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mickeyrat said:Thoughts_Arrive said:Being ghosted sucks hard. There is no way to make amends.Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/20140
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Thoughts_Arrive said:mickeyrat said:Thoughts_Arrive said:Being ghosted sucks hard. There is no way to make amends.
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I no longer know what to do.
My family has died a 1000 times in my head. I wake crying and nightmares are frequent.
I know there is no help but i cant come to terms with this. The death all around is so real. We are in a very bad place .
All in the same boat i know.
I just dont know how to live anymore.
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lastexitlondon said:I no longer know what to do.
My family has died a 1000 times in my head. I wake crying and nightmares are frequent.
I know there is no help but i cant come to terms with this. The death all around is so real. We are in a very bad place .
All in the same boat i know.
I just dont know how to live anymore.Stay healthy, be grateful for your family, keep going. You can do it!0 -
Its the food problem. I am responsible for 3 households. I just cant go out any more . All online delivery is impossible. I have to go tomorrow to a click and collect . Im petrified my physical health is bad now. I try excersise . My heart is 90 resting from fear.
I dont have great lungs from years in construction. I dont drink or smoke but its not enough. I take vit d3 and zinc and couple others. But i have a duty to many atm for food. Every day is spent waiting for it to show its face and become a fever.
this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -0 -
mickeyrat said:Thoughts_Arrive said:mickeyrat said:Thoughts_Arrive said:Being ghosted sucks hard. There is no way to make amends.Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/20140
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lastexitlondon said:I no longer know what to do.
My family has died a 1000 times in my head. I wake crying and nightmares are frequent.
I know there is no help but i cant come to terms with this. The death all around is so real. We are in a very bad place .
All in the same boat i know.
I just dont know how to live anymore.
Rob:You are doing what we are all doing , just living day to day right now , no one no matter what they say is clam about this. I truly believe everyone on here will make it thru this because we are all being so cautious with what we do. Can I ask are they limiting the number of people who can go into a store at once? If so are the lines outside spaced out six feet? At least were I live that is what they are doing right now and it make shopping last sunday much more calm for me ( still wore gloves and a mask ) but the isle are now even one way to limit interaction.
What you are doing is nothing short of heroic and you may not see it that way but going out to help family is above and beyond especially with your anxiety. Are you taking news breaks like only watch 30 mins of news a day or just reading 30 mins of news a day? At this point I am pretty much checking numbers once a day and really trying to stay off.
Just because we are all going thru this does not mean you don't have the write to say how you feel , my work is so slow right now I sit in my office and just type out my feelings for the day , I think I have a 31 page word doc at his point , once this is all over it will be interesting to read. Each day I can only get up and be glad that I am alive and so is my wife and our friends and family. The nightmares can be the worst , I keep having ones where I am forced into a large group of people and they are all sick and I cannot get out. I wake up in a cold sweat. Last Sunday night I had those very really thoughts that kept me up until 4am , playing out my family dying my wife dying , not being able to do anything to help and its just so paralyzing and the fear was so real I just cried in bed.
I know my words may not help but please know I am thinking of you and your family.
Love
Matt
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Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
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lastexitlondon said:Lockdown has made me safer than ive ever been. Ocd means im the best to do lots of the jobs that now require military precision and im thriving. I lost 1 stone in weight. I cook fresh everyday . (I was most days anyway).I excersise 30mins every morning at 9am. I am the one who does the trip out to shop for 2 families. I have a routine with cleaning down the shopping and myself.. ive moved my veg growing stuff to a piece of grass behind my flat and started with my 2 year old to get that going . Only thing is i cant sleep and im getting angry at night.
I just wanted to say out of adversity and now not only the fear for my life but my childrens ive driven on to be the boss of this situation.
Do i still have all my previous problems?yes.
Am i completely clean?yes.
Do i want to drink or smoke weed .? Yes everyday. And my trouble will come when they say its ok to go out again because i wont. But my family will want to. Thats where my life will be not ever ok.
I guess im saying if this is my last hurrah then im going down fighting. Much love to my brothers and sisters here. Stay safe and stay home. Oh and i dont look at any phone or internet except for once a day i watch dr.campbell a retired dr who only does fact for that day. Cutting the media out has saved my life at this time. Well worth doing for us with health anxiety or anxiety at all.
There is a quote my mum sent me. And i will try post it.
The words are the exact words i said to her the week before this one.
Be pro active and control the controllable.
Rob.Monkey Driven, Call this Living?0 -
mickeyrat said:0
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Having chronic anxiety has taught me a few these, not these least is that I can overcome a lot of problem situations, and survive a few others. Anxiety fits into the survival column. Sheltering at home is giving me the biggest challenge that way in years. I have a hard time staying home because it feels like prison. I don't go outside because the threat of sudden loud noises around here puts me on edge. Sound issues are not too bad indoors with windows and doors shut, but 12 to 18 months of being cooped up in the house might test me to the outer limits. This will be interesting (for lack of a better term).I feel like this today:"It's a sad and beautiful world"-Roberto Benigni0
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I have found routine is the best think for me. Suffering from anxiety I realized I need structure right now to keep me calm.
I still work 4 days a week so that keeps me busy and then when I get home I shower , have dinner and I start to take my anti - anxity meds 2 hours before going to bed , start to relax and then I am there.
Same for weekends , I have to decided when I am going to bed now and start meds two hours before bed time , otherwise I am up all night.
I did take advantage of the nugs offer of 19.90 for one year and I find that if I am home all day to listen to one PJ show all the way thru with earbuds while working on chores around the house and starting projects that I have held off on for years.
( Side note only 2 shows in to the full 2014 tour cant wait to listen to the 3rd show tomorrow )
Everyone is different I think having some control over something right now is very helpful to me. So keeping a routine is basically keeping me sane.
I hope everyone out there is doing ok.
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Sending hugs and good vibes out to everyone."What the CANUCK happened?!? - Esquimalt Barber Shop0
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I don't give a fuck anymore.Over this forum.Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/20140
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I now have a fever . So you can imagine what my brain is like
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lastexitlondon said:I now have a fever . So you can imagine what my brain is like0
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Im trying. Im petrified
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lastexitlondon said:Im trying. Im petrified0
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Be careful, Rob, and take care of yourself best you can.0
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