A bit dissapointed...

in The Porch
...not with Sea, Kat, TenC or other people involved in making this forum work. I am dissapointed in us.
I am the OP of the thread "New album and rumours/ expecations"". I asked on page 1 and several pages later to keep it positive. Is this so hard, really? Is it so hard *not* to mention which songs or albums you hate, than to share some musical dreams or wishes you have? The thread was suppose to be fun; something to look forward to and start a little bit of a buzz about a thing we all wish for. (The new album.) But as soon as the thread grew , the negativity grew too.
All I wanted to share was some dreams.
Instead there were comments made that the band is disconnected, in "retirement", the band is in a down fall etc. Etc. Etc.
Why still be a fan if the future is so filled with gloom and doom? I heard these comments since Binaural when their last song was "Parting Ways" . I heard it when they got their own recordd label. This forum is no longer fun to engage or particpate in. The negativity is constant, and the arguments stale and put on repeat for the last 20 years. And you know what: the band is still here. But if I was band member and see some of these comments, my stomach would churn.
This is not a plead to TenClub to open the old thread. This is a plea however to us: to look in the mirror and ask yourself how you came here, what the love for this band initially was and how *you* and all of us together* can stop the hating and basibg and start some positivity here.
It is always easy to point out what someone didn't do, what the faults or weaknesses of an album or song is/was..
Its so easy.
Its a lot harder to vocalize your dreams, wishes and possibilities. For that means vulnerability. You give something away instead of closing things off with negativity. With things we heard a 1000x. And the funny thing is, comments with negativity always holds the underlining and indirect implication "that this is the hard truth:, the reality".
Etc.
No, it is not the "truth" or "reality". The objective truth is, is that we do not know. That *is* the truth. So stop the gloom and doom. The self pity. Share dreams.
Share your dreams.
Had to get this off my chest. My intention with the OP was positive and not a thread to create this wave of circular negativity. Its not reality. Its nothing than the projections of your own fears and dissapointments and nothing more than that.
Be vulnerable. Instead of feeling sorry and entitled.
Anthonie
I am the OP of the thread "New album and rumours/ expecations"". I asked on page 1 and several pages later to keep it positive. Is this so hard, really? Is it so hard *not* to mention which songs or albums you hate, than to share some musical dreams or wishes you have? The thread was suppose to be fun; something to look forward to and start a little bit of a buzz about a thing we all wish for. (The new album.) But as soon as the thread grew , the negativity grew too.
All I wanted to share was some dreams.
Instead there were comments made that the band is disconnected, in "retirement", the band is in a down fall etc. Etc. Etc.
Why still be a fan if the future is so filled with gloom and doom? I heard these comments since Binaural when their last song was "Parting Ways" . I heard it when they got their own recordd label. This forum is no longer fun to engage or particpate in. The negativity is constant, and the arguments stale and put on repeat for the last 20 years. And you know what: the band is still here. But if I was band member and see some of these comments, my stomach would churn.
This is not a plead to TenClub to open the old thread. This is a plea however to us: to look in the mirror and ask yourself how you came here, what the love for this band initially was and how *you* and all of us together* can stop the hating and basibg and start some positivity here.
It is always easy to point out what someone didn't do, what the faults or weaknesses of an album or song is/was..
Its so easy.
Its a lot harder to vocalize your dreams, wishes and possibilities. For that means vulnerability. You give something away instead of closing things off with negativity. With things we heard a 1000x. And the funny thing is, comments with negativity always holds the underlining and indirect implication "that this is the hard truth:, the reality".
Etc.
No, it is not the "truth" or "reality". The objective truth is, is that we do not know. That *is* the truth. So stop the gloom and doom. The self pity. Share dreams.
Share your dreams.
Had to get this off my chest. My intention with the OP was positive and not a thread to create this wave of circular negativity. Its not reality. Its nothing than the projections of your own fears and dissapointments and nothing more than that.
Be vulnerable. Instead of feeling sorry and entitled.
Anthonie
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Cincinnati 2014
Greenville 2016
(Raleigh 2016)
Columbia 2016
The truth is is no one has any idea what goes on in the band or why an album hasn’t been finished. Zero idea. But yet there’s page after page of people putting their opinion forward as fact.
