OK, I'll assume she has a coffee maker.. and buy her a nice bag of coffee, xmas card, and dinner offer.. Is this ok with everyone? lol.
I'm not sure you're going to give her the impression that you like her very much with this gift but it seems like you've already decided and just wanted people to agree with you. :?
OK, I'll assume she has a coffee maker.. and buy her a nice bag of coffee, xmas card, and dinner offer.. Is this ok with everyone? lol.
I'm not sure you're going to give her the impression that you like her very much with this gift but it seems like you've already decided and just wanted people to agree with you. :?
So what's your opinion? Every seems to have a different one!
What is wrong with dinner, card, and coffee for someone I just met?
Nah, all jokes aside, just get her some flowers and chocolate like Justam said because you'll set a precedent then. You did the right thing and got her something but your not gonna look like a complete deperate nut job by getting her anything too expensive.
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show her that you know what coffee is all about and her her some kopi luwak
this is why you never start dating somebody between labor day and new years day. way too much pressure this time of year.
but seriously, a coffee press can be had for cheap to go with a decent bean. 30 bucks for the two. don't put a dinner invite in teh card. just say something sweet and christmas'y. you don't ask people out on a card.
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I agree with you, if he doesn't get her something decent, she'll be really pissed off hey? Even if she does the whole "it's okay, I didn't need a present" She's lying!
Nah, all jokes aside, just get her some flowers and chocolate like Justam said because you'll set a precedent then. You did the right thing and got her something but your not gonna look like a complete deperate nut job by getting her anything too expensive.
it's a fine line between decent and desperate nutjob :x :P
show her that you know what coffee is all about and her her some kopi luwak
this is why you never start dating somebody between labor day and new years day. way too much pressure this time of year.
but seriously, a coffee press can be had for cheap to go with a decent bean. 30 bucks for the two. don't put a dinner invite in teh card. just say something sweet and christmas'y. you don't ask people out on a card.
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oooh!!!! AN ORNAMENT Us girls go gaga over pretty, glittery, shiny ornaments!!! Have you seen any of those Pier 1 Import commercials lately? They're onto something there, dude. Glass blown ornaments preferrably--lots of glitter.
I'm sure women love stuff like that, but she's going to question my sexuality if I buy her grandma gifts. :P
Actually, justam's gift sounded really good also. You really can't go wrong with flowers and chocolate.
thats sooo generic though. Every girl likes those. How about I get her something she specifically likes?
Save the flowers for valentines day. I don't need advise on that. I'm not getting her flowers.
then go with coffee. :thumbup: chocolate coffee.
or you really can't go wrong with a big, fat Christmas mug and some hot chocolate packets inside with a candy cane sticking out. just sayin'. since she doesn't have a coffee maker...maybe. But that could be kind of treating her like a child? Hell I don't know, dude. lol.
but seriously, a coffee press can be had for cheap to go with a decent bean. 30 bucks for the two. don't put a dinner invite in teh card. just say something sweet and christmas'y. you don't ask people out on a card.
It's not asking her out. It's meant to be a little joke. Just trying to be sweet.
Fuck, there really is no right answer to this and everyone I ask has a different opinion. I'll just have to do what I feel is right.
oooh!!!! AN ORNAMENT Us girls go gaga over pretty, glittery, shiny ornaments!!! Have you seen any of those Pier 1 Import commercials lately? They're onto something there, dude. Glass blown ornaments preferrably--lots of glitter.
I'm sure women love stuff like that, but she's going to question my sexuality if I buy her grandma gifts. :P
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show her that you know what coffee is all about and her her some kopi luwak
this is why you never start dating somebody between labor day and new years day. way too much pressure this time of year.
but seriously, a coffee press can be had for cheap to go with a decent bean. 30 bucks for the two. don't put a dinner invite in teh card. just say something sweet and christmas'y. you don't ask people out on a card.
i like it. :P
just sayin, you don't put a dinner invite in a card. that's lame.
i could ask the gf for some old cards that i gave her to see what i wrote.
maybe....
i'll have to send santa a thank you note for bringing my present early this year. merry christmas
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dude, cheap but thoughtful. if you insist on going this coffee route, buy some Cafe Dumond coffee beans online with a bag of begneit mix or something. could be your first breakfast after you get lucky
may have to rush shipping though. it'll cost ya $30. good luck
Actually, justam's gift sounded really good also. You really can't go wrong with flowers and chocolate.
thats sooo generic though. Every girl likes those. How about I get her something she specifically likes?
Save the flowers for valentines day. I don't need advise on that. I'm not getting her flowers.
Yeah. Can't do anything that girls actually LIKE. :roll:
When we were dating, my husband was the master of buying gifts. They weren't expensive (because we were students) but he'd always get something sweet. Flowers, plants, little French pastries, chocolate, tea, lotion...stuff that girls actually like...
dude, cheap but thoughtful. if you insist on going this coffee route, buy some Cafe Dumond coffee beans online with a bag of begneit mix or something. could be your first breakfast after you get lucky
may have to rush shipping though. it'll cost ya $30. good luck
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I'm not sure you're going to give her the impression that you like her very much with this gift but it seems like you've already decided and just wanted people to agree with you. :?
yeah i know but we gotta keep on him until wakes up :P
What is wrong with dinner, card, and coffee for someone I just met?
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dick in a box it is.
this is why you never start dating somebody between labor day and new years day. way too much pressure this time of year.
but seriously, a coffee press can be had for cheap to go with a decent bean. 30 bucks for the two. don't put a dinner invite in teh card. just say something sweet and christmas'y. you don't ask people out on a card.
Save the flowers for valentines day. I don't need advise on that. I'm not getting her flowers.
if he hasn't learned by now what meeting the parents means, he isn't going to ever learn. :P
i'm 7+ years in and i've still not met her parents..........but they are dead, so i guess that doesn't count.
it's a fine line between decent and desperate nutjob :x :P
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then go with coffee. :thumbup: chocolate coffee.
or you really can't go wrong with a big, fat Christmas mug and some hot chocolate packets inside with a candy cane sticking out. just sayin'. since she doesn't have a coffee maker...maybe. But that could be kind of treating her like a child? Hell I don't know, dude. lol.
It's not asking her out. It's meant to be a little joke. Just trying to be sweet.
Fuck, there really is no right answer to this and everyone I ask has a different opinion. I'll just have to do what I feel is right.
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i like it. :P
just sayin, you don't put a dinner invite in a card. that's lame.
i could ask the gf for some old cards that i gave her to see what i wrote.
maybe....
i'll have to send santa a thank you note for bringing my present early this year. merry christmas
-ocean
may have to rush shipping though. it'll cost ya $30. good luck
Yeah. Can't do anything that girls actually LIKE. :roll:
When we were dating, my husband was the master of buying gifts. They weren't expensive (because we were students) but he'd always get something sweet. Flowers, plants, little French pastries, chocolate, tea, lotion...stuff that girls actually like...
Alpine Valley Resort is etched in my brain!!!
Sex Zombie chick says lotion is bad.
Can anyone recommend where to buy coffee?
good call...candles are always welcome.....just make sure it is coffee or chocolate scented.
pair that with some Hickory Farms beefstick and you are set of the night.
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LOL!
so f%*king magical! expensive, yes--but it would leave a warm, lasting impression.
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