My thoughts exactly OP. There are so many armchair experts and negative thinkers on here that I never ever come to this forum anymore. I love the band, I love the music, I love going to the shows. But this forum is so full of pretentious know it alls that it isn't worth reading a thread for more than a page. They almost always devolve into whining. My guess is the same negative posters on this forum are the same people that flame Facebook posts with racist and derogatory attacks on total strangers. Such a sad pathetic life, to be that negative and down.
I hope when im 55 i dont have thousands of strangers analyzing why i didnt show up to someone elses concert and what that means for my day job.