As I've often said, I take exception with the following excerpt from a March 2018 communication to fans that provided tremendous excitement at that time...
"Can't Deny Me" from the forthcoming Pearl Jam album.
Forthcoming has specific meaning . In retrospect after the RS story, it was a misleading statement. I beg my fellow PJ fans not to entice me to post from Webster...again.
Now it seems there a sense we are pretending that phrase was never tendered, which is additionally frustrating.
Unfortunately, sometimes fans get lost between trying to be funny and being disrespectful to the musicians we greatly cherish.
What we know so far that during an interview (I believe it was with Stone,) they wanted to go more in the direction of Pendulum and Infallible. Which to me sounds promising .
I remember the "Parting Ways" kerfuffle
We never learned apparently
"0035 EVENFLOW PSYCHOS
"I'm George Bush and my son's an asshole" 08/03/2000
Don't stop wen you're tired, stop when you're done
http://www.hi5sports.org/ (Sports Program for Kids with Disabilities)
http://www.livefootsteps.org/user/?usr=3652
There are a lot of fans who slam everything they do, then head out on full tours or multiple dates. Its truly baffling
I would say the live shows are where its at for Pearl Jam in the last decade. In the last 10 years they have only released two albums so there is not much to chat about regarding the music except for some Vault releases.
Hence when they used a specific word describing the status of the long awaited new album, fans got excited. Now, the let down. Very understandable.
Hopefully it's a temporary setback and we will have good news by the end of the year.
The Golden Age is 2 months away. And guess what….. you’re gonna love it! (teskeinc 11.19.24)
1998: Noblesville; 2003: Noblesville; 2009: EV Nashville, Chicago, Chicago
2010: St Louis, Columbus, Noblesville; 2011: EV Chicago, East Troy, East Troy
2013: London ON, Wrigley; 2014: Cincy, St Louis, Moline (NO CODE)
2016: Lexington, Wrigley #1; 2018: Wrigley, Wrigley, Boston, Boston
2020: Oakland, Oakland: 2021: EV Ohana, Ohana, Ohana, Ohana
2022: Oakland, Oakland, Nashville, Louisville; 2023: Chicago, Chicago, Noblesville
2024: Noblesville, Wrigley, Wrigley, Ohana, Ohana; 2025: Pitt1, Pitt2
The Golden Age is 2 months away. And guess what….. you’re gonna love it! (teskeinc 11.19.24)
1998: Noblesville; 2003: Noblesville; 2009: EV Nashville, Chicago, Chicago
2010: St Louis, Columbus, Noblesville; 2011: EV Chicago, East Troy, East Troy
2013: London ON, Wrigley; 2014: Cincy, St Louis, Moline (NO CODE)
2016: Lexington, Wrigley #1; 2018: Wrigley, Wrigley, Boston, Boston
2020: Oakland, Oakland: 2021: EV Ohana, Ohana, Ohana, Ohana
2022: Oakland, Oakland, Nashville, Louisville; 2023: Chicago, Chicago, Noblesville
2024: Noblesville, Wrigley, Wrigley, Ohana, Ohana; 2025: Pitt1, Pitt2
I wont say anything negative about your post, except it’s simply not true. Though I think more people were more tolerant to dissenting views. Been visiting PJ boards for almost 20 years(sounds absurd doesn’t it?) and there has always been cycles of positivity and negativity.
Nuff said. Things change.
Thank you so very much for writing this!
I know I have said a few times that I feel like fans "shit" on the band and I hope that comment did not add fuel to the fire, going forward I will not use that term. Before I used to just look at the board and see all the positivity on there and loved it. Just peps talking about a band they love.
At a time when the world feels like it is on fire and everyone hates each other , I loved coming on here just to read rumors or what people were very into at the time and speculate , speculate seemed to turn into what every other comment section on the internet does , topic starts then starts to go off the rails and then weird attacks on the band or other members of the board.
Albums get scrapped or postponed for a number of reason and the band members want privacy , I am not putting gossip out there but imaging if one of the band members or their family has cancer right now maybe some crazy shit they don't feel like sending the rest of the world and that is holding them up I would hope you would feel bad.
What sucks is this the internet is the internet and of course someone will be negative. Here is to more positive comments in 2019. Maybe some shows , maybe not but I always have the music to listen too if I want.
Peace and Love