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    StarfallStarfall Posts: 548
    Byrnzie wrote:
    Thanks Byrnzie. That's vomit inducing facts right there.

    My pleasure. I'm always happy to make people vomit :P

    You have to work at it though... usually I just say, "Wanna go out with me?" :lol:
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    mickeyratmickeyrat up my ass, like Chadwick was up his Posts: 35,801
    Byrnzie wrote:
    mb262200 wrote:
    You say to read these links to understand the 1 million body count and yet these links show nothing to back up your claim. I've googled and googled and googled and I can not find anywhere, just once where it says the body count from the Iraq war is a million or more. Do you and others on this forum just make this shit up???

    I've already answered your previous accusation about my making shit up. I posted the links to both the Lancet report and the ORB report. Try opening your fucking eyes.
    TRy getting back to YOUR topic. Bash away. Byrnzie. BASH away.
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    OnTheEdgeOnTheEdge Posts: 1,300
    Byrnzie wrote:
    mb262200 wrote:
    You say to read these links to understand the 1 million body count and yet these links show nothing to back up your claim. I've googled and googled and googled and I can not find anywhere, just once where it says the body count from the Iraq war is a million or more. Do you and others on this forum just make this shit up???

    Though actually, what's interesting is that these reports have been around now for about 5 years and yet you don't know about them.


    Don't single me out just because I lean to the right. If these polls are correct i'm sure there are lots of people that are not aware of these numbers simply because the war hardly ever makes the news anymore.

    Now if you go back to my post I posted that on a diffirent link you attached claiming it would educate me on the body count....which it didn't. Sorry I missed the other one you posted.

    Other than that you and your attitude can go fuck yourself.
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    ByrnzieByrnzie Posts: 21,037
    mb262200 wrote:
    Now if you go back to my post I posted that on a diffirent link you attached claiming it would educate me on the body count....which it didn't. Sorry I missed the other one you posted.

    Other than that you and your attitude can go fuck yourself.

    What you said was that I was full of shit and just made stuff up - after I'd provided the links that supported my earlier statement about the 1 million #. Don't blame me if you can't read - or can't be bothered to read - what people post.
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    OnTheEdgeOnTheEdge Posts: 1,300
    Byrnzie wrote:
    mb262200 wrote:
    Now if you go back to my post I posted that on a diffirent link you attached claiming it would educate me on the body count....which it didn't. Sorry I missed the other one you posted.

    Other than that you and your attitude can go fuck yourself.

    What you said was that I was full of shit and just made stuff up - after I'd provided the links that supported my earlier statement about the 1 million #. Don't blame me if you can't read - or can't be bothered to read - what people post.


    Whatever...............
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    mb262200 wrote:
    Byrnzie wrote:
    mb262200 wrote:
    Now if you go back to my post I posted that on a diffirent link you attached claiming it would educate me on the body count....which it didn't. Sorry I missed the other one you posted.

    Other than that you and your attitude can go fuck yourself.

    What you said was that I was full of shit and just made stuff up - after I'd provided the links that supported my earlier statement about the 1 million #. Don't blame me if you can't read - or can't be bothered to read - what people post.


    Whatever...............

    sorry dude, but OWNED.
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    WobbieWobbie Posts: 29,478
    so, byrnzie's real name is steve? :shock: :shifty:

    sorry......tough topic......I'm a little too on the fence to weigh in. altho I will say, Executioner's Song by Norman Mailer did get me thinking about the DP in a new way. Great book, IMO.
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    OnTheEdgeOnTheEdge Posts: 1,300
    why would you say owned. because i don't argue with somebody when they put words in my mouth.

    whatever.....
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    I'm glad people like Paul Bernardo are still sucking in oxygen. :roll:

    Read up on him and give me one good reason why he should still be alive!!!!

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    inmytreeinmytree Posts: 4,741
    I'm glad people like Paul Bernardo are still sucking in oxygen. :roll:

    Read up on him and give me one good reason why he should still be alive!!!!

