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    unsungunsung I stopped by on March 7 2024. First time in many years, had to update payment info. Hope all is well. Politicians suck. Bye. Posts: 9,487
    So I'm curious. How do you people discipline your children when they do something wrong? Let's say little Billy goes over to the neighbors house and takes a rock and throws it at the car and chips the windshield. How do you handle it?
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    CosmoCosmo Posts: 12,219
    unsung wrote:
    So I'm curious. How do you people discipline your children when they do something wrong? Let's say little Billy goes over to the neighbors house and takes a rock and throws it at the car and chips the windshield. How do you handle it?
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    Is little Billy my kid? Was it his intent to damage the car or was it an errant throw?
    Because i would handle it differently if he were my kid... or if he were some kid in the neighborhood.
    My kid? I would dicipline him... as his parent. Hold him responsible for his actions and make him apologise to the neighbor for his act and make him pay me back for the cost of the windshield by limiting his free time after school by helping me clean out and organize that mess of a garage of mine and any other chores that needed to be done around the house in leiu of his allowance. I would also make him wash the neighbor's car a couple of times.
    Someone else's kid? Take him to his parent's place and tell them what the cost of replacing the windshield would be. It would be up to his parents to decide what to do about it but, I'm not paying for a new windshield... they are.
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    CosmoCosmo Posts: 12,219
    I always thought that when you went to school the teachers were considered your "parents" for the 8 or so hours. Meaning you would respect them the same way you would your parents.
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    Respect for the parent is different from the respect of the teacher. The teacher is not the parents of the kids. They are there to teach them the ciriculum of the school. And yes, they are authority figures and the kids need to respect that. Their dicipline is the grading of the kid based upon his/her ability to learn the class lessons (History, Math, Reading, etc...).
    I am guessing that different teachers would have handled this situation differently... perhaps, ignoring the girl sitting through the Pledge of Alligence and not making a Federal case about it... but, holding her after class and asking WHY she sat and explained to her about citizenship and what the pledge was meant to stand for.
    Maybe.
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    Hail, Hail!!!
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    CosmoCosmo Posts: 12,219
    mb262200 wrote:
    For fuck sakes man..... I DIDN"T put the kids at the front of the bus and pull their pants down.

    Is there some deep lying emotions about Odd Todd that you would like to get off your chest? :D
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    Don't take it so seriously. I'm sure you're not creepy... you seem like a descent, stand-up guy... blue collar Union man, beer and baseball and all that... but, just try to remember what it was like being a kid.
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    As for Odd Todd... sorry... but, school bus drivers conjure up memories of that guy. It was fun to make fun of him because he was so wierd. That's what little kids do. Mostly because... they are little kids.
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    brandon10brandon10 Posts: 1,114
    brandon10 wrote:
    What exactly is the point of removing the hat??? So your small mind can be closer to god or that you want to show off your awful hat hair. Who decided that was patriotic and why?


    It is a sign of respect. Similar to giving the finger as a sign of disrespect.

    Respect to whom??? Me? You? God? Everyone? Why is it respectful? Who decided that that gesture was respectful and why?
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    FiveB247xFiveB247x Posts: 2,330
    I have no problem with this at all. Pledge allegiance or taking off your hat or putting your hand over your heart or swearing on some religious book does not show any sign of respect - it is merely an ancient gesture of obedience. Respect, respect for authority, and similar should always be earned - not handed over blindly... not in one circumstance.

    And for all you people so patriotic, go to a sporting event sometime and you'll see how much respect people have as they cheer, hoot and make noise while the singing still goes on during "the home of the brave" line. That is something far more disrespectful than someone not taking off their hat (which is merely has religious origins) or someone placing their hand over their heart (which is simply childish). These gestures are nothing more than child's antics and meant to enact blind patriotism, blind respect for authority and similar... none of which are complimentary traits of a good, smart citizen.

