Maybe it's an age thing

Black DiamondBlack Diamond Posts: 25,107
edited September 2009 in The Porch
I am right around the Median age of the band and maybe after years of angst and the Bush Administration and other things to throw stones at, perhaps like me, it's time to reflect on the good things in life like having kids and family. I hear a lot of that in here. Mortality too which is something on my mind as well. They still rock it out but in a more refined way. Kind of like a fine wine.

Curious to see if those that don't like it as much fall into a younger age bracket.
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  • I am right around the Median age of the band and maybe after years of angst and the Bush Administration and other things to throw stones at, perhaps like me, it's time to reflect on the good things in life like having kids and family. I hear a lot of that in here. Mortality too which is something on my mind as well. They still rock it out but in a more refined way. Kind of like a fine wine.

    Curious to see if those that don't like it as much fall into a younger age bracket.

    Yeah, agreed on that. But I found it to be really morbid as well...and dark. Hard for me to get through dealing with the death of my grandpa.
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • As I just posted to you in a PM:

    Maybe it is that I'm in a different place than the band. I'm still ready to rock, whilst you old geezers are slowing down...and talking about death relentlessly.
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • FlaggFlagg Posts: 5,856
    I was having that same thought. A lot of these new songs speak to me and fit me because I find myself in similar circumstances. Grown up, job, married, kids, getting a little older (37), more responibility, and generally happy with life.

    The same way they spoke to me when I was young, disaffected, angry, depressed, unsure of my place in the world and Ten, Vs, and Vitalogy spoke to me in my late teens, early 20s.
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  • normnorm Posts: 31,146
    I am right around the Median age of the band and maybe after years of angst and the Bush Administration and other things to throw stones at, perhaps like me, it's time to reflect on the good things in life like having kids and family. I hear a lot of that in here. Mortality too which is something on my mind as well. They still rock it out but in a more refined way. Kind of like a fine wine.

    Curious to see if those that don't like it as much fall into a younger age bracket.


    totally agree...being close to ed's age, it seems with each album his lyrics seems speak to me and this album more than others

    and i've thought the same thing...i'd be interested to see the ages of the people that aren't getting the album...
  • Seriously...bunch of dirty old men. :roll:
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • I think You've hit on something here, there are probably younger fans that really like it but I wouldn't mind betting those who think it's a bit light and too cheery are younger although I might be wrong.

    I'm 37 and I have to be honest grown a little tired of the angry sound of the band, I liked S/T allot but Backspacer for me at least is much better, it flows better, it's the most consistent since Yield, I just love it and it speaks to me like yourself, soon to become a Father hopefully, what Eddie is writing about here, really strikes a chord with me.

    I still think Vs (one of PJ's angriest albums), Vitalogy (probably still their darkest) & Yield ( a mixture of both with some optimism thrown in) are better albums but we have those album to listen to when we want that kind of vibe from the band. To me Backspacer has come at the right time in my life and although some don't feel tracks like Just Breathe, Amongst The Waves & Unthought Known, I just love the hell outta of them.

    So yes it might very well be an age factor, though I'm sure there will be exceptions to that rule.
  • normnorm Posts: 31,146
    Seriously...bunch of dirty old men. :roll:


    :P

    hey you want me to be dirty, i'll head over to the shaved thread ;):lol:
  • norm wrote:
    I am right around the Median age of the band and maybe after years of angst and the Bush Administration and other things to throw stones at, perhaps like me, it's time to reflect on the good things in life like having kids and family. I hear a lot of that in here. Mortality too which is something on my mind as well. They still rock it out but in a more refined way. Kind of like a fine wine.

    Curious to see if those that don't like it as much fall into a younger age bracket.


    totally agree...being close to ed's age, it seems with each album his lyrics seems speak to me and this album more than others

    and i've thought the same thing...i'd be interested to see the ages of the people that aren't getting the album...


    well you know my age and i am right up there with ya ;)...and yet, i am not getting into some of the album. some of it is style, reminds me a bit too much of the ramones....and the other part is some lyrics/delivery-phrasing.....so it's not just an age thing. i am older, married, in a good place in life, overall happy...and happy to hear pj/ed happy but i am just not feelin' the love here. it may come, or it may not.....i am liking it more and more, but about the only tune i connected with on very first listen, just breathe. LOVE that, and really...it belongs on itw. ;) now i am liking more, but as i said, i am hearing 2 different albums here......and i am also really enjoying some lyrivcs and others, errrrr.....not so much. overall i am enjoying the music, so it samazes me that lyrics/phrasings i am having a lot more difficulty. never thought i'd ever say that about pj. time will tell......
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • I think You've hit on something here, there are probably younger fans that really like it but I wouldn't mind betting those who think it's a bit light and too cheery are younger although I might be wrong.

