I am so not a Chris Martin fan...but how the hell does a thread about Ed's participation in GCF get shut down?
Fuck me sideways. Not everything has to be debated and delivered / met with animosity. Thought it was a positive in its intent.
It's really not too much - once in a while - to shut the fuck up and just dig on what you've got, where you are.
Or is it?
Well it got shut down because someone started attacking me personally for no good reason. When someone does that, I defend myself, I don't shut the fuck up, and I don't think I should be criticized for that. That's it. I figure when someone starts saying shit like people shouldn't voice their opinions because they simply don't match their own, and then saying lies about them, the thread is likely doomed.
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With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
Phone interview tomorrow. First one in over a month. I'm very excited.
There is no such thing as leftover pizza. There is now pizza and later pizza. - anonymous The risk I took was calculated, but man, am I bad at math - The Mincing Mockingbird
Yes Hedo. It was over one of my friends and how her friends are treating her which is why I got so mad. I wouldn't care as much about myself but she deserves better.
Goodness, it takes forever to delete a FB account! I requested it be deleted over a week ago, and I checked the status.. It says scheduled for deletion on Oct. 15. Maybe they're giving Me time to save stuff off there???
( cannot believe I just typed their, when I meant they're. I hate that!! And I did it!! )
Goodness, it takes forever to delete a FB account! I requested it be deleted over a week ago, and I checked the status.. It says scheduled for deletion on Oct. 15. Maybe they're giving Me time to save stuff off there???
i always do that hate aprostrophes ( cannot believe I just typed their, when I meant they're. I hate that!! And I did it!! )
Must always keep in mind we are family despite where life takes us we have to remember that we will always be in each others lives so always keep the peace and hope for the best but im not mean unless im hurt and i wont hurt you otherwise and i trust you are alike given the grand'' music interest be well and thank you for all your responses.. i want to live, learn , love and make everyone around me happy..
Finally told my son not to contact me anymore, and by text since he doesn't answer my calls - hurts like hell and he's oblivious to some of the damage that's been inflected, but I can't deal with the inconsistency and disrespect - I'm tired and sad and lost. I don't know where to go from here. And the worst part is a large part of me wants him to get the message and just be the son he was. But he's 19 and he won't get it for a long time. I'm so sad. Been sad for years - need to put me first but don't know how.
Finally told my son not to contact me anymore, and by text since he doesn't answer my calls - hurts like hell and he's oblivious to some of the damage that's been inflected, but I can't deal with the inconsistency and disrespect - I'm tired and sad and lost. I don't know where to go from here. And the worst part is a large part of me wants him to get the message and just be the son he was. But he's 19 and he won't get it for a long time. I'm so sad. Been sad for years - need to put me first but don't know how.
it is hard to back away from someone you love like that but you are right to do it until that person can treat you properly. You will figure out the path to putting yourself first one step at a time. You will try things and they will work or they won't, just keep moving forward with the things that work. It's an ever changing evolution. I wish you the best of luck!
Anything you lose from being honest You never really had to begin with.
Sometimes it's not the song that makes you emotional it's the people and things that come to your mind when you hear it.
Finally told my son not to contact me anymore, and by text since he doesn't answer my calls - hurts like hell and he's oblivious to some of the damage that's been inflected, but I can't deal with the inconsistency and disrespect - I'm tired and sad and lost. I don't know where to go from here. And the worst part is a large part of me wants him to get the message and just be the son he was. But he's 19 and he won't get it for a long time. I'm so sad. Been sad for years - need to put me first but don't know how.
it is hard to back away from someone you love like that but you are right to do it until that person can treat you properly. You will figure out the path to putting yourself first one step at a time. You will try things and they will work or they won't, just keep moving forward with the things that work. It's an ever changing evolution. I wish you the best of luck!
Thank you. I wish it wasn't this way, but it is. I have to learn to take care of me with as much energy as I did as a mother.
Finally told my son not to contact me anymore, and by text since he doesn't answer my calls - hurts like hell and he's oblivious to some of the damage that's been inflected, but I can't deal with the inconsistency and disrespect - I'm tired and sad and lost. I don't know where to go from here. And the worst part is a large part of me wants him to get the message and just be the son he was. But he's 19 and he won't get it for a long time. I'm so sad. Been sad for years - need to put me first but don't know how.
it is hard to back away from someone you love like that but you are right to do it until that person can treat you properly. You will figure out the path to putting yourself first one step at a time. You will try things and they will work or they won't, just keep moving forward with the things that work. It's an ever changing evolution. I wish you the best of luck!