    Watch this a learn a few things people... it's all non-sense and made up.
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hWiBt-pqp0E&feature=PlayList&p=F0F8A459D1EE2607&playnext=1&playnext_from=PL&index=21
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    Our government is the potent, the omnipresent teacher. For good or for ill, it teaches the whole people by its example. Crime is contagious. If the government becomes a law-breaker, it breeds contempt for law; it invites every man to become a law unto himself; it invites anarchy. - Louis Brandeis
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    ByrnzieByrnzie Posts: 21,037
    edited February 2010
    unsung wrote:
    Yeah I'm pro-America because I know this is the best country on the planet. A country that gives more opportunities at a good life than probably any other.

    What a crock of shit.

    Edit: Only an American would say such a thing.

    And how do you KNOW that America is 'the best country on the planet?'

    What do you mean by 'Best'?

    Have you been to every other country on the planet?

    You think someone born in Sweden or Tahiti thinks America is 'the best country on the planet?'

    Seriously, stop with this juvenile, chest-beating crap already. There aren't just Americans on this message board. And those of us 'Non-Americans' find this kind of attitude pretty pathetic and irritating.
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    ByrnzieByrnzie Posts: 21,037
    unsung wrote:
    So because you chose to serve that now gives you the right to disrespect the country?

    He disrespected the country by not taking his hat off? :lol:

    What is this, the 1950's?

    If anyone had ever told me to stand and salute a flag at school I'd have laughed in their face.
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    ByrnzieByrnzie Posts: 21,037
    unsung wrote:
    I guess it really doesn't matter. This person is probably just crying for attention and doesn't really understand what she is doing...No details were given of the student to possibly come up with a motive.

    Maybe the student has a brain, and refuses to salute the flag while the U.S is engaged in two wars of occupation and continues giving unconditional support to a terrorist rogue state called Israel.
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    gimmesometruth27gimmesometruth27 St. Fuckin Louis Posts: 22,162
    this teacher was way over the line in this situation...she could have handled that in a much more adult and much more professional manner...she should be suspended, and if it was my child i would not sue, initially i would demand her resignation, and if she does not give it to me i would contact an attorney and i would not relent until i had satisfaction...which for me would be a sincere apology to my daughter from the teacher, the principal, and the school board that will allow that teacher to stay employed...it is not the responsibility of the teacher to discipline someone else's child and it is not her responsibility to berate and embarrass her in front of her peers...

    i think pledging allegiance is an antiquated way of trying to indoctrinate the kids...if this were my daughter i would respect her decision and defend her and that is final. what parent would not? patriotism is overrated, and it says nothing of your character. did you ever notice that the people that claim to be the biggest patriots tend to be a little dim-witted?? why blindly pledge allegiance to something that is as intangible as a country or government, or a god?? when you "pledge allegiance to the flag" you pledge allegiance to everything that flag represents both good and bad, and i will not forsake my principles by pledging allegiance to something that has done so many questionable things the last 10 years, from needless wars to human rights abuses, to allowing the corporate abuses and destruction of our environment. i can't go along with it...i just can't...

    during the pledge i stand, but i no longer place my hand over my heart, nor do i say the words. its just my choice. same way with the anthem. to me nationalism is a fucking stupid and divisive thing. please refer to my signature for further evidence of my thoughts on patriotism and nationalism...

    i personally don't give a shit if people stand or sit during the pledge, i don't care if they take their hats off during the anthem or sit down...none of it matters to me. it has no bearing on my life. if people are going to get all worked up over what people do during the pledge or anthem then they have way too much time on their hands. i find it very funny that people will get all upset and tell people like me to leave the country...as if they have some sort of superpatriot superpower that can actually make me leave...some people just need to chill....
    There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.- Hemingway

    "Well, you tell him that I don't talk to suckas."
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    gimmesometruth27gimmesometruth27 St. Fuckin Louis Posts: 22,162
    Byrnzie wrote:
    unsung wrote:
    I guess it really doesn't matter. This person is probably just crying for attention and doesn't really understand what she is doing...No details were given of the student to possibly come up with a motive.