    I guess some here would say "there may be a chance he is innocent" so we shouldn't execute him...

    I say hang the fucker...
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    ByrnzieByrnzie Posts: 21,037
    mb262200 wrote:
    why would you say owned. because i don't argue with somebody when they put words in my mouth.

    whatever.....

    How did I put words in your mouth?

    Whatever...talk to the hand! :shh:
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    ByrnzieByrnzie Posts: 21,037
    I'm glad people like Paul Bernardo are still sucking in oxygen. :roll:

    Read up on him and give me one good reason why he should still be alive!!!!

    How about you give me one good reason why he should be dead?

    Surely someone as mentally disturbed as this person is should be treated for his mental illness in any society that regards itself as civilized?
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    JonnyPistachioJonnyPistachio Florida Posts: 10,217
    Byrnzie wrote:
    I'm glad people like Paul Bernardo are still sucking in oxygen. :roll:

    Read up on him and give me one good reason why he should still be alive!!!!

    How about you give me one good reason why he should be dead?

    Surely someone as mentally disturbed as this person is should be treated for his mental illness in any society that regards itself as civilized?

    maaaan. I am honestly not sure what I think about the death penalty. I usually sway to lean against the DP, but I read about this Bernardo fuck, and he never lived in a civilized society. His world was, is, and will always be fucked... :eh:

    Personally, he is the closest thing to the devil I have ever seen.
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    ByrnzieByrnzie Posts: 21,037
    Byrnzie wrote:
    I'm glad people like Paul Bernardo are still sucking in oxygen. :roll:

    Read up on him and give me one good reason why he should still be alive!!!!

    How about you give me one good reason why he should be dead?

    Surely someone as mentally disturbed as this person is should be treated for his mental illness in any society that regards itself as civilized?

    maaaan. I am honestly not sure what I think about the death penalty. I usually sway to lean against the DP, but I read about this Bernardo fuck, and he never lived in a civilized society. His world was, is, and will always be fucked... :eh:

    Personally, he is the closest thing to the devil I have ever seen.

    True, he's a sick fuck. Though I still don't think that people like him should be allowed to drag us down anywhere near his level by persuading us to condone state-sanctioned murder. Put the sick bastard behind bars and let him spend the rest of his life thinking about what he's done.
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    mikepegg44mikepegg44 Posts: 3,353
    Byrnzie wrote:
    I'm glad people like Paul Bernardo are still sucking in oxygen. :roll:

    Read up on him and give me one good reason why he should still be alive!!!!

    How about you give me one good reason why he should be dead?

    Surely someone as mentally disturbed as this person is should be treated for his mental illness in any society that regards itself as civilized?

    Why answer a question with a question? :lol:


    there isn't one. We always want to blame an illness for stuff, it is never the persons fault . . . how about we hold him responsible for the stuff he did and punish him accordingly. It isn't about creating new victims or any of that, this person already created those victims when he committed the acts, it isn't the states fault.
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    mb262200 wrote:
    why would you say owned. because i don't argue with somebody when they put words in my mouth.

    whatever.....

    because you lashed out at someone for making something up when he clearly provided the answer to your question, and have to resort to name calling.
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    I'm glad people like Paul Bernardo are still sucking in oxygen. :roll:

    Read up on him and give me one good reason why he should still be alive!!!!

    because it is the right of NO ONE ANYWHERE to take away someone's right to live. it's that simple.
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    JonnyPistachioJonnyPistachio Florida Posts: 10,217
    Byrnzie wrote:
    True, he's a sick fuck. Though I still don't think that people like him should be allowed to drag us down anywhere near his level by persuading us to condone state-sanctioned murder. Put the sick bastard behind bars and let him spend the rest of his life thinking about what he's done.

    ok, you're probably right, but can we put him behind bars in a cage that's 3x3x3 and blast nickelback 24/7? ;)
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    mikepegg44 wrote:
    Byrnzie wrote:
    I'm glad people like Paul Bernardo are still sucking in oxygen. :roll:

    Read up on him and give me one good reason why he should still be alive!!!!

