Pandora, as I said in my pm to you, you need to keep the fuck to yourself sometimes. It was a joke, one that my wife wouldn't give a shit about. we don't adhere to your cute little rules about love. we actually have fun with each other. frankly, what we do is none of your business.
no one gives a shit if you are offended by a joke. one that is not even close to the worst adult joke said on here. but you don't care about those, do you? why is that? because they weren't said by me or byrnzie. you weren't "giving the OP perpective", you were trying to tear me down, as you always do.
yes, your first sentence did say the word "could". but your last statement is what really pissed me off. you said, and I QUOTE "this emotional betrayal". You said I betrayed my wife emotionally. that's fucking out of line, and I demand an apology immediately.
you don't know me, you don't know her, and you have absolutely no basis to judge either of us.
I'm waiting...........
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Pandora, as I said in my pm to you, you need to keep the fuck to yourself sometimes. It was a joke, one that my wife wouldn't give a shit about. we don't adhere to your cute little rules about love. we actually have fun with each other. frankly, what we do is none of your business.
no one gives a shit if you are offended by a joke. one that is not even close to the worst adult joke said on here. but you don't care about those, do you? why is that? because they weren't said by me or byrnzie. you weren't "giving the OP perpective", you were trying to tear me down, as you always do.
yes, your first sentence did say the word "could". but your last statement is what really pissed me off. you said, and I QUOTE "this emotional betrayal". You said I betrayed my wife emotionally. that's fucking out of line, and I demand an apology immediately.
you don't know me, you don't know her, and you have absolutely no basis to judge either of us.
I'm waiting...........
I wouldn't even know what to say ... :shock:
except what I have already ...
I stand by my words and my feelings
perhaps it is you who should think over the relationship example
you are setting for the OP and for those who have read about your wife
and her most intimate moments of loving you.
I wouldn't even know what to say ... :shock:
except what I have already ...
I stand by my words and my feelings
perhaps it is you who should think over the relationship example
you are setting for the OP and for those who have read about your wife
and her most intimate moments of loving you.
you should be banned for how offensive this has been.
the words "feelings" and "could" don't excuse you from saying anything you want to someone. you think it's a loophole, but it's not. it just shows how judgemental you are of others, and how egocentric you are.
it's just baffling.
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no, you wouldn't, since you don't have the capacity to believe it's possible you could be wrong.
maybe "you know, Hugh, my comments abour your wife were out of line, and I shouldn't have assumed I knew your relationship nor make it seem like I rule the board with my own moral compass. My apologies" would be a good start.
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I was thinking you might want to apologize to your wife ...
It's really not funny and no funny smiley either :?
looked pretty serious to one reading it...
I don't think you were thinking before you said such intimate derogatory things
I don't believe you meant to do that
why I even mentioned in the first place so you could feel
how she might feel.
We don't want to lock this with too much back and forth
though
relationships are based on trust this the message for the OP
without trust we have nothing with that comes faith in your partner
and when you don't know what to do... do nothing
just keep the faith things have a way of working out
don't forget about the rekindle though thats the fun part
I think it's interesting that you left my first sentence out of the quote. I suggested he talk to her! :P
nothing interesting about it. I know you said that. but you still made a pretty wild assumption based on one person's side of things. and a very condensed version of what's going on, I'm sure.
Perhaps you don't realize that it's interesting to me that you're trying to start an argument with me over something as trivial as a commonplace comment I made on a message board. It's interesting to me because it reveals you are just looking to start a fight with someone you don't know.
Now that I know this about you though, I plan to ignore you.
Perhaps you don't realize that it's interesting to me that you're trying to start an argument with me over something as trivial as a commonplace comment I made on a message board. It's interesting to me because it reveals you are just looking to start a fight with someone you don't know.
Now that I know this about you though, I plan to ignore you.
I wasn't trying to start an argument whatsoever. I'm not that type of person here. I didn't think it was necessary to quote your whole text as I didn't feel it was necessary to my point.
if what I said bothered you, my bad. it really wasn't intended that way.
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I was thinking you might want to apologize to your wife ...
It's really not funny and no funny smiley either :?
looked pretty serious to one reading it...
I said it wasn't serious, but you just can't fucking let it go.
you haven't realized yet that your beliefs and feelings don't rule this board.
fuck you for telling me to apologize to my wife. how dare you. I've already made it clear that our relationship is full of humour and love. that she would have laughed at my comment. and she has.
in fact, I told her about this and she said "what kind of loser is this person? tell her she needs to lighten up and get a life".