    I'm 37 and I have to be honest grown a little tired of the angry sound of the band, I liked S/T allot but Backspacer for me at least is much better, it flows better, it's the most consistent since Yield, I just love it and it speaks to me like yourself, soon to become a Father hopefully, what Eddie is writing about here, really strikes a chord with me.

    I still think Vs (one of PJ's angriest albums), Vitalogy (probably still their darkest) & Yield ( a mixture of both with some optimism thrown in) are better albums but we have those album to listen to when we want that kind of vibe from the band. To me Backspacer has come at the right time in my life and although some don't feel tracks like Just Breathe, Amongst The Waves & Unthought Known, I just love the hell outta of them.

    So yes it might very well be an age factor, though I'm sure there will be exceptions to that rule.

    "bit light and cheery"? WTF?! LOL!! It's downright morbid.
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • I consider myself 'older' just turned 29 this year and I found all of your comments interesting...I have to admit that when I first bought No Code at age 16, I did not 'get it'...it took me about 2 years to really love that album and same thing with Yield. Sometimes it just takes me a bit to warm up to them or I guess 'relate' to it.

    I've listened to Backspacer twice now and I'm really enjoying it.
  • gemth wrote:
    I consider myself 'older' just turned 29 this year and I found all of your comments interesting...I have to admit that when I first bought No Code at age 16, I did not 'get it'...it took me about 2 years to really love that album and same thing with Yield. Sometimes it just takes me a bit to warm up to them or I guess 'relate' to it.

    I've listened to Backspacer twice now and I'm really enjoying it.

    I'm 29 (30 in November) and don't consider myself "older". Maybe I am. :?
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • normnorm Posts: 31,146
    well you know my age and i am right up there with ya ;)...and yet, i am not getting into some of the album. some of it is style, reminds me a bit too much of the ramones....and the other part is some lyrics/delivery-phrasing.....so it's not just an age thing. i am older, married, in a good place in life, overall happy...and happy to hear pj/ed happy but i am just not feelin' the love here. it may come, or it may not.....i am liking it more and more, but about the only tune i connected with on very first listen, just breathe. LOVE that, and really...it belongs on itw. ;) now i am liking more, but as i said, i am hearing 2 different albums here......and i am also really enjoying some lyrivcs and others, errrrr.....not so much. overall i am enjoying the music, so it samazes me that lyrics/phrasings i am having a lot more difficulty. never thought i'd ever say that about pj. time will tell......


    what's funny is i think the exact opposite...ed's lyrics are superb and i love the phrasing...the lyrics to amongst the waves, unthough known, speed of nature really speak to me...i'm enjoying happy ed :D

    the album is down and dirty...no bullshit just straight rock and roll...it was their objective and i think they succeeded...and i'm glad they did...i love all the albums because each one is an individual piece of art...yes the band has a sound but with each album they take it a different direction...this direction is simple and unfettered from grandiose ideas (musically and lyrically)...it's like a breath of fresh air :oops:


    and if someone doesn't like just breathe they have no soul ;):mrgreen:
  • norm wrote:
    well you know my age and i am right up there with ya ;)...and yet, i am not getting into some of the album. some of it is style, reminds me a bit too much of the ramones....and the other part is some lyrics/delivery-phrasing.....so it's not just an age thing. i am older, married, in a good place in life, overall happy...and happy to hear pj/ed happy but i am just not feelin' the love here. it may come, or it may not.....i am liking it more and more, but about the only tune i connected with on very first listen, just breathe. LOVE that, and really...it belongs on itw. ;) now i am liking more, but as i said, i am hearing 2 different albums here......and i am also really enjoying some lyrivcs and others, errrrr.....not so much. overall i am enjoying the music, so it samazes me that lyrics/phrasings i am having a lot more difficulty. never thought i'd ever say that about pj. time will tell......


    what's funny is i think the exact opposite...ed's lyrics are superb and i love the phrasing...the lyrics to amongst the waves, unthough known, speed of nature really speak to me...i'm enjoying happy ed :D

    the album is down and dirty...no bullshit just straight rock and roll...it was their objective and i think they succeeded...and i'm glad they did...i love all the albums because each one is an individual piece of art...yes the band has a sound but with each album they take it a different direction...this direction is simple and unfettered from grandiose ideas (musically and lyrically)...it's like a breath of fresh air :oops:


    and if someone doesn't like just breathe they have no soul ;):mrgreen:

    (raises hand) I have no soul. I couldn't even make it through JB. Make me think of my Gpa who recently died and made me cry.