    How about you give me one good reason why he should be dead?

    Surely someone as mentally disturbed as this person is should be treated for his mental illness in any society that regards itself as civilized?

    Why answer a question with a question? :lol:


    there isn't one. We always want to blame an illness for stuff, it is never the persons fault . . . how about we hold him responsible for the stuff he did and punish him accordingly. It isn't about creating new victims or any of that, this person already created those victims when he committed the acts, it isn't the states fault.

    no we don't "always want to blame illness". He is being held responsible. He's in prison for life.
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    ByrnzieByrnzie Posts: 21,037
    mikepegg44 wrote:
    We always want to blame an illness for stuff, it is never the persons fault . . . how about we hold him responsible for the stuff he did and punish him accordingly. It isn't about creating new victims or any of that, this person already created those victims when he committed the acts, it isn't the states fault.

    I didn't say we should absolve him of responsibility. But do you think he was mentally stable? Would you describe him as a rational person? Personally, I'd say he was an aberration, not your average Joe.
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    Godfather.Godfather. Posts: 12,504
    what do think of this....

    Godfather.

    (CNN) -- A California man pleaded no contest to voluntary manslaughter with the use of a gun Tuesday in the shooting death of a man who he claimed sexually abused him as a teen, a prosecutor said.

    The plea comes less than a week before Aaron Vargas' first-degree murder trial was supposed to start for the slaying of Darrell McNeill, a neighbor from his childhood and a family friend whom Vargas claims began molesting him when he was 11 years old.

    Under the terms of a plea deal, Vargas, now 32, faces anywhere from probation to 10 years in prison for shooting the former Boy Scout leader and local businessman last year in his home in the Northern California community of Fort Bragg.

    Lawyers will return to court April 20 to place a statement of facts on the record before Judge Ronald Brown decides on the final sentence.

    "There's some relief that we know we won't lose him for the rest of his life, but there's also a lot of anxiety about what the judge is going to do," said Vargas' sister, Mindy Galliani.

    "I won't have closure until he's home," she added. "But even when he's home, it's still not going to be closure. We need to get him into treatment so he can get help. I feel like this is only the beginning."

    Since his arrest, Vargas' family has waged a tireless campaign to reduce the charges and raise awareness over child sex abuse, earning support from members of the community and giving rise to more sex abuse allegations against McNeill.

    McNeill used his position as a Boy Scout troop leader and as active neighborhood father to win the trust of Vargas and other young boys, Galliani said. He took the boys on camping trips or hikes, gave them alcohol or drugs and molested them, Galliani alleged.

    The alleged sexual abuse waned as Vargas grew into adulthood, but McNeill continued to call him and visit the home where Vargas lived with his wife and infant daughter. The continued contact drove Vargas to the breaking point, his sister said.

    Vargas was under the influence of alcohol the night of February 8, 2009, when he drove to McNeill's mobile home with a loaded gun and shot him in front of his wife, Mendocino County Assistant District Attorney Elizabeth Norman said.

    The prosecutor said she consulted with the victim's family and reached what they thought a jury may have found -- that his level of intoxication placed the crime more along the lines of an "emotional decision rather than an intentional first-degree murder."

    Norman said she has received four reports of sexual abuse involving McNeill, which factored into the decision to strike a plea deal even though she could not prove they were true.

    "When you have other victims coming forward, that does lend credibility to that scenario," she said. "These people have written me letters and said this has happened, and I have no way of showing this has happened, but it has been put out there."

    The slaying victim's wife, who lived next door to Vargas' family and has known the defendant since he was a child, said she had no reason to doubt his claims of abuse.

    "I love this young man and feel he needs counseling more than anything," McNeill's wife said in an e-mail. She requested that her name not be published.

