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F Me In The Brain said:HesCalledDyer said:kce8 said:HesCalledDyer said:tweedyfanjen said:HesCalledDyer said:Pretty sure at this point I’ll continue to live alone and I’ll die alone.
I'm 40, I’m not interested in women my age, and younger women (understandably) aren’t interested in men my age unless they have money, which I don’t.
On top of that, I just have unordinary ideas for how I want things to be in a relationship and I just don't think any woman, regardless of age, is going to go for it. (Like living separately and possibly never getting married.)
That sounds like you never really fell in love before. I promise, when you have found the right girl you'll change your mind about living separately!
No need to get married or have kids but I'm pretty sure there will be two seats at your small table permanently.
That's sent to all of us. Someday it happens. Just don't give up and think positive.
And smile!https://youtu.be/i28UEoLXVFQ
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HughFreakingDillon said:HesCalledDyer said:rgambs said:HesCalledDyer said:kce8 said:HesCalledDyer said:tweedyfanjen said:HesCalledDyer said:Pretty sure at this point I’ll continue to live alone and I’ll die alone.
I'm 40, I’m not interested in women my age, and younger women (understandably) aren’t interested in men my age unless they have money, which I don’t.
On top of that, I just have unordinary ideas for how I want things to be in a relationship and I just don't think any woman, regardless of age, is going to go for it. (Like living separately and possibly never getting married.)
That sounds like you never really fell in love before. I promise, when you have found the right girl you'll change your mind about living separately!
No need to get married or have kids but I'm pretty sure there will be two seats at your small table permanently.
That's sent to all of us. Someday it happens. Just don't give up and think positive.
And smile!
There are loves out there for you yet!
my small self... like a book amongst the many on a shelf0 -
oftenreading said:HughFreakingDillon said:HesCalledDyer said:rgambs said:HesCalledDyer said:kce8 said:HesCalledDyer said:tweedyfanjen said:HesCalledDyer said:Pretty sure at this point I’ll continue to live alone and I’ll die alone.
I'm 40, I’m not interested in women my age, and younger women (understandably) aren’t interested in men my age unless they have money, which I don’t.
On top of that, I just have unordinary ideas for how I want things to be in a relationship and I just don't think any woman, regardless of age, is going to go for it. (Like living separately and possibly never getting married.)
That sounds like you never really fell in love before. I promise, when you have found the right girl you'll change your mind about living separately!
No need to get married or have kids but I'm pretty sure there will be two seats at your small table permanently.
That's sent to all of us. Someday it happens. Just don't give up and think positive.
And smile!
There are loves out there for you yet!
It wasn't until I got older that I realized I would only be good to women who drove yellow cars. (Or, flesh tone...)
The love he receives is the love that is saved0 -
HughFreakingDillon said:HesCalledDyer said:rgambs said:HesCalledDyer said:kce8 said:HesCalledDyer said:tweedyfanjen said:HesCalledDyer said:Pretty sure at this point I’ll continue to live alone and I’ll die alone.
I'm 40, I’m not interested in women my age, and younger women (understandably) aren’t interested in men my age unless they have money, which I don’t.
On top of that, I just have unordinary ideas for how I want things to be in a relationship and I just don't think any woman, regardless of age, is going to go for it. (Like living separately and possibly never getting married.)
That sounds like you never really fell in love before. I promise, when you have found the right girl you'll change your mind about living separately!
No need to get married or have kids but I'm pretty sure there will be two seats at your small table permanently.
That's sent to all of us. Someday it happens. Just don't give up and think positive.
And smile!
There are loves out there for you yet!
The happy ending to all that is when she broke it off, I don't think I ever felt so empty. It really struck a chord with me and I realized that's not how you treat people - anyone - especially someone you supposedly care about and I knew I needed to change. So I worked on that. And it's a long process that I continue working on every day. 18 years later I still definitely have my moments (as many of you have been privy to here) but I have her and that relationship to thank for becoming a better person. She and I still keep in touch to this day (not often, but ya know, "happy birthdays" or "merry christmases"). I really appreciate that.
Now, I'm just old and out of context for this area.
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oftenreading said:HughFreakingDillon said:HesCalledDyer said:rgambs said:HesCalledDyer said:kce8 said:HesCalledDyer said:tweedyfanjen said:HesCalledDyer said:Pretty sure at this point I’ll continue to live alone and I’ll die alone.
I'm 40, I’m not interested in women my age, and younger women (understandably) aren’t interested in men my age unless they have money, which I don’t.