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I was thinking you might want to apologize to your wife ...
It's really not funny and no funny smiley either :?
looked pretty serious to one reading it...
I said it wasn't serious, but you just can't fucking let it go.
you haven't realized yet that your beliefs and feelings don't rule this board.
fuck you for telling me to apologize to my wife. how dare you. I've already made it clear that our relationship is full of humour and love. that she would have laughed at my comment. and she has.
in fact, I told her about this and she said "what kind of loser is this person? tell her she needs to lighten up and get a life".
I commend her for being understanding and accepting of you...
many a woman might cringe or worse knowing their partner is discussing
their oral sex techniques and lack there of on the internet ...
I commend her for being understanding and accepting of you...
many a woman might cringe or worse knowing their partner is discussing
their oral sex techniques and lack there of on the internet ...
she is one special lady... best keep that one
most men would be in the doghouse from the insult
good GOD you are pathetic.
for the record, you are once again trolling around, twisting my posts. I never said anything about anyone's techniques, I joked, yes JOKED about the frequencey with which it occurs. that was it. very common theme amongst the male sex. because it's FUNNY. and you felt the need to go on and on and fucking on ad nauseum trying to bait me again and again.
she jokes about this in public too, so how about you, oh, go judge your meth friends and family instead of people you know nothing about? what is it with you, you feel the need to mother everyone here because you failed your own kids so miserably?
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I thought I was the only one who got this passionate about having a properly cleaned bathroom :think: :shifty:
Hope things are going better for AG. Whatever you do: DO NOT MENTION PROPER BATHROOM CLEANING TECHNIQUE :shock:
especially behind your partner's back
It really does depend on the relationship though and how serious you are. There is a difference if the post is made in good humor vs. in anger or with an intent to humiliate. I joked about only doling them out on special occasions, my hubby is on here, he laughed. Whether what I said is true or not is for us to know and everyone else to guess about He wasn't offended and I wouldn't have been if he made the joke, although some spouses certainly would be.
I just feel like we walked in on someone else's argument. There is way too much anger going on in this thread for it to be just about this thread. Seems like it's been carried over from maybe the MT? Maybe best to keep it there or in PMs.
"I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
I thought I was the only one who got this passionate about having a properly cleaned bathroom :think: :shifty:
Hope things are going better for AG. Whatever you do: DO NOT MENTION PROPER BATHROOM CLEANING TECHNIQUE :shock:
especially behind your partner's back
It really does depend on the relationship though and how serious you are. There is a difference if the post is made in good humor vs. in anger or with an intent to humiliate. I joked about only doling them out on special occasions, my hubby is on here, he laughed. Whether what I said is true or not is for us to know and everyone else to guess about He wasn't offended and I wouldn't have been if he made the joke, although some spouses certainly would be.
I just feel like we walked in on someone else's argument. There is way too much anger going on in this thread for it to be just about this thread. Seems like it's been carried over from maybe the MT? Maybe best to keep it there or in PMs.
Oh I get the guessing etc :thumbup: fun to play when your hubby is about
maybe even when they aren't -- uh oh!
I wish I would have seen the joke cause it did not sound the least bit funny
nor was anyone at all nor was it even respectful
I agree that anger certainly does follow one around and around and around
I thought I was the only one who got this passionate about having a properly cleaned bathroom :think: :shifty:
Hope things are going better for AG. Whatever you do: DO NOT MENTION PROPER BATHROOM CLEANING TECHNIQUE :shock:
especially behind your partner's back
It really does depend on the relationship though and how serious you are. There is a difference if the post is made in good humor vs. in anger or with an intent to humiliate. I joked about only doling them out on special occasions, my hubby is on here, he laughed. Whether what I said is true or not is for us to know and everyone else to guess about He wasn't offended and I wouldn't have been if he made the joke, although some spouses certainly would be.
I just feel like we walked in on someone else's argument. There is way too much anger going on in this thread for it to be just about this thread. Seems like it's been carried over from maybe the MT? Maybe best to keep it there or in PMs.