    "I cannot condone what Aaron has done, but I do understand it. I believe he took the wrong avenue by taking the law into his own hands. Like most of this community, I do not feel he deserves 50 years in prison. Unlike most of this community, I feel he should serve some time, but not much."

    The case, with its suggestions of long-buried secrets, has rocked Fort Bragg, a former logging community that has become a coastal tourist destination. Another longtime Fort Bragg resident has come out publicly with allegations of abuse against McNeill.

    "I was a reserved kid, some considered me a loner; I just kind of kept to myself as a kid, and he would play on that," Todd Rowan said in an interview in March. "He'd give me pot and beer, and he'd get me stoned and a little drunk, and he took advantage of me that way."

    Rowan said the abuse began when he was 15 and continued on and off until he was 19, but the emotional trauma lingered for years, driving him to substance abuse and suicide attempts. He said he brought the allegations to Fort Bragg Police in 2001 but nothing happened.

    "All those years, I wanted to forget about and push it away with alcohol because you're supposed to be a man. And then, when police didn't do anything, that pushed me even further down the hole."

    Repeated calls for comment to the Fort Bragg Police Department and the Mendocino Sheriff, which handled the investigation of McNeill's death, were not returned.

    Rowan said his ability to stay sober for more than two years braced him for news of McNeill's death.

    "When I got news that he'd been shot, the first thing I thought was, 'who got him? Somebody got him. Who else did he do it to?'"

    McNeill's second wife, Jenny Cotila, who divorced him in 1980, said she also went to Fort Bragg Police in the 1990s after she was told that her ex-husband had sexually abused her son years ago.

    "It could've been stopped a long time ago but the police didn't take me seriously when I reported it because they said the statute of limitations was up by the time I found out what happened to my son," Cotila said in a phone interview Tuesday.

    Cotila said she has long felt indifference toward her ex-husband but worried about the effects of his death and the abuse allegations were having on their children, now adults.

    "It's hard for them to cope because they're friends with Aaron, they knew him," said Cotila. "Darrell's their father and he's their friend. They're having a hard time separating their father from the pedophile."

    Members of the community also expressed shock that a "normal" guy like McNeill, a small business owner who installed the blinds in your home after you bought them at his furniture store, was capable of such horrific acts right under their noses.

    "Here we have this man, and he's being the normal, small-town businessman, and he's following all the cultural paths available and all the norms, so when you have people coming forward and saying this man is doing something to me that's outside the norm, there's a tendency to not listen closely or to ignore it," said Jeff Edwards, a hospital employee who has lived in Fort Bragg most of his life.

    "I guess we are to blame in a way, for thinking that this could never happen in our town."
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    mikepegg44mikepegg44 Posts: 3,353
    Byrnzie wrote:
    mikepegg44 wrote:
    We always want to blame an illness for stuff, it is never the persons fault . . . how about we hold him responsible for the stuff he did and punish him accordingly. It isn't about creating new victims or any of that, this person already created those victims when he committed the acts, it isn't the states fault.

    I didn't say we should absolve him of responsibility. But do you think he was mentally stable? Would you describe him as a rational person? Personally, I'd say he was an aberration, not your average Joe.


    mentally ill people have serious problems that can be diagnosed and most of the time "cured". To call him mentally ill is demeaning to the term I think. People with manic depression. In the telling of his story he certainly seemed rational to me. He seemed pretty stable to me. He chose to do what he did, he wasn't led by a compulsion, he liked it. That to me doesn't designate you mentally ill, just a dick.
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    Godfather. wrote:
    what do think of this....

    Godfather.

    (CNN) -- A California man pleaded no contest to voluntary manslaughter with the use of a gun Tuesday in the shooting death of a man who he claimed sexually abused him as a teen, a prosecutor said.

    The plea comes less than a week before Aaron Vargas' first-degree murder trial was supposed to start for the slaying of Darrell McNeill, a neighbor from his childhood and a family friend whom Vargas claims began molesting him when he was 11 years old.

