Well, don't you have to become friends in any relationship?
I'm not talking about a one night stand here, but if that's all he would want, he wouldn't be much of a friend to begin with...
but if that's all he would want, he wouldn't be much of a friend to begin with...
that's the point.........99 percent of guys really are not your friend because if he wants to get you naked and have sloppy sex with you then he isn't really a friend. that's why some woman should get some sense and realize that and not let every dude under the sun "be there friend". someone said something about jealousy earlier.................i am not jealous, i just don't play the game when i know guys are just beatin off to the thought of her but acting like they have no feelings like that. thats why i say move on because who wants to be jealous, plenty of woman are mature enough to know this, so go find one.
but if that's all he would want, he wouldn't be much of a friend to begin with...
that's the point.........99 percent of guys really are not your friend because if he wants to get you naked and have sloppy sex with you then he isn't really a friend.
Nonsense....Who says you can't sexually desire a friend?
If you'd said 'if he wants to get you naked, have sloppy sex, and never talk to you again, then he isn't really a friend'....I would agree.
Harry Burns: You realize of course that we could never be friends.
Sally Albright: Why not?
Harry Burns: What I'm saying is - and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form - is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way.
Sally Albright: That's not true. I have a number of men friends and there is no sex involved.
Harry Burns: No you don't.
Sally Albright: Yes I do.
Harry Burns: No you don't.
Sally Albright: Yes I do.
Harry Burns: You only think you do.
Sally Albright: You say I'm having sex with these men without my knowledge?
Harry Burns: No, what I'm saying is they all WANT to have sex with you.
Sally Albright: They do not.
Harry Burns: Do too.
Sally Albright: They do not.
Harry Burns: Do too.
Sally Albright: How do you know?
Harry Burns: Because no man can be friends with a woman that he finds attractive. He always wants to have sex with her.
"This here's a REQUEST!"
EV intro to Chloe Dancer / Crown of Thorns
10/25/13 Hartford
I was on a first date with a girl who during conversation said "I have more guy friends than girlfriends". I said "really, I don't think I have 1 friend who is a girl except girlfriends or wives of my guy friends, who I don't have contact with unless they are with my friends when we do something". She said "most guys don't gave girls as friends". I said "why". She replied "because guys think in terms of the physical attraction they have for a girl". I said "but woman don't". She said "no, woman think in terms of the emotion and can seperate physical and emotional". I said "so what about all these guy friends you have, what are they thinking in terms of". She paused for about 5 seconds and smiled. I smiled too because she knew what I was saying and we both knew instantly our date would be a one time thing.
Think about it. Lets say my wife broke down and called me and said hey Sally is coming to pick me up from work because my car won't start. ya ok great. Now lets say she calls and says Brian the guy who would give anything to bury his face in my behind is picking me up because my car won't start. Even though you know your wife will not let him touch her, why the hell would she or her husband want him around. Let him go feel that way towards someone elses woman. It really comes down to respecting your relationship together. It works both ways though. Don't expect your girlfriend or wife to off these losers and then you have female friends out the ass.
This is not an opinion it's fact. The only thing thats opinion is weather you don't mind the situation or not. Some people don't care and others do. But 99 percent of guys want sex with the female friend.
My 17 year old daughter is best friends with a boy...and trust me...he doesn't want to have sex with her...this I know for a fact.
how?
Is he gay?
well does it matter? the statement was: News Alert! Guys don't want to be "Just friends"...does the rest matter? I was just proving a point... guys and girls can be friends with NO sexual intent. It's hard to comprehend...I know... and yes...he is gay. He would make the most wonderful son in-law ever!!!!!
My 17 year old daughter is best friends with a boy...and trust me...he doesn't want to have sex with her...this I know for a fact.
how?
Is he gay?
well does it matter? the statement was: News Alert! Guys don't want to be "Just friends"...does the rest matter? I was just proving a point... guys and girls can be friends with NO sexual intent. It's hard to comprehend...I know... and yes...he is gay. He would make the most wonderful son in-law ever!!!!!