I made an innocent joke
she attacked me
I defended myself
she wouldn't let it go
I continued to defend myself
she inferred that I'm not good enough for my wife and that I betrayed her :shock:
it's really quite simple. this is how she operates. she jabs and jabs at someone until they say something back that will inevitibly get them a time out. it's no secret. she's a troll. it's what she does. it's like poking a bear with a stick until it attacks back and then it gets shot by the authorities.
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I just feel like we walked in on someone else's argument. There is way too much anger going on in this thread for it to be just about this thread. Seems like it's been carried over from maybe the MT? Maybe best to keep it there or in PMs.
Oh I get the guessing etc :thumbup: fun to play when your hubby is about
maybe even when they aren't -- uh oh!
I wish I would have seen the joke cause it did not sound the least bit funny
nor was anyone at all nor was it even respectful
I agree that anger certainly does follow one around and around and around
I guess what matters is if his wife sees the joke or sees it as disrespectful..not really if any of us can see it or agree with it. Unless there is abuse in a relationship I try to stay away from judging how it *should be.* All that really matters is whether it works for the couple or not...even though it might be worlds away from what I want for myself.
AET is generally a happy place...which is why I station myself here. Let's try to keep it that way :thumbup: Any more fighting and you two are going to your rooms with no supper! :x
"I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
It really does depend on the relationship though and how serious you are. There is a difference if the post is made in good humor vs. in anger or with an intent to humiliate. I joked about only doling them out on special occasions, my hubby is on here, he laughed. Whether what I said is true or not is for us to know and everyone else to guess about He wasn't offended and I wouldn't have been if he made the joke, although some spouses certainly would be.
I just feel like we walked in on someone else's argument. There is way too much anger going on in this thread for it to be just about this thread. Seems like it's been carried over from maybe the MT? Maybe best to keep it there or in PMs.
I made an innocent joke
she attacked me
I defended myself
she wouldn't let it go
I continued to defend myself
she inferred that I'm not good enough for my wife and that I betrayed her :shock:
it's really quite simple. this is how she operates. she jabs and jabs at someone until they say something back that will inevitibly get them a time out. it's no secret. she's a troll. it's what she does. it's like poking a bear with a stick until it attacks back and then it gets shot by the authorities.
I know...I saw. I think it's time to let it go. All this fighting is making me a whole lot more uncomfortable than the original joke.
Why do I suddenly feel like mom :?
"I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
I just feel like we walked in on someone else's argument. There is way too much anger going on in this thread for it to be just about this thread. Seems like it's been carried over from maybe the MT? Maybe best to keep it there or in PMs.
Oh I get the guessing etc :thumbup: fun to play when your hubby is about
maybe even when they aren't -- uh oh!
I wish I would have seen the joke cause it did not sound the least bit funny
nor was anyone at all nor was it even respectful
I agree that anger certainly does follow one around and around and around
I guess what matters is if his wife sees the joke or sees it as disrespectful..not really if any of us can see it or agree with it. Unless there is abuse in a relationship I try to stay away from judging how it *should be.* All that really matters is whether it works for the couple or not...even though it might be worlds away from what I want for myself.
AET is generally a happy place...which is why I station myself here. Let's try to keep it that way :thumbup: Any more fighting and you two are going to your rooms with no supper! :x
that would probably do us good! But it has to be the same room
I did. But before that, i actually looked back, and I wasn't even the one who made the original "bathroom cleaning for BJ's" joke. There were at least 5 other people that did before me. And I'm the asshole. Go figure.
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I did. But before that, i actually looked back, and I wasn't even the one who made the original "bathroom cleaning for BJ's" joke. There were at least 5 other people that did before me. And I'm the asshole. Go figure.
I made the joke before you. I'll be the asshole. If that's the worst that happens to me this week it will be a fantastic week Moving on...
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no one gives a shit if you are offended by a joke. one that is not even close to the worst adult joke said on here. but you don't care about those, do you? why is that? because they weren't said by me or byrnzie. you weren't "giving the OP perpective", you were trying to tear me down, as you always do.
yes, your first sentence did say the word "could". but your last statement is what really pissed me off. you said, and I QUOTE "this emotional betrayal". You said I betrayed my wife emotionally. that's fucking out of line, and I demand an apology immediately.
you don't know me, you don't know her, and you have absolutely no basis to judge either of us.
I'm waiting...........
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except what I have already ...