    Personally I didn't think this album was "no bullshit just straight rock and roll". Quite the opposite. I found it to be really tame almost boppy....with hints of death ballads.
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • norm wrote:
    well you know my age and i am right up there with ya ;)...and yet, i am not getting into some of the album. some of it is style, reminds me a bit too much of the ramones....and the other part is some lyrics/delivery-phrasing.....so it's not just an age thing. i am older, married, in a good place in life, overall happy...and happy to hear pj/ed happy but i am just not feelin' the love here. it may come, or it may not.....i am liking it more and more, but about the only tune i connected with on very first listen, just breathe. LOVE that, and really...it belongs on itw. ;) now i am liking more, but as i said, i am hearing 2 different albums here......and i am also really enjoying some lyrics and others, errrrr.....not so much. overall i am enjoying the music, so it amazes me that lyrics/phrasings i am having a lot more difficulty. never thought i'd ever say that about pj. time will tell......


    what's funny is i think the exact opposite...ed's lyrics are superb and i love the phrasing...the lyrics to amongst the waves, unthough known, speed of nature really speak to me...i'm enjoying happy ed :D

    the album is down and dirty...no bullshit just straight rock and roll...it was their objective and i think they succeeded...and i'm glad they did...i love all the albums because each one is an individual piece of art...yes the band has a sound but with each album they take it a different direction...this direction is simple and unfettered from grandiose ideas (musically and lyrically)...it's like a breath of fresh air :oops:


    and if someone doesn't like just breathe they have no soul ;):mrgreen:



    i love just breathe...i like unthought known, amongst the waves......it's more like the fixer, johnny guitar, etc....not as much. i love straight up rock and roll, i love 80s music, and i love the deeper, more complex stuff too...i just find on some songs, great lyrics...others.....not so much. what can i say, i hold pj and ed to a higher standard. also, as i said, while i can enjoy some ramones, not really a fan....and in songs like johnny guitar and such, i just hear too much. so i find some lyrics, superb....a lot of the music is great....but as a sum total, i am not feeling it as much. it may change, and it may not.



    btw - i don't find it 'down and dirty' at all.....there is too much polish in the background to be down and dirty. i might like some of the songs better if they were straight down and dirty....;) there definitely is that new wave/80s/synth pop vibe mixed in there and that ain't down and dirty...just my 2 cents.
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • I think You've hit on something here, there are probably younger fans that really like it but I wouldn't mind betting those who think it's a bit light and too cheery are younger although I might be wrong.

    I'm 37 and I have to be honest grown a little tired of the angry sound of the band, I liked S/T allot but Backspacer for me at least is much better, it flows better, it's the most consistent since Yield, I just love it and it speaks to me like yourself, soon to become a Father hopefully, what Eddie is writing about here, really strikes a chord with me.

    I still think Vs (one of PJ's angriest albums), Vitalogy (probably still their darkest) & Yield ( a mixture of both with some optimism thrown in) are better albums but we have those album to listen to when we want that kind of vibe from the band. To me Backspacer has come at the right time in my life and although some don't feel tracks like Just Breathe, Amongst The Waves & Unthought Known, I just love the hell outta of them.

    So yes it might very well be an age factor, though I'm sure there will be exceptions to that rule.

    "bit light and cheery"? WTF?! LOL!! It's downright morbid.


    It might have it's dark moments but are trying to tell me this as dark as Vitalogy, yes Ed's reflecting on some heavy stuff but I'm getting allot of optimism from this album , maybe your not but tracks like Amongst & Unthought really are uplifting. I just think some people will think it too cheery for their tastes.

    It's only when you analyse the lyrics that you get that dark vibe but the delivery at times is far more upbeat than they've been for ages and I have been into this band since 1992, I know my Pearl Jam thank you.
  • I'm 29 (30 in November) and don't consider myself "older". Maybe I am.

    Amentschick...I think i'm just trying to get used to the fact that I am getting older :D . Do I think we are old at 29? Not at all but I'm easing into it.

    Well Happy early Birthday for you!
  • this is superb, and so ed....


    Yes, I understand that every life must end, uh-huh
    As we sit alone, I know someday we must go, uh-huh
    Oh I'm a lucky man, to count on both hands the ones I love
    Some folks just have one, yeah, others, they've got none

    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...