    Maybe the student has a brain, and refuses to salute the flag while the U.S is engaged in two wars of occupation and continues giving unconditional support to a terrorist rogue state called Israel.
    yes, i somehow doubt that this was a scheme concocted by the parents and the daughter to get attention....many kids her age have developed a conscience and are switched on as to what is going on in the world these days...
    There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.- Hemingway

    "Well, you tell him that I don't talk to suckas."
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    FiveB247xFiveB247x Posts: 2,330
    i dont sing either... i honestly try and think bout good things my country does in the world and the great tenets we were founded upon and hope we will once again rise to share those with the world in positive ways.

    i do not do anything during the anthem as this is merely a song.. not anything more. i'd show more respect and enjoyment hearing PJ play Grievance :D
    this teacher was way over the line in this situation...she could have handled that in a much more adult and much more professional manner...she should be suspended, and if it was my child i would not sue, initially i would demand her resignation, and if she does not give it to me i would contact an attorney and i would not relent until i had satisfaction...which for me would be a sincere apology to my daughter from the teacher, the principal, and the school board that will allow that teacher to stay employed...it is not the responsibility of the teacher to discipline someone else's child and it is not her responsibility to berate and embarrass her in front of her peers...

    i think pledging allegiance is an antiquated way of trying to indoctrinate the kids...if this were my daughter i would respect her decision and defend her and that is final. what parent would not? patriotism is overrated, and it says nothing of your character. did you ever notice that the people that claim to be the biggest patriots tend to be a little dim-witted?? why blindly pledge allegiance to something that is as intangible as a country or government, or a god?? when you "pledge allegiance to the flag" you pledge allegiance to everything that flag represents both good and bad, and i will not forsake my principles by pledging allegiance to something that has done so many questionable things the last 10 years, from needless wars to human rights abuses, to allowing the corporate abuses and destruction of our environment. i can't go along with it...i just can't...

    during the pledge i stand, but i no longer place my hand over my heart, nor do i say the words. its just my choice. same way with the anthem. to me nationalism is a fucking stupid and divisive thing. please refer to my signature for further evidence of my thoughts on patriotism and nationalism...

    i personally don't give a shit if people stand or sit during the pledge, i don't care if they take their hats off during the anthem or sit down...none of it matters to me. it has no bearing on my life. if people are going to get all worked up over what people do during the pledge or anthem then they have way too much time on their hands. i find it very funny that people will get all upset and tell people like me to leave the country...as if they have some sort of superpatriot superpower that can actually make me leave...some people just need to chill....
    CONservative governMENt

    Our government is the potent, the omnipresent teacher. For good or for ill, it teaches the whole people by its example. Crime is contagious. If the government becomes a law-breaker, it breeds contempt for law; it invites every man to become a law unto himself; it invites anarchy. - Louis Brandeis
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    flywallyflyflywallyfly Posts: 1,453
    I pledge allegiance to be indoctrinated.
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    CosmoCosmo Posts: 12,219
    Original Pledge Of Alligence:
    'I pledge allegiance to my flag and the republic for which it stands: one nation indivisible with liberty and justice for all.'
    Written for a Columbus Day celebration and was recited while saluting the flag with the (Francis) Bellamy salute. The salute was dropped in 1942 because it was the same as the Heil Hitler salute.
    'Under God' was officially added in 1954 (originally requested by the Knights of Columbus) during the Cold War Red Scare.
    Allen Fieldhouse, home of the 2008 NCAA men's Basketball Champions! Go Jayhawks!
    Hail, Hail!!!
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    Byrnzie wrote:
    unsung wrote:
    Yeah I'm pro-America because I know this is the best country on the planet. A country that gives more opportunities at a good life than probably any other.