I stand by my words and my feelings
perhaps it is you who should think over the relationship example
you are setting for the OP and for those who have read about your wife
and her most intimate moments of loving you.
you should be banned for how offensive this has been.
the words "feelings" and "could" don't excuse you from saying anything you want to someone. you think it's a loophole, but it's not. it just shows how judgemental you are of others, and how egocentric you are.
it's just baffling.
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no, you wouldn't, since you don't have the capacity to believe it's possible you could be wrong.
maybe "you know, Hugh, my comments abour your wife were out of line, and I shouldn't have assumed I knew your relationship nor make it seem like I rule the board with my own moral compass. My apologies" would be a good start.
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It's really not funny and no funny smiley either :?
looked pretty serious to one reading it...
I don't think you were thinking before you said such intimate derogatory things
I don't believe you meant to do that
why I even mentioned in the first place so you could feel
how she might feel.
We don't want to lock this with too much back and forth
though
relationships are based on trust this the message for the OP
without trust we have nothing with that comes faith in your partner
and when you don't know what to do... do nothing
just keep the faith things have a way of working out
don't forget about the rekindle though thats the fun part
Perhaps you don't realize that it's interesting to me that you're trying to start an argument with me over something as trivial as a commonplace comment I made on a message board. It's interesting to me because it reveals you are just looking to start a fight with someone you don't know.
Now that I know this about you though, I plan to ignore you.
If you disagree, just be happy you aren't married to him.
I wasn't trying to start an argument whatsoever. I'm not that type of person here. I didn't think it was necessary to quote your whole text as I didn't feel it was necessary to my point.
if what I said bothered you, my bad. it really wasn't intended that way.
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I said it wasn't serious, but you just can't fucking let it go.
you haven't realized yet that your beliefs and feelings don't rule this board.
fuck you for telling me to apologize to my wife. how dare you. I've already made it clear that our relationship is full of humour and love. that she would have laughed at my comment. and she has.
in fact, I told her about this and she said "what kind of loser is this person? tell her she needs to lighten up and get a life".
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many a woman might cringe or worse knowing their partner is discussing
their oral sex techniques and lack there of on the internet ...
she is one special lady... best keep that one
most men would be in the doghouse from the insult
good GOD you are pathetic.
for the record, you are once again trolling around, twisting my posts. I never said anything about anyone's techniques, I joked, yes JOKED about the frequencey with which it occurs. that was it. very common theme amongst the male sex. because it's FUNNY. and you felt the need to go on and on and fucking on ad nauseum trying to bait me again and again.
she jokes about this in public too, so how about you, oh, go judge your meth friends and family instead of people you know nothing about? what is it with you, you feel the need to mother everyone here because you failed your own kids so miserably?
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Hope things are going better for AG. Whatever you do: DO NOT MENTION PROPER BATHROOM CLEANING TECHNIQUE
"I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
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Anytime I stay at a hotel, I always joke when they offer "Nightly turn-down service".....I already get that from my wife!
on marital bliss
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZYgBdCCEvqo
it's a classic
I just feel like we walked in on someone else's argument. There is way too much anger going on in this thread for it to be just about this thread. Seems like it's been carried over from maybe the MT? Maybe best to keep it there or in PMs.
"I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
Oh I get the guessing etc :thumbup: fun to play when your hubby is about
maybe even when they aren't -- uh oh!
I wish I would have seen the joke cause it did not sound the least bit funny
nor was anyone
I agree that anger certainly does follow one around and around and around
I made an innocent joke
she attacked me
I defended myself
she wouldn't let it go
I continued to defend myself
she inferred that I'm not good enough for my wife and that I betrayed her :shock:
it's really quite simple. this is how she operates. she jabs and jabs at someone until they say something back that will inevitibly get them a time out. it's no secret. she's a troll. it's what she does. it's like poking a bear with a stick until it attacks back and then it gets shot by the authorities.
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AET is generally a happy place...which is why I station myself here. Let's try to keep it that way :thumbup: Any more fighting and you two are going to your rooms with no supper! :x
"I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
which was the point of my joke in the first place........but then I got attacked.
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Why do I suddenly feel like mom :?
"I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
I did. But before that, i actually looked back, and I wasn't even the one who made the original "bathroom cleaning for BJ's" joke. There were at least 5 other people that did before me. And I'm the asshole. Go figure.
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I'd rather be stuck in a room with 7 starving coyotes.
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"I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"