So us women can only be friends with "gay men"? Maybe we should put more into converting gay guys then. That way we'd have it all..
I still believe that a man and woman are capable of having a strong friendship/relationship, and could be adult about it...
Guys just think about sex a lot more, doesn't mean they always get it...
Think about it. Lets say my wife broke down and called me and said hey Sally is coming to pick me up from work because my car won't start. ya ok great. Now lets say she calls and says Brian the guy who would give anything to bury his face in my behind is picking me up because my car won't start. Even though you know your wife will not let him touch her, why the hell would she or her husband want him around. Let him go feel that way towards someone elses woman. It really comes down to respecting your relationship together. It works both ways though. Don't expect your girlfriend or wife to off these losers and then you have female friends out the ass.
This is not an opinion it's fact. The only thing thats opinion is weather you don't mind the situation or not. Some people don't care and others do. But 99 percent of guys want sex with the female friend.
I would say it really comes down to trust. I think it's a bit fucked to make your wife/gf ditch every friend she ever had that's a guy, and vice versa. Sure, Brian is dying to stick it in her, but if you know your wife would never let it happen, then you should be able to handle him being around occasionally rather than forbidding her from ever seeing him again. All that shows is monstrous insecurity and a controlling nature. It's going to make you look weak and pathetic and then she really IS going to sleep with the guy becos he's not as much of a whiny jealous pussy as you. Handle him being around like a man, the competition will be healthy for you and she'll like you better for it.
My 17 year old daughter is best friends with a boy...and trust me...he doesn't want to have sex with her...this I know for a fact.
how?
Is he gay?
well does it matter? the statement was: News Alert! Guys don't want to be "Just friends"...does the rest matter? I was just proving a point... guys and girls can be friends with NO sexual intent. It's hard to comprehend...I know... and yes...he is gay. He would make the most wonderful son in-law ever!!!!!
doesn't count then. that's a bullshit cop out and you know it
you're an awful parent to want to wish your beloved children a lifetime of sexual deprivation!
My 17 year old daughter is best friends with a boy...and trust me...he doesn't want to have sex with her...this I know for a fact.
how?
Is he gay?
well does it matter? the statement was: News Alert! Guys don't want to be "Just friends"...does the rest matter? I was just proving a point... guys and girls can be friends with NO sexual intent. It's hard to comprehend...I know... and yes...he is gay. He would make the most wonderful son in-law ever!!!!!
It doesn’t. Just making sure you weren’t a delusional parent
And I agree. Men and women CAN be friends without sex getting in the way. Both just have to respect the others’ wishes, and any significant others involved need to respect the friendship and trust their mate. Pretty simple, really. If either person pushes for more than the other wants, or if a S.O. gets jealous…it can become a problem.
I have a couple of long-term female friends that I’m not attracted to at all – they’re just cool people who I enjoy talking to, and getting female POV’s from. My friendships with them are no different than they are with my guy friends…at least not in my eyes.
So us women can only be friends with "gay men"? Maybe we should put more into converting gay guys then. That way we'd have it all..
I still believe that a man and woman are capable of having a strong friendship/relationship, and could be adult about it...
Guys just think about sex a lot more, doesn't mean they always get it...
never heard the term fag hag? it's why women love gay guys so much... the plusses of a guy, the gossip of a girl, and no sexual interest whatsoever.
no, it doesnt mean we always get it. but it does mean that if you ever weaken for a second, we will be there ready to stick it in. if you can be cool with that, then it's all good. the alternative is to just give the guy friend the sex a few times until it loses its mystique, then you can carry on with the friendship
So us women can only be friends with "gay men"? Maybe we should put more into converting gay guys then. That way we'd have it all..
I still believe that a man and woman are capable of having a strong friendship/relationship, and could be adult about it...