    Under the terms of a plea deal, Vargas, now 32, faces anywhere from probation to 10 years in prison for shooting the former Boy Scout leader and local businessman last year in his home in the Northern California community of Fort Bragg.

    Lawyers will return to court April 20 to place a statement of facts on the record before Judge Ronald Brown decides on the final sentence.

    "There's some relief that we know we won't lose him for the rest of his life, but there's also a lot of anxiety about what the judge is going to do," said Vargas' sister, Mindy Galliani.

    "I won't have closure until he's home," she added. "But even when he's home, it's still not going to be closure. We need to get him into treatment so he can get help. I feel like this is only the beginning."

    Since his arrest, Vargas' family has waged a tireless campaign to reduce the charges and raise awareness over child sex abuse, earning support from members of the community and giving rise to more sex abuse allegations against McNeill.

    McNeill used his position as a Boy Scout troop leader and as active neighborhood father to win the trust of Vargas and other young boys, Galliani said. He took the boys on camping trips or hikes, gave them alcohol or drugs and molested them, Galliani alleged.

    The alleged sexual abuse waned as Vargas grew into adulthood, but McNeill continued to call him and visit the home where Vargas lived with his wife and infant daughter. The continued contact drove Vargas to the breaking point, his sister said.

    Vargas was under the influence of alcohol the night of February 8, 2009, when he drove to McNeill's mobile home with a loaded gun and shot him in front of his wife, Mendocino County Assistant District Attorney Elizabeth Norman said.

    The prosecutor said she consulted with the victim's family and reached what they thought a jury may have found -- that his level of intoxication placed the crime more along the lines of an "emotional decision rather than an intentional first-degree murder."

    Norman said she has received four reports of sexual abuse involving McNeill, which factored into the decision to strike a plea deal even though she could not prove they were true.

    "When you have other victims coming forward, that does lend credibility to that scenario," she said. "These people have written me letters and said this has happened, and I have no way of showing this has happened, but it has been put out there."

    The slaying victim's wife, who lived next door to Vargas' family and has known the defendant since he was a child, said she had no reason to doubt his claims of abuse.

    "I love this young man and feel he needs counseling more than anything," McNeill's wife said in an e-mail. She requested that her name not be published.

    "I cannot condone what Aaron has done, but I do understand it. I believe he took the wrong avenue by taking the law into his own hands. Like most of this community, I do not feel he deserves 50 years in prison. Unlike most of this community, I feel he should serve some time, but not much."

    The case, with its suggestions of long-buried secrets, has rocked Fort Bragg, a former logging community that has become a coastal tourist destination. Another longtime Fort Bragg resident has come out publicly with allegations of abuse against McNeill.

    "I was a reserved kid, some considered me a loner; I just kind of kept to myself as a kid, and he would play on that," Todd Rowan said in an interview in March. "He'd give me pot and beer, and he'd get me stoned and a little drunk, and he took advantage of me that way."

    Rowan said the abuse began when he was 15 and continued on and off until he was 19, but the emotional trauma lingered for years, driving him to substance abuse and suicide attempts. He said he brought the allegations to Fort Bragg Police in 2001 but nothing happened.

    "All those years, I wanted to forget about and push it away with alcohol because you're supposed to be a man. And then, when police didn't do anything, that pushed me even further down the hole."

    Repeated calls for comment to the Fort Bragg Police Department and the Mendocino Sheriff, which handled the investigation of McNeill's death, were not returned.

    Rowan said his ability to stay sober for more than two years braced him for news of McNeill's death.

    "When I got news that he'd been shot, the first thing I thought was, 'who got him? Somebody got him. Who else did he do it to?'"

    McNeill's second wife, Jenny Cotila, who divorced him in 1980, said she also went to Fort Bragg Police in the 1990s after she was told that her ex-husband had sexually abused her son years ago.