    What a crock of shit.
    Edit: Only an American would say such a thing.
    And how do you KNOW that America is 'the best country on the planet?'
    What do you mean by 'Best'?
    Have you been to every other country on the planet?
    You think someone born in Sweden or Tahiti thinks America is 'the best country on the planet?'
    Seriously, stop with this juvenile, chest-beating crap already. There aren't just Americans on this message board. And those of us 'Non-Americans' find this kind of attitude pretty pathetic and irritating.

    I agree :) You only have to take a quick look at the Human Development Index, which is a comparative measure of life expectancy, literacy, education and standards of living for countries worldwide.
    2009 report:
    1. Norway 0.971
    2. Australia 0.970
    3. Iceland 0.969
    ...
    13. United States 0.956

    But you can say all you will about USA's government, the wars they fight and all that, but there's no denying it's a pretty special country. I've been there once, in Florida, and it was the trip of a lifetime (not because of Universal Studios, but the culture, people, huge hamburgers, etc. :D )
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    redrockredrock Posts: 18,341
    I always thought that when you went to school the teachers were considered your "parents" for the 8 or so hours. Meaning you would respect them the same way you would your parents.
    They're not considered as 'parents'. They are strangers. The child is in the care of the institution during schoold hours (with rules and regulations) and the teachers are paid educators. They do the job they are paid for - sometimes well and sometimes not. Whilst children should respect any other person in a proper manner, there is no way a child should see them/respect them as they would their parents. Whole different world.
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    unsungunsung I stopped by on March 7 2024. First time in many years, had to update payment info. Hope all is well. Politicians suck. Bye. Posts: 9,487
    Byrnzie wrote:
    unsung wrote:
    Yeah I'm pro-America because I know this is the best country on the planet. A country that gives more opportunities at a good life than probably any other.

    What a crock of shit.

    Edit: Only an American would say such a thing.

    And how do you KNOW that America is 'the best country on the planet?'

    What do you mean by 'Best'?

    Have you been to every other country on the planet?

    You think someone born in Sweden or Tahiti thinks America is 'the best country on the planet?'

    Seriously, stop with this juvenile, chest-beating crap already. There aren't just Americans on this message board. And those of us 'Non-Americans' find this kind of attitude pretty pathetic and irritating.


    Yeah Sweden and Tahiti are just being flooded with immigrants trying to make lives better for their families.
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    SmellymanSmellyman Asia Posts: 4,520
    unsung wrote:
    Byrnzie wrote:
    unsung wrote:
    Yeah I'm pro-America because I know this is the best country on the planet. A country that gives more opportunities at a good life than probably any other.

    What a crock of shit.

    Edit: Only an American would say such a thing.

    And how do you KNOW that America is 'the best country on the planet?'

    What do you mean by 'Best'?

    Have you been to every other country on the planet?

    You think someone born in Sweden or Tahiti thinks America is 'the best country on the planet?'

    Seriously, stop with this juvenile, chest-beating crap already. There aren't just Americans on this message board. And those of us 'Non-Americans' find this kind of attitude pretty pathetic and irritating.


    Yeah Sweden and Tahiti are just being flooded with immigrants trying to make lives better for their families.

    They would if Mexico was adjacent to them
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    unsungunsung I stopped by on March 7 2024. First time in many years, had to update payment info. Hope all is well. Politicians suck. Bye. Posts: 9,487
    Really?

    So the German, Irish, Italian, and whatever else waves of people just decided coming to the USA was easier than going someplace else?
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    SmellymanSmellyman Asia Posts: 4,520
    unsung wrote:
    Really?