On top of that, I just have unordinary ideas for how I want things to be in a relationship and I just don't think any woman, regardless of age, is going to go for it. (Like living separately and possibly never getting married.)
That sounds like you never really fell in love before. I promise, when you have found the right girl you'll change your mind about living separately!
No need to get married or have kids but I'm pretty sure there will be two seats at your small table permanently.
That's sent to all of us. Someday it happens. Just don't give up and think positive.
And smile!
There are loves out there for you yet!
Hugh Freaking Dillon is currently out of the office, returning sometime in the fall0 -
HesCalledDyer said:HughFreakingDillon said:HesCalledDyer said:rgambs said:HesCalledDyer said:kce8 said:HesCalledDyer said:tweedyfanjen said:HesCalledDyer said:Pretty sure at this point I’ll continue to live alone and I’ll die alone.
I'm 40, I’m not interested in women my age, and younger women (understandably) aren’t interested in men my age unless they have money, which I don’t.
On top of that, I just have unordinary ideas for how I want things to be in a relationship and I just don't think any woman, regardless of age, is going to go for it. (Like living separately and possibly never getting married.)
That sounds like you never really fell in love before. I promise, when you have found the right girl you'll change your mind about living separately!
No need to get married or have kids but I'm pretty sure there will be two seats at your small table permanently.
That's sent to all of us. Someday it happens. Just don't give up and think positive.
And smile!
There are loves out there for you yet!
The happy ending to all that is when she broke it off, I don't think I ever felt so empty. It really struck a chord with me and I realized that's not how you treat people - anyone - especially someone you supposedly care about and I knew I needed to change. So I worked on that. And it's a long process that I continue working on every day. 18 years later I still definitely have my moments (as many of you have been privy to here) but I have her and that relationship to thank for becoming a better person. She and I still keep in touch to this day (not often, but ya know, "happy birthdays" or "merry christmases"). I really appreciate that.
Now, I'm just old and out of context for this area.Hugh Freaking Dillon is currently out of the office, returning sometime in the fall0 -
HughFreakingDillon said:oftenreading said:HughFreakingDillon said:HesCalledDyer said:rgambs said:HesCalledDyer said:kce8 said:HesCalledDyer said:tweedyfanjen said:HesCalledDyer said:Pretty sure at this point I’ll continue to live alone and I’ll die alone.
I'm 40, I’m not interested in women my age, and younger women (understandably) aren’t interested in men my age unless they have money, which I don’t.
On top of that, I just have unordinary ideas for how I want things to be in a relationship and I just don't think any woman, regardless of age, is going to go for it. (Like living separately and possibly never getting married.)
That sounds like you never really fell in love before. I promise, when you have found the right girl you'll change your mind about living separately!
No need to get married or have kids but I'm pretty sure there will be two seats at your small table permanently.
That's sent to all of us. Someday it happens. Just don't give up and think positive.
And smile!
There are loves out there for you yet!
my small self... like a book amongst the many on a shelf0 -
Thoughts_Arrive said:stuckinline said:Back to thread integrity:
This is not directed to anyone specific, just general advice based on a recent death in the family.
1. If you do not have a will, please make a will according to your local laws.
2. Please make your final wishes known. Do you want to be buried, cremated, etc. Think of this as a final gift to your family and friends, and one less thing for them to deal with.
3. If it is not included in your will, please take the time to write down your wishes and sign and date the document, i.e. 'my bedroom furniture' goes to X, my PJ vinyl collection goes to Y. This will also make it easier on the people sorting through your items.
4. Give a spare key to your place to someone you trust. This will also make it a lot easier for someone you trust to enter your home in case of emergency.
They always get challenged and can be changed by the courts.
My brother in law and sister are going to challenge his mother's will.0 -
oftenreading said:HughFreakingDillon said:oftenreading said:HughFreakingDillon said:HesCalledDyer said:rgambs said:HesCalledDyer said:kce8 said:HesCalledDyer said:tweedyfanjen said:HesCalledDyer said:Pretty sure at this point I’ll continue to live alone and I’ll die alone.
I'm 40, I’m not interested in women my age, and younger women (understandably) aren’t interested in men my age unless they have money, which I don’t.
On top of that, I just have unordinary ideas for how I want things to be in a relationship and I just don't think any woman, regardless of age, is going to go for it. (Like living separately and possibly never getting married.)
That sounds like you never really fell in love before. I promise, when you have found the right girl you'll change your mind about living separately!