    "It could've been stopped a long time ago but the police didn't take me seriously when I reported it because they said the statute of limitations was up by the time I found out what happened to my son," Cotila said in a phone interview Tuesday.

    Cotila said she has long felt indifference toward her ex-husband but worried about the effects of his death and the abuse allegations were having on their children, now adults.

    "It's hard for them to cope because they're friends with Aaron, they knew him," said Cotila. "Darrell's their father and he's their friend. They're having a hard time separating their father from the pedophile."

    Members of the community also expressed shock that a "normal" guy like McNeill, a small business owner who installed the blinds in your home after you bought them at his furniture store, was capable of such horrific acts right under their noses.

    "Here we have this man, and he's being the normal, small-town businessman, and he's following all the cultural paths available and all the norms, so when you have people coming forward and saying this man is doing something to me that's outside the norm, there's a tendency to not listen closely or to ignore it," said Jeff Edwards, a hospital employee who has lived in Fort Bragg most of his life.

    "I guess we are to blame in a way, for thinking that this could never happen in our town."

    what do I think of this? I don't think justice was served on either side of the case. The pedophile didn't deserve to die. Nor did the victims deserve the treatment they got from the justice system.

    Still, there is only one acceptable excuse for murder, and that is self defence of your own life. There was no danger to this man's life. And to do it in front of the man's wife? That's just cold. That's murder.
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    haffajappahaffajappa British Columbia Posts: 5,955
    mikepegg44 wrote:
    Byrnzie wrote:
    mikepegg44 wrote:
    We always want to blame an illness for stuff, it is never the persons fault . . . how about we hold him responsible for the stuff he did and punish him accordingly. It isn't about creating new victims or any of that, this person already created those victims when he committed the acts, it isn't the states fault.

    I didn't say we should absolve him of responsibility. But do you think he was mentally stable? Would you describe him as a rational person? Personally, I'd say he was an aberration, not your average Joe.


    mentally ill people have serious problems that can be diagnosed and most of the time "cured". To call him mentally ill is demeaning to the term I think. People with manic depression. In the telling of his story he certainly seemed rational to me. He seemed pretty stable to me. He chose to do what he did, he wasn't led by a compulsion, he liked it. That to me doesn't designate you mentally ill, just a dick.
    there are more mental illnesses than manic depression.
    what do prescribe to "cure" the mentally ill then.... shock therapy?
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    haffajappahaffajappa British Columbia Posts: 5,955
    has anyone seen the movie the life of david gale?
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    Godfather.Godfather. Posts: 12,504
    Godfather. wrote:
    what do think of this....

    Godfather.

    (CNN) -- A California man pleaded no contest to voluntary manslaughter with the use of a gun Tuesday in the shooting death of a man who he claimed sexually abused him as a teen, a prosecutor said.

    The plea comes less than a week before Aaron Vargas' first-degree murder trial was supposed to start for the slaying of Darrell McNeill, a neighbor from his childhood and a family friend whom Vargas claims began molesting him when he was 11 years old.

    Under the terms of a plea deal, Vargas, now 32, faces anywhere from probation to 10 years in prison for shooting the former Boy Scout leader and local businessman last year in his home in the Northern California community of Fort Bragg.

    Lawyers will return to court April 20 to place a statement of facts on the record before Judge Ronald Brown decides on the final sentence.

    "There's some relief that we know we won't lose him for the rest of his life, but there's also a lot of anxiety about what the judge is going to do," said Vargas' sister, Mindy Galliani.

    "I won't have closure until he's home," she added. "But even when he's home, it's still not going to be closure. We need to get him into treatment so he can get help. I feel like this is only the beginning."

    Since his arrest, Vargas' family has waged a tireless campaign to reduce the charges and raise awareness over child sex abuse, earning support from members of the community and giving rise to more sex abuse allegations against McNeill.