    So the German, Irish, Italian, and whatever else waves of people just decided coming to the USA was easier than going someplace else?

    did we just go back in time 80 years?
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    Heatherj43Heatherj43 Posts: 1,254
    edited February 2010
    unsung wrote:
    If you don't like this country please just leave. I'm sure somewhere like Somalia would be better for these people.
    I can't believe you would say that. This country is based on certain tenets that we all treasure and many give their lives for, then you come along with this statement.
    If you don't want to stand for the pledge of allegience, then you don't have to...wonderful country, eh? `

    It sounds like you are the one who someone should be saying, if you don't like it, then leave!

    No one in this country is FORCED to do this...and should not be berated, especially a kid!!!
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    Save room for dessert!
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    inmytreeinmytree Posts: 4,741
    aerial wrote:
    If she wants to make that bold of a statement she needs to take the shit that comes with it,

    Okay let me Rephrase that for ya....
    If she wants to make that bold of a statement or have bold ideas, she needs to take the shit that comes with it

    aren't you the one always whining about being called a teabagger...? I guess some can't take the shit... :lol:
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    inmytreeinmytree Posts: 4,741
    please stand with me, I mean you must stand with me...

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wGXyMdH9 ... re=related
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    gimmesometruth27gimmesometruth27 St. Fuckin Louis Posts: 22,162
    Heatherj43 wrote:
    unsung wrote:
    If you don't like this country please just leave. I'm sure somewhere like Somalia would be better for these people.
    I can't believe you would say that. This country is based on certain tenets that we all treasure and many give their lives for, then you come along with this statement.
    If you don't want to stand for the pledge of allegience, then you don't have to...wonderful country, eh? `

    It sounds like you are the one who someone should be saying, if you don't like it, then leave!

    No one in this country is FORCED to do this...and should not be berated, especially a kid!!!
    i agree with you completely.

    in my experience, what unsung said is the same thing these patriots say when they have lost the argument. instead of conceding the point they tell you to leave the country. i have seen that a thousand times on this board since the beginning of the iraq war.
    There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.- Hemingway

    "Well, you tell him that I don't talk to suckas."
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    ByrnzieByrnzie Posts: 21,037
    unsung wrote:
    Byrnzie wrote:
    unsung wrote:
    Yeah I'm pro-America because I know this is the best country on the planet. A country that gives more opportunities at a good life than probably any other.

    What a crock of shit.

    Edit: Only an American would say such a thing.

    And how do you KNOW that America is 'the best country on the planet?'

    What do you mean by 'Best'?

    Have you been to every other country on the planet?

    You think someone born in Sweden or Tahiti thinks America is 'the best country on the planet?'

    Seriously, stop with this juvenile, chest-beating crap already. There aren't just Americans on this message board. And those of us 'Non-Americans' find this kind of attitude pretty pathetic and irritating.


    Yeah Sweden and Tahiti are just being flooded with immigrants trying to make lives better for their families.

    Every country in Europe has a constant influx of immigrants trying to make lives better for their families. You think the U.S is the only wealthy country in the world?
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    ByrnzieByrnzie Posts: 21,037
    Smellyman wrote:
    unsung wrote:
    Really?

    So the German, Irish, Italian, and whatever else waves of people just decided coming to the USA was easier than going someplace else?

    did we just go back in time 80 years?

    Make that 150 years.
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    aerial wrote:
    Cosmo wrote:
    aerial wrote:
    This is why teachers have such problem with kids in class rooms....kids want to act as if they have the same rights adults have....a more appropriate way to handle this would be for the child to do as she was told (show respect)....go home tell her parents and have them write a note or go to the school to speak with the teacher....
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    So.. are you the authority of what kids (and parents) should do?
    One of them ;)
    Why? You don't think kids should learn respect for adults?

    Some adults don't deserve respect just because they are an adult. Some adults are incapable of handling themselves as adults and act more childish than some children. We are not in an authoritarian society where respect is deserved just because of your age.

