Single or Married??

dimitrispearljam

illegal pants wrote:

kenny olav wrote:

I don't think you can too easily generalize who's getting the most action... ultimately it depends on the individuals themselves and how satisfied they truly are with their partners, be it with one partner or many. But I understand what you're saying to a large degree. I don't feel pressure to get married anymore. I was once engaged and I'm very glad it never went farther than that. I'm glad I never felt pressure to be married to a woman before living with her - it really would have screwed my life up! I don't care if people get married or not, but for me, I know I want to find a lovely lady to share a house and have a kid with, and as silly and as sinister as the origins of marriage are, the fact is the legal benefits kinda do outweigh the bullshit. I will never set foot in a church or buy an expensive ring, but once I do find someone that I'm sure I want to spend my life with, I might as well appease family and society and get it done the normal way, because there's nothing gained by being a fucking purist about it. I know exactly who I'm looking for at this point anyway. Of course, people do change, and if a divorce happens, well fuckity fuck. Life's dumb!

i need to show my guy this post

alive dimi, no ring on this finger - yet - for now - for awhile - yeh

still time to run away!!

Green Circle

run...run away..as far as you can.

joeybuckets

InHerOwnWorld wrote:

Getting married on April 30th.

me too 2011

JasonE

Single in NJ...

megatron

single..but considering a Costanza wedding band

peacegirl

jones wrote:

single..but considering a Costanza wedding band

JOEJOEJOE

5 months til our wedding.

Save the date magnets went out in today's mail.

My fiance picked up her gown yesterday.

Its all getting so real!

yatahe

Clock tower wrote:

single, would be happy to find love but if it doesn't come along well thats the way it will be how can i change it

I know. I don't think ill ever marry cause I fell so hard in love 11 years ago and know ill never love that way again.

dimitrispearljam

yatahe wrote:

Clock tower wrote:

single, would be happy to find love but if it doesn't come along well thats the way it will be how can i change it

I know. I don't think ill ever marry cause I fell so hard in love 11 years ago and know ill never love that way again.

dont say never again...u will find your way....you dont know what tomorrow brings,what game has life in her mind for u..
+you never met me...

yatahe

What I'm saying is once there it is not possible to go. back and play those old games. I feel like there's a sign on my forhead with a reserved sign...them boys don't want to play with me anymore and vise versa. It's just the way it is and atleast I'm being true to my heart and others too. I'll never be able to love them like they deserve. How could I when my heart is forever with. Someoneelse? This is my story. A sacrifice. But I'm still alive. Too.

dimitrispearljam wrote:

yatahe wrote:

Clock tower wrote:

single, would be happy to find love but if it doesn't come along well thats the way it will be how can i change it

I know. I don't think ill ever marry cause I fell so hard in love 11 years ago and know ill never love that way again.

dont say never again...u will find your way....you dont know what tomorrow brings,what game has life in her mind for u..
+you never met me...

dimitrispearljam

yatahe wrote:

What I'm saying is once there it is not possible to go. back and play those old games. I feel like there's a sign on my forhead with a reserved sign...them boys don't want to play with me anymore and vise versa. It's just the way it is and atleast I'm being true to my heart and others too. I'll never be able to love them like they deserve. How could I when my heart is forever with. Someoneelse? This is my story. A sacrifice. But I'm still alive. Too.

have u ever see pearl jam in story tellers....when the curse left the house....when still alive from curse become a celebration,a party to life?
believe me,an honest person like you,will get the love of her life......again...
good things happen to good people.....i hope i meet you someday,

yatahe

dimitrispearljam wrote:

yatahe wrote:

What I'm saying is once there it is not possible to go. back and play those old games. I feel like there's a sign on my forhead with a reserved sign...them boys don't want to play with me anymore and vise versa. It's just the way it is and atleast I'm being true to my heart and others too. I'll never be able to love them like they deserve. How could I when my heart is forever with. Someoneelse? This is my story. A sacrifice. But I'm still alive. Too.

have u ever see pearl jam in story tellers....when the curse left the house....when still alive from curse become a celebration,a party to life?
believe me,an honest person like you,will get the love of her life......again...
good things happen to good people.....i hope i meet you someday,

That's so kind of you and yes I know life is a celebration. Very blessed for everyone in my life. I hope to meet u too. I think we are friends on Facebook too. Thank you for words of wisdom.