No need to get married or have kids but I'm pretty sure there will be two seats at your small table permanently.
That's sent to all of us. Someday it happens. Just don't give up and think positive.
And smile!
There are loves out there for you yet!
Hugh Freaking Dillon is currently out of the office, returning sometime in the fall0 -
oftenreading said:HughFreakingDillon said:oftenreading said:HughFreakingDillon said:HesCalledDyer said:rgambs said:HesCalledDyer said:kce8 said:HesCalledDyer said:tweedyfanjen said:HesCalledDyer said:Pretty sure at this point I’ll continue to live alone and I’ll die alone.
I'm 40, I’m not interested in women my age, and younger women (understandably) aren’t interested in men my age unless they have money, which I don’t.
On top of that, I just have unordinary ideas for how I want things to be in a relationship and I just don't think any woman, regardless of age, is going to go for it. (Like living separately and possibly never getting married.)
That sounds like you never really fell in love before. I promise, when you have found the right girl you'll change your mind about living separately!
No need to get married or have kids but I'm pretty sure there will be two seats at your small table permanently.
That's sent to all of us. Someday it happens. Just don't give up and think positive.
And smile!
There are loves out there for you yet!
Monkey Driven, Call this Living?0 -
HughFreakingDillon said:oftenreading said:HughFreakingDillon said:oftenreading said:HughFreakingDillon said:HesCalledDyer said:rgambs said:HesCalledDyer said:kce8 said:HesCalledDyer said:tweedyfanjen said:HesCalledDyer said:Pretty sure at this point I’ll continue to live alone and I’ll die alone.
I'm 40, I’m not interested in women my age, and younger women (understandably) aren’t interested in men my age unless they have money, which I don’t.
On top of that, I just have unordinary ideas for how I want things to be in a relationship and I just don't think any woman, regardless of age, is going to go for it. (Like living separately and possibly never getting married.)
That sounds like you never really fell in love before. I promise, when you have found the right girl you'll change your mind about living separately!
No need to get married or have kids but I'm pretty sure there will be two seats at your small table permanently.
That's sent to all of us. Someday it happens. Just don't give up and think positive.
And smile!
There are loves out there for you yet!
my small self... like a book amongst the many on a shelf0 -
oftenreading said:HughFreakingDillon said:oftenreading said:HughFreakingDillon said:oftenreading said:HughFreakingDillon said:HesCalledDyer said:rgambs said:HesCalledDyer said:kce8 said:HesCalledDyer said:tweedyfanjen said:HesCalledDyer said:Pretty sure at this point I’ll continue to live alone and I’ll die alone.
I'm 40, I’m not interested in women my age, and younger women (understandably) aren’t interested in men my age unless they have money, which I don’t.
On top of that, I just have unordinary ideas for how I want things to be in a relationship and I just don't think any woman, regardless of age, is going to go for it. (Like living separately and possibly never getting married.)
That sounds like you never really fell in love before. I promise, when you have found the right girl you'll change your mind about living separately!
No need to get married or have kids but I'm pretty sure there will be two seats at your small table permanently.
That's sent to all of us. Someday it happens. Just don't give up and think positive.
And smile!
There are loves out there for you yet!
Hugh Freaking Dillon is currently out of the office, returning sometime in the fall0 -
oftenreading said:HughFreakingDillon said:oftenreading said:HughFreakingDillon said:HesCalledDyer said:rgambs said:HesCalledDyer said:kce8 said:HesCalledDyer said:tweedyfanjen said:HesCalledDyer said:Pretty sure at this point I’ll continue to live alone and I’ll die alone.
I'm 40, I’m not interested in women my age, and younger women (understandably) aren’t interested in men my age unless they have money, which I don’t.
On top of that, I just have unordinary ideas for how I want things to be in a relationship and I just don't think any woman, regardless of age, is going to go for it. (Like living separately and possibly never getting married.)
That sounds like you never really fell in love before. I promise, when you have found the right girl you'll change your mind about living separately!
No need to get married or have kids but I'm pretty sure there will be two seats at your small table permanently.
That's sent to all of us. Someday it happens. Just don't give up and think positive.
And smile!
There are loves out there for you yet!
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HesCalledDyer said:oftenreading said:HughFreakingDillon said:oftenreading said:HughFreakingDillon said:HesCalledDyer said:rgambs said:HesCalledDyer said:kce8 said:HesCalledDyer said:tweedyfanjen said:HesCalledDyer said:Pretty sure at this point I’ll continue to live alone and I’ll die alone.