Thank you. I wish it wasn't this way, but it is. I have to learn to take care of me with as much energy as I did as a mother.
Beautiful thoughts ND. Sending healing vibes your way NJN.
"What the CANUCK happened?!? - Esquimalt Barber Shop
Finally told my son not to contact me anymore, and by text since he doesn't answer my calls - hurts like hell and he's oblivious to some of the damage that's been inflected, but I can't deal with the inconsistency and disrespect - I'm tired and sad and lost. I don't know where to go from here. And the worst part is a large part of me wants him to get the message and just be the son he was. But he's 19 and he won't get it for a long time. I'm so sad. Been sad for years - need to put me first but don't know how.
it is hard to back away from someone you love like that but you are right to do it until that person can treat you properly. You will figure out the path to putting yourself first one step at a time. You will try things and they will work or they won't, just keep moving forward with the things that work. It's an ever changing evolution. I wish you the best of luck!
Thank you. I wish it wasn't this way, but it is. I have to learn to take care of me with as much energy as I did as a mother.
Beautiful thoughts ND. Sending healing vibes your way NJN.
Thats the whole point, to eat our favorite things under a good roof with love and good health.. as we understand it.. this is what we observed from a young age.. right..well bless you..
Wondering why its so expensive to send something from USA to Denmark, and on top of that have to pay costoms in denmark , a poster cost $35 in PJ store, by the time it comes to denmark i end up paying $70 for it... its just stupid.
Finally told my son not to contact me anymore, and by text since he doesn't answer my calls - hurts like hell and he's oblivious to some of the damage that's been inflected, but I can't deal with the inconsistency and disrespect - I'm tired and sad and lost. I don't know where to go from here. And the worst part is a large part of me wants him to get the message and just be the son he was. But he's 19 and he won't get it for a long time. I'm so sad. Been sad for years - need to put me first but don't know how.
I'm really sorry to hear that Nancy, I imagine that's really painful for you as a parent. Hopefully time will mend things a bit. He is so young still - there is still so much time for him to grow and change and make some realizations about himself and his relationship with you. Meanwhile, great idea to focus on yourself and try to find how to be happy separate from him (for now), and perhaps he can take that time to focus on himself too.
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With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
Finally told my son not to contact me anymore, and by text since he doesn't answer my calls - hurts like hell and he's oblivious to some of the damage that's been inflected, but I can't deal with the inconsistency and disrespect - I'm tired and sad and lost. I don't know where to go from here. And the worst part is a large part of me wants him to get the message and just be the son he was. But he's 19 and he won't get it for a long time. I'm so sad. Been sad for years - need to put me first but don't know how.
I'm really sorry to hear that Nancy, I imagine that's really painful for you as a parent. Hopefully time will mend things a bit. He is so young still - there is still so much time for him to grow and change and make some realizations about himself and his relationship with you. Meanwhile, great idea to focus on yourself and try to find how to be happy separate from him (for now), and perhaps he can take that time to focus on himself too.
Yes it is, and he sent me several texts this morning while at class. All the right words and I'm sure he means them, but again no follow through. I didn't respond, that's a small victory. I hate this though. Thanks PJ.
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Good thoughts to you, Nancy. No one can say your son has a mother who doesn't care. Be well.
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Hurricane Matthew heading our way in Palm Beach and worst I'm 2 miles from the ocean. Yikes, time for me to get some extra food water and batteries.
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Fuck me sideways. Not everything has to be debated and delivered / met with animosity. Thought it was a positive in its intent.
It's really not too much - once in a while - to shut the fuck up and just dig on what you've got, where you are.
Or is it?
The risk I took was calculated, but man, am I bad at math - The Mincing Mockingbird
Here, just ruminating on it all. How ugliness and grace co-exist, exquisitely and inexplicably.
That is just life, I suppose?
Me time to save stuff off there???
( cannot believe I just typed their, when I meant they're. I hate that!! And I did it!! )
You never really had to begin with.
Sometimes it's not the song that makes you emotional it's the people and things that come to your mind when you hear it.
Wish I could do something to help.
You never really had to begin with.
Sometimes it's not the song that makes you emotional it's the people and things that come to your mind when you hear it.
this is what we observed from a young age.. right..well bless you..
Roskilde 2000
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
Peace
*MUSIC IS the expression of EMOTION.....and that POLITICS IS merely the DECOY of PERCEPTION*
.....song_Music & Politics....Michael Franti
*The scientists of today think deeply instead of clearly. One must be sane to think clearly, but one can think deeply and be quite INSANE*....Nikola Tesla(a man who shaped our world of electricity with his futuristic inventions)