    Practiced all my sins, never gonna let me win, uh-huh
    Under everything, just another human being, uh-huh
    I don't wanna hurt, there's so much in this world to make me believe

    Stay with me
    You're all I see...

    Did I say that I need you?
    Did I say that I want you?
    Oh, if I didn't I'm a fool you see
    No one knows this more than me

    As I come clean...
    I wonder everyday, as I look upon your face, uh-huh
    Everything you gave
    And nothing you would save, oh no

    Nothing you would take
    Everything you gave...

    Did I say that I need you?
    Oh, did I say that I want you?
    Oh, if I didn't I'm a fool you see
    No one knows this more than me
    And I come clean, ah...

    Nothing you would take
    Everything you gave
    Hold me til I die
    Meet you on the other side...



    and no, i am not wanting pj to be all ed, sound just like ed, like itw, not at all......honestly, it took me a long time to warm up to itw. i LOVEd it in the film, but listening to the album, it was just too short! hahaha. it took many, many listens before i fell in love with it. and yes, i do love it now....and i do love pj's love/introspective songs.....but i like their hard-edged songs just as much, maybe more.....and what can i say? this is just a far different pj delivery for me on this new album, and some of the lyrics just don't speak to me....but hey, it's pj....and i will keep listening and hoping....
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • Not once in listening did I feel "uplifted" (Avocado I would describe that way, though!). Do I consider it an angry album? Absolutely not. Doesn't have the animosity and ferocity that early albums did. Which I totally understand...they ARE less angry (especially Ed). And I think BlackDiamond hit the nail on the head. Their music has grown with them. I'm just not in the same place (as I said before). I'm single, no kids, not married...can't "count on both hands the ones I love". It's definitely an age thing, at least for me.
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • gemth wrote:

    Amentschick...I think i'm just trying to get used to the fact that I am getting older :D . Do I think we are old at 29? Not at all but I'm easing into it.

    Well Happy early Birthday for you!

    I think 30 is just harder for chicks to accept. Thanks for the early bday wishes, although I prefer not to think about it.
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • FahkaFahka Posts: 3,187
    edited September 2009
    its defiantly an age thing.. I always thought i responded/related to the guys very well, even though they've always been easily twice my age.. but i think with this new album, myself along with alot of other younger fans (im 21) might have hit a road bump in the "relating" area.. Its not bad persay.. Its just like when a friend or older sibling you are close to gets married, has kids... and you feel kind of "left out" or not left out per-say but, left behind.. Or unable to relate as much as you used to... That's probably a horrible example but i hope it at least sort of makes sense.
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  • Mrs.Vedder78Mrs.Vedder78 Posts: 4,585
    edited September 2009
    Flagg wrote:
    I was having that same thought. A lot of these new songs speak to me and fit me because I find myself in similar circumstances. Grown up, job, married, kids, getting a little older (37), more responibility, and generally happy with life.

    The same way they spoke to me when I was young, disaffected, angry, depressed, unsure of my place in the world and Ten, Vs, and Vitalogy spoke to me in my late teens, early 20s.


    I feel the same way you do me at 31 though, married, 3 kids ... you are 37?!? :shock: DAYUM! you gettin' old man! :lol: :P
    Post edited by Mrs.Vedder78 on
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  • Not once in listening did I feel "uplifted" (Avocado I would describe that way, though!). Do I consider it an angry album? Absolutely not. Doesn't have the animosity and ferocity that early albums did. Which I totally understand...they ARE less angry (especially Ed). And I think BlackDiamond hit the nail on the head. Their music has grown with them. I'm just not in the same place (as I said before). I'm single, no kids, not married...can't "count on both hands the ones I love". It's definitely an age thing, at least for me.


    i love that line.....and i don't have kids. ;)
    so if i were only going by that...i could only count one(husband) as my love? nah...i take it bigger than that....family and friends, b/c even ed's immediate family, can only be counted on one hand. i just get the feeling that ed is feeling FULL of love, and sure...that can do with so much, tho sure, age/family circumstance definitely is propbably more than a small part of that...:D just sayin'. tho i do understand your sentiment, and ed's.....ed most definitely is more hopeful, happy...and clearly, in love.....with his SO, his daughters...life.....and i do truly enjoy that. doesn't change what i think of some tunes on backspacer tho. :mrgreen: :twisted: :mrgreen:




    btw - i LOVEd turning 30, so it ain't all chicks......and 40 wasn't too shabby either...;)
    tho i admit, i may just be a wee bit different. haha.
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • For the record, I should clarify...