I'm 40, I’m not interested in women my age, and younger women (understandably) aren’t interested in men my age unless they have money, which I don’t.
On top of that, I just have unordinary ideas for how I want things to be in a relationship and I just don't think any woman, regardless of age, is going to go for it. (Like living separately and possibly never getting married.)
That sounds like you never really fell in love before. I promise, when you have found the right girl you'll change your mind about living separately!
No need to get married or have kids but I'm pretty sure there will be two seats at your small table permanently.
That's sent to all of us. Someday it happens. Just don't give up and think positive.
And smile!
There are loves out there for you yet!
Hugh Freaking Dillon is currently out of the office, returning sometime in the fall0 -
HughFreakingDillon said:HesCalledDyer said:oftenreading said:HughFreakingDillon said:oftenreading said:HughFreakingDillon said:HesCalledDyer said:rgambs said:HesCalledDyer said:kce8 said:HesCalledDyer said:tweedyfanjen said:HesCalledDyer said:Pretty sure at this point I’ll continue to live alone and I’ll die alone.
I'm 40, I’m not interested in women my age, and younger women (understandably) aren’t interested in men my age unless they have money, which I don’t.
On top of that, I just have unordinary ideas for how I want things to be in a relationship and I just don't think any woman, regardless of age, is going to go for it. (Like living separately and possibly never getting married.)
That sounds like you never really fell in love before. I promise, when you have found the right girl you'll change your mind about living separately!
No need to get married or have kids but I'm pretty sure there will be two seats at your small table permanently.
That's sent to all of us. Someday it happens. Just don't give up and think positive.
And smile!
There are loves out there for you yet!
my small self... like a book amongst the many on a shelf0 -
HughFreakingDillon said:HesCalledDyer said:oftenreading said:HughFreakingDillon said:oftenreading said:HughFreakingDillon said:HesCalledDyer said:rgambs said:HesCalledDyer said:kce8 said:HesCalledDyer said:tweedyfanjen said:HesCalledDyer said:Pretty sure at this point I’ll continue to live alone and I’ll die alone.
I'm 40, I’m not interested in women my age, and younger women (understandably) aren’t interested in men my age unless they have money, which I don’t.
On top of that, I just have unordinary ideas for how I want things to be in a relationship and I just don't think any woman, regardless of age, is going to go for it. (Like living separately and possibly never getting married.)
That sounds like you never really fell in love before. I promise, when you have found the right girl you'll change your mind about living separately!
No need to get married or have kids but I'm pretty sure there will be two seats at your small table permanently.
That's sent to all of us. Someday it happens. Just don't give up and think positive.
And smile!
There are loves out there for you yet!
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I like how you can say something like "any sensible person would" - and act like that is just another thing to say in a conversation. You are calling the other person insensible.
That is not cool.
I also read it similarly to that. I didn't necessarily think that this is what you meant to convey but to me that is what the original statement was conveying. So you can say whatever you want and regardless of what is said...your intended meaning is all that matters?
I have a thirteen years old that lives with us that constantly says "what I meant was...." After we question something he says that we think is messed up.
Others saying that they know that's not what you meant doesnt mean anyone that questions what they read is without their mental facilities.
The love he receives is the love that is saved0 -
So much can be misinterpreted on an on-line forum. I think we should all go pound sand and eat worms.
Or maybe try a little harder to co-Grok.
Ooh... I like that, "co-Grok".
"It's a sad and beautiful world"-Roberto Benigni0 -
The love he receives is the love that is saved0
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HughFreakingDillon said:HesCalledDyer said:oftenreading said:HughFreakingDillon said:oftenreading said:HughFreakingDillon said:HesCalledDyer said:rgambs said:HesCalledDyer said:kce8 said:HesCalledDyer said:tweedyfanjen said:HesCalledDyer said:Pretty sure at this point I’ll continue to live alone and I’ll die alone.
I'm 40, I’m not interested in women my age, and younger women (understandably) aren’t interested in men my age unless they have money, which I don’t.
On top of that, I just have unordinary ideas for how I want things to be in a relationship and I just don't think any woman, regardless of age, is going to go for it. (Like living separately and possibly never getting married.)
That sounds like you never really fell in love before. I promise, when you have found the right girl you'll change your mind about living separately!
No need to get married or have kids but I'm pretty sure there will be two seats at your small table permanently.
That's sent to all of us. Someday it happens. Just don't give up and think positive.
And smile!
There are loves out there for you yet!
Right on cue.0
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