dimitrispearljam

yatahe wrote:

dimitrispearljam wrote:

yatahe wrote:

What I'm saying is once there it is not possible to go. back and play those old games. I feel like there's a sign on my forhead with a reserved sign...them boys don't want to play with me anymore and vise versa. It's just the way it is and atleast I'm being true to my heart and others too. I'll never be able to love them like they deserve. How could I when my heart is forever with. Someoneelse? This is my story. A sacrifice. But I'm still alive. Too.

have u ever see pearl jam in story tellers....when the curse left the house....when still alive from curse become a celebration,a party to life?
believe me,an honest person like you,will get the love of her life......again...
good things happen to good people.....i hope i meet you someday,

That's so kind of you and yes I know life is a celebration. Very blessed for everyone in my life. I hope to meet u too. I think we are friends on Facebook too. Thank you for words of wisdom.

i think i just wrote in your wall...

dimitrispearljam

BinauralJam

Married, i've always like this exchange:




Chief O'Brien: You were wrong, you know... about marriage.
Doctor Bashir: Whatever you say, Chief.
Chief O'Brien: Listen to me, Julian! You're the one who's always talking about adventure. Huh... adventure... Oh... marriage is the greatest adventure of them all. It's filled with pitfalls and setbacks and mistakes and... But it's a journey worth taking... 'cause you take it together. I know Keiko's been unhappy about us coming to the station... We still argue about it. But that's all right... At the end of the day we both know we love each other. That's all that matters.

Dissidentman

BinauralJam wrote:

Married, i've always like this exchange:




Chief O'Brien: You were wrong, you know... about marriage.
Doctor Bashir: Whatever you say, Chief.
Chief O'Brien: Listen to me, Julian! You're the one who's always talking about adventure. Huh... adventure... Oh... marriage is the greatest adventure of them all. It's filled with pitfalls and setbacks and mistakes and... But it's a journey worth taking... 'cause you take it together. I know Keiko's been unhappy about us coming to the station... We still argue about it. But that's all right... At the end of the day we both know we love each other. That's all that matters.

:think:

pjamaholic

Thoughts_Arrive wrote:

Probably good being single this year, she probably wouldn't have let me go to see Pearl Jam in three different cities

Married. I know what you mean. You need to find someone with an open mind who accepts your love of PJ and doesn't mind how many times you see them. Back in '03 I saw PJ 3 times, despite my husband not liking it. By 2006, he'd accepted it but still wouldn't have liked me travelling to see them and I saw them another 3 ties. Come 2009, I went off interstate to see them for the first time, and saw them in 4 different cities. It'll happen again when they come out next. Guess he's just used to it by now.

Franny

pjamaholic wrote:

Thoughts_Arrive wrote:

Probably good being single this year, she probably wouldn't have let me go to see Pearl Jam in three different cities

Married. I know what you mean. You need to find someone with an open mind who accepts your love of PJ and doesn't mind how many times you see them. Back in '03 I saw PJ 3 times, despite my husband not liking it. By 2006, he'd accepted it but still wouldn't have liked me travelling to see them and I saw them another 3 ties. Come 2009, I went off interstate to see them for the first time, and saw them in 4 different cities. It'll happen again when they come out next. Guess he's just used to it by now.

Still single......have decided there will be prerequisite for any future/prospective suitors.......one must support, engage in or tolerate my PJ passion....if not then seeya later alligator!

dimitrispearljam

Sagittarius Crux wrote:

pjamaholic wrote:

Thoughts_Arrive wrote:

Probably good being single this year, she probably wouldn't have let me go to see Pearl Jam in three different cities

Married. I know what you mean. You need to find someone with an open mind who accepts your love of PJ and doesn't mind how many times you see them. Back in '03 I saw PJ 3 times, despite my husband not liking it. By 2006, he'd accepted it but still wouldn't have liked me travelling to see them and I saw them another 3 ties. Come 2009, I went off interstate to see them for the first time, and saw them in 4 different cities. It'll happen again when they come out next. Guess he's just used to it by now.

Still single......have decided there will be prerequisite for any future/prospective suitors.......one must support, engage in or tolerate my PJ passion....if not then seeya later alligator!

BinauralJam

I heard PJ not going back on tour until this happens.

So when is that D?