    I know many adults who are pretty fucking irresponsible and I didn't respect them back when I was a kid and I still don't respect them now that I'm an adult.
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    unsung wrote:
    Cosmo wrote:
    unsung wrote:
    I guess it really doesn't matter. This person is probably just crying for attention and doesn't really understand what she is doing. Maybe it is all a planned attempt at getting some cash out of a lawsuit. Either way it sounds as if her peers and taking care of the situation. No details were given of the student to possibly come up with a motive.
    ...
    If that teacher didn't react that way... no lawsuit. No news story... and this thread would not exist.

    Maybe she was removed from the class because her actions were disruptive and a distraction to the rest of the students. We weren't there I'm guessing there is more to the story.

    I'm guessing the slander and name calling done by the "adult" in this situation was far more disruptive than the one student not pledging her allegiance to the flag. If you read the story you might have noticed that the other students started making fun of her only after the "adult" did.
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    aerialaerial Posts: 2,319
    this teacher was way over the line in this situation...she could have handled that in a much more adult and much more professional manner...she should be suspended, and if it was my child i would not sue, initially i would demand her resignation, and if she does not give it to me i would contact an attorney and i would not relent until i had satisfaction...which for me would be a sincere apology to my daughter from the teacher, the principal, and the school board that will allow that teacher to stay employed...it is not the responsibility of the teacher to discipline someone else's child and it is not her responsibility to berate and embarrass her in front of her peers...

    i think pledging allegiance is an antiquated way of trying to indoctrinate the kids...if this were my daughter i would respect her decision and defend her and that is final. what parent would not? patriotism is overrated, and it says nothing of your character. did you ever notice that the people that claim to be the biggest patriots tend to be a little dim-witted?? why blindly pledge allegiance to something that is as intangible as a country or government, or a god?? when you "pledge allegiance to the flag" you pledge allegiance to everything that flag represents both good and bad, and i will not forsake my principles by pledging allegiance to something that has done so many questionable things the last 10 years, from needless wars to human rights abuses, to allowing the corporate abuses and destruction of our environment. i can't go along with it...i just can't...

    during the pledge i stand, but i no longer place my hand over my heart, nor do i say the words. its just my choice. same way with the anthem. to me nationalism is a fucking stupid and divisive thing. please refer to my signature for further evidence of my thoughts on patriotism and nationalism...i personally don't give a shit if people stand or sit during the pledge, i don't care if they take their hats off during the anthem or sit down...none of it matters to me. it has no bearing on my life. if people are going to get all worked up over what people do during the pledge or anthem then they have way too much time on their hands. i find it very funny that people will get all upset and tell people like me to leave the country...as if they have some sort of superpatriot superpower that can actually make me leave...some people just need to chill....
    You look up to and quote Emma Goldman who was involved in an attempted murder . . . yet you put down a teacher for trying to keep order in her class. She is there to teach and the pledge and patriotism is one thing the school teaches . . . Funny how some on here have a problem with learning patriotism and the pledge in school . . . but have no problem with the school teaching sex to kids ... . . can you guys see why maybe the kids are so screwed up these days?
    “We the people are the rightful masters of both Congress and the courts, not to overthrow the Constitution but to overthrow the men who pervert the Constitution.” Abraham Lincoln
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    CosmoCosmo Posts: 12,219
    aerial wrote:
    You look up to and quote Emma Goldman who was involved in an attempted murder . . . yet you put down a teacher for trying to keep order in her class. She is there to teach and the pledge and patriotism is one thing the school teaches . . . Funny how some on here have a problem with learning patriotism and the pledge in school . . . but have no problem with the school teaching sex to kids ... . . can you guys see why maybe the kids are so screwed up these days?
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    Then... what is the role of the Parent? Shouldn't the parent be the one who explains 'Patriotism' to thier kid... since 'Patriotism' is a relative perspective?
    And the same thing goes for Sex Education. The Schools have to teach Sex Education because the parents are obviously doing a terrible job about it.
    Allen Fieldhouse, home of the 2008 NCAA men's Basketball Champions! Go Jayhawks!
    Hail, Hail!!!
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