    I LOVE LOVE LOVE the lyrics for Just Breathe...it just hit too close to home for me with watching a family member die recently. It was the first time someone close to me died.
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • FahkaFahka Posts: 3,187
    For the record, I should clarify...

    I LOVE LOVE LOVE the lyrics for Just Breathe...it just hit too close to home for me with watching a family member die recently. It was the first time someone close to me died.


    Really sorry to hear that.. the most unfair thing one has to deal with in life .. I still can't listen to "come back" without tearing up..
  • For the record, I should clarify...

    I LOVE LOVE LOVE the lyrics for Just Breathe...it just hit too close to home for me with watching a family member die recently. It was the first time someone close to me died.



    i'm sorry to read that, truly. :(
    it always hurts, but the first time someone close goes....definitely the hardest.

    btw - i was merely commenting on the age thing of the discussion and how i can see it to some degree, and yet on the other, not. i really think it is mindset more than anything....b/c even amongst many of the 'older' fans, i know there are many single, childless, etc.....so there is more to it imo.



    be well ac.
    :)
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • The ChampThe Champ Posts: 4,063
    I'm 29, and absolutely loved this album from the first listen on Saturday night. I haven't felt this giddy about a record since Yield..for me, there are no fillers here that need to be skipped..unlike Avocado and Riot Act, which obviously have many great tracks, but are also littered with unfortunate clunkers..
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • For the record, I should clarify...

    I LOVE LOVE LOVE the lyrics for Just Breathe...it just hit too close to home for me with watching a family member die recently. It was the first time someone close to me died.



    i'm sorry to read that, truly. :(
    it always hurts, but the first time someone close goes....definitely the hardest.

    btw - i was merely commenting on the age thing of the discussion and how i can see it to some degree, and yet on the other, not. i really think it is mindset more than anything....b/c even amongst many of the 'older' fans, i know there are many single, childless, etc.....so there is more to it imo.



    be well ac.
    :)

    Damnit. I'm crying. Thanks for the kind words. I'm going to go workout...relieve some stress. Going to listen to something rockin...unlike Backspacer. :P
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • For the record, I should clarify...

    I LOVE LOVE LOVE the lyrics for Just Breathe...it just hit too close to home for me with watching a family member die recently. It was the first time someone close to me died.



    i'm sorry to read that, truly. :(
    it always hurts, but the first time someone close goes....definitely the hardest.

    btw - i was merely commenting on the age thing of the discussion and how i can see it to some degree, and yet on the other, not. i really think it is mindset more than anything....b/c even amongst many of the 'older' fans, i know there are many single, childless, etc.....so there is more to it imo.



    be well ac.
    :)

    Damnit. I'm crying. Thanks for the kind words. I'm going to go workout...relieve some stress. Going to listen to something rockin...unlike Backspacer. :P



    i'm sorry.....yikes......i'm so good at that, hahahaha. and your last comment made me laugh! :lol:



    champ, you are becoming a total sap!
    :mrgreen:
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • champ, you are becoming a total sap!
    :mrgreen:

    That's because he's old and married.
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • champ, you are becoming a total sap!
    :mrgreen:

    That's because he's old and married.



    exactly, thus why i say it's not an age thing...but a mindset. ;) "old" at 29.

    its defiantly an age thing.. I always thought i responded/related to the guys very well, even though they've always been easily twice my age.. but i think with this new album, myself along with alot of other younger fans (im 21) might have hit a road bump in the "relating" area.. Its not bad persay.. Its just like when a friend or older sibling you are close to gets married, has kids... and you feel kind of "left out" or not left out per-say but, left behind.. Or unable to relate as much as you used to... That's probably a horrible example but i hope it at least sort of makes sense.


    absolutely, and again why i think it's a mindset thing. i married at 23....i know people right here on this board, married in their 20s, some having kids in their 20s, etc.....and sure, being sappy, finding your love, having a family if that's your thing.....all definitely mindset. i mean really, let's be honest, outside of matt, ed and the boys actually went for fatherhood a little older, all over 40 or around there. sure, most people go for parenthood later nowadays, but usually early to mid-30s. so really, i think where ed and company are at is more in line with a mindset/outlook than necessarily age, tho sure...i think perhaps you appreciate more of it (generally speaking) as you get older?


    and the young, they can't see beyond today
    the old, the wisdom they can't give away
    ;)


    the young men they pretend
    the old men comprehend


    or sumthin' like that
    :mrgreen:
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


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