Guys just think about sex a lot more, doesn't mean they always get it...
never heard the term fag hag? it's why women love gay guys so much... the plusses of a guy, the gossip of a girl, and no sexual interest whatsoever.
no, it doesnt mean we always get it. but it does mean that if you ever weaken for a second, we will be there ready to stick it in. if you can be cool with that, then it's all good. the alternative is to just give the guy friend the sex a few times until it loses its mystique, then you can carry on with the friendship
Think about it. Lets say my wife broke down and called me and said hey Sally is coming to pick me up from work because my car won't start. ya ok great. Now lets say she calls and says Brian the guy who would give anything to bury his face in my behind is picking me up because my car won't start. Even though you know your wife will not let him touch her, why the hell would she or her husband want him around. Let him go feel that way towards someone elses woman. It really comes down to respecting your relationship together. It works both ways though. Don't expect your girlfriend or wife to off these losers and then you have female friends out the ass.
This is not an opinion it's fact. The only thing thats opinion is weather you don't mind the situation or not. Some people don't care and others do. But 99 percent of guys want sex with the female friend.
I would say it really comes down to trust. I think it's a bit fucked to make your wife/gf ditch every friend she ever had that's a guy, and vice versa. Sure, Brian is dying to stick it in her, but if you know your wife would never let it happen, then you should be able to handle him being around occasionally rather than forbidding her from ever seeing him again. All that shows is monstrous insecurity and a controlling nature. It's going to make you look weak and pathetic and then she really IS going to sleep with the guy becos he's not as much of a whiny jealous pussy as you. Handle him being around like a man, the competition will be healthy for you and she'll like you better for it.
wooow sparky. i never said forbid anyone anything. i said "move on". find a girl who doesn't play that shit. i would never be in a relationship with a girl i didn't trust, it's a class thing. the whole sexual feelings and sexual vibe to me is sacried.
It doesn’t. Just making sure you weren’t a delusional parent
And I agree. Men and women CAN be friends without sex getting in the way. Both just have to respect the others’ wishes, and any significant others involved need to respect the friendship and trust their mate. Pretty simple, really. If either person pushes for more than the other wants, or if a S.O. gets jealous…it can become a problem.
I have a couple of long-term female friends that I’m not attracted to at all – they’re just cool people who I enjoy talking to, and getting female POV’s from. My friendships with them are no different than they are with my guy friends…at least not in my eyes.
I agree...it can be done...and no, I am not delusional...well not on a daily basis anyway!!!
I would say it really comes down to trust. I think it's a bit fucked to make your wife/gf ditch every friend she ever had that's a guy, and vice versa. Sure, Brian is dying to stick it in her, but if you know your wife would never let it happen, then you should be able to handle him being around occasionally rather than forbidding her from ever seeing him again. All that shows is monstrous insecurity and a controlling nature. It's going to make you look weak and pathetic and then she really IS going to sleep with the guy becos he's not as much of a whiny jealous pussy as you. Handle him being around like a man, the competition will be healthy for you and she'll like you better for it.
and who are you calling a pussy......................pussy.
I would say it really comes down to trust. I think it's a bit fucked to make your wife/gf ditch every friend she ever had that's a guy, and vice versa. Sure, Brian is dying to stick it in her, but if you know your wife would never let it happen, then you should be able to handle him being around occasionally rather than forbidding her from ever seeing him again. All that shows is monstrous insecurity and a controlling nature. It's going to make you look weak and pathetic and then she really IS going to sleep with the guy becos he's not as much of a whiny jealous pussy as you. Handle him being around like a man, the competition will be healthy for you and she'll like you better for it.
and who are you calling a pussy......................pussy.
pussy referred to the royal you, not any you in particular
I would say it really comes down to trust. I think it's a bit fucked to make your wife/gf ditch every friend she ever had that's a guy, and vice versa. Sure, Brian is dying to stick it in her, but if you know your wife would never let it happen, then you should be able to handle him being around occasionally rather than forbidding her from ever seeing him again. All that shows is monstrous insecurity and a controlling nature. It's going to make you look weak and pathetic and then she really IS going to sleep with the guy becos he's not as much of a whiny jealous pussy as you. Handle him being around like a man, the competition will be healthy for you and she'll like you better for it.