    McNeill used his position as a Boy Scout troop leader and as active neighborhood father to win the trust of Vargas and other young boys, Galliani said. He took the boys on camping trips or hikes, gave them alcohol or drugs and molested them, Galliani alleged.

    The alleged sexual abuse waned as Vargas grew into adulthood, but McNeill continued to call him and visit the home where Vargas lived with his wife and infant daughter. The continued contact drove Vargas to the breaking point, his sister said.

    Vargas was under the influence of alcohol the night of February 8, 2009, when he drove to McNeill's mobile home with a loaded gun and shot him in front of his wife, Mendocino County Assistant District Attorney Elizabeth Norman said.

    The prosecutor said she consulted with the victim's family and reached what they thought a jury may have found -- that his level of intoxication placed the crime more along the lines of an "emotional decision rather than an intentional first-degree murder."

    Norman said she has received four reports of sexual abuse involving McNeill, which factored into the decision to strike a plea deal even though she could not prove they were true.

    "When you have other victims coming forward, that does lend credibility to that scenario," she said. "These people have written me letters and said this has happened, and I have no way of showing this has happened, but it has been put out there."

    The slaying victim's wife, who lived next door to Vargas' family and has known the defendant since he was a child, said she had no reason to doubt his claims of abuse.

    "I love this young man and feel he needs counseling more than anything," McNeill's wife said in an e-mail. She requested that her name not be published.

    "I cannot condone what Aaron has done, but I do understand it. I believe he took the wrong avenue by taking the law into his own hands. Like most of this community, I do not feel he deserves 50 years in prison. Unlike most of this community, I feel he should serve some time, but not much."

    The case, with its suggestions of long-buried secrets, has rocked Fort Bragg, a former logging community that has become a coastal tourist destination. Another longtime Fort Bragg resident has come out publicly with allegations of abuse against McNeill.

    "I was a reserved kid, some considered me a loner; I just kind of kept to myself as a kid, and he would play on that," Todd Rowan said in an interview in March. "He'd give me pot and beer, and he'd get me stoned and a little drunk, and he took advantage of me that way."

    Rowan said the abuse began when he was 15 and continued on and off until he was 19, but the emotional trauma lingered for years, driving him to substance abuse and suicide attempts. He said he brought the allegations to Fort Bragg Police in 2001 but nothing happened.

    "All those years, I wanted to forget about and push it away with alcohol because you're supposed to be a man. And then, when police didn't do anything, that pushed me even further down the hole."

    Repeated calls for comment to the Fort Bragg Police Department and the Mendocino Sheriff, which handled the investigation of McNeill's death, were not returned.

    Rowan said his ability to stay sober for more than two years braced him for news of McNeill's death.

    "When I got news that he'd been shot, the first thing I thought was, 'who got him? Somebody got him. Who else did he do it to?'"

    McNeill's second wife, Jenny Cotila, who divorced him in 1980, said she also went to Fort Bragg Police in the 1990s after she was told that her ex-husband had sexually abused her son years ago.

    "It could've been stopped a long time ago but the police didn't take me seriously when I reported it because they said the statute of limitations was up by the time I found out what happened to my son," Cotila said in a phone interview Tuesday.

    Cotila said she has long felt indifference toward her ex-husband but worried about the effects of his death and the abuse allegations were having on their children, now adults.

    "It's hard for them to cope because they're friends with Aaron, they knew him," said Cotila. "Darrell's their father and he's their friend. They're having a hard time separating their father from the pedophile."

    Members of the community also expressed shock that a "normal" guy like McNeill, a small business owner who installed the blinds in your home after you bought them at his furniture store, was capable of such horrific acts right under their noses.

    "Here we have this man, and he's being the normal, small-town businessman, and he's following all the cultural paths available and all the norms, so when you have people coming forward and saying this man is doing something to me that's outside the norm, there's a tendency to not listen closely or to ignore it," said Jeff Edwards, a hospital employee who has lived in Fort Bragg most of his life.

