
    yosi wrote:
    It kind of goes both ways. I don't think anyone who would be hurt by the person's death, wants them to live with pain. However, by committing suicide, they are causing pain and suffering in other people.

    So then doesn't it get down to degrees of pain?

    What if the pain of the person who commits suicide is greater than that of the people left behind?
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  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    yosi wrote:
    It kind of goes both ways. I don't think anyone who would be hurt by the person's death, wants them to live with pain. However, by committing suicide, they are causing pain and suffering in other people.

    or perhaps they are saving them the extended pain and frustration of watching them suffer and being unable to help alleviate that suffering. instead, they opt for suicide, which is like tearing a bandaid off quick as opposed to a slow and agonizing pull.
  • jlew24asujlew24asu Posts: 10,118
    It should be their choice, definitely. People that want to die are going to find a way to do it anyways. How many people do you think stop and say 'Well, it is illegal, so I guess I better not.' It's a ridiculous law.

    hey looky here I agree with bookster. 'Well, it is illegal, so I guess I better not.' I know right? how dumb.
  • normnorm Posts: 31,146
    The vast majority of people who wish to or have committed suicide are mentally ill. They don't need to have another (literally!) nail in the coffin by making it legal.

    The legality of it won't stop the mentally ill from committing suicide. They do it because they have a problem and making suicide legal does not help them with their problem, it only hurts them.


    why do feel the need to control other people's lives?
  • CollinCollin Posts: 4,931
    or perhaps they are saving them the extended pain and frustration of watching them suffer and being unable to help alleviate that suffering. instead, they opt for suicide, which is like tearing a bandaid off quick as opposed to a slow and agonizing pull.

    Exactly, I saw cancer eat away both my grandparents (who practically raised me), they were in much pain, not just physically but also mentally, knowing that they were dying, that they wouldn't get to see their grandchildren's children, weddings etc.

    I'm not saying they should have commited suicide, that should be their choice. But this whole experience was extremely painful for everyone in my family and knowing they suffered for so long did not ease the pain when they died at all. So perhaps a swift death would have been better...
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  • chopitdownchopitdown Posts: 2,222
    how selfish is it for you to force someone to keep living in unbearable pain just so that you don't have to be hurt by their death?

    there are more reasons for suicide than "just" terminal disease. But to my original point. How is deciding to take ones own life NOT considered selfish? What reason would you give to commit suicide. It usually like, so I won't be in pain, so I won't have to take responsibility (debt, crime etc...) (edit: so I won't subject you to watching me suffer). Keeping emotion out of it, it IS a selfish act by that person and the ultimate selfish act b/c it cannot be undone. But I also know why someone would feel that is their only way out.
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  • JeanieJeanie Posts: 9,446
    cutback wrote:
    why do feel the need to control other people's lives?

    God's soldier.
    NOPE!!!

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  • normnorm Posts: 31,146
    chopitdown wrote:
    there are more reasons for suicide than "just" terminal disease. But to my original point. How is deciding to take ones own life NOT considered selfish? What reason would you give to commit suicide. It usually like, so I won't be in pain, so I won't have to take responsibility (debt, crime etc...). Keeping emotion out of it, it IS a selfish act by that person and the ultimate selfish act b/c it cannot be undone. But I also know why someone would feel that is their only way out.

    but isn't it just as selfish to force that person to live when they don't want to because you would be sad?
  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    chopitdown wrote:
    there are more reasons for suicide than "just" terminal disease. But to my original point. How is deciding to take ones own life NOT considered selfish? What reason would you give to commit suicide. It usually like, so I won't be in pain, so I won't have to take responsibility (debt, crime etc...) (edit: so I won't subject you to watching me suffer). Keeping emotion out of it, it IS a selfish act by that person and the ultimate selfish act b/c it cannot be undone. But I also know why someone would feel that is their only way out.

    this does not answer the question. i never said suicide wasn't selfish, im saying condemning it is just as if not more selfish. im well aware there are myriad reasons for it, but the fact remains those left behind care only for their own pain at the loss.
  • chopitdownchopitdown Posts: 2,222
    cutback wrote:
    but isn't it just as selfish to force that person to live when they don't want to because you would be sad?

    to some degree yes, I'm actually for withdrawing care on someone who is suffering AND (the and cant be big enough) is in the very end stage of disease. There is no need to prolong death and death isn't something to be feared, but in my opinion it is not something to be hastened either. But people commit suicide every day and their death won't affect me one bit and it is still selfish for that person.
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