and who are you calling a pussy......................pussy.
pussy referred to the royal you, not any you in particular
well lets try to be smarter than putting words in peoples mouths. i never said forbid anyone anything. thats not me, i said who would want to live life being jealous, i don't think thats a fun way to live. dont get me mixed up with the meat heads who rule their wives. find a girl who doesn't play that shit and then the horny goons can get kicks some place else, thats what i'm saying. plenty of woman like that out and about.
pussy referred to the royal you, not any you in particular
well lets try to be smarter than putting words in peoples mouths. i never said forbid anyone anything. thats not me, i said who would want to live life being jealous, i don't think thats a fun way to live. dont get me mixed up with the meat heads who rule their wives. find a girl who doesn't play that shit and then the horny goons can get kicks some place else, thats what i'm saying. plenty of woman like that out and about.
jealousy is internal. the fact that you're jealous is YOUR problem, not hers. so if someone needs to change, it would be the jealous person, not her. if she wants to maintain friendships with guys and you cannot accept that, then yes you are basically the same as the meatheads that rule their girls' lives. just becos those guys want to fuck her doesn't mean she can't continue to value their friendship. doesn't mean she's "playing that shit" to fuck with you. if her having a few guy friends makes someone so jealous their life is miserable, the problem is the jealous person is being a pussy, not that the girl is being some sort of manipulative bitch.
doesn't count then. that's a bullshit cop out and you know it
you're an awful parent to want to wish your beloved children a lifetime of sexual deprivation!
actually we've discussed it...the three of us...they are allowed to cheat. How can one survive without...you know...it...
file under conversations i never want to have with my parents...
we discuss everything...no secrets in my household...you close the door on one conversation...it may lead to many doors being closed...I want my children to feel comfortable with speaking to me about all things...mind you...being a parent and hearing some things can be difficult to swallow but that is what being a parent is all about...I think...don't take my word for it...I have nothing to base my parenting on...I make it up as I go along.
file under conversations i never want to have with my parents...
we discuss everything...no secrets in my household...you close the door on one conversation...it may lead to many doors being closed...I want my children to feel comfortable with speaking to me about all things...mind you...being a parent and hearing some things can be difficult to swallow but that is what being a parent is all about...I think...don't take my word for it...I have nothing to base my parenting on...I make it up as I go along.
as most do i'm sure. i value open communication and get on well with my parents, but i really don't want to have a sitdown where mom is telling me to marry a lesbian and just get all the action i want on the side. and even if i had that convo, it won't change many other doors remaining closed, like my... ah... herbal relaxation regimen
jealousy is internal. the fact that you're jealous is YOUR problem, not hers. so if someone needs to change, it would be the jealous person, not her. if she wants to maintain friendships with guys and you cannot accept that, then yes you are basically the same as the meatheads that rule their girls' lives. just becos those guys want to fuck her doesn't mean she can't continue to value their friendship. doesn't mean she's "playing that shit" to fuck with you. if her having a few guy friends makes someone so jealous their life is miserable, the problem is the jealous person is being a pussy, not that the girl is being some sort of manipulative bitch.
you can not seriously be this............ :roll: it is no different than not being attractted to a woman with an ugly face or a woman who is not attracted to a man who is fat. i am not attracted to a woman who has a bunch of guy friends. it has nothing to do with trust. i would not marry a woman i thought might sleep a another guy. wouldnt tell anyone not to have a guy friend, i just wouldnt date her. it's like if i told you to date a guy, you would say, im not attracted to guys. duh, come on dude be smarter than that.it's the guy i'm talking about here. let him get cheap jollies somewhere else. and if you keep calling me a pussy then i'll make that end real quick computer tough guy. i'm not above reporting you to kat. you might not have class but i will not let you bait me into name calling also.