    "I guess we are to blame in a way, for thinking that this could never happen in our town."

    what do I think of this? I don't think justice was served on either side of the case. The pedophile didn't deserve to die. Nor did the victims deserve the treatment they got from the justice system.

    Still, there is only one acceptable excuse for murder, and that is self defence of your own life. There was no danger to this man's life. And to do it in front of the man's wife? That's just cold. That's murder.

    yes I agree, the reason I posted it is because murder is justified differently by different people.
    we all have an idea of personal justice but in the big picture you nailed it my opinion.

    Godfather.
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    FrannyFranny Posts: 2,054
    Personally I think with DP the offender gets off lightly. It's lights out, no more. How is that punishment? Ok sure they have paid with thier life, but does that give any consolation or sense of justice to the families left behind?

    And how many people have been put to death and later it has been found that they were wrongfully charged? (probably quite a few) Gee to the family of the deceased...whoops sorry we killed your family member because we THOUGHT we had the right person!!

    Also with any execution,, no matter the method, there is always some degree by which people have to partake in the actual death of the accused. Humans create the devices used in executions, humans set up the apparartus for the excution. Whether is a bullet, a switch, an injection....other human beings have to be physically involved in ended yet another humans life. No matter how they try and compartmentalise thier job/role, that has got to be a huge burden on any persons mind and mental well being. I would not want to put that pressure on anyone.

    I must say, the previous suggestion of nickleback being played 24/7 seems far more like punishemnt to me! LOL
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    Godfather.Godfather. Posts: 12,504
    Personally I think with DP the offender gets off lightly. It's lights out, no more. How is that punishment? Ok sure they have paid with thier life, but does that give any consolation or sense of justice to the families left behind?

    And how many people have been put to death and later it has been found that they were wrongfully charged? (probably quite a few) Gee to the family of the deceased...whoops sorry we killed your family member because we THOUGHT we had the right person!!

    Also with any execution,, no matter the method, there is always some degree by which people have to partake in the actual death of the accused. Humans create the devices used in executions, humans set up the apparartus for the excution. Whether is a bullet, a switch, an injection....other human beings have to be physically involved in ended yet another humans life. No matter how they try and compartmentalise thier job/role, that has got to be a huge burden on any persons mind and mental well being. I would not want to put that pressure on anyone.

    I must say, the previous suggestion of nickleback being played 24/7 seems far more like punishemnt to me! LOL

    Heaven or hell ? what happens to that person after death, I can't say if he was sent to Heaven or hell but if he went to hell I would imagine that punishment to be worse than we can know.

    Godfather.
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    haffajappahaffajappa British Columbia Posts: 5,955
    Godfather. wrote:
    Personally I think with DP the offender gets off lightly. It's lights out, no more. How is that punishment? Ok sure they have paid with thier life, but does that give any consolation or sense of justice to the families left behind?

    And how many people have been put to death and later it has been found that they were wrongfully charged? (probably quite a few) Gee to the family of the deceased...whoops sorry we killed your family member because we THOUGHT we had the right person!!

    Also with any execution,, no matter the method, there is always some degree by which people have to partake in the actual death of the accused. Humans create the devices used in executions, humans set up the apparartus for the excution. Whether is a bullet, a switch, an injection....other human beings have to be physically involved in ended yet another humans life. No matter how they try and compartmentalise thier job/role, that has got to be a huge burden on any persons mind and mental well being. I would not want to put that pressure on anyone.

    I must say, the previous suggestion of nickleback being played 24/7 seems far more like punishemnt to me! LOL

    Heaven or hell ? what happens to that person after death, I can't say if he was sent to Heaven or hell but if he went to hell I would imagine that punishment to be worse than we can know.

    Godfather.
    if they're religious, anyway.
    live pearl jam is best pearl jam
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    haffajappahaffajappa British Columbia Posts: 5,955
    an eye for an eye only ends up making the whole world blind
    -gandhi
    live pearl jam is best pearl jam
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