file under conversations i never want to have with my parents...
we discuss everything...no secrets in my household...you close the door on one conversation...it may lead to many doors being closed...I want my children to feel comfortable with speaking to me about all things...mind you...being a parent and hearing some things can be difficult to swallow but that is what being a parent is all about...I think...don't take my word for it...I have nothing to base my parenting on...I make it up as I go along.
as most do i'm sure. i value open communication and get on well with my parents, but i really don't want to have a sitdown where mom is telling me to marry a lesbian and just get all the action i want on the side. and even if i had that convo, it won't change many other doors remaining closed, like my... ah... herbal relaxation regimen
I didn't tell her to marry a man who was gay...they sat me down and told me their plan. I love him so... I agreed...as for your herbal relaxation regimen...why would your parents mind? It's so common place...again...I have no clue...just my own opinion.
i am very friendly, some people call others curse words on a computer though because they know nothing can be done about it. i respect people with class not those who don't have it. heck pretend you have it if nothing else. i'm all for joking and saying goofy things i do it all the time on here but never have i called anyone things like that.
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i am very friendly, some people call others curse words on a computer though because they know nothing can be done about it. i respect people with class not those who don't have it. heck pretend you have it if nothing else. i'm all for joking and saying goofy things i do it all the time on here but never have i called anyone things like that.
It takes far less facial muscles to smile and laugh than to frown. :evil: BTW I think it's hilarious to see goalies thrown down.
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I'm not talking about a one night stand here, but if that's all he would want, he wouldn't be much of a friend to begin with...
Wish you were here...
♥~RIP Dad
that's the point.........99 percent of guys really are not your friend because if he wants to get you naked and have sloppy sex with you then he isn't really a friend. that's why some woman should get some sense and realize that and not let every dude under the sun "be there friend". someone said something about jealousy earlier.................i am not jealous, i just don't play the game when i know guys are just beatin off to the thought of her but acting like they have no feelings like that. thats why i say move on because who wants to be jealous, plenty of woman are mature enough to know this, so go find one.
If you'd said 'if he wants to get you naked, have sloppy sex, and never talk to you again, then he isn't really a friend'....I would agree.
Harry Burns: You realize of course that we could never be friends.
Sally Albright: Why not?
Harry Burns: What I'm saying is - and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form - is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way.
Sally Albright: That's not true. I have a number of men friends and there is no sex involved.
Harry Burns: No you don't.
Sally Albright: Yes I do.
Harry Burns: No you don't.
Sally Albright: Yes I do.
Harry Burns: You only think you do.
Sally Albright: You say I'm having sex with these men without my knowledge?
Harry Burns: No, what I'm saying is they all WANT to have sex with you.
Sally Albright: They do not.
Harry Burns: Do too.
Sally Albright: They do not.
Harry Burns: Do too.
Sally Albright: How do you know?
Harry Burns: Because no man can be friends with a woman that he finds attractive. He always wants to have sex with her.
EV intro to Chloe Dancer / Crown of Thorns
10/25/13 Hartford
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Is he gay?
Think about it. Lets say my wife broke down and called me and said hey Sally is coming to pick me up from work because my car won't start. ya ok great. Now lets say she calls and says Brian the guy who would give anything to bury his face in my behind is picking me up because my car won't start. Even though you know your wife will not let him touch her, why the hell would she or her husband want him around. Let him go feel that way towards someone elses woman. It really comes down to respecting your relationship together. It works both ways though. Don't expect your girlfriend or wife to off these losers and then you have female friends out the ass.
This is not an opinion it's fact. The only thing thats opinion is weather you don't mind the situation or not. Some people don't care and others do. But 99 percent of guys want sex with the female friend.
I still believe that a man and woman are capable of having a strong friendship/relationship, and could be adult about it...
Guys just think about sex a lot more, doesn't mean they always get it...
Wish you were here...
♥~RIP Dad
I would say it really comes down to trust. I think it's a bit fucked to make your wife/gf ditch every friend she ever had that's a guy, and vice versa. Sure, Brian is dying to stick it in her, but if you know your wife would never let it happen, then you should be able to handle him being around occasionally rather than forbidding her from ever seeing him again. All that shows is monstrous insecurity and a controlling nature. It's going to make you look weak and pathetic and then she really IS going to sleep with the guy becos he's not as much of a whiny jealous pussy as you. Handle him being around like a man, the competition will be healthy for you and she'll like you better for it.
doesn't count then. that's a bullshit cop out and you know it
you're an awful parent to want to wish your beloved children a lifetime of sexual deprivation!
And I agree. Men and women CAN be friends without sex getting in the way. Both just have to respect the others’ wishes, and any significant others involved need to respect the friendship and trust their mate. Pretty simple, really. If either person pushes for more than the other wants, or if a S.O. gets jealous…it can become a problem.
I have a couple of long-term female friends that I’m not attracted to at all – they’re just cool people who I enjoy talking to, and getting female POV’s from. My friendships with them are no different than they are with my guy friends…at least not in my eyes.
never heard the term fag hag? it's why women love gay guys so much... the plusses of a guy, the gossip of a girl, and no sexual interest whatsoever.
no, it doesnt mean we always get it. but it does mean that if you ever weaken for a second, we will be there ready to stick it in. if you can be cool with that, then it's all good. the alternative is to just give the guy friend the sex a few times until it loses its mystique, then you can carry on with the friendship
Wish you were here...
♥~RIP Dad
wooow sparky. i never said forbid anyone anything. i said "move on". find a girl who doesn't play that shit. i would never be in a relationship with a girl i didn't trust, it's a class thing. the whole sexual feelings and sexual vibe to me is sacried.
I agree...it can be done...and no, I am not delusional...well not on a daily basis anyway!!!
and who are you calling a pussy......................pussy.
file under conversations i never want to have with my parents...
pussy referred to the royal you, not any you in particular
jealousy is internal. the fact that you're jealous is YOUR problem, not hers. so if someone needs to change, it would be the jealous person, not her. if she wants to maintain friendships with guys and you cannot accept that, then yes you are basically the same as the meatheads that rule their girls' lives. just becos those guys want to fuck her doesn't mean she can't continue to value their friendship. doesn't mean she's "playing that shit" to fuck with you. if her having a few guy friends makes someone so jealous their life is miserable, the problem is the jealous person is being a pussy, not that the girl is being some sort of manipulative bitch.
you can not seriously be this............ :roll: it is no different than not being attractted to a woman with an ugly face or a woman who is not attracted to a man who is fat. i am not attracted to a woman who has a bunch of guy friends. it has nothing to do with trust. i would not marry a woman i thought might sleep a another guy. wouldnt tell anyone not to have a guy friend, i just wouldnt date her. it's like if i told you to date a guy, you would say, im not attracted to guys. duh, come on dude be smarter than that.it's the guy i'm talking about here. let him get cheap jollies somewhere else. and if you keep calling me a pussy then i'll make that end real quick computer tough guy. i'm not above reporting you to kat. you might not have class but i will not let you bait me into name calling also.
Wish you were here...
♥~RIP Dad
i am very friendly, some people call others curse words on a computer though because they know nothing can be done about it. i respect people with class not those who don't have it. heck pretend you have it if nothing else. i'm all for joking and saying goofy things i do it all the time on here but never have i called anyone things like that.
It takes far less facial muscles to smile and laugh than to frown. :evil: BTW I think it's hilarious to see goalies thrown down.
Peace
*MUSIC IS the expression of EMOTION.....and that POLITICS IS merely the DECOY of PERCEPTION*
.....song_Music & Politics....Michael Franti
*The scientists of today think deeply instead of clearly. One must be sane to think clearly, but one can think deeply and be quite INSANE*....Nikola Tesla(a man who shaped our world of electricity with his futuristic inventions)